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Oluwadamilare

wittywriter:
Post screenshot of your paper.li account

Wittyness

Paper.li is saying Goodbye to Paperli..

wittywriter:
Open all I posted then we take it from there.



Wittyness

Done sir.

DeeBaDan:
Very sincere and honest post.

1. Ready to leave comfort zone

2. Clean and honest so long as not fetish

Vtw, I informed you that you had a divine calling from above last time. Have you started working on it ?

Send me a message on the number on this profile

I have not started. Economy is not friendly boss

xpresseeve:
Send a CV to xpresseeve@gmail.com

Ensure we get it today.

Done.

wittywriter:
Since you have a phone/browsing gadget and access to internet then why not learn how to earn via online using your data and browsing gadget? FYI with a token mentorship fee I can consider to put you through...however in the mean time open accounts with the portals below:

Binance.com
Yellowcard.com
Paper.li
Upwork.com
Fiverr.com
Quora & all SM platforms

You can earn as an intermediary content creator.


Wittyness

I have opened account with Binance, Upwork, and Fiverr

After all my challenges in the past one year, I think I have to relocate and leave my comfort zone.
I can teach and also work in any part of the job provided the work is clean or not fetish.
I am a graduate, I finished last year but I need a job..

My business is not moving like before and I need to support my family. I am not married.
I can commute or relocate depends on the Job and if there is accommodation.
I am religious and hardworking, I also learn very fast so I can fit in easily.

I don't know how to search for jobs, because all the applications I have been submitting online is futile.

Any idea on how I can start job hunting in Lagos, and I would be immensely grateful if you can help me out.

Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

Please OP I need a job, any part I can fit in..I can work any where..I'm desperately in need of a Job

Puss360:
Okay.. Good to hear..but no... I can't date/follow a pastor... Even pastor as house neighbour sef get as e be

And if you married someone u want and later he received calling from from God? U will file a divorce I guess ?

Puss360:
Lols...is Pastor a job?
So make I follow man wey no get work dey carry bible upandan... Tomorrow now, when no money, I go dey hear "Baby pray, there's nothing God cannot do"... Lolz...

Abeg shift

And what if you get married to that same guy, and he later become a pastor just like Banky W?
WIll u file a divorce?

illicit:
That's just one girl

Your girl

How do you mean sir.

Jeffrey22:
They don't like early morning devotion
They don't like fasting
They don't like Evangelism
They don't want to be limited to missionary only
They don't want to be prayer warrior




So if you want to become pastor look for girl who wants to be prayer warrior in church and be with

Bro, she even asked me if I pray in tongues before we started d relationship o.. Lmaoo
I told her I don't pray in tongues cz that is a gift later she agreed that I'm the perfect will of God for her.
All these I was thinking something else o until something made me tell her about my dream.
Lol

Why do ladies run from guys who might become a pastor or someone who would work for God in the future?
Is it that they are avoiding the responsibilities or they are just not a supportive partner?

I just told this girl about my dream which I had last year and guess what? She asked if we can go back to just being friends!

This is someone who had been claiming to be very spiritual, devoted and all that. Someone that claimed she wanted the "Perfect will" of God. She wanted someone that is spiritual and that can draw her closer to God.

I love this girl, but I have told her that we can go our separate ways. I can't change the fact about my dream, What if we got married and I later become a pastor?

Please check my previous post for the dream part.

Modified.

lawrenzooo:
OK, sit her down and tell her the truth.

People would always tell you what's generally obtainable out there but again we still have few decent girls out there. If you can trust her and she meets your specs and you have the finances, then good luck to you.

Assuming I'm the type that loves carrying hookup girls or olosho or going to club, u know that I won't have problem.

But again, thats even a bigger problem than having a single partner.

I just wanna have a partner, and focus on my life entirely.

We have talked very well and we are almost on the same phase..

My spirit just doesn't go with formication and adultery.

Tunde835:
This guy is still trying to get married

You want to remain single? I am not the type that carry olosho, hookup or go ti clubs to carry girls and so on.

That is my main reason of getting a good partner cz doing all those things are just waste of time, resources and life.

I'm not getting younger, and we all have different purposes.

lawrenzooo:
Nigerian men believe all women don't have self control.

Am dating a lady at the moment. We've been dating for 6 months now. They're are a click of 6 girls and I was shocked to find out from their whatapp group conversation that 4 out of them were still virgins as at first week of June. The youngest among them is my girl and she's 22.

Bro, I know that I have not touch this girl cz we just started.
But I can say it that she's a decent lady.. Although I might not trust her deeply, but she's decent at least not all this runs girls.

lawrenzooo:
Seven years age difference is cool. Just wondering why you had to lie about your age, that's not cool you know.

I lied to her because I felt she might not know cz I have a young face and stature.. Even if I tell her 25 she won't notice.

U see this nairaland ehn.. My ex gf, I left her because people here said she's going back to school and our relationship won't be stable anymore cz d trust will not be there..

