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Greatdand007:How they knew? They didn’t know the pin, it was simply reset and bank confirmation OTP was sent to your sim. It’s been said over and over again that people should try and password their SIM cards. Sorry for your experience. |
HMSQueenElizabe:Well, we’re not in competition with anyone actually. Just have that mindset and you’ll be able to retrace and make better decisions when you make mistakes. Many Young people make that mistake of rushing to study any course thrown at them just to be like their undergraduate friends. After graduation, they discover the course offers them no career path in Nigeria, no employment. Anatomy,physiology,microbiology... these courses have no clear cut relevance in Nigerian health sector except of course you study to phD level for lecturing and research. You can rewrite your story if you’re determined to. Being in your mid 20s shouldn’t be a barrier ‘cause whether you go back to school or not, you’ll still keep getting older just like every one of us, so why not go back anyways. Nursing isn’t bad, there are multiple routes to becoming a Nurse. I started medical school in my 20s though. For someone that did WAEC at 16, there was so much pressure to just study any course cos most of my friends were in school already, but i persisted and I’m glad i did. I’m not where i want to be yet, but not bad either. |
aieromon:The man had to return them before they get him in trouble. See kids that were taken abroad to help their lives, within a short time, they quickly adopted the ill manners and lifestyles of poorly raised western children to the extent of calling the police on their guardian. My advice, if you want to travel to America again, get a student Visa. That’ll give you a better chance. |
koning:I’ll let this insult pass but you must understand that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. |
dettolgel:Thank You! I see people who commit suicide as very strong people ‘cause it takes great strength to end it all. Some people are actually better off dead if we think through it critically. Life is a string of challenges, stress, the good and ugly unfortunately, not everyone has the patience to keep up with the turmoil. RIP to the lad. I hope his family gets enough strength and support to pull through the shock and pain. |
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post=117461796]Tell her that her Obazu sister from Umueze is saying Hi |
susrite:Why would a 24 yr old single lady be so desperate to get pregnant though? The story is not complete. |
susrite:If different scans cannot find a heartbeat at this time, she’s definitely not pregnant. And pregnancy should be the least of your worries cos the scan is querying pelvic inflammatory disease. You should be more concerned about this. The whole scenario sounds like this Cryptic pregnancy scam, but at 24 , I’m wondering why she’d fall for it though. My suggestion is to go get herself checked out for possible cause of the PID and treat accordingly to avoid future infertility. You should also get treated ‘cause you probably have whatever infection she’s habouring |
JONSYN7154:Wow! I know that place. Is she from Obazu? |
4teenblaq:Just send her a plain and polite text message. She’ll be glad you told her and may respect you more for that. Not telling her will do more harm than good. You’re a grown adult I suppose and have freedom of association. |
lecoeur:He probably had a rebleed in his brain My heart felt prayer for Him, you and your family. Just know that you’ll be fine in the end. |
amdman:Hi Amdman, is this deal still available? |
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Samantha123:Is there really any RESPONSIBLE adult without any money?? I’m thinking aloud. You may not be rich but you must have money to take care of your day to day needs. And yeah, this is the basic requirement, not wealth or riches. Have something decent doing that pays your bills and cut your coat according to your materials while at it. If some of these self made wealthy people tell you where they started ee. From rock bottom lowest of lows |
MasterJayJay:You’re right by saying people should marry when they are ready. But the readiness part is so misconstrued by lots of people, leading to perpetual time wasting. Money and age alone shouldn’t define readiness though. The fact that Mr A is 20 doesn’t mean he’s not ready for marriage and Mr B being 40 doesn’t define his readiness. Ms A having a good job shouldn’t mean she’s ripe for it and Ms B managing her basic finances doesn’t also mean she can’t do marriage. Age and money should be the least of things considered sha. Two intelligent, smart and visionary young people in their early 20s earning minimum wage can go into marriage and create themselves a beautiful home within 5yrs if they’re in sync and progressive. Most of our parents started that way. These days young people are all about sex sex, abortion, cheating, going to school to study one useless course like that and wasting their gaddam time and when they hit 28, they rush and marry for the sake of getting married while cheating on their spouses, acting like fools and raising children with poor morals. This matter is about Values and it’s difficult to find people whose values align. Mad man want marry better woman, olosho want marry decent guy. Decent girl meet crazy guy, good guy is scared to enter one chance while tilting towards 40 Some sane ones are lucky to meet sane people and settle though! |
