₦airaland Forum

cruzita:
see why it is good to grow up in naija where we have culture.a woman can't smoke in naija anyhow .But see how a lady is smoking as if her surname is BENSON

Naija where you have culture and a woman don't smoke but have all her hope in hooking a made man cause that's her only way to better life... grow sense , apply manure if the growth is stunted.

vicadex07:
You nailed it bro. I have been suspecting those white people since especially when lassa fever became out of hand.

The funny thing is that its going to bite them back in the ass. They are trying to play God but he is up there looking at them fool themselves.

Until they come up with technology that gives humans everlasting life they are just fooling themselves.

that same God you are referring to was created by them and handed over to you to keep you looking up the sky for solutions to your problems while you refuse to think and do what is required to uplift yourself.

Concurrently we should expect the change promised us during election in the next 70 years... ride on sai change... all promises are back to to back from 35years to 70 years...

derespect:
Smells, is Oyinbo a Nigerian? If a foreigner can appreciate ur country, who are u not to appreciate your country?
U just typed all in d name of u also want to make point. Get sense!

am not gonna cross worda with you, but I Will tell you that from your comment you said who are you not to like the country when an oyinbo like it, that means the oyinbo is something more than you are... But well enjoy your slavery

derespect:
If an Oyinbo man can appreciate Nigeria, who am I nt to be proud of my fatherland?
I am proudly Nigerian!

so oyibo is more human than you because his skin is whiter than yours? Slavery never end cause it even continues in the head after the bonds are cut.... sorry for you

Davido or no Davido, nobody has a right to treat a mother like that and disassociate a mother from her infant baby just cause they are more influential... how the poor suffer and the rich keep gushing them to moan in silence... from all the story around this topic, the Adelekes acted wickedly to this girl and her baby and they should face the full wrath of the law... if the girl really was a cannabis addict and it showed in the blood of the baby, there are more civil ways to take the necessary action than this wicked way of "who are you"?

Days are becoming months and months will become years and we are still waiting for the utopian promises of the APC ... Chibok girls, boko haram, salary for unemployed youths, power supply, change change change ... we are eagerly waiting and hopefully we will not be disappointed

If this statement is actually truth, then it is a big big shame to the country of Nigeria... so that means that he accepted to have stolen billions from millions of the citizens and the unborn children of his state and instead of rotting in jail and ceasing of all his properties acquired with the money and returning the money he stole he still has the impetus to be campaigning for another term in office and using the money the same him stole as an election promise to his people? What a country and what a shame... Sanity is gone in Nigeria

misspicy:
well marriage is not a big deal when you can ignore the society and family buh if you cannot marriage completes a woman in d society atleast thats how most of us were brought up....

so d oda day i had an argument with mum n i told her am not gonna marry till am 30 she started crying and rejecting it that i must leave her house before am 26...kikiki an still in my early 20s n i plan to make it before marriage ....buh my mum will have nothing of it,so its up to me to make my dough before am 26 so as to avoid stories that touch d hrt eg...titi has 2 kids now,shola is getting married in two weeks etc

I am not of any opposing idea on what you think is the big fuss about marriage to most women, but really it shouldn't be a yard stick to measure any woman and it shouldn't be the apex of every woman's life unless they so chose it to be... Good you have your dreams of making your "dough" before you marry and my little advice is based on you being in your early 20a and not yet a millionaire, maybe you should focus on studies and build a good career path for yourself, that way you can get married and be making your "dough" too... peace

misspicy:
from church to office to water proposal....whatsup with this proposal something no be to marry each other?...btw i wonder why dey be forming suprised like they never expected him to propose

just thinking what is this big deal with marriage? Why is it a must for all women and what in it makes them feel inferior when they are not married? Please you can ignore this jamb question if you like

Jollyjoy:
what then has politics got to do with that

yeah what politics has to with it is someone telling us that he borrowed money to pay for his election registration and few months after his wife wore a watch worth 13 times the amount he borrowed to his inauguration... you need more? Or are you acutely dumb? Honda turns to Mercedes just like borrowing a few bucks to pay for registration turns to having a watch worth ten times more than that.

Jollyjoy:
can you ever make a post without exhibiting your stvpidity

he ain't stupid and may be you are, cause obviously the car is a Mercedes while the poster said the man bought a Honda sub... Kia... people can be annoyingly silly

dhardline:
How did we get here?
This is poverty walking and talking live.

If some Nigerians can risk their lives like this just to scoop fuel i wonder what's stopping them to protest against bad governance from the local government,state and then the federal government.

nice point you made, but what's stopping them is the fact that those that creates their suffering have divided theIrish opinion also based on ethnic and religion... with ethnic and religious divide running deep in the mind of people, no real mass revolution can ever happen....

Man what is wrong with us as a nation? Millions of Nigerians everyday defies rain and Sun to go about their various hustled and what is the special deal in him doing the road opening when it is raining? Rain is natural and wether it rains or not people will still go out to fend for their families.... we should stop being silly and think like real humans to move our country out of its current sorry state.

willian10:
RACISM!

and you are telling me that the racism in these countries is worst than the ethnicity in Nigeria or even here in nairaland?

willian10:
Paradise
But I prefer Canada sha, racism is not dat rampant der nd it's easier to be a citizen
Pple dat said Germany, Russia,UK, I know you've not been there before, that's why u said that

Russia, I don't know, but what is wrong with UK and Germany?