Now, I got young lady with very close intentions as mine, yet people are saying she's going to nysc, she won't be able to stay.
I'm just tired sef.. I'm not the type that likes dating different girls everytime.

Uptheante:
Many guys go drill her kpekus for where she dey go service. She may become addicted to those preeks & you will become irritating to her & she will lose regard for you because you can't measure up to Wale's long preek, Emeka's fat cock or Musa's uncircumcised preek. Not to talk of numerous bj & swallowing of nut wey she go dey do over there.
You know, bad men no dey use eye see fresh corper
Na Nigerian girl she be & there's a very high possibility of her succumbing to various guys either because of money, bling bling lifestyle, emotional support etc.
Even some married women get fuccked by bad guys during 2 weeks orientation camp, not to talk of single girl wey go stay away for 1 year.

All these are the reasons why I said, she may not come back the same

.

Ok sir.. I hear you sir

Kobicove:
The age gap is not too wide however, if you have not yet stabilized yourself financially it would not be a good idea for you to tie her down!

No, I'm not tying her down.. Infact I want her to do everything by herself. I just dont want to waste my time with someone and later break up.

Uptheante:
Just know that she won't remain the way you want her to be after service

Hmm

What do u mean sir?

Uptheante:
Oga, from your narrative, she said she wants you to be the last guy (she wants to settle down). This insinuates that she has been into different relationships in the past & it implies that her kpekus has been vandalized by different kinds of gbola. She might even be knacking other gbolas while in relationship with her exes. Are you comfortable with that.?
Secondly, you said she's going for NYSC, do you know how many gbola go dey knack her during the NYSC?
Of course you won't be there with her to, so she will most likely be drilled by different preeks while you are naively waiting for her to finish & come back for marriage.
She will meet different kinds of guys who may be better than you during her service & some or most of them fit dey knack am.
If she deems one of her fuuckkers a better option for marriage, she will ruthlessly dump your ass.
Hope you are not foolishly investing heavily in her?
Be smart bro, think like a man

I don't put all my eggs in one basket, its just that she's the type of lady I want
The thing is, not all ladies are olosho..some girls are still decent.
And I haven't spent a dime on her and neither has she ever asked for anything from me.
If u don't trust a girl how do you take her serious in a relationship? You have to trust her and be vigilant.

Daddyseun1:
Woman dey brainwashed you, at your age, and exposure,

Someone like you fit commit suicide because of one low life hookup girl,

That's what I see

You're saying at my age, but at your own miserable age, you are not mature enough to criticise someone or even advice someone without being insultive?

If you don't have anything relevant or meaningful to say, you can just pass and u necessarily do not have to showcase your stupidity sorry to say.

I need mature advice from reasonable individuals here... No wonder people use to say that kids are too much on nairaland

madscientist88:
you want to be in a relationship with a university girl? thats you and like 40 other guys, dude you are 29,if you are looking for a serious relationship right now,i would suggest you go for a girl who is done with her nysc or has a business she is running. i dont know your financial status but most girls at age 22 are in the early stages of their hoeing phase,all they crave is money,sex and luxury,at this point their target is to get a dangote or otedola so they can be using you as their safe zone, while they are busy looking for bigger connection, maybe you can handle that but please avoid looking into her whatsapp chat,also chances are she would always delete them. at the age she is now while she is going out with you, if she is a baddie her eyes are scattered over the place,i just help you pray she is a civilian.on the 10% chance she might be an angel of your life.i am giving you an online advice you are 29 you don see things, its not totally safe to be in a relationship with a girl that young,you can just be friends with benefits, serious relationship pick girls around 26 and above, then you would feel the difference in their sensitivity and maturity,na women were don chop life and are now ready to settle down.

God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.

Daddyseun1:
At your age , education.
You ain't wise.

Spit

Your opinion is not needed, Mr woman beater.
Leave this page and go and learn how you can manage your anger issue.
Obviously, u need a psychotherapist.

Daddyseun1:
OMO ODE

I can't take you serious because I don't beat ladies like u did.

Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

GanagiBitrus:
Submit yourself for mentorship, under any proven MoG. Dream alone is not enough to start a ministry.

Ok..thank You very much.
I really have to do that.

I dreamt that I was preaching heavily and quoting the Bible with ease I dont know where the verses came from, with so much great passion, preaching the word of God, and at the end of my preaching my heart was broken down and shattered into pieces and humbled and I wept heavily(I was holding a bible by my right hand).. and I was asked why I had eaten food and I said the spirit was Willing but the body was tasty..

A woman came to me after my preaching and later another man came I was taken to a church I dont know which church precisely and I could feel the load of holyspirit inside me giving me so much courage and boldness and I speaking in tongues as I was preaching and the first thing I heard in my mind was Life without God has no purpose..and tears rolled down freely from my eyes without wanting to cry...and I was scared of the life I am living.

