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Family / Re: Confusion In My Very Young Marriage by Dejex4(m): 6:51am On Feb 28, 2020
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Family / Re: I Don’t Enjoy Sex With My Wife - Man Cries Out by Dejex4(m): 6:49am On Feb 28, 2020
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Crime / Re: The Man Who Jumped Into Lagoon On Third Mainland Bridge Was Dumped By Girlfriend by Dejex4(m): 6:48am On Feb 28, 2020
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Romance / Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Dejex4(m): 10:04pm On Feb 23, 2020
WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello
My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Please I need matured advice


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Family / Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Dejex4(m): 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2020
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Before I got married to my husband we had a kind of perfect relationship. I just thought he was the perfect guy. He always checked on me. I did feel like he was marrying me for ulterior motives and everyone else just thought so too. My brothers warned me that he is not going to treat me right but I just feel drawn to him. I thought he just really cared about me. He seemed different.

I introduced him to my dad and my dad asked if I was sure and yes at that moment I was. Then shortly before the wedding his true colors started to come out. I never checked his phone but then a friend caught her boyfriend cheating so I decided to just check it. Guys I understand people say that if you go looking you will find something but I actually don't really believe that why is there always something that is the main point. I checked his phone and found one boob pic and pics of his old exes. I was SO shocked. Honestly, I never thought I would find anything. He told me that he recently got his phone updated and the pic was a pic of a celebrity. But I was smarter than that I saw that it was actually an "Auntie" that sent the pic so basically one of his contacts. I was so shocked, didn't know what to do. I told my brother he told me to just pray and I did and I felt like he was still the one he apologized and assured me that he was going to change.

Fast forward to a few months later I see a girl's pic in his phone his good friend's girlfriend and he was commenting on her looks very gross-like. I lost it and we fought but he assured me it was just guy talk.

Then again I recently found him talking to his good friend about another girl's boobs and he never tells me he loves me any longer. Never really truly cares. He even brought up divorce if I wanted to do it. So I am just kind of stuck. I do want to get a divorce honestly if my parents and his would not get involved. But we have a child together. I am not sure what to do right now. Why would he do this to me? Why get married if you don't love the person. I understand that people say guys will be guys and locker room talk but if you don't love that person deeply and truly then why marry them and make a vow before God.

Now I don't know what to do. He is always so rude in the way he talks. I can't remember the last time he took me out and even if he did I am sure it would be a dry conversation. I think he really is just worried about what people say and not really losing me any longer. He has this thing where he wants to always look like a nice guy. So my question is if you were in this position how would you leave? Oh he also looks at my friends and claims he never was when it is pretty obvious. He drank a little and then started winking at my friend.




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Family / Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Dejex4(m): 6:29pm On Feb 22, 2020
Kemight15:
This is why I'm scared of marriage embarassed
I'm 25 and I don't think of marrying anybody


Please leave that man ASAP before it's too late



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That kinda of thought might need futher clarification
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Was Caught Flirting With Her Ex On Whatsapp by Dejex4(m): 11:38am On Feb 22, 2020
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Culture / Institutionalization And Its Demerits by Dejex4(m): 11:35am On Feb 22, 2020
Institutionalization are societal standard on things, which later become societal norms and culture.
Institutionalized ideas doesn't need any backing but might also become a way of life due to acceptance example include
1. Ladies getting married before 29
2. A man must purpose before marriage
3. Love is built only with money
4. comparison of achievement and lifestyle amongst people
5. Education as the key to survival.


This things are built around the society and as such become principles and guidance to growth and development

Demerits include
1. Emotional disability
2. Peer pressure and societal pressure
3. Shift of culture, language and beliefs
4. Judgemental criticism on issue that doesn't relate with you
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They help maintain institution stability.

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Romance / Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Dejex4(m): 5:40pm On Feb 21, 2020
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Crime / Re: 17-Year-Old Girl Raped By 3 Guys, Aged 14, 16 And 24 by Dejex4(m): 5:38pm On Feb 21, 2020
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Romance / Re: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by Dejex4(m): 5:02pm On Feb 20, 2020
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Family / Re: My Wife Forgets Our Anniversary - Does She Love Me? by Dejex4(m): 9:12pm On Feb 19, 2020
You need to restructure the problem of forgetting date to the actual fact you don't understand, why she is changing so fast.


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Family / Re: How Do I Ask My Cousin To Leave My House? by Dejex4(m): 6:18pm On Feb 19, 2020
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Literature / Re: 5 Reasons Love Scenes Are Important In Storytelling by Dejex4(m): 6:52am On Feb 19, 2020
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Family / Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Dejex4(m): 10:08pm On Feb 18, 2020
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Romance / Re: The Good-Guy Secret of Keeping Women Always Smiling [Chat] by Dejex4(m): 10:07pm On Feb 18, 2020
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Romance / Re: Ladies, What's Your Reason for Rejecting Suitors? by Dejex4(m): 10:06pm On Feb 18, 2020
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Education / UNICEF Recruitment In Nigeria For A TA Reports Specialist by Dejex4(m): 9:54am On Jan 10, 2017
UNICEF contributes to the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals in Nigeria with a mandate to advocate for the protection of children’s rights, to help meet their basic needs and to expand their opportunities to reach their full potential.

