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Romance › Re: Messages Between My Girlfriend And I That Has Me Questioning My Long Held Belief by DBestDoc(f): 6:12pm On Jun 12, 2025
Don’t ever let anyone blackmail you into subjection to fooli.shness. Your principles are right and very very healthy.
If any fo.ol be it a man or woman raises their filthy hands on you, you have to by all means return their kindness in very equal measure or extra.

How can she even think up a slapping you scenario? Like if she slaps you will you slap back?
You better delete that girl’s number, that is a big manipulator right there.

Foolis.h people everywhere. He is supposed to fold his hands and walk away after being abused by someone who couldn’t fold their hands and walk away when angered. Tueh!
Politics › Re: Charly Boy With Governor Hope Uzodinma by DBestDoc(f): 6:02pm On Jun 06, 2025
Melezenawii:
Obidents Area Fada with APC Governor



https://x.com/seyilaw1/status/1930898239554761054?t=EVJk4NUIQiThyYb57cDgrQ&s=19[/quote]My only concern is how Hope Uzodinma who’s almost a decade younger than Charly boy is looking like Charles’s Big Uncle.

angry
Health › Re: Best Ways To Treat Steven Johnson's Syndrome by DBestDoc(f): 6:13am On May 25, 2025
What do you mean OP?
Do you mean that after you had SJS, the reaction did not resolve for 9 years which is very very doubtful or are you talking about the sequelae of the reaction you had 9years ago?

Please throw more light so that you can be educated further.
Sorry for your pains.
Family › Re: Spouses Refuses To Contribute To Family Bills by DBestDoc(f): 4:08am On May 20, 2025
I think she’s doing good already and has done very well.
You mentioned you took care of the family financially for years while she wasn’t working outside the home but don’t forget she was working in the home tending to those children.

If she were to get a paid employment those years, you both would have definitely needed to spend a fortune on child care and I’m sure you understand what that means. You know how much money you two would have spent per month on Nannies and carers for three children and she did it comfortably.

Now, it may seem like nothing but it’s a lot. No career, no personal money or growth outside the family for more than 10 years. How much money do you think can compensate for this though?

While saving for your retirement, allow her to save for her retirement too and cut down on anything you can cut down on to fit into what you both can afford at this stage.

Another mistake would be involving her family. Lol, oga, in all honesty, the kind of can of worms that will be opened in the process eee, your marriage will not remain the the same. If she opens her mouth to also tell them the things in her heart ee, You will even regret involving her family.

Not that she’s not contributing at all. She is doing very very very well already. This is how it starts, i pray it doesn’t degenerate to the point of no return. May God help you
Family › Re: I Need Best Car Suggestion For A Farmer! by DBestDoc(f): 11:32am On Apr 25, 2025
A Truck is better. Toyota Hilux can serve you well both for personal and Farm purposes
Family › Re: Dad Burst Into Tears As Daughter Gives Him Back Her Surname At Her Wedding (Vid) by DBestDoc(f): 11:23pm On Apr 24, 2025
I think for most men it’s about ownership and for some others, it’s to harmonize the family name.

I have never been a fan of name change, i see it as as a kind of unnecessary stress, an annoying one at that. What exactly am I changing my surname for?

Unfortunately, i married a man who woke up one day and decided that my surname has to change. When did marriage become change of ownership huh
Food › Re: See The Food I Prepared Immediately After I Received My Salary by DBestDoc(f): 7:04pm On Mar 25, 2025
missjekyll:
When did he beg? He possibly is entitled,has a sex addiction and has way too many children but I haven't seen him beg.
Exactly!
Same thing i was wondering too after reading that comment.

Begging is one thing I haven’t seen the OP do.
Romance › Re: GIST; So Trump Is Deporting Nigerians For Real by DBestDoc(f): 6:03pm On Mar 21, 2025
bea1234567:
gbam. and thus needs to be deported with immediate effect.. grin cool
Lol cheesy
Village people
Family › Re: Please Guys Help They Want To Take Me To The Village And I Don't Want To Go by DBestDoc(f): 9:49am On Mar 02, 2025
DeeScan:
I'm willing to too ..

