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Please people, what could be the cause of swollen legs and shortness of breath sometimes, stomach is hardened..
We have visited the general hospital before, and they couldn't specifically point out what the issue is after different tests..
Please help!! Any treatment or herbs that would work perfectly is welcomed.
Thanks.

folks4luv:
So, how did she get your number so fast? Or na 2 phones she dey use?

No, she chatted me via her younger sister's Facebook to request for my number..to ask if the phone dropped in my room

First; She came with the Idea of EasyBuy(Mchris buy and pay in instalment).. Anyways, I'll just help her with 10k, she'll add 10k herself go to Mchris and register herself.. she already knows I am not buying any phone for her.
Secondly; We are becoming more intimate

cbngov01:
So she already crammed ur number? Nwanne, use wisdom

She used her sister's Facebook to chat me up and request for my number..

otikpoko:
Let's turn the table around...
...if you were the one that visited her or you both went out and on your way back they stole your phone, will she buy you another phone?

Na you be her papa?


Someone that told you NO, foolish love wan make you buy phone for her.

If this was your sister or close relative or Let's say you guy when come visit you and they steal thier phone, I'm sure you won't even think about buying them a new phone.

Useless girls when no go support una when uou go dey in need Naim you wan carry your money buy phone for.


Like where the hell do you people come from.


Nonsense and buy Phone

You're actually right., But Man don move commot for friendzone o as of yesterday, you understand.. Na relationship she no want other things can fall in..
That said, yesterday she came with the idea of Easy Buy(paying in instalment) at Mchris.. Well, I just decided to help her with 10k, let her sort the rest and know how to pay the remaining money..
Thanks for the advice y'all

frozen70:
Don't blame. Too quick to respond

Give her time to sort her self out from the missing phone

Assuming you are not there, won't she get another phone

Let her be with out a phone for a while and see her reaction

Secondly, you can get her the phone if you are that generous and that won't change her stand on whether to go ahead with the relationship or not
But may be a motivating factor

Thanks bruh

zedegit:
Please open another thread and ask us whether you should be paying her school fees.

That is why you should date a working class girl to avoid this kind of drama.

She's still in whoring stage.

dharamanil:
My brother you don buy the phone, money don burn no wahala. All I will say is get a grip for yourself, snap out of it, if e dey sweet you like this for early stage na die u dey

No. I am not buying shit...I've told her to go for Easy Buy, and the only thing I can afford is 10k and that's all..The rest is left to her.

After much consideration, I decide to dash her 10k to support her..because as you all insisted/advised, I am not buying any phone for her..but the 10k is just to support whatever she has with her.
Thank y'all

SmartPolician:
dboY1123

Forget the long list of useless advice from many frustrated Nigerian guys on Nairaland. This country has frustrated many people and they come online to vent their frustration on the females instead of our heartless politicians.

The easiest way to get God's blessings is to give to people without asking for what you get in return. Sure, this works for real! This means that you shouldn't buy her a phone as a bait for her to date you. Na people dey buy people car and house.

It's all about affordability. If you can afford to make that sacrifice, go ahead. If it cannot, don't buy. In this case, you can just support her with your widow's mite. There are bad and good people in both male and female genders.

Phones so expensive now o...

Truvelisback:
When she comes, welcome her, treat well but don't buy her a phone. Let her buy herself a phone. By the way, isn't she working?

She's working, I even asked her how much she has so I can add little, she doesn't have much

Truvelisback:
U already said guys are all over her. Bro, Don't buy her a phone. Let her buy a phone for herself.

She's coming over to my place today, what do you think?

Cokahot:
Why didn't u bang her. Stupid student
When I was a student,I must press your breaats,feel your pussy,or grope your ass on first day. Wetin we dey gist for.

I'm sorry

I really understand what you guys are saying... That was how I lent a girl I was dating my second phone(I created a thread for it then).. Girl begin change from that day I was so shocked, she wouldn't pick calls, she becomes busy, she read messages and ignore on whatsapp..
I was just so shocked, this is the same girl that would call me no matter how late it is when I haven't given her the phone o.. Why Are girls like this?

