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I have been having this constant thought about my relationship with this lady.. She is an NCE holder about 24 years of age while I am a graduate about to conclude my nysc programme..
I deliberately questioned her about her next move after the NCE because she is just working(teaching) in a school now, she concluded that she wants to further her studies, she bought the direct entry form herself.. I have rented an apartment and I am also pushing hard to make money (I am running a business already) which I advised her to work, make money, start a business and later go for sandwich programme since it is still education but she declined..meanwhile, her family are not really financially buoyant.. Even now that she's working, she complains about not having money to eat or buy stuffs and her parent are not really supporting her that much (she has like 4 siblings and she's the first born)..Imagine if she's now a student.

It was a sad day for me and our loved ones as my mom passed on.. I still made a post about GOLDENROD local name just to prepare it for her.
I took her to general hospital and then to a private hospital.. I did e everything I could, it was more than my power..last night, my spirit just didn't go home and I decided to sleep at her house rather than going to my house not knowing that God wanted her to die on my hands.. Through last night she couldn't sleep and I couldn't too, I so much love my mother.. I am glad she saw me wear the NYSC uniform as she always admire graduates in the uniform when they pass through her shop.. She just didn't wait to see me do my passing out.
If you know me,you'll know I always post about my sick mom.
Rip mom, I love you

viyon02:
Please post the whole plant.

Thanks, i've done that

I have been making researches about my mum's ailment and even despite being to a general hospital and a private on, there hasn't been significant changes positively.. After series of Tests and others, I think both Hospitals mentioned that her liver is bigger little bit.. We went for Hepatitis test but it was negative. She's back home, taking her Kedi drugs(people said KEDI products works).
Now, via my research online I came across this flower called GOLDENROD and it works for sweeling/edema or obesity but I don't know how to get it or the local name..

Modified: that is the plant below

DispatcherLagos:
Hmmmmmmm.
Your employee asked you to leave your shop for her so that she can pray?

What are you not telling us exactly?

Nothing.. She said I want to pray, meaning please excuse me.

I have been on/off from my work(shop) for 2weeks now, I have this new worker who is a Muslim and I am a Christian, of course, I am not against her religion or anything, I still grant her the permission to attend mosque every Friday afternoon and I always try to be at shop by 2pm, or get someone to replace her..

Today I came to shop and the first thing I noticed was that she allowed one Alfa that I know very well, into the shop(she knows it is not allowed), my mind told me they were both reciting the Quran before I came in.

Secondly, she told me that she needs to pray (in the shop) that I should excuse her while I had to leave there and go outside..This has never been happening for 3 months she's been here..

Even myself being a Christian, I pray before coming to shop/work.

I wanted to tell her to stop praying in the shop because it is not a praying ground or mosque, should I go ahead?

I am not against her religion whatsoever, even she reads the Quran quietly in the shop and there's no issue about that.

Good morning, I have this issue with my bank (sterling bank) and stanbic ibtc.. February 5, I went to the ATM stand to withdraw money and I made use of stanbic ibtc ATM machine(stand), after counting and counting, it stopped and ejected the card probably there was no money in it..so I decided to go for ten thousand instead(I tried twenty thousand before and it didn't dispense).
The issue is that the money was not reversed because I waited for a while and I kept checking my phone for reversal there was nothing.. The third day which was Monday, I decided to visit my bank to lodge a dispense error form hoping that in days it would be reversed yet nothing came.. So they had to request for a FOOTAGE from stanbic ibtc because Stanbic claimed that I got value already.. Till today, I am still waiting for the footage and I have been disturbing them via mail and they kept asking me to be patient on Instagram.. What can I do to get my money back?

Mrkumareze:
If she can go on water therapy, it ll definitely help her alot. And mind her kind of foo, she must be selection . Maggi n salt no be for her again

I am humble enough to ask if you can enlighten me about the water therapy ma/sir..maybe it is something we can do at home.. OR when she's back from the hospital or something.
When she was in the hospital her legs stopped swelling and she was breathing fine and ok..not until she was discharged and it started again.

sonofthunder:
After she is stabilised with medicine, you guys should work on her diet

Follow Dr Berg on YT

Sorry, but who's Doctor berg Y and what is YT?

thorpido:
I think you should find a way to get your mom to LASUTH,Ikeja.
Let her do proper screening.

Ok Thank you

My mom has been battling with this sickness of swollen feet and abdomen..sometimes she becomes really weak and she doesn't eat very well because her stomach is readily filled.
We've been to a general/state hospital where they did scan for her and they said her kidney is OK but she has an enlarged liver.. They had her stay for two weeks in the hospital and she was recovering when she was discharged, but the sickness is still returns..
Please, any place you can recommend for treatment and what could be the reasons for this thing? Help me please.
We reside in Ogun state, Sango to be precise.