UNICEF’s Nigeria Country Programme:

Aims to accelerate the realization of the rights of all children and women to survival, development, protection and participation.

Promotes efforts to reduce infant, child and maternal mortality; expand access to quality basic education; and strengthen social and child protection systems.
Uses a rights-based and gender-sensitive approach

Job Title: TA Reports Specialist P3

Purpose of the Position
Under the supervision of the Chief, Polio Communication and in consultation with the Chief, Health and other Programme Staff, the incumbent will be responsible for monitoring, reviewing, compiling, and editing of English-language proposals and reports for donors, ensuring that they are in line with criteria set out in official guidelines and directives, and in line with agreement/stipulations.
The incumbent will work also with Programme Officer (budget) to help monitor the large programme budget of over $100 million a year

Key Expected Results

Compile, edit and disseminate mandatory UNICEF reports. Ensure quality assurance and adherence to criteria set out in Executive Directives/Guidelines, UN/UNICEF policy papers, GPEI and polio plans, donor contract stipulations etc.
Act as focal point for the handling of all queries from headquarters, regional/country offices and Nigeria based staff, regarding programme budget, funding commitments and donor contributions
Update and maintain information on all the donor and programme reporting requirements. Assist tracking and provide regular updates of donor fund utilization at different levels
Assist in developing fundraising proposals, ensure that proposals and reports meet the guidance shared, and stipulations applied, by donors. Maintain a coherent system for tracking reports due working closely with the health section and Programme Monitoring and Evaluation sections.
Assist prepare management indicators reports, DCT reports and the operations quarterly reports.
Qualifications of Successful Candidate

Education
Master’s degree in social sciences or related technical field, with strong writing skills and expertise in budget management. Two to three years of progressively responsible professional work experience at national and international levels.

First university degree with additional two-years ofrelevant work experience is acceptable in lieu of anadvanced university degree.

Work Experience
Five years of progressively responsible professional work experience at national and international levels.

Language
Fluency in English is required.

Competencies of Successful Candidate

Core Values
Commitment Diversity
Inclusion Integrity
Core Competencies

Communication
Working with People
Drive for Results
Functional Competencies

Formulating Strategies and Concepts
Applying technical expertise
Learning and Researching
Planning and Organizing
Remarks
The successful candidate for this emergency recruitment MUST be available to commence work within 31 days of receiving an offer.

Please note that is a non-family duty station.

Employment is conditional upon receipt of medical clearance, any clearance required, the grant of a visa, and completion of any other pre-employment criteria that UNICEF may establish. Candidates may not be further considered or offers of employment may be withdrawn if these conditions are unlikely to be met before the date for commencement of service.
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Education / FUTMINNA Has Expelled 700 Students In The 2015/2016 Academic Session – VC by Dejex4(m): 9:34am On Jan 10, 2017
[/b]The Federal University of Technology, Minna, has expelled 700 students for various offences ranging from bad behaviour to poor academic performance in the 2015/2016 academic session.
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The institution’s vice-chancellor, Prof. Musbau Akanji, revealed this on Thursday during the 30th matriculation ceremony of the university in Minna.

Akanji said the majority of the students were expelled due to low academic performance and anti-social behaviour.

According to him, the university has cancelled the practice of awarding pass mark for first degree courses, while the score has been raised. Consequently, most of those expelled did not score above 1.5 out of a possible GPA of 5.0.

He said the university hopes to reduce the high rate of failures recorded last year, adding that tutorial lecturers from the Postgraduate School would be engaged to assist the students.

The vice-chancellor, however, advised the matriculated students as well as all the students to be committed to their studies, urging them to shun examination malpractice, cultism, theft, and illicit drug use, adding that the university had set up the Committee Against Anti-Social Activities to monitor students who engage in anti-social ..
Education / FUTMINNA Has Expelled 700 Students In The 2015/2016 Academic Session – VC by Dejex4(m): 9:28am On Jan 10, 2017
[/b]The Federal University of Technology, Minna, has expelled 700 students for various offences ranging from bad behaviour to poor academic performance in the 2015/2016 academic session.
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The institution’s vice-chancellor, Prof. Musbau Akanji, revealed this on Thursday during the 30th matriculation ceremony of the university in Minna.

Akanji said the majority of the students were expelled due to low academic performance and anti-social behaviour.

According to him, the university has cancelled the practice of awarding pass mark for first degree courses, while the score has been raised. Consequently, most of those expelled did not score above 1.5 out of a possible GPA of 5.0.

He said the university hopes to reduce the high rate of failures recorded last year, adding that tutorial lecturers from the Postgraduate School would be engaged to assist the students.

