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CrimeRe: Fraud Alert by DBestDoc(f): 11:14pm On Oct 29, 2022
Greatdand007:
I misplace my sim for a while now and this night someone bought card with my sim with almost 20k how did they got to know my gtbank pin cos it always request for a pin when I decided to call the number it rang and the person busy my call
How they knew? They didn’t know the pin, it was simply reset and bank confirmation OTP was sent to your sim.
It’s been said over and over again that people should try and password their SIM cards.

Sorry for your experience.
RomanceRe: . by DBestDoc(f): 7:42pm On Oct 28, 2022
HMSQueenElizabe:
5yrs again cry, I am also looking at the change in foreign policy I want t immigrate to that may happen b4 I graduate, I also expect a pandemic outbreak within dat period, ASUU strike, a slow academic calendar although one of coursemate went bk 2 school and is now in 200l wrote jamb immediately after our project, dat is wat I could av done,
Well, we’re not in competition with anyone actually. Just have that mindset and you’ll be able to retrace and make better decisions when you make mistakes.

Many Young people make that mistake of rushing to study any course thrown at them just to be like their undergraduate friends. After graduation, they discover the course offers them no career path in Nigeria, no employment. Anatomy,physiology,microbiology... these courses have no clear cut relevance in Nigerian health sector except of course you study to phD level for lecturing and research.

You can rewrite your story if you’re determined to. Being in your mid 20s shouldn’t be a barrier ‘cause whether you go back to school or not, you’ll still keep getting older just like every one of us, so why not go back anyways. Nursing isn’t bad, there are multiple routes to becoming a Nurse.

I started medical school in my 20s though. For someone that did WAEC at 16, there was so much pressure to just study any course cos most of my friends were in school already, but i persisted and I’m glad i did. I’m not where i want to be yet, but not bad either.
TravelRe: Need Help! US Asylum by DBestDoc(f): 1:08am On Oct 23, 2022
aieromon:
Wait till you hear the other side of the story before you judge.

How does a child travel to the US on a tourist visa and suddenly seek asylum because of the lamba he/she told an adult?
The man had to return them before they get him in trouble. See kids that were taken abroad to help their lives, within a short time, they quickly adopted the ill manners and lifestyles of poorly raised western children to the extent of calling the police on their guardian.

My advice, if you want to travel to America again, get a student Visa. That’ll give you a better chance.
CrimeRe: 12-Year-Old Primary School Pupil Allegedly Commits Suicide In South Africa by DBestDoc(f): 3:45pm On Oct 15, 2022
koning:
So, when are you committing your own suicide?. Better still, donate your body to those ritualists. That way you won't die in vain.

Weak azz people.
I’ll let this insult pass but you must understand that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.
CrimeRe: 12-Year-Old Primary School Pupil Allegedly Commits Suicide In South Africa by DBestDoc(f): 10:34am On Oct 15, 2022
dettolgel:
May his soul find peace.


For those that says suicide is for the weak you just try it.

Our instinct is to live anything against that is like swimming upstream and it takes a lot of effort to achieve.


I am not really worried about dead because at least their watch is over and in some cases they are better off anywhere but here.

My concern is about the living who puts their own interest above those that have died, by wanting them to be around even when in their own interests they are better off not being around.
Thank You!

I see people who commit suicide as very strong people ‘cause it takes great strength to end it all.

Some people are actually better off dead if we think through it critically. Life is a string of challenges, stress, the good and ugly unfortunately, not everyone has the patience to keep up with the turmoil.

RIP to the lad. I hope his family gets enough strength and support to pull through the shock and pain.
CrimeRe: 12-Year-Old Primary School Pupil Allegedly Commits Suicide In South Africa by DBestDoc(f): 10:28am On Oct 15, 2022
dettolgel:
May his soul find peace.


For those that says suicide is for the weak you just try it.

Our instinct is to live anything against that is like swimming upstream and it takes a lot of effort to achieve.

I am not really worried about dead because at least their watch is over and in some cases they are better off anywhere but here.

