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Romance › Re: Should I Go For A Girl I Like Or A Girl Who's Ready? by dboY1123(op): 8:33am On Oct 27, 2024

duduade:
As a man I be

Let me tell you the truth

You no get shame

Very shameless

You don tell us what the two girls have and can bring to the table.
.

You yourself what are you doing to empower yourself

I work (teaching), graphic designer and videographer

Romance › Re: Should I Go For A Girl I Like Or A Girl Who's Ready? by dboY1123(op): 6:25am On Oct 27, 2024

dkidd:
You advise urself. If U truly love urself as a man U know which road to follow but I guess Ur still moved by breasts and yansh. If ur not ready yet better leave the girl that's ready for men who are and go and face Ur plaything

Sir, just advice me like your younger brother.. I'll greatly appreciate

Romance › Should I Go For A Girl I Like Or A Girl Who's Ready? by dboY1123(op): 3:50am On Oct 27, 2024

I have these two girls at hand, I have dated one before, so she's like an ex but we still chat often and even trying to come back again, though what led to the breakup wasn't anything serious, so we are cool.
This girl is in her early 20s, not really ready for committed relationship or courtship as she's more concerned about her fashion career which is a good and valid point or reason. She's done with service recently and I think she's not ready to return home soon probably because she's more comfortable where she served..

I met the second girl in NYSC camp in 2022, she's mature, quiet, also a fashion designer and a Christian but we never had anything together like relationship, though we met again after camp, she lives 3 bykes away from my side.. She is ready for something serious, owns her own fashion shop and doing not bad for herself..

Although, I actually like the first girl cz she's pretty and smart. I am thinking of planning myself right now, they both believe in starting up with a guy and they both would add value but the second girl is ready, and also has something doing already while the first is yet to settle herself.

Please advice me, who do you think I should go for?

Education › Steps School Owners Could Take As Students Graduates Below 17years Of Age Now? by dboY1123(op): 5:20pm On Aug 26, 2024

Federal Government on Monday has approved and prohibited students below 18 years of age from sitting Neco and Waec respectively.
What should schools owners do with respect to this new development as students graduates below 17 years of age?
Any advice please

Christianity Etc › Re: How CAC Wants To Claim Our Property!! by dboY1123(op): 3:53pm On Jun 19, 2024

vonlogon:
Hope you have evidence to back your claims, purchase evidence written in your dad's name and or your mum's, that letter they showed you, if it's not a legal agreement, you are not bound to it, anyone could forge that. Most importantly, get your documentation right and organized and prepare to leave CAC.

All the best

It is not a legal agreement. and how can i purchase an evidence in their names sir

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Christianity Etc › How CAC Wants To Claim Our Property!! by dboY1123(op): 9:21pm On Jun 18, 2024

I will be brief and precise here.
My Dad is a cac pastor, he was moved about from one cac church to the other and later he was ordered to head a cac church in one very local underdeveloped area 20+years ago, without catering for his needs and that of his family.

Few years later, in Ayetoro side lagos..there was a conflict amongst the omo onile that time, and he had to fled to his own site where he had a church and someone working there.

Straight to the issue, i lost my mum 2years ago but she used to tell us how cac will come and claim this particular church building and the house (mission) and that is exactly what's about to happen.

We have junior pastor to my dad who had been a church member before in one of the places he worked.. The man came to us that my dad is due for retirement gratuity and he wants to help him get it because my dad has been a good person and role model to him..

Last year, he came with some letters that we should fill, but the letter stated that we should attach land documents of the church but we refused to drop it and that was it. 3months ago, the man came again with a letter of which my dad signed (the letter head was his church zonal district not directly from cac secretariat), i was not aware, he sent the same letter to my sister on whatsapp before he proceeded to Ibadan cac secretariat with my sister to claim the retirement gratuity.

After one month, they were finally able to process it and grant it. Last week, the pastor came to our house that CAC has decided to bring in a pastor from ogbomosho to head my dad's church and that we will not have access to the church but only the mission built beside the church a very small one.

That is where I flared up, I asked him, is cac paying my dad's retirement gratuity to grab or own the church which my dad built? he asked my to check the letter he sent to my sister on his phone, that it was stated that we give the possession of the church to cac..

Till now, we haven't settled the case because all of us (the children) have refuted that claim and disagreed strongly on that.

what do you think? are we fighting an unjust case and what can we do to fight this and reclaim it because there is not land or building document attached to the letter if at all any letter was taken to ibadan.

