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Ayanwukoma:
It's because am not a rich Yahoo boy that's why.

The girl loves me, her parents just forcing her to do the abortion.

When she called yesterday she was crying, I can tell from her voice she don't want to.

Yes am entitled, it's my child.

I won't let it happen.

You should calm down and listen.
This is not entirely about you not being rich. You both are still unstable teenagers. No job, no career, no money , no home , no sense still, no nothing.

You do not have the mental, financial backing to successfully father a balanced child.
When you keep using the phrase ‘my child’ , it makes me laugh out loud. You cannot Lay claim to an unborn baby of a woman whom you have no legal or traditional attachment to.

About your girlfriend loving you and wanting to keep the baby, it’s expected that she’d reacts the way she’s doing right now, she doesn’t understand what has befallen her until that baby is born. The decision to keep or terminate the pregnancy still remains hers to make. So, calm down and watch as things unfold. You’re only to go close when they need you. Kapish

Ayanwukoma:
are you saying I should go myself?

Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good.

Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring?

No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter.


I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for.

Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.

From the story @flyca, they didn’t access her phone with all those securities, it was her SIM they took out to accomplish the deal.
With SIM, they can have access to BVN, get account numbers, receive OTPs authorizing password or login changes and all what not.

I’m sorry this happened to your sister.
All SIMS should be passworded and no need carrying bunch of ATM cards around.

May God help us.

Ezkid:
keep ur money to wherever it belong, I'm not here to solicit for a refund, I'm plainly here to create awareness about the scam and the scammer so more naive people won't fall for such cheap scam.
You'll be surprised how many people fall for such everyday, the level of information and orientation you have access to are not the same with the less privileged people put there.

So, these naive people that fall for such scams everyday should be called fools.

I really don’t know why you quoted me.
Your quote should go to @ tellwisdom who suggested I send money to you. I replied his quote and not yours.

As far as I’m concerned, I’m done with you and every other person on this thread who has proved unteachable.
Thank you.

tellwisdom:
Can you send the guy 15k so as to avoid further explain of this magnitude??

I would to someone that actually admits they’re wrong.
Thank you

ProphetJeroboam:
I love my peace of mind bro. Lol. God will help Nigerians

Please take picture evidence and report to the Land lady ASAP, then watch how she’ll handle it.

Stay safe out there and keep minding your business.

Map1:
Really love your narration, but my mother was a sensible woman who never and will never picked up unregistered nor a strange call, when ever she received a msg through anyone she will first called me to no a step to take, but about your own mother i don't know how she was trained up to respond to a strange msg,calll or to caution her greediness to know her right hand from left hand.thank so much

Good luck to you then.

Lexusgs430:
A combination benign and malignant, is benignant.......... This cancerous ponzi scheme, would envelope all greedy people.......

Hahaha

Iliveforever:
Please I have a serious question to ask.
Why do hospitals reject gun shot patients and ask them to go and get a police report, when you know it’s a crazy task that moment.

You guys are on strike because of money, no problem about that but don’t you guys think this law stopping hospitals from treating such patients should be one of the reasons you guys should be on strike??

In America, when a gunshot patient comes in, they first call the police secretly and also start proper medication almost immediately because such patient might’ve been a victim of armed robbery or other issues.

Please you guys should look into this.

The law has been abolished.
Patients with Gunshot injuries are attended to without presenting a police report. This is the practice in federal tertiary institutions as far as I know.

Ezkid:
I have the account number of the scammer and I'm willing to do anything to get the money back, I was very angry that's why I talked to her like that, and right now all I want is how to get the money back.

It was desperation on her part to make money.

You may need to start by getting a police report that you’ll take to the bank with evidence of scam so the BVN will be blacklisted, meaning he can’t use any account linked to the BVN until he visits his bank/returns the stolen money.

The downside is, it may cost you more money and time which unfortunately, you don’t have to spare.

Sorry for the loss

Map1:
why are you people economical with truth?was she not a fool,how could a wise woman take a decision in absent of her husband,how on earth could a wise woman invested all her savings with strangers with expectation of dobble it in 30 minutes time,tell me what makes her a wise woman.

Your reply shows a lack of emotional intelligence, You really need to guard your utterances.
Gutter tongue is for the pigs on the street.

Let me create a scenario to drive my point.
Some scammers get a hold of your mum’s banking details( I’m using your mum here as a female figure in your life because I’m 100% sure you don’t have a wife), an OTP sent to her phone. Scammers use some social engineering skills on her and she mistakenly sends the OTP to them .
Mother calls you immediately she realizes she’s been scammed. Now tell me, are you going to Call her a fool because she acted foolishly? ( After all, Banks warn not to disclose OTP to anyone)

I’m sure you can’t because you have some respect for her. No matter how angry you are, your utterances and actions towards people show how much regard and value you place on them.

My friends can’t even call me a fool when I goof, let alone my family or spouse.


