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[quote author=~vicky~]you dey look for wife?? [/quote]Try your luck with another guy cos am hooked!!

charlesfreeman0: I am 29yrs old, a 9ja man but not living in 9ja, I am good looking, smart, romantic or let’s say a gentleman, I comfortable with a good job I would say. I save at least three thousand naira cash equivalent every month after all my monthly expenses.
I have always wanted to marry a Nigerian but have not been lucky to meet the right one for me in the country I live.
I visited 9ja some months ago and stayed for about two months, one of my reasons for visiting my beloved country was to hopefully hook up with som1, unfortunately I wasn’t lucky to meet som1 I feel would be compatible until my last week of visit. I meet this pretty, smart, elegant lady with a strong sense of humour n lovely, she caught my eyes and I was lucky to go out for a date with her, we talked and she told me she has a boyfriend. well, I also told I her my intentions, that I really don’t need anything from her but to get married to her if she gives me the chance, though it’s crazy because we hardly know each other, I feel so bad, I don’t live in 9ja n I don’t have enough time to prove myself and let her know me beta, I guess she doesn’t have that mutual feelings for now.
People, I just believed she is the perfect match for me, beside we all don’t end up getting married to the people we ones dated so why give up because she said she has a boyfriend? She is a very pretty lady and that she knows, she is 23yrs old and a final year student of a university in 9ja.
I have been trying to make things work but to no avail, she is just not helping out, she has changed her phone numbers I guess, though she told me her phone got lost but she does use a mobile phone to reply my messages on Facebook. She still reminds me of her boyfriend, am not sure if he really wants to marry her, because to me I won’t waste a day if she says yes to me.
I am just confused, I don’t know if I should continue bordering her or let go? I am not getting any younger and I don’t want to settle for less in terms of marriage. I have planned visiting 9ja ones in a year or twice until I get married. Now I know finding a wife is not an easy task.
What do you guys’ advice on how to get this babe? Or should I let go, even though I love her this much?

She is pushing u to the limit, testing your ability to wait but I wouldn't dare that as she is trying to tagg a game along as well!!! But all the same. Go for the kill. Take your time to know her well before proposing or else, you will find ur self in a mess hard to explain.

[quote author=~vicky~]na wa o

Gurl u fall my hand o[/quote]You dey look for husband??

Women and their too soft wahala!! If a guy is too hard on them, they will start complaining that he doesn't care about her feeling but when the guy is too soft, they all say, is not man enough!!! I think the guy was more into the girl which makes her think is too soft but all the same, the girl will learn her lesson soon..

Pathetic bro!! U are getting it hard on the laDy geez and please just free her, she does like you but she feeling insecure with your height which clearly says, short people are troublesome, find someone else around your height rather than a lady, who will always suck up a face with that short man attitude face

OP is trying to get attention from the newly registered female members after falling out of luck with the old member's but I like your gospel this days, it sure shows u are turning a new leaf but HOW ABOUT MOBO? Were on earth is he??

I know a lot will claim they have witness ladies smoke in private but not publicly, this keep me worried about the rate our naija ladies smoke both ciga and india hemp this day and does this mean they are lossen the moral and culture decency they gain from home?? today I witness a lady smoke on the street publicly though a lot might claim she is probably one of the agberos wife but this lady dress decent and I wonder what could have gone wrong for her to smoke publicly.. I know a lot of girl friend who smoke privately but this is odd!!

Lots of men smoke publicly but it is unspeakable to see a woman smoke public with the rate nigerians are raised morally!!

Peace out

Nice one kinla!!! Fools born in 90s

Ex simply means, bye gone of what u don't want to associate yourself with.

Just some of my recent controversial observations I notice from this our naija sisters.
This modern naija sisters are full for crap, because quite a number of them are suffering from constipation.
They have mood swings resulting in irrational behaviour due to hormonal fluctuations!
They are often cranky because some of them suffer from insomnia or dramatic madness
They are difficult and problematic because of their sefish insecurities.
They jabber non stop because they have a standby mouth. E.G (dyt, slimyem and my most hateful loving enemy TPIA)..
Either they suffer from low self esteem or swing to the other end of superiority complex.
Their final conclusion is that man are to be blamed for all the above.
Thats why they can't stand to see men having a good time, you notice they always close their eyes when you are kissing or banging them..

I know some punny are ready to dig my grave but I don't give a damn.

Peace out.

Chairman!! Why are you wasting your emotion recharge card on a lady who doesn't care if you ever exist!! Grow up and stop acting like a kid who lost is most lovable toy!! A lot of chick is out there, ready to tangle and mingle with you.

This kind dude dey vex, I no fit sleep again.

