₦airaland Forum

oldienavie:
You are funny, a 35 year old woman, who spent the last 5 years from mountain to mountain looking for husband, finds a 45 year old man who is willing to marry her, you think that kind of lady will care wether the man has zero sperm ?

Even if the Aunty is 40 that doesn’t mean that she’d have to accept every option that comes her way.

As a matter of fact, a 43 yrs old Lady that’s close to being menopausal still has far far better chance conceiving naturally than a 33 yr old man with Azoospermia or two poor sperm parameters. Let’s not kid ourselves. Female infertility can be tackled through varieties of options and pregnancy will be achieved but male infertility, na more of try ya luck and on God.

Teeexquisite:
Please I need help and suggestions!


Hormones profile test shows that he has low testosterone, high LH and FSH.

Please has anyone dealt with this and what steps did you take?

Your best chance for conception is via Artificial reproductive technology . One option is IVF with donor sperm. Adoption is another option.

Secondly, your husband should consider taking out the undescended testes because it’s capable of malignant transformation since it’s existed outside of the scrotum for this long. Usually best to return it to the normal position as early as possible.

All the best Sis!

Your wife told you she was upset, did you try to ask her why?

Was there any heart to heart convo to know the reason she’s been in such an unusual mood? Some issues can be solved with proper communication and hearty resolutions but if you think the first option to explore is contemplating divorce, then go ahead Mr.

I for one would also not have sex when I’m upset with my husband like an object meant for just sexual gratification.

I wish you both well.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.

I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.

This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Oh! Sometimes I wonder who raised people like you

What a tackless mugu you are.
A man that lacks communication and diplomacy skill is a ruined man. Tueh for you and sorry for that woman whose mother you treated like garbage.

Isabi4lov:
Rehesus factor is another angle to look out , if a lady is negative and meets with a positive man , I learnt that there is an injection for her to take after birthing her first child, failure to do so she won't be able to conceive again except for miracle or she meets with a man that has the same rehesus factor with her.

Medical personnels in the house can as well enlighten us in that aspect.

They Conceive. The problem is recurrent miscarriages or still birth for a sensitized rhesus negative woman.

DLuciano:
Sterling Bank should shut-up their dirty ass! Damage control to their criminality? Let the bank be penalized!

They’re criminals and we have too many criminals in this country, unfortunately.

They managed to frustrate the government and people alike.

Release money for people to withdraw, no way.

You see those people gathered at ATM points, it will be shocking to know that most of them are there for less than that 20k .

MrMcJay:
ICPC said they discovered 250M of new notes in the bank HQ vault. If not for poverty mentality, how much is 250M for God's sake?
Money that is not up to what ATMS on Admiralty Way or Allen dispense in 2 hours.

Reminds me of a story of some Policemen sent to protect defaced Naira notes meant to be destroyed. They got there and one of them fainted when he saw Naira notes being destroyed.

Which one is poverty mentality? They were asked to load their ATM machines so everyone gets some change in their pocket but they decided to keep the money ‘safe’ in their vaults and the action is justified to you.

Does this look like the days thieves are allowed to withdraw millions at a go?

Do you know how many people will be served if that cash is loaded in ATM machines, assuming each person is allowed a maximum of 20k per withdrawal?


Some people have never owned even 10k of that redesigned note and you’re asking what’s 250m?

Smdh!

UnfairLife7:
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin


This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years

as been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.



Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

My advice is for them to enroll the other 6 children in a public school. There’s no reason why those children should be out of school considering the fact that Public schools are FREE.

About her pregnancy, she’ll be fine. She’s already used to and enjoys being broke and hungry. No problems at all.

baroun04:
House
- can I get a deposit account details for fbn quest Money market fund
can I get a deposit account details for arm Money market fund

For ARM, you can find a personalized WEMA bank account created for you when you long onto your account. Your account is topped up as soon as you credit that account.