But I need to be sure..
Exactly
Family › Re: Please Guys Help They Want To Take Me To The Village And I Don't Want To Go by DBestDoc(f): 9:40am On Mar 02, 2025
frozen70:
Having read all you posted here, I will like you to do the following for me to be sure that you are not a scammer

What exactly is wrong with you or your health

Is it that while you were working, you didn't save something or you saved but have finished it, if so, how much did you save
[/b]
Have you been to the hospital for your ailment, if yes
Post your medical card, your lab result, your picture as you claimed that one hand is not ok

[b]Drop your address here and you can be visited any time for verification of claims


Drop your sister contact number, let's call her and make more verification from her before we can offer any assistance

Even if we decide to contribute 1000 each, we can raise a room rent and something for you to do

But you must do all above

We want to be sure that you are not a scammer but just a lazy person
If you manage to verify that the picture is as bad as she paints it and that she’s not just a career begger, please quote me. I’d assist in throwing in something to better her condition.

The bolded is very important
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Election: Trump Vs Harris (Predict The Winner) by DBestDoc(f): 9:55am On Nov 05, 2024
Let’s do our own Nairaland poll this way

If you think Donald Trump will win, click LIKE.


If you think Kamala Harris will win, click SHARE.
Politics › Re: Police React After House Of Reps Member, Ikwechegh Slapped Bolt Driver (video) by DBestDoc(f): 1:03pm On Oct 28, 2024
SoftSport:
Having only watched a brief excerpt of the footage, it is premature to draw any definitive conclusions.

The lawmaker should be afforded the opportunity to present his perspective.

As a distinguished public figure, he deserves to be treated with due respect.

We must proceed with caution and refrain from allowing emotions to cloud our judgment in this matter.

shocked
And you’re supposed to be someone’s father or husband with this your foolish way of reasoning. Tufiakwa!

You should be so ashamed of yourself for lacking common sense. Poverty mentality has really destroyed some people’s sense of reasoning.

In a normal setting where i lived for years, everybody is equal and are treated equally. Even if you’re a governor and you find yourself in a public space, nobody will give a ratazz about your presence and you’ll be treated just as exactly as a minimum wage earner.

That foolish idiot of a politician had no right to raise a finger on a fellow mature human like him. What nonsense.

If anything is to be done to make sure that fool is dealt with, i am 100% in and will deploy all i can to make sure he learns to be civil.

Spit…
Foreign Affairs › Re: Beyoncé Introduces Kamala Harris In Texas Rally (Video) by DBestDoc(f): 9:06am On Oct 28, 2024
Damn! What a beautiful speech.
This woman is so intelligent.
Family › Re: Help, A Close Friend Wants To Assisinate Me, I'm So Confused (details Inside) by DBestDoc(f): 4:17pm On Sep 29, 2024
Omo! I didn’t know that full grown adults can be so foolish. I was just seeing foolishness all over this post while reading it.

A message that should be discrete and treated as confidential, that’s what you shared to your friends that you should ordinarily be wary of as it stands. Na wao


And your wife, omg! What did she mean by someone sent my husband a voice note and it’s your voice? Some people really can’t be saved.


Good luck to you oga!
Family › Re: Miscarriage, Incompetent Doctor Or Pre-mature Scan ? by DBestDoc(f): 8:47pm On Sep 23, 2024
GuyInTheMirror:
My wife is 5 weeks and 5 days pregnant (last period Aug 14) and blood test and urine has confirmed pregnancy.
Since last week Wednesday we have been noticing light spotting occasionally. Sometimes we see tiny clots of blood in her deejay.

We were at the hospital today and paid a lot of money for evaluation.

Doctor says :
1. he has confirmed that no signs of ectopic pregnancy (tubal) .
2. He however said he is unable to see a gestational sac in the uterus. He used a small scanner that I personally doubt its efficacy.
3. He said the only other thing that can cause a non visible gestational sac is a complete miscarriage since he is sure there is no ectopic pregnancy.

Now he has referred us to another laboratory for a scan on Saturday (pregnancy will be 6 weeks and 4 days at the time.)

My question is,

1. shouldn't he be doing a transvaginal scan instead of a pelvic scan as that is more accurate ?
2. Is referring us to another lab a subtle admittance that their equipment is not adequate ?
3. Is it possible to have a complete miscarriage and just experience light spotting like my wife is having? She only notices it when she wipes and even the doc said what he saw during examination is not a cause for concern.

