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@ donaoge:

Good question. But for adults, everything in life is a choice, so let people choose what they want to believe.

After all, we were thought some theories in schools and asked to believe it but no one bothers to prove it.

Hey Hotty baby, you can see clearly, it's ME! How are you doing? Well, I'm okay. I didn't really disappear, I only left after somethings happened and I just didn't want to get offended. Sometimes I come in once in a while to see what's going on, but I just don't know, I sign out in no time.

I seem to be a little regular now and that's because Snazzy sent me a link that has to do with "reunion", I followed the link to NL. I was glad to still see people like you, Nike, Wesley, K2Dac, Nddy, Eveseh and also surprisingly at the end of the thread, "Priest Layi". I thought I could post one or two things but I guess the almighty Landlord had locked the thread because I couldn't see the reply button and he even welcomed Layi telling him that hope he knows that he (Seun) will eventually close or delete the thread. I saw the way some of this newbies were acting up and I really don't flow with all that, so I just felt to come in once in a while and anytime I feel like. I MISS YOU GUYZ. I wish NL was what it used to be but I still wish the land Success unlimited.

You asked me of my e-wife. What is wrong with all of you? Eh? I don't think I know what you're talking about. Maybe you should make it clearer

@Wesley, well, it was princess who came up with the "she's just your", maybe she should tell me or us.

your what? talk nah.

@ Wesley, you had better look for her . And who told you we're married, Eh? Were you the Pastor or Rev. or Father or Priest that joined us? Answer me now now because if you don't, eh.

@queen2, we ain't married, she's just my,

Why? I left her with you guys and now you tell me you don't know where she is?

Hey, don't tell me you aren't reliable and trustworthy. Don't let me loose confidence in you, so, the next time I come to here, I come here, I want to see her. OKAY?

And by the way, where is every other person?

Missing? You guyz make sure you look for her & bring her back or else,
Well, I've been away. I just decided to stay away for sometime. So, how una dey?

Huh! everywhere seems so dry now. Eeya.
Where's my baby?

curiousNja, could please answer the question now by telling us whether or not you would test your fiance? It might not neccesarily be with sex, you know something just to be double sure. You never can tell.

curiousNja:
Deking, the guy you described is one hell of an idiot!

And why did you say that if I may ask?

Why is everyone crucifying the guy simply because he did what he felt was right for him to do, 'just to be sure'? I don't seem to get it.

hey eveseh, i don't seem to get what you're trying to say with all those emoticons.

decency, all that time, did you know if he felt the same way about you?

For how long did you live in that world of fantasy where you wished you were locked in a relationship with him?

Hahahahaha

lioness, can you prove it because I know it's false?

Don't allow boys descend on you oo

Hahahaha . If I may ask lioness, who gave boys that?

Shockreaction, tell them.

Gridlocks and Smartsoft, men, those were points.

I won't blame girls who do that, some simply do it to guard against playazz. If you know what I mean.

Guys, if any girl fronts for you and you know she's really down with you within her and you're ready for a serious relationship, make her jealous with either your sister, cousin or friend as long as she doesn't know them.

Like some of the things roses has said already, you need to carry on doing what you like doing. If you have good female friends who you're close to, you never can say, it could be one of them. I ain't a relationship expert but this is what I have to say.

If you see someone you think you like, just compliment every little thing she does for instance, "I love your new hairstyle", (eventhough the hairstyle isn't wonderful) , if you see her down, ask her what the problem is and try as much as possible to listen to her. Give her advices on possible ways to ameliorate her situation. After about 2 times of such advice, she would start drawing close and from there, you'd start to learn her kind of person and see the "true" her. You could then know whether to initiate a move or not from what you've seen so far.

I wouldn't really say you're shy like some already said. That virtually everyone is doing a thing at a particular point in time and you're not doesn't mean you're not up to it. Maybe you don't want to and when it's time, it's natural to be nervous and feel that way since it's going to be your first.

If you're really serious about the real thing, I would advice that if you believe in God, just tell it to Him before you make any move.

Take care.

I once had such a strong feeling for someone while in High school. I knew she had the same feelings for me because we could gist for a long time without getting tired. We would always want to sit together in class. If she's not clear about something, she'd ask me and if I'm not clear about something I'd ask her. She goes for lunch and she returns with something for me and all that.

>Why couldn't you say it?
I wasn't sure I was ready for such., besides, she was Muslim.

>Did he/she end up with someone that hurt him/her and did you blame yourself for that?
I don't even know coz it's been long since I last saw her or even spoke with her.

>Do you think it would or wouldn't have worked out?
If I have given it the chance it moight have worked.

>For how long did you live in that world of fantasy where you wished you were locked in a relationship with him/her?

For up to 2yrs.

Personally, I won't. Why venture into a relationship that I won't get anything from but either break someone's heart or get mine broken? . Can't do it.

She might come with the mind that she wants something serious and I'd end up breaking her heart just because I'm into it for the fun of it. It;s painful playing with other people's delicate hearts.

Seun:
Go and sin no more!

Truelly.

That would encourage others to go into such and say to themselves, "is it not 6 months jail term?"

What we are saying is to be fair to all.

That's Nigeria for us. Just imagine after all those charges.
If it were a common man who has nobody in power or no money to buy justice was charged for crossing the express road or even someone who was wrongly accussed, probably picked up from a riot scene, he would be left in the prison awaiting trial for not less than a year or even more.

What we have here is no Presidency, it's no Legislation and it's no Judiciary.

What we have is no Justice and absolutely "NO DEMOCRACY".

May God help this country.

Rottweiler:
The other day, a beauty pagent contender, who happened to be a graduate of Interior Decor, was asked which color of rug would she use in decorating the staircase in a bungalow and she confidently said COLOUR RED.

Rottweiler, you got me cracking my ribs there

Omo na wah ooo.

Personally there have been times I had feelings and I mean strong feelings for someone but never poke out. It really hurts sometimes you know? For the sharp, fast and intelligent ones, they might have known but waiting for you  to make the correct moves. I use the word "feelings" and not "love" since I never had the opportunity to be in a relationship with that person to actually know if it's love or not.

Sometimes I ask myself, what would it have been like or how would it have ended if I had said something about my feelings to her?

So guys let it out. Have you ever had such a strong feeling for him/her but couldn't say it.

>Why couldn't you say it?
>Did he/she end up with someone that hurt him/her and did you blame yourself for that?
>Do you think it would or wouldn't have worked out?
>For how long did you live in that world of fantasy where you wished you were locked in a relationship with him/her?

Please

Guys, answer the above questions and please try to be honest; afterall you didn't say it then so, why not just pour out your mind here.

Going by the confirmed news of the outbreak of bird flu in Nigeria, the FG ahs air-marked the sum N2 billion as initial funds to be given out as compensation to affected farmers on the basis of N250 per bird in order to conserve their capital.

Urgent steps should be taken as to deal with it before it spreads into other states in the country.

On behalf of all Nls, I welcome you to nairaland. We no dey collect "owo ile" so no pay anything ooo

@ mizkay, why tell him sorry?

According to her, she's made her mistakes and has learnt from them. But I still believe that her blaming producers, directors and cameramen for her bad image is out of it. They might have contributed in a way but no one forced her into it initially. Infact she invited them with the audacious display of her boobs.

About her turning a new leaf, well, from what I read from that link, she kind of sounds changed but time will tell.

If not that the movies she featured in were banned by the censors board, would she change?

It's not so easy and funny for the one you love not to love you as much but I guess it's the price you've got to pay for loving him/her.

I no need to talk my own

@snazzy, huh You sure say you no dey long for .......... fill in the gap