Akwaokukuo:
I was just going through my Facebook around 4am and noticed that someone tagged my so called girlfriend and her husband and congratulated them on their wedding which happened on 7th January.
She wasn't the one that posted, she was tagged to the post.
This is the highest shock of my life this year.
As in, is this happening? or am I dreaming?
How could she be in a serious relationship and still kept on acting along and toying with my emotion?
She was recommended to me last month around 15th December, what is the big deal in telling me that she is not single so that I move on with my life as fast as possible?
She was chatting romantically with me all these while and giving me all the green light and even sending hug and kiss emojis and my head was swelling.
Thank you all for your wonderful responses

I’m sorry things happened the way they did but she did nothing bad really.

@Bolded, she was very much single.

She must have learnt through experience that it is very very foolish for an unmarried woman to chase other prospective love interests away because there’s some guy somewhere who ‘ promised’ her marriage. Highy foolish.

If her eggs were all in your basket alone, you’d have dumped her as.s after the discouraging comments you got here the first day you created this thread and she’d have to start all over. But look at it this way, if things didn’t work out between her other man and herself, you’re there already as another solid plan A ‘cause you guys must have started bonding already.

So, there’s nothing wrong in being polite with you and many others, provided she isn’t sleeping with you guys. After all, she’s not God that knows the end of a thing from the beginning.

Your own woman would come, no worries.

In my case, it was 5 guys at once after I received sense.

emmasoft:
I'm not sure if they have any app. Everything can be done on their website (Gtfundmanagers). Sign in using your details from ione, you will be fine.

Thank you .

emmasoft:
Underlying assets of MMF are valued on business days not weekends/holidays hence interest only changes during weekdays, but be rest assured your investment earns interest everyday weekends and public holidays inclusive.

However, interests earned on weekends and public holidays will reflect on your accrued account the next business day.

Hi Emmanuel, compliments of the season.


Could you please let me know if GTCO has an app or website for mutual fund investment, withdrawals and all. The Investment one apps doesn’t provide those functions anymore since take over by GTco

I’ll appreciate your response.

Let them look for other businesses to do. POS is never a business anywhere in the world and was created due to our crase for cash which the government is trying to cure.

You want to pay for an item but the seller will insist you go get cash from POS first. Very foolish style that will be changed by force by to the CBN.

nwaimoroseyaho:
A friend I met online sent items from Dubai. He sent me pictures and videos and equally the receipt of purchase. He sent through Emirate.
I got a text I should come and pick the item up at the Abuja international airport while I stay in the east.
I asked them to make a home delivery and the sent a personal account number to me.
I am confused here. Is this how Emirate delivery is done. I don't want to be scammed.

Lol, what an outdated scamming scope.

Tell them you do not transact with individuals, that they should send you an official account with the emirate shipping company as the payee account name and watch the scam get bursted with numerous unnecessary excuses.

Stay safe online.

Osidoshit:
Well, who no know this man will be saying weytin the wife or women dey do no good...with the little i know of him during my time working as a supervisor in one of a 3 star hotel in lagos...this man na regularly customer, always cheating like 3 times a week with different babes. Telme which wife with the right sense go stay with a cheats like him, make she come die from unknown disease abi ....taaaa sharrap julius

Let him go carry one of his numerous Oloshos or better still, turn gay because that woman is done for good.

I repeat, no sane Nigerian woman will ever dump her average husband let alone a good man. If a Nigerian woman walks away from a Marriage, know the man is a huge mistake and irredeemable.

dimeji1:
This CBN guy should just answer this question. He keeps saying 80% of the currency is outside the bank's vault. How did this happened? You have a policy in place that charges 2% on customer that wants to deposit more than 500k in a day and yet CBN is wondering why 80% of the currency is outside the bank's vault

People can't deposit there money in bank because of that policy. I can't pay 2% on deposit over 500k. This guy should have been sacked a long time ago.

Who charges you for depositing money into your own account by yourself?
Which bank please?

ModCaller:
Is Inflation not real to you? Nigeria's currency is not like other country's currencies. Inflation is the cause. A kilo of chicken is over 3000 naira. That is over 15% of that 20k you call big money. Gallon of red oil nko? Our highest denomination is 1000 Naira. Bag of rice don swallow the 20k sef.

Guy e be like say you be foreigner. Out of touch with reality just like those CBN mofos

When you buy the 3k kilo of chicken or whatever, just pay by transfer. Jeez! How hard can this be? Most of these medium sized shops accept online payments. Others will fall in line with this policy.

