₦airaland Forum

Until you know exactly what's the man's problem it will be hard to assume or conclude what could have been the problem.

Like someone mention, it could be financial issues, honestly 70% of men are affected by their financial status, while women are more emotional, most men are logical.
What is there to be enjoying when there are a lot of uncertainties.

On the other hand, it could be that some men are just promiscuous in nature and are fed up with the regular which is already boring.

Anyway just pray to marry someone who is a friend and is ready to share everything with you

Hmmmm... I can relate so well with your situation, but like someone said; everything that has an advantage, also has its disadvantage.
Do you think your relationship will work well with someone who is fully goal driven

The sad truth is she might not change, so both of you need to have a heart-to-heart talk and decide if you really want to take it to the next level despite your differences or part ways. One thing am certain is at some point she won't be happy if you keep attacking her about laid-back attitude to hustle like you.

On another level she could get the spark after a while but it's rare.
Have you also consider looking for what she is passionate about or good at? I mean passive skills, you could help her harness the skills. That could be a change...

Above all, there must be mutual understanding and don't force her into anything. If it doesn't work, then it's either you accept her as she is (be her provider) or let her go.

Good luck brother

The man should just divorce to the wife, because he is an irresponsible man, scripturally a man is expected to provide for his household.

As for the woman, she should have divorced the man instead of cheating on him. Both of them should part ways

Commrade just relax, she is just being free with you, why are you stressing yourself over nothing. If she isn't free with you then who else do you expect her to feel free with

Enjoy the moment though change is inevitable

mariahAngel:
To tell you the truth, it has not been that easy.
Especially with sellers of smaller food items like tomatoes, peppers, vegetables, soup ingredients.
To buy from sellers of these items, one has to have cash to pay, as they hardly accept transfer.

There's a trick I use to get little cash; I go to my bread seller, buy some bread pay through transfer, then I ask my bread seller to allow me transfer more, so that she could give me back in cash, and she's kind enough to oblige me.
That way, I'm able to buy the rest of the things I need.

So, how have you been coping?

The Mallam around my area has been so helpful... We go give him N300 for N5,000.

But most times we try making transfer for anything that we need.. las las we go dey alright...

Okorietitus:
That is why you should collect receipt when you buy something.

This your message funny o 🤣🤣🤣.
Which kine receipt you won give person wey buy human being Abi you don't know its a crime to buy human being

Make dem jail the buyer also...

Wait o.... Which kine receipt you won make them give human traffickers
Or aren't you aware selling of human is a crime

Okorietitus:
That is why you should collect receipt when you buy something.

Well for those of us that take it, technically there is nothing wrong with taking alcohol, its when you abuse it that it becomes an issue, however if a part of you feels is wrong then I would advise and suggest you try to abstain from it and look for other ways to escape the feeling

N.B
Anything done in excess is not good

Here is my 2 cent, continue with your plans, personally I would jave prefer you tell your spouse because nothing is hidden under the sun, one day, one day she will know about the child, the said ex might even want too use it to blackmail you.
As a man accept the responsibility, inform her and pray for finds to cater for your child.

All the best ������

E be like say baba no get house o, just tell bluntly that it's too early for you guys to be staying together as a couple besides na relationship, no be marriage

APC is playing her game very very well...

This man is shameless, truly all selfish and self centred. See the U-turn...��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️

They go hand in hand i.e. if you love me, you will respect me, if I respect you, then it means I love you #shikena

It is very possible, there are principles that govern this life we live in, and it has nothing to do with religion. It's sad that most billionaires engaged in shady things to acquire their wealth.

My own concen is how many people do you wanna shank before you settle down The only reasonable justification I suppose is a virgin guy should marry a virgin girl simple and short. Sin is sin

How this one take concern me

Bros... a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, if both of you can not settle your differences, and learn to work together in love and respect, then I think you guys should take a walk from the relationship in a matured way. My kindly advise... 2 boss can not drive a ship, one must be ready to follow either you or her but one person must be ready to step down. All the best

A wise man once said, "it is better to live your with the hope that God does exist and be proven wrong , than to live your life like he doesn't exist and have external regrets"

As for the unanswered prayer please read:
Deuterolomy 29 vs 29

Find out how you can receive up to N2million grant as an Entrepreneur to run your business and Students in Nigerian Universities can receive up to 500,000 while those studying in the United Kingdom can receive up to 3,000 pounds and those in the United States can receive up to 5000 US Dollars. visit www.yesgrant.com to find out how to access this grant

Find out how you can receive up to N2million grant as an Entrepreneur to run your business and Students in Nigerian Universities can receive up to 500,000 while those studying in the United Kingdom can receive up to 3,000 pounds and those in the United States can receive up to 5000 US Dollars. visit www.yesgrant.com to find out how to access this grant

Bros... it's simple logic, if your 3 month salary can not pay your house rent, then you are leaving at a lose, do the maths yourself, you could go less but it shouldn't exceed that...

MarvelJ:
Sorry I dont get your sentence.

[b][/b]it's only a Fool that says in his heart that there is no God....
Science can bring formulas and theories but trust me somethings are far beyond explanation, I don't know about you but I know there is a God that is Supreme