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

Very true... The babe I'm dating right now would even ask money for hair, she'd tell me she's hungry that I should send money, she wants to fill gas, data and so on..
She's working o.. I just told her I won't be sending her money again, last week, she asked Monet for hair, I just told her I don't have and she got it done herself..e no concern me..
Me wey d relationship don tire already just looking for excuse to run

On 5/02/2022, I used my ATM to withdraw from a stanbic IBTC ATM machine and it didnt dispense, I went to my bank to log the dispute, since 7/02/2022.. Only for Stanbic bank to forward a mail to my bank that the value was received..what is the meaning of that one?
Maybe I'll just go to stanbic bank and request for the video footage.
How can you claim what's not? If I get the video footage and I didn't receive the money they'll pay.

Happy Sunday!
Which of the two business should I venture into?
A computer cafe where registration of examinations, nysc, waec, jamb and so on can be done,
Or I should just plan going into fish pond or fish rearing?
Thanks

blinking001:
Dear op please don't leave her. She's too precious to be left alone. As a REAL man it's in your best interest to take good care of her and satisfy her every need. Please ensure you sponsor her to the university, make sure you open a business for her, ensure you also place her on monthly salaries too. Also ensure you build a good apartment for her too. You must understand that it's in your best interest you fufill all this things so she can love you and be yours forever. Idiot op.
If you like don't dumb that Broke girl and focus on yourself.

Maybe you carry olosho, cz I'm not sure if you can date a Nigerian girl without even giving her 1k at least.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnn!!! Boss... She just wan go school

Lmao... Abeg take it easy. Don't invest your whole life on her o

No sir..ni understand you very well...I have been single throughout I was in Uni, and because I was an hexagon lol.. I didn't buy the idea of giving a girl one naira.
I realized that, I won't die if I give someone I'm dating what I can afford and forget..
I know girls dat are just after milking u, those type of girls would request for money and they are precise about it and if u give them what u av they are not contented..
If I don't give her the little I have, I don't know how well to prove I love her or want her not to cheat.

Beebah2000:
This one don pass SIMPlicity, na MUMUSIMPlicity him dey now.

You want to tell me that if your gf asks for 2k,3k and she has reasons for asking, you don't do it for her?
You guys be forming redpillers here meanwhile your the real SIMPle man.. She is my gf and I'm convinced she's...
Her parents are trying too, cz they don't have that much too..stop acting like say na sand your babe dy eat abi she no dy ask you for anything and you just Bleep and she praises your effort on bed..rest jare.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!! Boss...

Nah Poverty Mentality dey make girls believe they've scammed a guy after collecting money from him, meanwhile the guy may actually have given her the money willingly.

Stop this mentality Boss . If you have; Give her. And if you don't... Let her Understand. JahBless

I understand that she hasn't collected her remaining salary, she paid the EasyBuy instalments by herself(the phone she bought) maybe so it convinced me to assist her with little things since she takes the responsibility of paying the debt herself, and I think her parents are not really well-to-do, she just asked for money to do her NIN registration so as to process her jamb(direct entry).. It was normal price she told me tho..
I have spoken to her directly
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jaxxy:
Love is shown by giving. U must give Smtn. And it goes both ways.

If a gal doesn’t have she will ask. Same with some guys. The question is are her requests necessary or genuine and what has she done to solve her problems herself b4 coming to u??

Nothing wrong is asking bt everything wrong in becoming a pest.

I understand that she hasn't collected her remaining salary, she paid the EasyBuy instalments by herself(the phone she bought) maybe so it convinced me to assist her with little things since she takes the responsibility of paying the debt herself, and I think her parents are not really well-to-do, she just asked for money to do her NIN registration so as to process her jamb(direct entry).. It was normal price she told me tho..
I have spoken to her directly

Well, I had a post here about the girl that lost her phone after leaving my house(we had nothing together that time).
I suggested EasyBuy(pay in instalment), so I added 10k to her 10k and She'll pay the remaining in instalment.. She works in lagos(teaching) and since then, I couldn't believe she was already talking to her ex back(she didn't accept we date, so we weren't). While she asks me for small small money, and making me believe she had no one..
3weeks later, she decided to come visiting and she slept over at my place, that was how I saw all her chat with her ex and this recent guy..of course she knew I was checking her chat and she couldn't say anything and she left in shame because I just left her alone..
She was now begging on phone that the guy was her ex and she had nothing to do with him.. That she loves and it was just chat..that she will block him right away.. Since then she told me that we should date.. And we've been dating..
The problem is, since we've been dating like three weeks now, she often demands money from me, though small change like 2k,3k.. But it is becoming often..and I was beginning to feel like maybe her love isn't genuine although she tells me what she needs it for but I'm feeling somehow and ain't comfortable with her ever time demands for money..
Should I leave her or it is just normal for girls?