Education › Extracurricular Activities That Can Promote Learning And The School by dboY1123(op): 4:01pm On Apr 15, 2024

What are the extracurricular activities that a school or a teacher can bring in to enhance and promote learning and also bring the school to limelight.
Asides the common ones like Debate, quiz and football or other familiar activities.
Thanks.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 3:25pm On Jan 10, 2024

Blueace247:
What type of writings do you do then....

Creative writing, essays and articles, I used to be very good in stories, autobiography books etc.. I love writing generally.
I love writing essays mostly, when I was in secondary school I won the essay competition in secondary School level in Lagos State..
NCC broadband essay competition in 2014/15. I was a participant.
The only mistake I made was going for sciences.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 2:14pm On Jan 10, 2024

SmartyPants:
If I could see a sample of your CV and cover letter I might be able to tell you what the problem is. I suspect that you simply aren't the best fit for most of these jobs. The market is quite competitive and if you look well you'll see that even the "smallest" of obs advertised on Linkedin has hundreds of applicants.

No problem how can I send it sir/ma

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 12:40pm On Jan 10, 2024

qtguru:
If your resume ATS complaint ?

Also for LinkedIn it's good to post articles around your toolset, network, join Groups, I've gotten employed off LinkedIn and gotten contract jobs but not much.

Also if you are a virtual assistant, join a group, find out the tool of the trade, learn, have a portfolio.

How do I join the group sir or ma? I'm open to learning please
Applying for jobs on LinkedIn no longer cuts anymore, you have to go beyond.

Ciao

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 8:50am On Jan 10, 2024

emoboy4u:
What did you study, classs of degree, why not applying to companies insided Lagos?

Chemistry BscEd.
But I can work anywhere sir, which side in Lagos sir and which type of company.. I'm ready to commute or if there is accomodations

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 5:20am On Jan 10, 2024

Blueace247:
Why aren't you writing anymore?

I don't know how to monetize it

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 4:20pm On Jan 09, 2024

Blueace247:
I was forced to read the whole write up before I even know I knew what the problem was..

Teaching jobs are for who don't have choice as regards no jobs or something..

Learn an IT skills..max one year you are good to go..those platforms you mention works for those who's got digital skills..

Thank me later

I used to be a writer😂😂.. I wanted you to read to the end before you reply me,
Can you list the red-hot digital skill I can learn in one year? Thanks

Jobs/Vacancies › Linkedin, Indeed And Others Are They Real And Useful? by dboY1123(op): 11:40am On Jan 09, 2024

I haven't gotten a single job interview on LinkedIn and indeed, the few ones are got are from LinkedIn and a teaching job.
The teaching job is either very far from my place or a very poor salary! Already, I lost interest in teaching even before this time.

I went for an interview in ifo Ogun state, a government approved private secondary school, and the principal proudly informed me that they pay graduates 30K.. This school celebrated her 23rd year anniversary recently and you're paying graduates 30k?? And you expect me to leave SANGO to Ifo, just to take 30k he was even requesting for my original result and referees!

I took my loses and left, after I assured them that I will resume on Monday (yesterday), right now I'm still job hunting but I'm actually not interested in teaching anymore, maybe in Lagos they pay well, definitely not here.

The other jobs I applied for like, sales marketing, receptionist, virtual receptionist and so on, none ever replied me.

Am I doing something different? I am new to job hunting so how do y'all find and locate jobs?

Thanks for your replies

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Romance › Re: Any ART Gallery In Lagos? by dboY1123(op): 4:52am On Jan 08, 2024

popo1494:
Try NIKE art gallery @ ikate bus stop, just after Lekki phase one.....white building with its name written on it

Thanks, do u have any idea about the entrance fee or any payment just to be aware before going .
Thanks again

Romance › Any ART Gallery In Lagos? by dboY1123(op): 7:19pm On Jan 07, 2024

I am actually asking for someone, Is there any Art gallery in Lagos that is cheap, we want to visit the place.. I actually love Arts and I would love to see some with a friend please.

Health › Re: Please Help I want to gain some weight by dboY1123(m): 12:00pm On Dec 28, 2023

ahnie:
I want to add weight and I have tried everything possible to gain weight all to no avail.

I have taken drugs aids one to gain weight but non worked.
I have eaten lots of noodles and fried eggs,eaten overnight,but the weight is not just weighting.

Please help recommend what to do so I can gain weight.
My current weight is 68kg.

Attached is a recent pics of me 26/12/2023.

