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RomanceRe: How Many Of You Got/wrote This Kind Of Letter? by dealordea(m): 8:24am On May 05, 2012
Gosh!!! I remember 1994 when I wrote this kind of stuff to one stupid girl wey her mama dey operate saloon!! Na so this girl go show her momsy wetin I wrote, thank I have three good hand writing back and after cross checking my book and the letter, It was totally different but that does not gaurantee my safety that night, got the beaten of my life!! Got a hatred attitude for the girl uptil now
RomanceRe: Help,i'm In Love With A Married Man,can't Seem To Let Go.how Do I Get Out by dealordea(m): 12:09am On May 03, 2012
Love! A big delusion very simple to begin with but hard to compromise when the trouble looms! We all want someone we could call the one, someone to always appreciate us for who we and understand the true depth of us but when we started the game of love, we don't know always each other motive, some will probably end up miserable,some will feel like why venture into,some will believe they knew it all when it begins, some will think its all they ever wanted in the person and when you finally get one, one thing won't make it perfect, either is married, engaged, single but hard to live the cheating life, some even get intouch with their ex just by getting the touch of love they are missing but never know what looms around the corner. @op, involving your self with a married was the biggest mistake a person some people always do, though you might feel secure with them because they rock your world like you've never experience but do you ask your self in the first place, why did I fall for him? I believe this always come to your mind because you really want change in face of this and what you want is how to walk out!!! Trying to avoid him won't help, involving in the same biz won't help because u guys are in the same sector but my one advice is, relocate to another state which you think your real estate is a big market, that is the best way to get reed of such thing, not minding the consequence because you never wish to break another woman's home.

So its left for you to choose, you want money, been a single mother is not your problem, go for it in another enviroment entirely, don't make him think you are moving away just simply because you both are emotionally involve, except if you like to be the second wife which I believe you will never want!!! Let him know you like to upgrade your career in another state and that doesn't mean you guys are not partner but its just a means to pave way for you... Gosh, its 12.15 am... Need to get some sleep and this is my own opinion...

Peace out
RomanceRe: My Baby's Coming Home TONIGHT (2)! by dealordea(m): 1:03am On May 02, 2012
No dulling!! Still a fan!! Don't keep us waiting!! Expecting episode 3, still on season 1..lol
RomanceRe: How Will I Ever Survive This? by dealordea(m): 12:38am On May 02, 2012
Thank God the op is not dead yet and don't worry you will survive it, though it might come hard on you but if you could keep yourself busy with the buy and selling of stuff you are into, things will turn out for the better but the naija guy play sharp on you, it happen always, men playing ladies and ladies playing men and I must say, I feel your pain Big time... Just get over it, try to involve urself with some other stuff and try to quite thinking!!!

Hehehehehhehe... Naija guy!! I hail una ooo
RomanceRe: Is Fighting The Best Way To Handle Relationship Problems, by dealordea(m): 1:58pm On May 01, 2012
Idowuogbo: Beat who? He must be high on ewedu angry
They are on efo!! Join with indian fish
RomanceRe: What Would You Do? by dealordea(m): 1:31pm On May 01, 2012
Mugu na Him be your name!! Sule and lamidi be ur second name, ode and mumu be your third name! Girl wan make u eat punny for free and you dey dull yourself, on a serious note!! You go loose her, you will encounter a lot of heart break and differents strokes of lie!! Any naija babe no fit wait till marriage, na just pretend dem dey do... Eat what you eant to eat before anothe soji guy do it for you. Ode
RomanceRe: Advise For Romance Section Members And The Impression You Give by dealordea(m): 1:08pm On May 01, 2012
Don't mind the ode OP: one naija girl don frustrate am he wan con vex hanger during workers day!! You must have drink a lot ogoro this afternoon
RomanceRe: Sos Call To Nigerian Women - Change Change Change## by dealordea(m): 12:58pm On May 01, 2012
Funniest part on my street! A woman putting of the leggish stuff was asking of pakurumo from a igbo vendor and I was thinking! Was is this woman thinkhuh After 5 kids, she still wear the leggghhs shi.t and looking for pakurumo to show her hubby she still dey there!! A lot of shi.t happen both in young and old women this days
RomanceRe: My Baby's Coming Home TONIGHT! (1) by dealordea(m): 7:48am On May 01, 2012
Fan too
RomanceRe: Can Any1 Bear Dis>? And Still Stay In Dis Kind Of Relationship..advise Pls by dealordea(m): 12:17am On May 01, 2012
jeffp: i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
i am 27years old and she is 21 years old..we ar in d same class...and we hav been so close for the past 3years...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound.. I found her and d guy chatting.i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn.(bECAUSE SEEING HER AND D GUY WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME REMEMBER THE PAST..since she claimed that she and d guy ar nt talking again )).as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and WALKED OUT ON ME. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship.Bcause i am too possesive about her and i embrassed her in her compound....IS DAT NT FUNNY?