Well, I had a post here about the girl that lost her phone after leaving my house(we had nothing together that time).
I suggested EasyBuy(pay in instalment), so I added 10k to her 10k and She'll pay the remaining in instalment.. She works in lagos(teaching) and since then, I couldn't believe she was already talking to her ex back(she didn't accept we date, so we weren't). While she asks me for small small money, and making me believe she had no one..
3weeks later, she decided to come visiting and she slept over at my place, that was how I saw all her chat with her ex and this recent guy..of course she knew I was checking her chat and she couldn't say anything and she left in shame because I just left her alone..
She was now begging on phone that the guy was her ex and she had nothing to do with him.. That she loves and it was just chat..that she will block him right away.. Since then she told me that we should date.. And we've been dating..
The problem is, since we've been dating like three weeks now, she often demands money from me, though small change like 2k,3k.. But it is becoming often..and I was beginning to feel like maybe her love isn't genuine although she tells me what she needs it for but I'm feeling somehow and ain't comfortable with her ever time demands for money..
Should I leave her or it is just normal for girls?

zinaunreal:
Wasted puna

FxxL you're !!!!

obedugo:
Fresh breasts and soft waist gone like that ... RIP

You're a LUNATIC!!!!

Efe42:
Well not that I don't want too.

I want too and I'm working towards it but she's kind off filed with thought that I'll broke her heart due to her previous relationship...


Away from that she once said her prayers life is down due sex because she's experiencing nightmare sometimes she' use to pray and sometimes comfort her enemies but she can't anymore due sex.

You need brighter grammar.. You can start somewhere

I need to start doing something, someone is ready to provide me a startup money of 500k, which business can I venture into that can expand and also help humanity..
Thanks

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Nobody should praise the man. He ain't no good man...hasty conclusion dogg shit
...because he returned the money doesn't mean he is a Saint....him big pass 40,000 naira ....na im make he returned am....40,000 is irrelevant and will not add any meaning to his life....if it was like 50 million...him for nor return am


Secondly....the pos operator na thief...for him to charge am 800 for 40,000

The charge is not supposed to be up to 800 for 40,000


Hmmmm...okay o....but I collect 60,000 today...and i was charged 500....even the pos operator was willing to do it for me for 400 niara

The POS might need funds to carryout transfer..that could be the reason he'd collect 400 for 60k

Our prepaid meter disconnected since Monday morning I think it is tamper mode, and I think it has some kind of digits they use to put for it to pick again..
Can I get the tamper code online please?

I'm crying as I write this, please what solution can we put in place for a patient with kidney problem.
I took my mum to hospital last week Wednesday and we were told that one of her kidney is not functioning well, I think that is the reason her legs are swollen and sometimes her breathing is not fine, and her stomach is somehow hard or something..
Please, Any solution to this, either herbal or anything

Corea4king:
This is exactly what my uncle suffered recently and he is better now. You better meet cardiologist or quote me so I can direct you to thesame cardiologis my uncle went to. It could be heart related or not but symptoms like this is mainly heart problem .The vein that supply blood to the heart might be blocked.

Oya sir.

wentroublecomes:
A lot could be going on inside the internal organs.
I think the best is to find a very good general hospital especially federal government hospital.
Since the legs are swelling, definitely there is water retention. Maybe you're not urinating well or something
Also, it would be heart related if heart is not pumping very well, making the body to retain water. Likewise d liver too
Since it's associated with shortness of breath then u need to act fast.
I wish you all the best sir

Went to an hospital today, for scan and it came out that one of the kidney is not functioning well but it is still ok.. So, they suggested that I take drip(water).

wentroublecomes:
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This could be related to Heart, Liver or Kidney.
Can you answer few of my questions
Do you have itchy skin?
Do you have smelly breathe?
Do u hardly sleep at night?
Do you loss weight or gain weight or you're just d way you are?
Any pains in your stomach? If yes, which side of the stomach?
Answer this few questions. Thanks

Do you think xray or scan is fine?

wentroublecomes:
Ok.
I will suggest u check your blood pressure often. In case it's low or high.
But if it comes out normal, den your heart is okay.
But I believe you will be fine.
All the best

The BP is okay sir