NovesaTillie:


He's been helpful in chores and Other stuff

You will end up pregnant if you are not careful

E be like say baba no get house o, just tell bluntly that it's too early for you guys to be staying together as a couple besides na relationship, no be marriage

He is good in bed
He helps in house chores
He is a nice guy
What are you still waiting for?
Go pay his Grooms price already
This is 21 Century
Things are going upside down now.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

the bolded is the point; never you you miss a guy who is too good in bed, remember we are rare and very difficult to find. You must know that ur engine boat need a good sailor to steam u in the mood and makes u feel like a woman you are

The moment I saw this on front page, I knew it was u who posted it..lol

lilvicky68:
He eats a lot, snores a lot,

and also fûcks alot..add his good side jare

Come enter heave with the bolded let me see...

That one na her own budget from him..good sex

but he is good in bed now ,just enjoyed with him

Good

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

He stayed over, you complained. He left, you complained, now he’s back and you are complaining. You better decide whether you want this relationship or not.

. You're very right. That was how I met one useless guy the first question he asked was if I live alone and he goes on saying how he'll love me and I won't regret dating him

Hmmmmmm. What a world.

The moment I saw this trend the first thing o did was to make sure you are not in abuja....and you actually are in abuja......one thing abuja guys are known for is to squat in their girlfriends house...be wise girl...speaking from experience

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

SocialJustice:
Homeless boyfriend, them full Abuja and Lagos.

Eject that fucker out of your apartment. Tell him it's too early to move in together.

You're dating the lowest class of men.

one of the highest car dealer in abuja was once homeless, four years ago he bought a house for the security man who allowed him to stay at the bq of the house he works since his boss stays abroad

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Lolz. Wrong forum for advise

Wahala be like what again?

Where distance is tearing some relationships apart over-familiarity and too much closeness is puncturing some others.

But seriously, I want to ask, what sort of man sleeps over at a girl's house? I bet such guys were absent when God was programing shame into human traits.

Weep him comot your apartment..

This one na yeye boyfriend

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

What kind of Nigeria movie is this ? A grown up man moved into a lady's house and feels comfortable?

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

You dey crase, accept him that way, abi you forget say na woman dey
Marry man this days

Hobosexual

Well, start by talking about the initial plan, which was to go to his place for the new year celebration. However he responds to that should determine what you do next. If he doesn't want to follow the plan any more, then something's fishy about him. Make your stand known to him without mincing words.


This is one of the nasty things I hate about relationship. People start taking you for granted and starts to violate protocols anyhow.

You dated for 5 good months with little misunderstanding. You didn't state the misunderstanding. This is a case of psychological manoevring, relationship manipulation, area-of-strength versus area-of-weakness strategy. systematic compromising of trust issue. Please, wise up else he WILL wreck you to pieces. Firstly, he deceived you by asking you to come to his house then returned the favor by coming to your house, then staying permanently. Moreover, after getting comfortable in your home, he will now feels he is entitled to what you own. Next, he will start controlling you including how you manage your finances. Again, your foodstuffs will be replenished on a daily basis. You didn't state if he work. If the reverse is the case, get ready to be babysitting him. You said he snore, well, can you cope with that when you finally settled down with him? In a nutshell, sit him down and have a face-me-I-face-you chat with him without any form of pretense. If he intend to stay with you, he should be ready to bear

You're dating the lowest class of men.

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@bolded! I love that part

lowest class of men indeed!

SocialJustice:
Homeless boyfriend, them full Abuja and Lagos.

Eject that fucker out of your apartment. Tell him it's too early to move in together.

You're dating the lowest class of men.

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

I don laugh fall from bed

You
Don
Buy
Market



Person wey get head no get cap,
And person wey get cap no get head

He is good in bed, but he is homeless,

Why this life no balance self.

Him no get house no worry. Y are u apprehensive, u no like am? Speak up now or hold ur peace till marriage

E dey sweet me !

E dey sweet me !!


Old woman don carry belle

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

So the relationship is just for the nacking and house chores? Don't you guys discuss and plan the future together?

Sit him down and ask questions. His rent may have been due and he can't renew it.

ifex370:
Wahala everywhere ...



I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

I swear I don tire walahi

You don catch Bleep boy. Congrats!

ifex370:
Wahala everywhere ...


I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

Wahala be like tricycle.

This girl funny, or is she confuse?