Una weldone oo.

Ezkid:
That's my chat with her after she reported the issue to me, i was very angry

This is just so bad, not the scamming part but the part where you called your wife a f00l. I was so shocked reading that.

Mehn! Even though she acted foolishly, still didn’t justify your usage of that word for her. A stranger calls her that, it’s forgiveable but coming from her husband? In her low moment? Zero empathy. Sad sad.

People make mistakes, silly ones at that but family and loved ones are the people we should be able to own our vulnerability to without the fear of toxic utterances like yours.
Next time, she may not open or own her mistakes to you for fear of verbal abuse or maybe she’s used to it already.
It’s really abnormal, please apologize to her for this.

Hope you recover the lost fund.

This is so sad
Good people really exit quicker or what?

May her gentle soul Rest In Peace and God grant the family she left behind the strength to bear the loss. Amen

@ olumighty123, please tell him our prayers are with him and his family

That’s how you people get scammed.

Someone wakes up, creates a new account with fake identity and a Bogus story of how they make lots of wad. Desperate and unsuspecting you ask to know how he made money and he refers you to a scam telegram group ( Telegram that’s a Den of Scammers), you all buy the crap and head there cos you want to earn 5k daily like he did.

The threads that’ll follow this will be of unsuspecting members losing their hard earned money and crying foul on Nairaland.

Your money will be gone and nobody will help you recover it.
The story line never changes.

Adegbemiro11:
I don't get the bolded.
Isn't that a betting account?

Lol,Betting account? People are funny

Carbon, Opay, PiggyVest are quite okay at the moment. You should know nothing is 100% guaranteed in Nigeria, so it’s advisable you spread your money across these fintechs just incase of eventualities.

If you’d rather sleep with both eyes closed, then leave your money in your bank account. ( not that it’s scammers proof either, but still safe) or open a mutual fund account with a trusted company( better option than leaving money in the bank)

Flee from betting accounts or anything Sports. Do not go close to the App.

My widow’s mite

khadaffi:
I'm not too sure you understand how the NHIS works. Teaching hospital is not where you enrol for NHIS. In theory, corporate organisations and government workers are to enroll for NHIS, in practice only government workers use it and enroll for it. The requirements is not convenient for most SME. I'm saying this because I've once inquired about registering my workers for the policy. It is not realistic. If in doubt, please name any private business enrolled in NHIS.

The NHIS has offices in every teaching Hospital and Enquiries can be made at these offices.

I don’t know if I mentioned that I got my mum enrolled a couple of months ago. ( as a private individual)
Every Nigerian is eligible for the National Health Insurance Scheme, though civil and public servants get enrolled automatically.

I mentioned private individuals not businesses. Private Businesses use private hospital HMOs, you strike a deal with them and get your staff enrolled but you as a private individual can enroll yourself and family in the scheme.

Gracias

I understand exactly how you feel
Please Stay strong .
You’ll definitely feel better with TIME.

May his soul through God’s mercy Rest In Peace.

Condolences to your family.

khadaffi:
NHIS is only for government workers. How many government workers do we have in Nigeria?

Not only for government workers
Private individuals can enroll.
Go to any teaching hospital or NHIS office and make enquiry.
I advise everyone living in Nigeria to please enroll.

Healthcare is not cheap.

arthurwillia:
Lol

I remembered I helped a mother who gave birth but lost the child to escape about 2 years ago
Haha
She gave birth to the child through SVD, but child was underweight, didn’t make it in the end after some treatment in the SCBU before transfer to neonatal ward.. no money to pay for bills, her baby daddy left her there.. we are from same tribe and we met each other in a strange land so we talked very well as I was an intern in that government hospital..
she spent up to two months in the hospital because they will not let her go, her load was packed to one side with other mothers that can’t pay too, They can’t escape with load because security will ask them at the gate.

Na so we plan am o, she began dropping her stuffs with me small small, and I took it to my place not far from the hospital, did it for 3 days I think and when it was complete, she just strolled out to come pack everything and she disappeared, never heard from her since then, 2019. Whew what a mess

You could have helped her campaign to raise money. That would have been a more logical help.

The thing is, she wasn’t thinking right and you being in the health sector should have known better. She ain’t getting any medical help again from that particular hospital in the future without first clearing the former bill. It’s going to be written boldly on her folder that she absconded and the total amount owed will be indicated.

Have you ever wondered why you find some patients spend like 5 months plus in the hospital after treatment? (Especially orthopedic patients)Not that they cannot abscond, after all, they are allowed to go about their daily stuff and return to the ward until bills are cleared. These guys understand the value of integrity and the fact that some emergencies can land them in that same hospital in future.
Some people get lucky along the line to find private NGOs clearing their bills or hospital management halving it and sometimes writing it off totally.