My concern is about the living who puts their own interest above those that have died, by wanting them to be around even when in their own interests they are better off not being around.
RomanceRe: Why Is It So Hard To Break Up With A Nigerian Girl by DBestDoc(f): 9:40am On Oct 11, 2022
FamilyRe: Scan Still Saying No Pregnancy After 8 Months! Help!!! by DBestDoc(f): 9:37am On Oct 11, 2022
susrite:
Hi Nairalanders, I have a very close friend who isn't officially married tho but she got pregnant for her fiancee somewhat early February. She's 24.
However, since the intake she has done 7 scans including the last one she did yesterday, but after 8 months of pregnancy, the result is still showing no signs of foetus
Although she is 8 months pregnant but if she's not telling you directly, it'll be difficult to detect cos she barely have a belly bump.

Shes devastated right now and on the verge of doing something really crazy.

What could be the cause of this? I'm not with the result she did yesterday but I'll snap the one she dis when the pregnancy was 4 months.
Why would a 24 yr old single lady be so desperate to get pregnant though?

The story is not complete.
FamilyRe: Scan Still Saying No Pregnancy After 8 Months! Help!!! by DBestDoc(f):
susrite:
her stomach now is really bumped up, just like a person in her 5 month pregnancy, she can easily bee seen as a pregnant woman now, but why scan is still showing negative till yesterday is what's baffling us all
If different scans cannot find a heartbeat at this time, she’s definitely not pregnant. And pregnancy should be the least of your worries cos the scan is querying pelvic inflammatory disease. You should be more concerned about this.

The whole scenario sounds like this Cryptic pregnancy scam, but at 24 , I’m wondering why she’d fall for it though.

My suggestion is to go get herself checked out for possible cause of the PID and treat accordingly to avoid future infertility. You should also get treated ‘cause you probably have whatever infection she’s habouring
RomanceRe: Why Is It So Hard To Break Up With A Nigerian Girl by DBestDoc(f): 5:24pm On Oct 09, 2022
JONSYN7154:
fear Benin girls, I agree with you

But saying imo girls I go disagree with you die.
My wife is from imo, mbieri while am from Benue and she's an angel. To that I can testify 100%
Wow!
I know that place.
Is she from Obazu?
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell Her To Move On With Her Life? by DBestDoc(f): 4:44am On Oct 08, 2022
4teenblaq:
Good day to you all.

There is this girl that is head over heel for me and I don't really like her much. I just take her as a normal friend but she is showing me too many green lights (even to an extent a blind man would sight it even from afar).

She started chasing me since 2020, initially I didn't take it serious. I didn't even know her then, we met on Facebook. She told me she knew me right from our days in high school(secondary school), so she told me that she was my immediate junior brother's classmate. That she always get to see me whenever I visit my brother's class. I was like alright but I don't know you physically, can I get to know you and see you?

Knowing her and seeing took like months but I was only seeing her pictures on Facebook but I could not make out who she really was.

One day, I finally go to meet her. She is amazing and a good person and also kind of naive!


She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

But I am not really into her like she is into me.
This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

I was shocked! Guys, I don't want to waste her time, how do I tell her I don't really like her without hurting her feeling.
Just send her a plain and polite text message. She’ll be glad you told her and may respect you more for that.

Not telling her will do more harm than good.

You’re a grown adult I suppose and have freedom of association.
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dying Before My Eyes. by DBestDoc(f): 10:00am On Oct 07, 2022
lecoeur:
Still same, will soon be transferred to the ICU.
He probably had a rebleed in his brain

My heart felt prayer for Him, you and your family.

Just know that you’ll be fine in the end.
AutosRe: N1,200,000 or Less Tokunbo Cars by DBestDoc(f): 12:05am On Oct 05, 2022
amdman:
2010 Ford Edge

No faults reported

165k miles

N3.5m
Hi Amdman, is this deal still available?
TravelRe: Why Nigeria Remains A Better Choice Than Abroad by DBestDoc(f):
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FamilyRe: 3 Reasons Why You Should Marry Early by DBestDoc(f): 1:43pm On Sep 27, 2022
Samantha123:
But you can't enjoy that same marriage without any money, so where's is the achievement in thathuh
Is there really any RESPONSIBLE adult without any money??

I’m thinking aloud. You may not be rich but you must have money to take care of your day to day needs.

And yeah, this is the basic requirement, not wealth or riches. Have something decent doing that pays your bills and cut your coat according to your materials while at it.