Nobody put a limit to how much you can ever spend except that you should not handle the Naira unnecessarily. Just keep your daily 20k for petty spending like 500 Naira groundnut, intracity transportation and orange purchase. This is as simple as ABC na. Nawao

Dee60:
Apt.
In those villages and small towns you hardly have anyone with 20k cash. They dont have ATMs anyway, so how does small ATM cash withdrawal affect them? For those who are educated and capable, use e-channels and for their relatives, use the cash limit to take care of loved ones in the village. Cash is going out in some countries.

Thank you

A whole 20k per day and people are whining.

What exactly does anyone need more than 20k per day cash for? Is it so than they can go spray money at night clubs and abuse the naira the more? Abe na to give an officer bribe? Wetin we need cash of more than 400k per month for?

Petty things can be paid with cash and if payment exceeds 2k, the seller must provide another means for cashless transaction. How hard is this?

olaeffect:
You cannot pay local daily transport fare with transfer.
Transport unions do cash collections daily in excess of N....m in Lagos alone.
So for some people presumed to be the target of this policy to raise cash is actually very possible.

And CBN never said you could not withdraw above the threshold, they only said you will be charged or you will be required to fill some forms.

Paying local transport fare of 1k and 500 and paying the groundnut seller on the road 200 naira is exactly why we have a daily cash allowance of 20k

In fact, in some countries, you pay the taxi driver, fruit, vegetable and food vendor by transfer. You just scan their codes and transfer.


Jeez, so many supposedly educated people thinking in a very disappointing way.
What exactly do we need cash for? Why carry huge amount of cash about like a thief?

I’ve been to countries where one can survive seamlessly for months without handling cash. Both old and young embrace good policies and their country works for all. But in Nigeria, people keep bringing foolish arguments.

What happens to the POS people. Abeg, where in the world is Pos a bank for withdrawing cash? Only in Nigeria. The POS business niche sprang up because of our huge appetite for carrying cash about which is exactly what the government is trying to correct. They can as well close shop and go think of some other businesses to run.

A two year old naira note when handled would look like rag, it’s embarrassing. But you’ll see dollars and some other foreign currencies of 10 years looking clean.

Every transaction more than 2k should be by transfer and other petty transactions can be settled from the daily 20k. This is more than enough.

What people should be worried about is how to stay safe online, how to help those non-internet compliant and how to make sure banks up their online services. Kapish!

sisisioge:
How about you too sleeping out sometimes, that way you guys can address the issue or non issue together. Too much werey spouses lately. Give him a doze of his medicine or blank out like you have no care in the world

Unfortunately, she has children who cannot afford to have two irresponsible parents at once. They need her.

Las las, that man go collect. Now or in the future!

olaadi:
good evening everyone, everyone please i need your advice on how to deal with my family issues, my husband most time pass the night away from home, he will leave me and two kids home and sleep outside without any good reason. have tried to talk to him and even speak with his parents but his not changing his ways. how can i deal with this guys

When these women relocate abroad and finally thrash the men, people will open their mouths to vomit crap about how women are bad.

No right thinking woman would leave an averagely behaved man let alone a supposedly good man. I LOL when i read posts here about how a happy couple in Nigeria divorced after traveling abroad. Apparently, the woman got there and decided she no longer wants to love, be loved, and raise her kids decently in an intact family unit. An average Nigerian woman of all people that does everything within her power to keep her home. Some how sha, she turned psychotic from breathing the very special air abroad.

Some of these men should keep deceiving themselves . The lamentations about Nigerian women and women in general has just begun, na gay all of una go turn las las. A lot are getting it right but some others still no want sit down and receive sense.

How do you treat your wife so shabbily with so much disrespect and you think she’s not counting it for you? If there’s something your wife does that’s chasing you from home, open your mouth and say it plainly and if she doesn’t change, you both honorably end the sham of a marriage. No need to keep deceiving yourself or stress another human like you. It really ain’t worth it.

@Op, no one can help you change this man, just pray that God gets you out of the situation Himself, He would, if you’re sensitive and open to it.