Go to Gym, eat healthy fats and take sweet gbola twice a week.. truth is, sex makes one look healthy and good.
If u don't av a boyfriend, put your number in my DM

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 9:13am On Dec 28, 2023

araoye19:
after graduating from college with a degree in chemistry, this is what we have here?No research paper,no discovery. Nothing!!!after graduating from college with a degree in chemistry, this is what we have here?No research paper,no discovery. Nothing!!!...

Maybe Nigeria is not a place to study such courses sir.. thousands of Lawyers ain't even practising law, how many Mechanical Engineers are practicing? Or even Plant Biologist? Computer Science is long gone talk more of Physics😂

We are all doomed!!

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 9:11am On Dec 28, 2023

talk2hb1:
Better, na covalent bond you shared with her based on your volumetric analysis

How does volumetric analysis relate to Bonding?😂😂😭😭

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:13am On Dec 28, 2023

Karlifate:
It's all in your head, dude.

The real question is: Is she doing pluses (+) and minuses (-) as you're doing

If yes, she might be.

If no, you already know what to expect.

You girls love to hide their emotions, normal I like the girl, and we usually have great conversations till today.. I am sure if I convince her more she's going to accept.. She's an introvert, hasn't dated more than a guy and maybe haven't known**(U understand?) a guy before.. so she's trying to be very safe and convinced..
I hope you understand sir?

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:08am On Dec 28, 2023

DyingFetus:
Get her pregnant and know if she's really yuur soulmate

If you promise to attend the Christening of the child!

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:06am On Dec 28, 2023

Shalommy:
Chaii... Wahala no go finish!

😭😭😭 I modified the post already.. what would you do if you are in my shoes?

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:05am On Dec 28, 2023

ikeno:
It's known as coincidence and has nothing to do with spiritual

Thanks, modified!

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:04am On Dec 28, 2023

Gadafii:
How old are you?

Is that necessary sir? I made the mistake of saying Spiritual wife and I've duly corrected that..
Well I'm btw 25-30! Anything for me sir

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:03am On Dec 28, 2023

talk2hb1:
Can I have her phone number please, lemme calculate both of your valencies. Oniranu Scientists 👨‍🔬 with spiritual wife

😂😂😂😂❤️
I have modified the post sir

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:01am On Dec 28, 2023

DyingFetus:
You should be a forking king pin with that chem deg if you know what you did actually

I'll appreciate it you can break this down sir.. I want to be anything good in life.

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 8:08pm On Dec 27, 2023

Karlifate:
It's all in your head, dude.

The real question is: Is she doing pluses (+) and minuses (-) as you're doing

If yes, she might be.

If no, you already know what to expect.

We actually dated at some point, but I knew I didn't convince her enough.. we still together and still actively chatting and calling.

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:32pm On Dec 27, 2023

skj1377:
She is not. If she was she will not have doubts about you. Women are more intuitive, all you mentioned are material connections or coincidence.

Thank you jare..
I made mistakes there and I was looking for a way to even delete the post already because I made lots of mistakes, but see people condemning you as if they made it already.
I'm used to Nairaland tho, everyone is perfect online.

Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:29pm On Dec 27, 2023

michlins:
after graduating from college with a degree in chemistry, this is what we have here?

No research paper,no discovery. Nothing!!!

Discovery? What have you discovered sir? Kindly share it here because y'all are just quick to talk down on people.

What is your impact to the society? Just here blabbing..mtww

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Romance › Re: Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 6:27pm On Dec 27, 2023

luminouz:
Nawa o... You are a graduate and you write this rûbbish? Do you mean spirit -wife? And even if so...what did all your points have to do with spirituality, or you mean similar trajectories?

That was a mistake sir/ma, I was just confused how everything aligned that was the reason I believed it to be more Spiritually inclined.

Romance › Could She Be My Soul mate? I'm Convinced! by dboY1123(op): 3:29pm On Dec 27, 2023*

I met a lady few months ago, we started chatting after everything were smooth, we started dating but 2months after we broke up. Her reason was because she wasn't feeling it deep or very convinced yet to be in a relationship with me, but right now we are still together(communication).

Well, The reason I'm convinced she could be my Soul mate 😂 is because
1. We are both from Osun state
2. We are both last-born
3. We both studied Chemistry (different school)
4. When she wanted to serve(NYSC) they posted her to Benue, same place I camped.
5. We are both Christians.
Could this be just mere coincidence?

Modified.

Foreign Affairs › Re: South Africa Withdraws Diplomats From Israel by dboY1123(m): 4:37am On Nov 07, 2023

Roger3D:
Fucck Isreal and I remain blessed

😂😂😂😂

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