The vice-chancellor, however, advised the matriculated students as well as all the students to be committed to their studies, urging them to shun examination malpractice, cultism, theft, and illicit drug use, adding that the university had set up the Committee Against Anti-Social Activities to monitor students who engage in anti-social ..
Crime / Sexual Madness: 70 Year Old Man Rapes A Girl Of Age 8 by Dejex4(m): 6:56am On Nov 10, 2016
The Ogun State Police Command has arrested a 70-year-old man, Gabriel Akindele, for allegedly raping an eight-year-old girl, who is deaf and dumb.
The incident was said to have happened on Tuesday on Michael Ayegusi Street, Owode Ijako, in the Ado-Odo/ Ota Local Government Area of the state.
The state Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi, said the suspect was arrested following a complaint from the mother of the victim.
He said, “The mother, who noticed an unusual behaviour from the girl after the incident, used sign language to inquire from her daughter.
“The girl informed her of the incident, which prompted the mother to report the matter to the police.”
Oyeyemi, an Assistant Superintendent of Police, said after a complaint was made about the matter, the Divisional Police Officer, Sango Ota, Akinsola Ogunwale, detailed detectives to the scene; and the old man was subsequently arrested.
The PPRO said the suspect allegedly confessed to the crime.
Oyeyemi added that it was discovered that he lured the girl to the toilet where he raped her.
He added that the Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Iliyasu, had directed that the case be transferred to Anti-Human Trafficking and Child Labour Unit of the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, Abeokuta, for proper investigation.


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Foreign Affairs / President Donald Trump Profile by Dejex4(m): 9:39am On Nov 09, 2016
The Donald Trump you first came across depends largely on the decade in which you spent your formative years.
If you were raised in the 1970s, it will be the fledgling New York property developer working on renovating some of the city's most iconic buildings with what he would later describe as a "small loan of a million dollars" from his father.
In the '80s, the now-accomplished businessman became widely known for his New York Times bestseller, The Art of the Deal, in which he detailed the path to his riches.
The '90s made Trump a fixture of popular culture as the owner of the Miss Universe beauty pageant and a cameo actor in some of the decade’s most popular TV shows and movies, including Home Alone 2, Sex and the City, and the Fresh Prince of Bel Air .
By the turn of the millennium, Trump reached global stardom with the TV show The Apprentice. His signature phrase, "You're fired", aimed at losing contestants on the show, took on a life of its own as one of the staple catchphrases of the reality TV era.
The jump between business and politics has never been grand, and Trump flirted with the idea of several political candidacies from the '80s onwards.
For two decades from 1988, the property mogul drifted between the Democrats and the Republicans but finally settled on the Republican

Phones / Huawei Mate 9 Phones Unveiled After Note 7 Meltdown by Dejex4(m): 9:21am On Nov 09, 2016
Huawei has launched new large-screened smartphones in the wake of Samsung's Galaxy Note 7 disaster.
The Mate 9 handsets are among the first to be powered by Android 7 and come in two designs: a model with a 1080p "full HD" display, and a Porsche-branded edition with nearly twice the resolution.
The Chinese company says it has also tackled smartphones' tendency to slow down over time.
But one expert said Western consumers were still uncertain about its brand.
"Huawei has never been a company to miss an opportunity, and it seems as though it has moved mountains to get the Mate 9 to market as quickly as possible," said Ben Wood, from the CCS Insight consultancy.
"But the phone is not a like-for-like comparison with the Note 7 - for one, it doesn't have a stylus.
"Huawei's brand also doesn't have the status of Samsung as yet.
"That's why it seems to be blending its brand with others.
"So, for the camera, it has partnered with Leica, and for the limited edition model, it has worked with Porsche.
"But Blackberry also partnered with Porsche in the past, and although that generated interest and created a halo-effect for other products, they didn't sell massive volumes."
Explosive fault
Samsung scrapped its Note 7 phablets last month after dozens of the devices caught fire.
The South Korean company initially thought a battery fault was to blame, and switched its own component for a third-party power cell.
But the problems continued, and after failing to identify the cause, Samsung halted production and said it was scrapping the 4.3 million handsets it had already manufactured.
Like the Note 7, Huawei's new phones also feature a "supercharging" battery technology that promises to deliver a day's worth of power within 30 minutes and a full two-day charge in 90 minutes.
The company's senior product manager, Michael Seitz, told the BBC that the system had been through a nine-month development and testing process and had been checked by an independent research lab.
"It keeps really cool in your hand even while recharging," he said.
Several analysts have suggested Huawei is best placed to benefit from Samsung's setback.
Apple underestimated demand for its largest model, the iPhone 7 Plus, leading to a backlog in orders.
And Google has acknowledged having a similar problem with its Pixel XL phone.
It has also locked itself into exclusive deals with single operators in the US, UK and Australia - struck before the Note 7 fiasco - which will limit sale

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