Please advise me as I am really loosing my mind here.
sad
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Well, congratulations to you both.

To your questions
1. Yeah, a transvaginal USS is more sensitive at that gestational age, however, a trans abdominal should be able to pick some endometrial changes and tiny gestational sac at this point.

2. I figure his referral is rather for second opinion seeking
3. Possible because at this gestational age, the fetal parts/poles and nodes may not be properly formed so she may not pass a lot of fleshy material. Still a tiny embryo but I think she may just be having an implantation bleed.

Is she experiencing lower abdominal cramp with the bleeds?

My suggestion, give it one more week or two and repeat the USS, everything should be clearer by then. Either a failed or establishment pregnancy.

All the best!
Family › Re: Should My Girlfriend Cohabite With Me by DBestDoc(f): 3:24am On Aug 03, 2024
Afodot0022:
what is the advantage and disadvantage of living together with your girlfriend under the same roof. My girlfriend had an accommodations problem, her friend they stay together kick her out for no just reason, she wanted to get an apartment and the money she was ask to bring was quite much 250k, I convinced her to come stay with me and save that money for other things, initially she opposed but later agreed to come stay.
My reasons for her staying are there..
1... I want to get to know her better cos I believe when you live with someone in the same space, that's when you get to know them better, I was once married and have learnt a lot on how ladies pretend in dating but show their true color in marriage, atleast I want to know her well before making another serious commitment of marriage.
2... She works and earn a decent salary which I think will be an added advantage for me by her supporting by we both sharing bills together, it will lessen by burden. Though I haven't discussed this with her yet but hope to soon cos I can't let her depend solely one me while she works.
3.... Ever since I separated from my wife, it's not been easy living alone as a man, the cooking ,washing ,cleaning and loneliness has not been easy, so we living together will atleast help me in these area.
To be candid, the girl is a good girl and I was the one that disvirgin her, she is submissive and respect me,
Oh! What a foolish Girl! @ bold
Unfortunately, i see her regretting these poor choices she has made.

Sad!
Family › Re: My Wife Threatened To End My Life And Send Me To The Afterlife (screenshots) by DBestDoc(f): 7:47pm On Jun 22, 2024
Wow! shocked


Nawa, low self esteem is a very dangerous thing. Trapping a man that has no love or respect for you with pregnancy is even worse.

The earlier that woman realizes she's a single mother, the better for her.
Crime › Re: Edo Govt Takes Custody Of Girl Used For Adult Content By Her Father by DBestDoc(f): 7:55am On May 14, 2024
muyico:
Her mother nko? They supposed to arrest her mother too? 4 abadon her to careless and hrtless man!
Na for matter like this una dey remember mother. The same men that always struggle for custody of minors after separation. When the women hamdsoff, it’s either the child gets abused or shipped off to relatives to be used for child labor.



The law that gives women custody of minors is not stupid.
Family › Re: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by DBestDoc(f): 4:35pm On May 07, 2024
LilMissFavvy:
You are a f000l, I don't know why you should call me names, instead of dropping your own contributions. Go back and read my comment, if you still cannot get the point, then something is definitely wrong with you. Why is he monitoring his ex wife and her relationship(s)? His child's mother is fairing badly, he refuses to help, yet all he does is send people to monitor her and give reports. Does he expect those people to bring back good reports? He will also remarry or date, and I am very sure when he remarries, the child's fate will be worse off in the hands of a step mother. He can always attend to the child's medical care, while the child remains with the mother.
Na you be one person wey keep sentiments aside and read this his message well.

People are here calling the poor lady names.
May God help her
Family › Re: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by DBestDoc(f): 4:33pm On May 07, 2024
Smartdoctor:
Is jock itch and candidiasis
Jock itch and Candidiasis aren’t STDs or are they?
Mr SmartDoctor. I’m sure no licensed Doctor made that diagnosis.

You should only increase her allowance so she affords more diapers for your son to get more frequent diaper change. And advise her on proper hygiene for the baby. That’s all.