Your mum didn’t tell the full story

The “good Samaritan” must have exchanged her card right there, gave her another first bank card and asked her to try again.


It is our duty to educate our parents on latest scam formats. You seem ignorant too, unfortunately.

As a matter of fact, i was shocked to know that your mum carries an ATM card loaded with huge amount of cash about in the present Nigeria? Nawoa

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
I used to think that people who commit suicide are cowards but hell no they are the real niggarz with mind

They have decided to say enough is enough in this gadamnnn life....they are the one with balls to end this whole fuckkking experiment and zombiediot programming called life

Now this is it this whole fucckkking life got no meaning but we humans are not intelligent to realise it

We have been programmed to do one same old shit repeatedly like zombies...living life is one hell of a pain in the ass...we have to eat, breakfast, lunch dinner...go to school or learn work, pay bills..struggle to be an adult....every day the huzzle never ends...little time we are required to get married and start a family same old shit our fathers just finished doing...now they are six feet under...after that our children will repeat same

What da fuckkk is wrong with us .....can't we see life got no meaning

Only someone that has taken some time to sit and critically analyze this life would see things from this perspective.

I keep saying it, only a very very strong person that’s ready to tell themselves the truth about life can commit suicide.

I’m glad he’s finding rest now. Condolences to his family and loved ones.

No wonder employers are comfortable paying peanuts as salary to University graduates.

Nigerians are actually studying for free. 120k per session for Medical school? This is one thing to commend the government for.

People spend millions of naira per semester to acquire same degree.

Mehn! Op, you’re doing very good. Keep it up!

I love Farming a lot and animal husbandry. I’ve always loved gardening since i was a child, i saw huge potential in every little space around me.

Now, whenever i raise the idea of turning our idle lands into Farms, people around just find a way of discouraging me. The most cited excuses amongst others is theft.

I’ll definitely start soon, small and enlarge. Not really crazy about the profit per se but that feel of seeing your seed grow into beautiful and fruitful plants and being able to eat your own land produce, fresh. It’s satisfying.

Of course I’ll have to be sure i won’t be labouring for another lazy aszz to come steal and feed on though.

If you value peace of mind like i do, you may think towards selling that land of yours and pay off your loan with the proceed. Land no dey finish and we aren’t in competition with others.


Restrategize, and you’ll buy another in the future. At least, you’d have your mental health and peace back. Also, interest will not be piling up somewhere and a huge lesson would have been learned in the End.

You still owe nothing less than 800k while earning 100k monthly.

Think about it.

I think you should return the money to the exact account that sent it to you, that’s to vindicate you during tracing, if the initial transaction was fraudulent. At least, there’ll be a record of you sending back the cash.

Children and drowning are like 5&6, reason they ought to be seriously safeguarded around water bodies.

I believe kids should be educated on the dangers of water just as we educate them about fire. Teach them that people can get hurt by it too.

Let’s Hope the child makes it alive.

HMSQueenElizabe:
So you are a medical doctor, u should japa, UK is a good destination

Yeah, thank you.

This doesn’t seem like a fake News anyways ‘cause children and drowning are like 5&6, reason they ought to be safeguarded seriously around water bodies.

I believe kids should be educated on the dangers of water just as we educate them about fire. Teach them that people can get hurt by it too.

But again, let’s hope it’s one of those fake news

PoliteActivist:
Hiw do you password sim?

I don’t know the kind of phone you use, so I cannot tell exactly but you should use google. It’s as simple as going through the settings and changing the default pin which is different for each network. Just google it.

You’re about to be scammed, be careful.
Scam is written all over this post, trust me.

Of all the people in her life she could have chosen to contact when she got the chance, she chose to use her life line on you a total stranger.

How was she able to get that picture to send to you since she’s not allowed use of a mobile phone, or she miraculously saved that picture in the family computer? Besides, that girl there looks well groomed, too groomed to be serving as a maid and suffering in Oman.

I’m sure the contact was established on Facebook.

I can go on and on with my analysis.

Please come back and update this thread when you finally discover the true intension of the person at the other side and quote me. [quote][/quote]



Update

Kpele, i just read the entire thread and saw you updated it’s a scam.
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