Well, i think marriage is a form of achievement just like getting a degree is and building a house is, however, not everyone can achieve every single thing in their lifetime. Some people get a degree in their 20s, others earlier or later. Some other people marry in their 20s, others earlier or later. It’s all achievements depending on who’s looking and from what angle. That talk about marriage not being an achievement isn’t true. Humans are naturally social beings and that desire for companionship is inherent in us whether we like it or not even though in the end, not everyone will ACHIEVE marriage because it’s not for EVERYONE to achieve just like not every human will own a house before they die. This is life. If you find yourself marrying late, that’s your luck and it’s ok, if you marry early, it’s ok too and if you don’t ever marry, well well, better be good to people and surround yourself with good people because a time will come when you’ll need people and not even money per se. Bottom line is, we all need good people in our lives, people we can call OUR OWN. Partner, child, we need people. |
You’re pregnant Aunty. Do serum pregnancy test, that one will be positive. |
You may need proper evaluation to establish the cause of the excessive menstrual bleeding so it can be tackled extensively. Best approach Kpele! |
Such a brave lady Rip to her |
humberjade:Atleast, the child will be well taken care of and safe. Milking may continue though. Lol! |
You should block her number immediately too. Wicked people disgust me so much Tell her you’ll get her arrested any day you find her at your house. Hoping you didn’t cheat and deceive her while you were dating though ‘cause karma does its thing when we least expect. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors |
Chidiesta:Nice! Your friend can stand in as a guardian. Visiting, relating and pick up during holidays. This may be a better long term option than having the child live permanently with her. |
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Are you male or female? If you’re a man and the mother of that lil girl is alive and well, please return that child to her mum. She needs her mum at this point of her life If you’re female like I suspect, your best option may be to take the boarding school route. Ask that friend of yours to help you scout for a good boarding school and enroll your kid there. Pay something extra for additional upkeep and have your sis or friend pick her up during holidays. This way, you’re sure your child is ok and at the same time, avenues for milking will be duly blocked. You don’t need to fight with your sis, just peacefully remove your child from her custody at the moment because anyone that could divert money meant for a child’s schooling to personal use is not a trustworthy person. Quietly disengage from the previous arrangement. All the best! |
You better move on and start something reasonable with someone else. You think you’re a baby. Be an adult for once and leave the young man alone. There are things you don’t force and love is one of them. Know when to quit Your threads are annoying btw. You’re worried about him, are you his mum, wife or fiancée? You’re none of this. You better cry and move on. |
Blessedmercy8:Your BP is Ok, you shouldn’t worry. Please disregard the bolded advice. It will offer you no good. Lol |
lilkech:But she can get pregnant by IVF if she’s really averse to trying the natural way. |
This is against medical ethics You don’t advertise brazenly. Take note, you may put your facility in trouble. |
Odds |
MITCHELL96:Oh no! He’s aging just like every living being. After impregnating a woman at 50-60, who raises the children and who will play the role of a father to those children when he’s almost close to his grave? You probably think people live forever. Look around you and understand the average lifespan of a typical Nigerian male. How many men are still strong and productive beyond 75 when his first child would be 15? A man at 75 should be enjoying his grand children and resting anyways. This is not about biological clock anymore as medical science can help people create kids even in their 60s but what happens to those children who’ll probably still be in junior high when their parents join their ancestors. Pity your children na Oga! |
ednut1:Lol, let me assume you do not know sha Make i use woman brain interpret wetin she mean You see all those friends ba, like 90% of them na friends with Sexual/monetary/other benefits and she no just want knowingly enter any deal with such a man. How is this difficult to understand na Chief? There are people who really aren’t cut out for Gbas Gbos. And it’s not wrong. |
