₦airaland Forum

SeverusSnape:
Yes, I always did,when i was still a guest. OP have you?

Unfortunately, yes. But that was in the past. Not anymore.

Equado:
Yes there is...by literally getting off the friend zone.....

Are there concrete steps?

Good morning, good people.

Most of us visit Nairaland almost everyday. It's a place we meet people and learn from one another. It can also a little addictive.

I've some people glued to their phones during a Sunday Service.

Have you ever visited Nairaland during a Sunday Service?

Yes, or No?

skelefish:
People sef, e get as dem take dey commont 4 friend zone again? Friendzone is overrated these days, na jobless pple like u first cum up with d word, I can't even find it in d dic. Op Get busy pls.

We come here to communicate with like minds and in the process learn some vital lessons for a better living.

U need not talk like an agbero. ....

Different people have different issues bothering their minds at different times.

Guys, a babe you intend to be romantically involved with has somehow dropped you into the bottomless pit called the Friend Zone?

It can be really frustrating to find yourself in the friend Zone.

Is there a way out?

radiant3:
Longer courtship periods does nt automatically translate to successful marriages,if care is nt taken,longer courtship periods could automatically translate to successful break up or unsuccessful marriages...

I believe the same thing.

Courtship is a period during which an intending couple try to know each other. It's a very crucial period in the relationship between the two.

How does the duration of a courtship impact a couple's marriage?

Does longer courtship periods automatically translate into successful marriages?

If not, can a couple get married a few weeks after meeting?

Grave consequences await the unwary. Let me start making prudent use of my meagre resources.

No time for further wastes.

Vikky014:
my dear am speechless oo i dnt knw y some girls are sooo dumb

Indeed some are really dumb. To be in love is to be responsible, not reckless. Certain things shouldn't be brought to public domain.

Corrupt midget! !!!!

100Cents:
Make use of your brain next time.

What the guy did is insulting to God and the worshippers and you are here feeling happy.

Most of you ladies are vain..

And you know this how?

youmour:
Ikr,I have warned her countless times oh,I usually delete them after viewing cos my nieces play with my phones alot

That's very thoughtful of you.

Emodeee:
here on nairaland, galz cn pretend. lie dat u've nvr send a guy ur unclad picture b4.

Hmmmm.....serious matter.

You're the weird one.

Life's all about making others happy; for in their happiness lies yours.

holyboss:

A man starts solving others problem when he has taken care of his physiological needs.

Recall Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs?

Vikky014:
hmmmm jst passing.

Don't just pass by. A lot of babes are killing themselves slowly. ..

[quote author=malaria post=28426345]Any girl that sends her nude pix to anyone whatever is a slut, any man that asks for such from any lady he claims to have serious relationship wit doesn't have respect for that lady shekina. What do u need the pix for. [/quote

Ask them? They are both perverts. ]

I read where an estranged guy uploaded his former babe's nude pictures because she jilted him.

And this happened a few months to this babe's wedding ceremony. It was disastrous.

I don't comprehend the version of love many girls play these days.

Just imagine what led to the avoidable death of a Nigerian graduate!

Education and academics na two different things!

RIP, my dear.

Ipledge:
I don't see anything in ladies sending their guys nude,but some guys are just crazy...i had a girl that send me nude almost every day but u can never see it on my phone ( I delete asap)

And to guys that show their ex nudity,it's nothing but hi-tech stupidity

You exemplified true love and maturity. If such pictures are kept secret and deleted almost immediately, I have no much issue with it.

It's very crazy for guys to upload their babe's nude photos to the Internet due to whatever reasons. It's plain stupidity.

Zeemoor:
Some guys ask for nudes so they'd keep it as a collateral for breakup

That's weird.

amolex:
absolutely rubbish, y will any body in his/her right sense agree to share such a picture...

It's pathetic. It's pure rubbish...

BreezyRita:
Not for me..... I don't do nudes......
Don't have mine, I don't need yours.

Period.

youmour:
My ex use to send me nudies without me asking for them,some ladies are just freaks like that

Men, it's crazy to have one's nude in the phones of another, be it a girlfriend or wife or vice versa.

All it need to float online is jut an accidental click.

olexjay:
Why must u share nude.... I think only d senseless peeps do dat, u gart the right 2 see ya gurl of guy body so y still sharing nude............. If ur nude leak with just a twinkle of eye ur matter don enter the net and u don become world wide know #shikenna

I agree with you. It's some kind of perversion. The craving is wrong.

The manner in which estranged boyfriends upload the nude pictures of their former babes is becoming disturbing.

In the last couple of weeks, I have read about 3 of such sad stories, not mentioning the once I heard. This is really ridiculous.

How would a babe allow her boyfriend to snap her stark naked? Is it the new trend?

Even when I was in the game, It never crossed my mind to have nudes of my woman. Is it love? How depressing is it for a lady to see her nude pictures recycled on the Internet! !!!!

Must a guy have his babe's nude pictures on his phone? Isn't it a perversion sort of?

Now ladies, do you also have your guy's nude pictures? I know most guys won't allow it.

So why allow them snap you stark naked? Love shouldn't suspend commonsense and practical wisdom.

Ladies, don't give a person a tool for a possible future blackmail; it's not love.

Tell them. Dem no dey hear.

Not all germs are harmful. I'll rather die than not kiss the luscious lips of my wife....

I love you, Eniye. ...

I know we are in a fast-paced century where everybody wants to do more using the limited available time. This consciousness is brought even into the academic, especially with the advent of the Internet and social media.

In recent times, people hardly spell their words fully. This is gradually killing our spelling ability. As a matter of fact, we do our thinking in abbreviations.

My little cousin sent me a text message this morning. I had to spend more than a minute trying to decipher a few lines. It was so annoying. For me, I see it as laziness and indiscipline. I hardly abbreviate my words. I like to spell my words in full. I had to send him a message why he should minimise his abbreviations. Some folks almost abbreviate every word.

We need to endeavour to spell our words fully.

Lumyboi:
It's seriously strange. As if something is fundamentally wrong with the brain of a typical Nigerian. We would support an obvious criminal cos of religious bias or ethnic bias....and so we have lost our sense of judgement between right and wrong. Most of the politicians are just a reflection of an average Nigerian mentality of power and money at all cost without working ...to oppress the people around so they can b seen as gods

The tunnel is so long, and there seems to be no light in sight. We indeed have a deeply flawed mentality.

Our leaders didn't fall from Pluto. They are from the wide society. We are in a deep mess.

petrov10:
Because. Americans black or white do not give a fuckck about u

Yeah. Bit at least they care about themselves. We don'teven care about one another.