And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILL NOW AND SHE SAYS SHE WILL NT LEAVE THE COMPOUND.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> she treats me like anyhw and walks out on me on every given opportunity.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d opposite.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

N.B: i am a young man and a student in my finals..i am nt poor bt i am comfortable..wen i mean comfortable i am....bt dis changes have been so shocking and it is tearing me apart.

jeffp:
i am in a relationship ..which have lasted for 3years and everyday of the past 3years..it takes strength to keep dis relationship because i hav strong emotions for my girl....after 3 years..my girlfriend and I started having issues bcause i heard she was cheating on me wit a guy that stays in her hostel compound...the rumor became very clear and true.and instead of her to apologize..she broke up wit me.AFTER A Month later..we got back together and i just felt it was the time for her to make amends and make it up to me...
i am 27years old and she is 21 years old..we ar in d same class...and we hav been so close for the past 3years...
WE ARE IN THE SAME CLASS..AND SHE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT I CANT BREAK UP WIT HER.....and she told me that she had stopped what she was doing she was sorry...After 3weeks...something happened wen i visited her compound.. I found her and d guy chatting.i tried to caution her and told her that why she is so so stubborn.(bECAUSE SEEING HER AND D GUY WILL ALWAYS MAKE ME REMEMBER THE PAST..since she claimed that she and d guy ar nt talking again )).as i was talkin to her in an angry tone...d boy got up and started fighting me..and it resulted in me having injuries..because people from my girlfriend'scompound joined and fought me.and she stood and WALKED OUT ON ME. instead of her to still come to apologize...she told me that she what us to take a step downward in the relationship.Bcause i am too possesive about her and i embrassed her in her compound....IS DAT NT FUNNY?

And do u know this SAME GUY STAYS IN HER HOSTEL COMPOUND TILL NOW AND SHE SAYS SHE WILL NT LEAVE THE COMPOUND.


she later said we can continue dating but..there need to be changes..and this is what i noticed.

1> SHE SAID SHE CAN NEVER COME TO SPEND THE NIGHTS IN MY HOUSE AGAIN.
2> SHE PASSWORDS HER BLACKBERRY AND I CAN EVEN CHECK HER PHONES
3> she treats me like anyhw and walks out on me on every given opportunity.
4> SHE CHANGED MY PET NAME ON HER PHONE FROM my cherish TO Jeffzain and Jeffmtn.
5> she SAYS THAT THIS SPACE WILL WORK IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
6> She only comes and sees me in d day and goes back to her house in d evenings.
7. before the fight..she deleted the boy's number from her phone..bt after the fight she saved the boys number back to her phone.

it hurts me everyday.pls i need comments. she keeps on saying she loves me...
before in d past we were so close like brother and sister...nw it is d opposite.
SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND..AND I SINCERLY LOVE HER....WEN I MEAN ONLY FRIEND..I MEAN ONLY FRIEND...I GAT NO OTHER FRIEND..BCAUSE SHE MADE ME SEE I CAN HAV ALL THE FRIENDS I NEED IN HER... BUT ALL THIS HAVE CHANGED WHEN SHE STARTED MIXING UP WITH PEOPLE.''