When I woke up I typed it in my 'Note' app on my phone so I won't forget, that is where I copied it from.
This happened in February 10, 2022.. 03:22am ( when I woke up)

Meanwhile, I have been told by men of God who doesn't even know me very well that I will become a pastor.
I don't know who I am.. Help me discover myself please.
Somethings are strange about me, even if all my siblings visit our hometown, they hide me, even my mum told me somethings too that is so shocking before we lost her, as a result I didn't grow up in our hometown like my siblings, my case was like that of moses.

Please I need advice from deep rooted Christians here.

jmoore:
Anyone that have read your previous topics knows you.

But he added somethings that I never wrote about.
Like that of Pastor beefing, that's true.
That of my brother who is destined to be abroad is also true, cz I can remember he attempted to.
That of 'you have Babalola's water'.. Someone just gave my sister yesterday we didn't have it before.

yrhuhfy113:
SO SORRY FOR ALL THESE AVOIDABLE LOSSES, HERE'S IS A LITTLE TOKEN OF WISDOM FOR YOU

Pls sir, pls Get a LAWYER to really handle this land matter with wisdom so CAC doesn't see your dad as a REBEL(I know how churches handle these kind of issues, they may not even care for what is going on in your home but you see that LAND, they are watching it).

Your brother who died, was supposed to LIFT the family, he was destined to be abroad, even YOU. Chai

Sit your father down, hmmm.... TELL HIM, YOU HAVE TO SELL OFF THESE PROPERTIES. Since he has other ones elsewhere, so he can make do with that. ASSURE HIM THAT HE WILL RECOVER EVERYTHING HE LOST. You all need encouragement.

MANY YEARS AGO YOUR FATHER HAD A CLASH/MISUNDERSTANDING DUE TO ANOTHER PASTOR WHO WAS JEALOUS OF THE FINANCIAL GRACE HE CARRIED..... This current attack stems from people who are offended at the GRACE ON YOUR FAMILY.

NOW FOR YOU AND YOUR SIBLINGS, to stop the attacks add SEA SALT to THE BABALOLA water that you have... SPRINKLE IT ACROSS THE HOUSE WHILE PRAYING.... and one of you will SEE A CLEAR VISION WITHIN 3 - 7 DAYS.

THE FAMILY IS UNDER ATTACK, YOUR DAD IS TRULY CALLED OF GOD BUT HE IS BEING FOUGHT BECAUSE HE DIDNT COMPROMISE

YOUR MUM SAW STRANGE VISIONS BEFORE SHE DIED, SHE KNEW SOMETHING WAS WRONG BUT COULDN'T PLACE A FINGER ON IT.....

You all in the HOUSE are very gifted BUT stunted, even to finish school was not easy because there were strange challenges too.

I will give you the names of strong genuine men of GOD since nairaland will not allow me drop numbers here, pls go and meet them for FAMILY DELIVERANCE.... and you will see a major change.

PROPHET GF ADETUBERU
based in IBADAN
his videos are on youtube and the address is there too.

PROPHET ELISHA ADEFESOBI
based in IKORODU, lagos.
check him online too


PROPHET SEGUN ADEBAYO
check him online too

PROPHET TAIWO OJO
LAGOS

Now, pls HURRY and get help, before the next wave of attacks.

I STAND BY GOD'S MERCY AND HIS GRACE ON HIS WORD TO ASSURE YOU THAT THESE BATTLES ARE COMING TO AN END AND YOUR FAMILY WILL EMERGE THE WINNERS,
BUT KNOW THIS-----------
YOUR MUM IS IN HEAVEN, someone may see her in a vision soon.
YOUR DAD WILL NOT DIE(even if you do not go for deliverance or meet any man of GOD, he won't die, he will live and see all of you do well in life.), he will recover speedily from stroke.
YOU WILL GET A GOOD JOB BEFORE NOVEMBER
YOU ALL WILL CELEBRATE VICTORY THIS YEAR IF YOU TRUST GOD AND FIGHT THIS GOOD FIGHT OF FAITH

Seems you know us, please who are you sir? Everything you said is very true.
Ok noted. I'll do exactly what you said.

tommy589:
Use what you have to care for your needs. But don't do it without your dad's knowledge

Definitely.. I might be thinking the wrong way.
But if it's left to me, I'll renovate both houses(the one in Ibadan and the one he stays in lagos beside the church). Both of them are not really well built or furnished.
My own is that, I don't want CAC to take over it if anything happens. They will become the owner.
All my 3 sisters are married and they have their own houses already, I'm the last born.

Bankowner:
Your first gaffe is giving your father unprescribed medication and then attributing his condition to spiritual forces or attack.

As for his properties, is your father incapacitated that he's unable to make decisions on them? You're planning to sell his property, but what plans do you have for your own self development? What gives you the confidence that you won't sell his other properties when he passes on? What are you doing to get your own property(ies)?

That is not the point sir.. I am not after his property, but we are currently facing financial crisis and I'm not even talking about myself.. Everyone is involved. I'm not sure you took your time to go through what I wrote though.
Please kindly go through it first.