Good health is everything and shouldn’t be taken for granted.

saxokay:
anyone that do renewal recently should pls tell me the cost
and if you have an idea of how it cost to renew passport plz kindly let me know
I want to know ahead so that this people won't scam me
my location is akure

thanks in advance

I renewed on Wednesday last week
South South state, paid 26k NGN.

Do not consent to money reversal. Keep following up the case with your bank.
You may need to spam your bank and CBN with mails and any evidence needed to exonerate you until your money is returned to you ( May take a while but don’t relent).

I don’t think involving the police will be beneficial as they too are mostly Criminals. No offense

Advice For future deals and to other POS agents. Any transfer should be made by the owner of the account themselves with a description ‘ POS WITHDRAWAL TO YOUR SUKKY2010’ ( this can’t be a mistake) plus an affidavit written and signed by the customer before such transactions will be accepted by you.

I’m sorry for what you have to go through.Anyone could have fallen for this.

Damn
Cute cute cute

giselle237:
u do not know. Cheers.

Ok then

giselle237:
he should come to Nigeria and write his MDCN exams being a foreign trained medical graduate.
The refresher course and exam lasts maximum 3 months. On completion of the exam he will be inducted into the Medical and Dental council of Nigeria, he can then leave after his induction for a masters starting in January.
He should sit the english exam which has a validity of 2 years, in this covid times gmc extended to 3 yrs i think.
Within the 9 months of the masters he should attempt to pass both plab 1 and plab 2.
At the end of his plab 1 and plab 2 with success. He wud apply for gmc registration.
As he has successfully been inducted into the mdcn, he will obtain a certificate of good standing from them which the GMC will need to register him.
Once gmc certified, he can start applyin for jobs on nhs site- his options will be limited to fy1 if he has not done his housejob

You didn’t give this young fellow a good advice, to be honest.

Sgtponzihater1 gave the most practicable advice that’ll also be most beneficial to him. The route you’re advising him to take is like cutting corners, and he’s going to be wasting much of his time doing that.

The first reason being FY1 is quite competitive and he may end up getting frustrated searching for a job after successfully passing all PLAB steps.

Secondly, MDCN that I know wouldn’t give him a letter of good standing just for holding a provisional registration. They’ll say they don’t know him( they did this to a friend but he was lucky to have been licensed in his country of training and had done internship there, letter of good standing was gotten from this other country). Except of course MDCN has changed the rule within the past 2 years.
Besides, Ukraine does not license their foreign Doctors after graduation.

Thirdly, the one year spent acquiring masters would have been well spent getting a proper hands on clinical experience from Housemanship training.

More than 80% of the foreign trained Nigerian Doctors run back home to complete the requirements for full registration, there’s a reason for that. This includes the ones licensed in their countries of primary training.

My advice is for the dude to go back to Nigeria and use one stone to kill 3 birds. Within 18months, he’d have been fully registered, completed Housejob, and passed PLAB one if he’s a serious person.

Cheers!

Beey3026:
I have a problem and I bring it up everyone attacked me some made it worse and some advice,
Why must every little help we give be on camera for likes?
Especially those that won't help why must you mock or attack anyone that needs help?
I don't want to be a runs girl for money.
I think about my future career and what I will bring to help my husband when I finally marry.
Why should I put my mother into more shame for every one to see before I can get help?
Do you know it may be an insult for her or my entire family some day? Do you pray to see your mother begging online because of debt?
Let's rethink.

How many people have you helped in your entire life?

All your threads on Nairaland are for begging and soliciting for funds.

Don’t forget that nobody owes you anything . Smh

Strength
Connection
Gratitude

He should go for physiotherapy.

adenike21273:
Don't use ur own case to generalize dat marriage is a scam, some pple who are very Happy in there marriage are ever grateful to GOD for bringing both of them together.

The guy is just very pained and still hasn’t learned.

He has refused to do some soul searching, discover his mistakes and actively correct them.
See the mumbo jumbo he typed there.

Awon redpiller.

Women Dey marry sha

Oluolad86:
I thank God that I'm still breathing. The swollen legs are there but the pains has reduced. I'm waiting for my medical report to proceed treatment in UCH properly. Thanks so much ma'am

God bless you

domaya21:
Thanks for the summary. Yes I forgave her but I had to call it off. I'm no Simp really. Just that her folks and my friends keep guilt tripping me saying since I [b]already engaged [/b]her I should not just quit because of one mistake. But I can't take that risk..

Are you people ok?
You should have nothing to do with that girl or anyone that tries to convince you to continue with her. Those people do not love you, neither do they want you to stay alive.

Even married people divorce and you’re here talking about an engagement you did with a 10k ring.

The girl in question should even be arrested for attempted murder if you had real evidence to prove this.

What?

Where do you people find these lunatics bikonu?



OP, you’re a very Very very lucky man and don’t take this grace and second chance for granted. Do yourself some good and block that girl and her entire lineage for ever.

That girl is truly mentally deranged.