Your guy will be rap.e soon, black br.a are around the corner

If am the president, I will release all political prisoners(MASS) from hunger jail and jail all the minority POLITICIAN to after life imprisonment) (smile)

Kidnap her better way to have her!

Have you ever seen these on cars? It's almost as if they are saying, 'don't have an accident with my car because it has children on board, you know those small humans that haven't been here as long'.

They are parents and they have kids on board which makes them 'very' important, and if faced with a 10mph collision with their car, or a swerve off a 2,000 foot high cliff face, you should pick the cliff face immedietely, or you are a bad person. Of course, you are not important at all in this. You probably don't even have kids yet so who are you kidding? You're just expendable. And if you do have kids, but don't have the sticker, you probably just don't care as much. Obviously.

But then of course the trouble with this is 'accidents' tend to be, you know accidents! We can't in most cases choose not to hit your car just because you laid a few of your wailing sprogs in it first, so there is really no need to patronise our faces off with your silly stickers, that show nothing more than you had the ability to trump out some little 'uns.

I wonder what would happen if two cars with baby on board stickers collided? The universe would probably explode in a massive cloud of outrage dust, presumably?

Joking aside though, what do you make of baby on board stickers? Just a bit of fun (?), or a genuine warning not to accident their car? Let's face it, both are equally stupid..

Peace out

this can't be true!!! Baba iyabo, the ground father of PDP!! I don't believe you op

U be number 1 mumu for this modern life!!! You say the girl no dey use juju for you?? That one nobi love ooo, na confirm juju she dey use for u!!!

It seems to be getting worse that people don't seem to be able to show any common manners or respect anymore.

You hold a door open for someone or make way for someone to get past and they can't be bothered to say a simple thanks. When you're out shopping people are in too much of a hurry to barge past you without saying sorry or excuse me. People are generally rude and manners or a simple please and thank you seemed to have gone completely out of the Nigerians language.

We seem to have developed into a very selfish nation where people only seem to want to think of themselves. Mine mine mine. I'm not anti young people as there's good and bad in everyone but young people seemed to have become preoccupied with themselves and I can't help but wonder whether there's a lack of real social skills and common manners.

We have more ways now to keep in contact with one another but the good old fashioned art of conversation and simply being polite, considerate and passing the time of day to one another seems to be dying off.

I find that old people are far more polite and sociable and young people seem to forget simple respect and kindness to anyone else but themselves. When i'm out in a pub I find that young people tend to shy away from making conversation or passing the time of day with you whereas old people are far more approachable and sociable. I've lost count of the times i've stopped to allow someone past, held a door open for someone or done an act of random kindness only for them to walk past without so much as a simple thank you. Is it too much to ask these days for people to be courteous and polite or are we losing the ability to think about others?

Peace out

What was the most scandalous thing that has happened in your street or in your street ? Apparently a whole lots of things happened a lot but let's share our story on here..


I was standing outside near my class room once when I saw a girl punch another girl full on in the face. From hearing their argument, apparently the other girl had slept with her dad. I have no idea if it was true or not, I hope not because they were in SS2 (16 and 18-year-olds) and they were both expelled as I heard it from sources but student couldn't forget about them for the rest of the term.

Peace out

Op: na true u talk, mukina, one of the goddess that frequent the romance section in the past but now a MOD for sport section, only few member will know who she was during her time on here!!! Ask dyt and 190, they sure knows who she was!!

I remember I used to have green pimples (smile) for her back then but not anymore.. Mukina and awhole loads of them don't visit this section again!!

Peace out

tellwisdom: You don marry? Dont lie

Mgbanu!!! She never

Dear Miss 29years old!!! Hope you are fine? I for date u but I had a dream that I must not date someone younger than me!!! Lol..

Did you say u love to explore more?? Damn girl, go for it and enjoy the life to the fullest but when next u come on here and say, no man wants to marry u at the age of 36, I will probably be the first to ask u, did u enjoy exploring the world in every area?? You must have met your dream man while exploring!!

Okay, you are selfish, arrogant and non challant!!

Peace be unto you

Facebook. I get to view my wifey pic anytime I miss her, I don't even bother to accept friend request as lon as I don't know u from adam!!! Shikena

Would you go to the police and confess, or would you hide the body somewhere and don't say anything?

Odunnu!! Never get a chance to view her profile, so no comment

Most hausa tend to practice such stuff!! I remember a friend of my falling in love with a certain hausa girl but due to the fact that my guy is a yoruba guy and they wanted her to marry is late sister husband which was so cruel not minding how she feels!!!

Op:: u need to slap urself 7 times!! Gbosa.. You be no1 specialist mumu..

Sex on my mind!!! Am missing them a lot..lol

slimyem: did i say i'm not ?

Oya come make I confirm behind closed door