N.B: i am a young man and a student in my finals..i am nt poor bt i am comfortable..wen i mean comfortable i am....bt dis changes have been so shocking and it is tearing me apart.



Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay.
Can u b in this kind of relationship and be okay.
Bros!! Walai you be the authentic computerized mugu, nigeria has ever produce!! Infact I dey vex as am replying to this post because you really fall guy hand, maybe if you don't know, men rule the world, without us, they will starve to death for good passionate SE.X and yet you get beating simply because a bit.ch you are seeing,sees you as the weak type of guy! Am very sure this Bitc.t must have set you up with that guy... God, first the feelings I have for the girl that moment is bye gone or maybe na gonebye and she will regret crossing my part!!! She gave you green light after the beating yet you still come low and weak to accept her of which after that the bit.ch lay down rules and regulation for the bobo ode, on how she will always come to visit you!!! Thank your star sey am not God, I will sink you to hell without even weighing your deeds because you are disgrace and idiot to the man-hood!!! If you value your life! A lot of Bitc.hs are out there ready for your tpye!! If you don't you know, she does care about the friendship you guys shared in the past, the present guy is blowing her puss.y away, like bomb wey explode.. Who knows maybe the guy have licked her kitty on several occassion when u bang her missionary style and don't think am mean about my comment but you disgrace God when u got beating for the sake of common one naira TOT.O wey no get value for naija boys market!! I know you are having a big bang emotional trouble but its time you look forward on how to mess a lot of them in camp when u finish.. Most of them are now desperate, we make them know they have no value again... Peace out
RomanceRe: Baby Mommas And Marriage, Love, Relationship by dealordea(m): 3:19pm On Apr 30, 2012
Most people don't wish to get pregnant out of wedlock, they just seems to be tired of single life and tend to appeal family of friends around them, that they have a man around the corner and I see this happening due to the rate the modern society is turning to!! You see ladies earning more than her husband and been an africa man with different mentality! They just scared that such women tend to leave them someday which though happen. This listed women are career minded, they don't like to be pushed around due to the big pride that exist within them and politician buying them with gift and money, spending a night with them could earn woman a whooping 5 million naira per night where a man who is earning just 120K per month will be flogging the punny everyday and still complain which might later lead to break..
RomanceRe: Advice, My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Is Leaving Me. by dealordea(m): 12:45pm On Apr 28, 2012
Guy! She is using a mind game on you! If you fall, you are on a long thing! Better pick race, run 9.36 micro seconds, even pass usain bolt cos you are on the down side of hell! Leave her, women are many now to hang around some junkies who always deceive guys into marriage! You still have good years ahead of you, you've got goot grades and your future is bright, u just have to let go of love and focus.
RomanceRe: Boyfriend by dealordea(m): 9:36am On Apr 28, 2012
Oyinbo out smart you for this naija wey we dey and you are here complaining! I gas to tell you one true fact, if guy still claim he love you, my lady you are deceiving your self because my
Guy will not let go of been another country citizenship, have you ever wonder what kind of conversation they had before they venture into this relationship? There are many reason behind it but if I were you, I bet if I were you, I'll look for another man and start a better and healthy relationship with it because you might end up been the second banging bed at night when is oyinbo wife is out of the country. Gbam
RomanceRe: Men Why by dealordea(m): 12:38am On Apr 28, 2012
Can anybody tell me why some women tend to be with another when they are already married?
RomanceRe: I'm In A Dilemma Over Two Women by dealordea(m): 12:26am On Apr 28, 2012
Mogbe!! Nairaland girls will never have this kind of yansh!!!!my eye wan poke comit ni!!! Bros! Follow your heart, don't deceive urself into what u will later regret in life!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: UCL: Barcelona Vs Chelsea (2 - 2) On 24th April 2012 by dealordea(m): 8:35pm On Apr 24, 2012
KONI DAFUN PLATINI...UP CHELSEA
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Ain't she babe Beautiful by dealordea(m): 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2012
I nearly vomit the beans wey I dey eat this night!!! Were dem dey bring this naija grils from? Lawd have mercy, wonder what he was doing when she is been creates.. God, you mess up!!!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Newbie Here!!! by dealordea(m): 10:33pm On Apr 23, 2012
You will meet a lot of shi.t crazy dude!!
RomanceAkward Feelings by dealordea(op): 1:10pm On Apr 22, 2012
I was feeling akward sitting beside a gay guy in the cafe some few days ago and not the first time am meeting him there but my first time am sitting beside him and me been a lanky not type of a good for a gay guy, I couldn't help to just glance at the site this guy was checking out, kinda odd and I feel gross like putting him in jail but am not the guy that finger into people's life.. So another thing happen yesterday and this was not the first time am seeing this, he always come with banana and the cafe attendant is like junior brother to me and I was telling the cafe attendant to becareful about receiving banana from this guy because he doesn't share. With other's except this particular guy and who knows the gay guy might have a hidden agenda. But I wanted to know, if a gay is into a guy, would he go any lenght to get his admirer attention, by buying them gift and other stuff? Do gay get jealous?
Kinda odd.
RomanceRe: What Was Your First Reaction When Your First Love Broke Your Heart by dealordea(m): 4:55pm On Apr 19, 2012
Money was always my first priority before she came into the picture, thought have gotten it all because I was more into her. I have a double heart break the day she left me, first it was the death of a friend mom and later in the night, it was her turn, I couldn't cry when my friend mom was buried but the girl makes me cry for almost one week, weeping in the bathroom in the middle of the night when every human soul was enjoying their sleep! Gosh, I always feel like taken a big revenge, even setting her up for a rape! Lol but I learn to forgive because I found someone 100% better than her.
RomanceRe: Single Brothers Need To Stop Shying Away!!! We Single Ladies Wouldnt Bite.. by dealordea(m): 2:35am On Apr 19, 2012
I see someone is desperate...
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Sexkillz Are You Available, Can I Meet by dealordea(m): 2:32am On Apr 19, 2012
Kinda gay!! Out of here
RomanceRe: SHI.T. Happens Everyday by dealordea(op): 9:55am On Apr 18, 2012
[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]www.bullshit.com[/color][/quote]www.fu.ckyou.com
RomanceSHI.T. Happens Everyday by dealordea(op): 9:35am On Apr 18, 2012
My flat neighbour who was hausa just discover that our hausa gateman was nagging his wifey big time! I know ya all will be thinking its some nollywood story but this is happening for real and the whole building is bioling. Onething that seems to suprise me was that, yoU will never suspect this hajia was involve in such atrocities! Thought they always say hausa men have big joystick but how come the hajia was nagging the gateman!

