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Hey my dear if you could get someone to coach you daily and then practise on your own because practise makes perfect, then you might be able to make it depending on your interest and determination. Keyboard learning varies for individuals. Some learn fast while others don't. It's a matter of interest, seriousness and focus. If you're a beginner, then you've got a lot of work to do. I'm not trying to scare you but simply saying the fact.

Try out some advice given in this thread. Search the internet.

Don't forget, be determined.

Sorry about that kbstar. I have never been molested by anyone of them and don't pray to be. It pains me to see or hear people being maltreated by those who ought to protect them.

God help us oooooo.

Okay one of the ways we can fix it is by starting from ourselves. Since we're now aware of our rights, we should decide not to give any form of bribe and insist on our rights. I think that's a way to start, at least that would be setting examples for others to follow.

Secondly, try to educate as many people as possible about their little rights when arrested, they should be told why they were arrested, they should know they can't be detained for more than 24hrs (except for certain sensitive crimes) and also insist on a lawyer of their choice.

I won't feel comfortable if I don't say this before I stop. Be prepared to face the beatings and sometimes frame-up from the cruel and heartless police officers who don't know any other thing apart from money if you insist on all of the above.

Christyne, so you believe you can "mould" someone to your taste? Could you kindly tell me how you can achieve that?

@ lauryn, do you believe there's no indecent dressing?

I can't believe someone is saying there's no such thing as indecent dressing. I wonder what the world is becoming. Do you know that there are people who do things that are bad and they know it, yet they keep doing it due to their selfish motives.

Wake up people, there is something called indecent dressing.

Hi Ify, DE-KING welcomes you to nairaland.

I know you'd love it here. God be with you.

You're beautiful girl. I mean you're sweet and also pretty and ....I even lack adjectives to describe you. You see.

There's just one problem responsible for all this and that is corruption. Or how can you explain the case of one awaiting trial for up to 10 years? Is it that the right authorities aren't aware? Is it that the money isn't there to build larger prisons with good facilitites so as to help reform the prisoners during their stay in the prison? Why won't a case be tried as soon as the evidences are glaring?

There are too many questions begging for answers but have been denied answers by the big monster - corruption, plauging our lovely nation.

May God help us.

No human has the power to change another human, so quit trying to change anyone. The only thing you can do is to influence him/her. Who knows, he/she could just start adapting to it unconsciously.

If you love someone, then love them in totality which includes accepting their weaknesses with the view of influencing them for good.

Thanks ocho,
a BIGGGGGGGG AMEN for you.

In that case, the woman has a lot of work to do in convincing the guy about that coz guys aren't that easy to convince on such things but I still get your point except for the fact that it's easier said than done.

Snazzydawn - nice, nice , nice, good points

whiteshark - white sometimes and black someother times

mide2:
all well ke ? how can all be well in such an abominable r/ship

I wonder oh

Rolly, I agree with you but you see if money or material things are involved, at one time or another, it would always come up to bug one of the partners, esp. if it's the woman that's got more of it.

Men are created to be the head of the home, relationship and their likes, so when they find themselves lacking in any aspect, they'ld rather bow out.

I agree with you ariel.
"remember change is the constant thing in life"

- Get much closer to God
- Do much better in school
- Do much better at work
- Have a financial target to hit before the end of the year come what may.
- Most importantly, affect people around me positively in the little ways I can.

AMEN.

O.k then. Now, I get it. Welcome again.

I was searching for Gulder Ultimate Search 2 via Google search and came across nairaland.

I wasn't hooked. I was Kinged and now I can't get out. So much fun.

Welcome to the land of joy and harmony, Matureme. As you cruise this land, may you enjoy this land maturely.

Welcome to nairaland Lady B.

Can I ask you a question here? O.k...why Lady B? There's no "B" in Fadekemi.

Just curious

linda:
Why not? It's just expressing your love for a member of your family, that's all! Don't be scared of love.

Linda

What kind of love would that be if I may ask? Thought of any consequence?

linda:
In most of the world, it is legal to marry your cousin anyway.

Good you said it, not in all parts. Is he from that part of the world?

loriann, I believe mide2 said that because the guy in question kept it from the lady for so long. We are different you know, so that could be devasting for her and lead to the end of the realtionship. Why keep it for so long only to tell when you have both gotten deep into each other?
2ndly I read it and wasn;t jumping, o.k.

Like you said, let's pray so we ( I mean we) don't fall into such.

brick:
Mariaz  let me ask u this. did u have a talk with him one on one before u decided to break up the relationship? if u didnt, i guess u should. but if u indeed had quite a serious talk with him on this issue, i guess he would have either evaded the topic/ question or told u the problems (family or anything) hindering such commitment. by now u should have a clear picture of your stand with the guy. if the problems are surmountable and the guy has come with the intention of making such commitment, i sugest u give him a chance if he indeed has clear plan that shows a suggestable time frame.

Well said buddy.

legry:
My question is What made him not to commit, Finance ? Fear ? Parents ? i think the answer to this question would give a clearer pic to the situation

I think likewise because 6 years is no joke.

No love can sustian you on this when the gods of our land starts giving you knocks, not just on your head, but on every part of your body for committing ....... you fill in the gaps.

The end of a matter is better than it's beginning.

I wonder what growing up and faking up realities has got to do with deciding to or not to marry a single parent?

Misplaced thoughts, I guess.

Who says my namesake isn't pretty enough. Of course she is. Both of them are okay facially and on set. I don't want to choose.

Different occassions call for different dressings. As long as you have the wrong dress for the wrong moment, that's indecency. What is meant to be worn only in the home at night is indecent when worn in the streets in broad day light.

What's that person's intention, huh?

Hey K.C, sorry about all that. If you notice, I've appreciated all you've been doing so far. Just accept my appreciation as an overall appreciation from them sweetie.

Have a very merry Xmas and a wonderful and more creative new year.

No matter how much you love the person, you'ld always be reminded that you're involved in a love competition either directly or indirectly. So pluto04, you've seen my point that love isn't enough.

Asking you to pay for the child's school while dating the mother, I think, is ridiculous and a trial to see if you really would love the child as much as the mother.
the factt is that it is not that simple!

All well said so far but some of us haven't taken time to consider some things which are pertinent (important). Love isn't enough.

1st, if whoever has the child tells the other party early enough, it's now left for him or her to decide either to continue with the relationship or quit.

2nd, in deciding, it's just that simple because the child comes 1st in the life of his/her single parent especially if the single parent is a female simply because the child is her flesh and blood and would always come first.

3rd, the real decision comes in here. If I can love the child's mother (i.e the single parent) then I'll go ahead not forgetting that I have to love the child as much as I love the mother.
Now the question are - Can I truelly love two people equally? Won't jealousy find it's way into my life with time?

Answers to these questions, I think, would help in my final decision.