If some of these self made wealthy people tell you where they started ee. From rock bottom lowest of lows
FamilyRe: 3 Reasons Why You Should Marry Early by DBestDoc(f): 1:41pm On Sep 27, 2022
MasterJayJay:
I didn't cite Isaac case as a standard for everyone.

My point is people should marry when they are ready.
You’re right by saying people should marry when they are ready. But the readiness part is so misconstrued by lots of people, leading to perpetual time wasting.

Money and age alone shouldn’t define readiness though. The fact that Mr A is 20 doesn’t mean he’s not ready for marriage and Mr B being 40 doesn’t define his readiness. Ms A having a good job shouldn’t mean she’s ripe for it and Ms B managing her basic finances doesn’t also mean she can’t do marriage.

Age and money should be the least of things considered sha.

Two intelligent, smart and visionary young people in their early 20s earning minimum wage can go into marriage and create themselves a beautiful home within 5yrs if they’re in sync and progressive. Most of our parents started that way.

These days young people are all about sex sex, abortion, cheating, going to school to study one useless course like that and wasting their gaddam time and when they hit 28, they rush and marry for the sake of getting married while cheating on their spouses, acting like fools and raising children with poor morals.

This matter is about Values and it’s difficult to find people whose values align. Mad man want marry better woman, olosho want marry decent guy. Decent girl meet crazy guy, good guy is scared to enter one chance while tilting towards 40 grin

Some sane ones are lucky to meet sane people and settle though!
FamilyRe: 3 Reasons Why You Should Marry Early by DBestDoc(f): 1:20pm On Sep 27, 2022
Well, i think marriage is a form of achievement just like getting a degree is and building a house is, however, not everyone can achieve every single thing in their lifetime. Some people get a degree in their 20s, others earlier or later. Some other people marry in their 20s, others earlier or later. It’s all achievements depending on who’s looking and from what angle.

That talk about marriage not being an achievement isn’t true. Humans are naturally social beings and that desire for companionship is inherent in us whether we like it or not even though in the end, not everyone will ACHIEVE marriage because it’s not for EVERYONE to achieve just like not every human will own a house before they die. This is life.

If you find yourself marrying late, that’s your luck and it’s ok, if you marry early, it’s ok too and if you don’t ever marry, well well, better be good to people and surround yourself with good people because a time will come when you’ll need people and not even money per se.

Bottom line is, we all need good people in our lives, people we can call OUR OWN. Partner, child, we need people.
FamilyRe: I Don't Understand This Please by DBestDoc(f): 11:26pm On Sep 10, 2022
You’re pregnant Aunty.

Do serum pregnancy test, that one will be positive.
FamilyRe: Please How Can I Increase The Blood In My Body? I Lost A Lot Of It Through This. by DBestDoc(f): 5:35am On Sep 08, 2022
You may need proper evaluation to establish the cause of the excessive menstrual bleeding so it can be tackled extensively.

Best approach
Kpele!
CelebritiesRe: South Korean Actress Yoo Joo-eun Dies By Suicide, Leaves Note ( Pics,) by DBestDoc(f): 12:04am On Sep 03, 2022
Such a brave lady

Rip to her
FamilyRe: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by DBestDoc(f): 8:22pm On Aug 31, 2022
humberjade:
Although the OP is a woman, but a baby mama might do worse
Atleast, the child will be well taken care of and safe.
Milking may continue though. Lol!
RomanceRe: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by DBestDoc(f): 2:33pm On Aug 28, 2022
You should block her number immediately too.

Wicked people disgust me so much
Tell her you’ll get her arrested any day you find her at your house.
Hoping you didn’t cheat and deceive her while you were dating though ‘cause karma does its thing when we least expect.

I wish you all the best in your future endeavors
FamilyRe: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by DBestDoc(f): 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2022
Chidiesta:
She is a female and I am also a female, she is my childhood friend my sister knows her well and I trust her too and I strongly believe that she will take care of her better than my own sister.
Nice!
Your friend can stand in as a guardian. Visiting, relating and pick up during holidays. This may be a better long term option than having the child live permanently with her.
FamilyRe: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by DBestDoc(f): 2:19pm On Aug 28, 2022
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FamilyRe: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by DBestDoc(f): 2:17pm On Aug 28, 2022
Are you male or female?

If you’re a man and the mother of that lil girl is alive and well, please return that child to her mum. She needs her mum at this point of her life

If you’re female like I suspect, your best option may be to take the boarding school route.