Double0h7:
This is how stupid you guys are...

The girl said she doesn't want a relationship with YOU but you heard "try harder and convince me."
So you spend your money, invest your emotions, waste your energy and when you finally understand that she doesn't want a relationship with YOU, you come online and attack all women.

Are you a girl or a guy?

SportsHD:

Is she the one here?
https://www.nairaland.com/6809001/becoming-simp-being-friendzoned

You gave this one your second phone. This new banny had her phone stolen. What's it with you and girls with no phones?

Ain't my money, so you can buy her a phone if you want.

Lol...I tire sef
I don't even have shishi to buy phone

everythinggirly:
Do you love her?
Maybe marry her.

Yea, but she's not done with school yet.

TicketGreen:
It depends oh how rich you are

Lol infact I'm rich, Amen!!!
I just feel like anything to do to help her condition this time

Amotolongbo:
How are you sure she really lost the phone and not just a gimmick on you?

I've called the number it was going before then switched off till now..
She called me with her sister's phone and was begging me to check my house if it's there she left it, but I knew the phone was gone because sango ota guys no get joy..any smehsmeh your things don go and she be all this ajebutter smh

I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

tobillionaire:
OOU, Mapoly, TASUED... Head quarters of yahoo

So u forgot LAUTECH? Lol

Lol.. You should rather enrol yourself in English classes before sponsoring someone else's daughter with 250k
U na advanced/upgraded simp.. The last time I borrowed my gf a phone to use for a while and she started misbehaving, I already knew I was a simp(then).

My dad sold part of his asset and the money was credited into his polaris bank account, but the money remains in the ledger balance or whatsoever it's called but it is not available for withdrawal.
We went to bank on Friday to see what the problem was and we went with the documents to upgrade the account if that was the issue, but the customer care I had conversations with said his account is huge enough to take in such amount..
They delayed him from 9am till when they close, asking for 'what he does' or something.. I had left already for work but I kept calling him to know how it was going.. He showed them the leaflet/book he collected as a receipt from the buyer but they were not ready to see that or release the money for use.
Please what should I do? Should I look for a lawyer to sue this bank(and is there a chance or winning) or should I go back myself on Monday and display craze for them?

Modified: He's an old man and he told them what he does, he's a pastor and it was very obvious from the receipt.. Having told them everything, they still wouldn't release the funds.

dultraray:
Talk to your CLO

That I won't be able to show right?

Odetokun3:
Three weeks orientation in vain?

My cds is education and I don't think we doing shit at the local govt

I am a corper batch B stream 1, and I just relocated a month and two weeks ago or so, I want to know the penalty for not attending CDS once a while.. because I only have Thursdays(my CDS day) to rest..
Please what's the penalty of not always attending CDS during the service year?

Lol...This one don face tanke e sure d8e., I spilled twice because of Dr Abdul raheem's Environmental Chemistry and I could remember that she still threatened that most of us might still not graduate... I was extremely frustrated but I kept going to her class and passed her exams at last, I graduated and I'm in service right now... Plus I was already doing fine and doing my business..Everything continued to work at ease with my relocation process and everything.
So being frustrated should not give room for indiscipline or beating up your lecturer..I totally condemn this act

Osibajo2023:
Just too difficult, I don tire self. I thank God for affiliate marketing wey dey give me small small

Can you put me through this affiliate marketing please

I transferred money Into my fidelity account and I could only see it in my ledger/cleared balance but not in my available balance and I'm still unable to withdraw it since 12pm today..
Please, is there anyone who knows when the money will drop and why it refused to drop since.

TechNana:
Why have I never thought of it this way before now, a woman to become a professional Barber, and probably opens her own barbing salon would become the game changer...

When she's good at what she does, her business sells automatically...

Thanks for this idea... I'm looking into ASAP...

Young lady

frozen70:
You can go for it, all you need to do is yo mind your business and respect yourself the moment you pack in

Always...thanks

uzomanny:
Go ahead, you'll learn from the experience.

Lol which experience please... I don't like to learn from bad experience when I can easily correct it now