Somebody tell me please that all this noise about someone being buried with another alive is a joke.... what barbarity!!!

therealdeal10:
In sm cases it shuld b about d kids cuz dey r gift 4rm God, u av 2 take care of dem properly.
Hahahaha buh op u very funny oo, so d lil baby is robbing u of ordinary cuddles, hw u n ur wife cuddled up urself all nyt long isn't enough??
Cmon a lil tym wit d baby wnt hurt u

really ordinary cuddle? You do not seem to get what am asking, the question is not about giving the kids a little time, the question is about the kids being involved in everything we do as a couple, evert date, outing, sleeping, waking, eating and almost no space or separate time for me and my wife alone... we can ofcourse hire a nanny and we can ofcourse manage out time alone for eachother, but my wife does not see it so and she does not seem worried atall, rather she sees it that our kids must be part of everything we do... hey come on i got married to my wife and not my kids and yes i still want my wife to be my wife and my kids to be my kids... they both are not the same

vizkiz:
seems you are new in marrigae...btw, it is never and has never been about the kids bro, your husband/wife comes first then the kids

but how do you bring this to your wife without it sounding as if one is selfish, believe me am the best dad in the world, but it just seems like the husband part is eroding... how do i tackle it and yes am new to marriage

Jollyjoy:
Hehehe op it ovious you have not come to term with the fact that you aree a dad..

See,the kids are essential part of your life,they should be involved in some of the family funs though not all,if you want to be allone with your wife then hire a nanny but for now give the baby her due attention and love.

i do not mean not giving our kids time and all the love, but what about my time alone with my wife? what about us? Must i go every with the kids? and what about turning to cuddle your wife in the morning and then the kid is there between you two? dOes our love life end because of the kids and all the love now should be to the kids?

misspicy:
Yup

what "yup" really?

I really need the matured minds in the house to talk about this cause i have been experiecing it and few of my friends too,but the thing is that anytime we talk about it we all come to the same issue, how do we say it without being misunderstood? Does a man life with his wife end as soon as the start having kids? does every outing have to always be with the kids? Do the couple have to give up their own private time and dates together just to make sure the kids are always involved?Really sometimes i feel more like am running a kindergarten than in a relationship and the last straw that breaks my back is putting our 5months baby in our bed every morning and thereby robbing me of the early morning cuddles and the rest of it... how really should this issue be handled?

powerfulsettingz:
Sure the man of God is richer than bill spiritually, he has blessed millions of souls
To the poster below me i think he's obsessed, if only adeboye was a white preacher he wouldn't think of him like that
Nigerians been not appreciating our people since 1905bc

stop talking poo, in a country where majority live below two dollars and majority of his member being in this category,he is boasting of owing houses in 180something countries? how many did Jesus had in his time and yet he rode princely while sharing all he had with his disciples... do you know that Nigerian pastors are almost 60% of the top ten richest pastors in the world? In a country filled with so much corruption and decadeness of almost every unstitution? How rich is Reinhard Bonnke of Germany? how rich are the great men of God from the rest of the world? it is time to hold these men responsible for their actions and robbing of the poor to fill their purses.

Surprising that people are serrioudly arguing about shit while not calling out the abomination and cruelty of killing innoccent people for how they chose to live their lives... while kill someone for who they chose to love? What an abominable act of cruelty!!!

Blizzyblinkzy:
Am i the only one not seeing the baby?

yes i think you are the only one not seeing the baby... go get a glass or a brtter phone.

[quote author=cheeketo post=36675150][/quote]you are between 25 and 28 no doubts

That is exactly the mentality that have kept us where we are now... corruption is corruption and whoever that is find guilty should face the law... unafrican to probe a looter? while millions wallow in hunger.... every one of them should be probed and they should return the money of the masses they stole and they should face the consequences according to the law!!!

Dharniel:
if it were you, what would you do?

two things are involved, wind up my glass and watch what the animal will do, second any sign of aggressiveness, i will zoom off with the highest gear, but if not i will just enjoy the animal courtesy

gabazin080:
Who told you someone was in the car at that time

did you just read my comment without reading the post that i commented on? your case don pass yaba left "oga untop"

Some folks would have take off with the highest speed thereby injuring or scaring the animal... beautiful animal and hearty people... cute pics

Africans refusing to give up barbaric cultures and traditions since time inmemorial... placing so much importance to so much shit and paying little attention to the betterment of the human race...

ideykwum:
What you say is not alien to Igbos! Okrikans in Rivers State practised the same!! But, both for the Igbos and the Okrikans, it was never for the parties to indulge in homosexual acts, but to have a male impregnate the chosen female so that whoever she gives birth to will bear the name of the family and propagate their dynasty or family name!! Don't get it twisted!

IF it is just to be married and bear children, why does the culture allow another woman to do it? why not for the marrying woman to just go get pregnant from anywhere and bear children to continue the family dynasty? Why does it go that she will have to marry for the woman to go get pregnant? the downline is that the woman authomatically assumes the position of a man and the duties obligated to men in the family authomatically becomes hers and so she can marry and not just marry but perform manly duties to the women she married... i was a witness to one such case where a woman married by another woman brought a case to the elders of the marrying woman dulging from performing her sexual duty on her... yes she is allowed to get pregnant from outside with another man, but yet the marrying woman is the person that will share her bed with her every night and keep her warm in a way a man should to his wife and tell me is that not also homosexualism or unafrican?