Ask that friend of yours to help you scout for a good boarding school and enroll your kid there. Pay something extra for additional upkeep and have your sis or friend pick her up during holidays. This way, you’re sure your child is ok and at the same time, avenues for milking will be duly blocked.

You don’t need to fight with your sis, just peacefully remove your child from her custody at the moment because anyone that could divert money meant for a child’s schooling to personal use is not a trustworthy person. Quietly disengage from the previous arrangement.

All the best!
RomanceRe: Update About My Breakup, what should i do? by DBestDoc(f): 10:52pm On Aug 27, 2022
You better move on and start something reasonable with someone else. You think you’re a baby.

Be an adult for once and leave the young man alone.

There are things you don’t force and love is one of them. Know when to quit
Your threads are annoying btw. You’re worried about him, are you his mum, wife or fiancée? You’re none of this.
You better cry and move on.
FamilyRe: Guys Please Help Me Check This Reading. Should I Be Worried? by DBestDoc(f): 11:41pm On Aug 25, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
I went to a pharmacy today and asked them to check my BP.

The pharmacist did it the first time, she looked at me and said she wants to do again. Then after the second time, she looked at me again and said she needs to do it a third time.

After the third one, she asked if I was ok. I said yes. She now said the first time she did it, it was low, that was why she did again and again but that the second and third times are slightly low but nothing to worry about. She then advised me to take Glucose D to up my sugar levels or coca cola.

Im a bit disturbed cos it looks like she's trying to be discreet about something and not telling me exactly everything. So here's the reading.

Here:
BP 105/82
Pulse 80.

Should I be worried?

Thanks.
Your BP is Ok, you shouldn’t worry.

Please disregard the bolded advice. It will offer you no good. Lol
FamilyRe: Adoption Or Single Mum Dilemma by DBestDoc(f): 7:34pm On Aug 13, 2022
lilkech:
I understand that what I’m advising her to do is morally wrong but isn’t it logically right? I mean let’s be real here. Why face a life of lonesomeness when there’s an easier alternative
But she can get pregnant by IVF if she’s really averse to trying the natural way.
FamilyRe: Family Doctor In Ikorodu by DBestDoc(f): 1:42pm On Aug 10, 2022
This is against medical ethics

You don’t advertise brazenly. Take note, you may put your facility in trouble.
RomanceRe: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by DBestDoc(f):
Odds
RomanceRe: I Need A Serious Date, Someone Who Is Ready To Settle Down. by DBestDoc(f): 8:41pm On Jul 18, 2022
MITCHELL96:
You're not aging anything

A man should be worried about his age when he hasn't achieved anything yet

You're not a woman that are so desperate to marry before hitting 30 years of age

You're even in your 30's and you seem desperate, don't let desperation lead you to marrying someone who's not meant for you o

A man can still impregnate a woman even if he's 40 or 50 or 60, But for women, it's rare to bear a child in that age bracket.

Take your time in looking for a wife, Take your time.
Oh no!
He’s aging just like every living being.

After impregnating a woman at 50-60, who raises the children and who will play the role of a father to those children when he’s almost close to his grave?

You probably think people live forever.
Look around you and understand the average lifespan of a typical Nigerian male. How many men are still strong and productive beyond 75 when his first child would be 15?
A man at 75 should be enjoying his grand children and resting anyways.

This is not about biological clock anymore as medical science can help people create kids even in their 60s but what happens to those children who’ll probably still be in junior high when their parents join their ancestors.

Pity your children na Oga!
FamilyRe: . by DBestDoc(f): 9:55pm On Jul 11, 2022
ednut1:
lets no cap here lol. Exceptions are there we know. But take a look at hers. At 35 are not even realistic. What does having many female friends even meanhuh Criminal record- is there even a database in Nigeriahuh Even boko haram members can get police clearance at alagbon. Reality is at that age the men she will want also have better options . There is nothing wrong in a baby daddy or divorce. Women especially those abroad need to get real .
Lol, let me assume you do not know sha
Make i use woman brain interpret wetin she mean

You see all those friends ba, like 90% of them na friends with Sexual/monetary/other benefits and she no just want knowingly enter any deal with such a man. How is this difficult to understand na Chief?

There are people who really aren’t cut out for Gbas Gbos. And it’s not wrong.

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