Don’t start a battle you can’t finish
Family › Re: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by DBestDoc(f): 4:25pm On May 07, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
dont automatically assume that because a child got a STI, it is the parent's fault... do you know how many diseases children can catch in school, in their friends home, in the courtyard, in the playground etc... the damn child could have been abused by some pedo etc
you cant go around accusing people with no concrete proof... here is a simple clue: if the child was with daddy/uncle/aunt/grandma etc ONE DAY (3months ago) the child could have been infected back then.

so unless you have concrete proof that the mother is directly responsible for that child catching a STI, let it slide.
STI is a broad term.
What STI does this child have?

Forget about that man.
He’s looking for anything to hold unto to convince a law court give him custody of that child. A child he’ll still hand over to his relatives to use for child labor.
I know them well well na
They come to us to forge medical reports but we no dey gree.

Smh!

The least the court will do is order further medical examination and investigations on the baby because these allegations aren’t minor.
Family › Re: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by DBestDoc(f): 4:21pm On May 07, 2024
Biglittlelois:
Some ladies are not meant to be mothers, very stupid woman with no outa of shame, she's breastfeeding yet whoring about knowing diseases can be transmitted through breastfeeding, I'm so sad for the innocent child 😢

If possible let your brother forcefully take the child away from her if that's what it takes for the toddler to be healthy.
What’s your evidence that this woman is whoring?
How exactly is she whoring and what disease has been transmitted to the child from the mother?
Nappy rash?

Because he and his family said so?

As far as this guy and his pained relatives are concerned, the ex wife’s life should come to a stand still because they’re no longer married.
Family › Re: How Can He Take Custody Of His Son by DBestDoc(f): 4:15pm On May 07, 2024
Smartdoctor:
Good evening guys, please I need an urgent legal advisors in the forum to assist my cousin brother.
He had divorced and sent her wife back to the village for the past six months ago.

But the court asked him to be paying a certain amount of money monthly for the child's wellbeing which he has been doing.

But unfortunately the effect of the money has never been significant by looking at the physical appearance of the child.

He always sends relatives to check on the child of which several reports have reached him about how the boy is always been abandoned to be wandering about alone while the mother will be hanging out with friends.

What strucked him to his nerves was the recent report about the child been seriously sick and rumours that the mother now deals with several sexual partners while still breastfeeding the child....
He travelled from Abuja immediately to his hometown to retrieve the boy via court order but unfortunately the court denied him because the baby is believed to be too young at 1 year and 3 months old.

Now that the court had adjourned the case till 28th this month, he however decided to stay put in his hometown to treat the baby. The baby was taken to the hospital. the doctor took off his clothes and to our greatest suprise, the child's body looks so rough, rashes and boils all over her armpit down to his genital region.

Laboratory test was carried out and the report showed that the child have sexually transmitted infections. Fungi infection (,jock itch) and candidiasis.

All these evidences have been push to the judge phone and what we are afraid of, is the possibility of the judge cautioning her to take care of the child and allow her to continue taking the child's custody.
Can he take the child forcefully after having all these evidences against the mother?
What STD does that child have?
You can easily manipulate that village Doctor to write rubbish report for you but don’t think some of us are not smart enough to see through the yeye game you’re trying to play. Even the Judge will call that Doctor to come forth as a witness.

The child simply has nappy rash and most times, they are Fungal in nature. So it’s not out of place to say he has a fungal infection. Your child looks nothing like a malnourished baby by the way.

Do the right thing and provide a befitting housing for your child and allow his mother care for him till he’s old enough to have the custody reviewed. Abe you want to up root him from his mother and hand him over to your relatives to raise in her stead?

I do not expect your people to give you any good report about your ex wife anyways

The battle you want to start fighting will not end well if you continue like that

All the best
Romance › Re: My Lack Of Commitment To Women Is Killing Me Slowly by DBestDoc(f): 1:04pm On Apr 14, 2024
Silentgroper:
you sound pained grin grin

The real problem now is why are you pained
angry angry
Family › Re: What Should I Do by DBestDoc(f): 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2024
Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life
After 7 yrs?
You’re a very funny Man.

My suggestion to your question is to go look for a wife and marry so you can make your own children and take care of them as a father should.
Family › Re: Family Issue!!! by DBestDoc(f): 8:24pm On Dec 15, 2023
Our schools should take reading comprehension very seriously ‘ cause what’s all these comments i’m reading.

A man wrote plainly that his marriage broke down due to his mother’s influence on his life and marriage and some boys managed to make it the woman’s fault?


Interesting!

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