Now am currently going for all the hajia in agege, thank God their husband only think of bureau de change.

Peace out
RomanceEver Witness Two Ladies Fight Before by dealordea(op): 5:35pm On Apr 12, 2012
Its been a while when have done a post here but i do frequent the romance section to read all interesting, laughable and dry thread on here but i have to make this brief on what am going to say. It all happen that i was going out with a friend of my today in is car and we came to a junction where alot of people gather up watching a very big show of two ladies exchange real slaps and big blows with each other, struggling to pull each other hair out and i was so freaking laughing because it seems two chicken are battling with each other for a single grain of corn..lol grin grin and what keeps me amazed is that, have never seeing ladies fought each other before and they seems to be half naked, not sending the passer by and i was just laughing because each of the ladies boobs are out and i wonder what could have caused this ladies struggling it out and if not that , we are in the car, i would have cam it live but just want to ask if any of you dude have ever witness such fight, how did you feel when u saw ladies fighting? Kind of gross but very funny and atleast, i got a free show to see those two tangling ...... stuff. wink

I know some of you would probably say, they are fighting because of men!!! which i think could be the reason!!

Peace out
Christianity EtcRe: Why Cant Our Religious Houses Help Our Youths by dealordea(m): 9:54am On Apr 10, 2012
Bullshit
TV/MoviesRe: Game Of Thrones Season 2 Is Out by dealordea(m): 9:03am On Apr 08, 2012
Am downloading the episode 3, you can always get the latest movie through express file. just install the application.. HAPPY EASTER lol grin grin

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