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@ Latoya, pls don't mind them. Dem no get work.

@ Seun, I didn't say I won't help her if she's in trouble. I guess you have some ...... You know what I mean.

@ hot-angel, what do you need gina 4?

Welcome kay, good you've started to enjoy our land.
As you settle on this land, peace and success will never be far from you.

All all nairalanders saaaay, "AMEN".

Take care as you cruise around this land.

naijalife, you are most welcome to this land. May you find peace and process as you settle on this our land. The people of this land are great people and I'm verrrrrrry sure you'll enjoy your stay in this land. Join us to make it more interesting 4 us all and for more 'newees' expected to settle on this land.

May the good God of nairaland enlarge your coast. And all nairaland people say, "AMEN"

You beauty is no doubt a true and uncompromisable picture of africa, especially, Nigeria.

@ layi, I felt your anger very well while reading your post but pleeeeease, it's not me ooo. But I got your message all the same.

@ dablessed, thanks, maybe I didn't consider that. Thanks again but at least after commenting on the guy's action, don't you think anyone posting in should try to give an answer?

More reactions and answers are awaited.

Now we have good match-makers on nairaland. Huh . I wonder .......

Latoya, don't mind them oooo.
As for me, my hands are clean.

I wonder ooh.

Just one or two people really understand this topic and what it is intended. Every other person is busy hitting on the guy in the scenario.
Joftech has answered the part of the question that applies to him. Well said joftech.
Actually, for those of us who think the guy is stupid, crazy, ...e.t.c, that is the way he wants to do his thing. So, stop descending on him and I'ld appreciate if we just answer the question in this thread.

So tell us if you would test your Fiancé/Fiancée?
If yes, what kind of test (money, premarital sex, etc) and if No, why not? Afraid of the unlikely outcome

Now I don't seem to know what's going here again. What are some people saying or even doing here? Did you look at the topic?

dablessed and hot-angel, you haven't told me what you guys are up to yet.
And can I ask you guys to do me a favour, plsssssssss leave gina out of this. o.k?

Well, dablessed maybe, just maybe you're right.

Thanks dablessed
@ nddy, maybe that's their choice, if they're really honest.

Huh, no doubt some people are just acting out a script and saying what people want to hear except for just a few. Good for them.
My mamaa tells us something sometimes, jokingly though; "none of you should marry an ugly man/woman oooo coz I didn't give birth to ugly children"
I'm not gonna base my opinion on that eventhough that is part of my resolve on this issue.
If you're wowo (ugly), I can't be attracted to you. I'm of the opinion that beauty is not totally a function of looks but it plays an important role.
Anywhere I go with my woman, I want to be able to raise my shoulders high enough to introduce her as mine. That is my candid opinion.

And you know what? God says, "Ask and you shall receive" That is what I've asked Him.

dablessed:
what i can conclude is: He obviously wasnt ready to marry the babe anymore and wanted "a perfect excuse" as it were.

Sorry the dablessed but one thing I know and as I wrote in the first post is that the guy was ready to marry her and plans were underway. You know sometimes, people just want to be sure of what they're getting into. Marriage is for life you know.

@dablessed, shey you don dey vex?

Eh? I go roll am again and again
Miss observer thanks a whole lot. Why did you call the entire nairaland?
Answer the question in the thread abi you no get answer?

dablessed:
Wow! You two share a common aspiration!

so what, dablessed

Would you test your partner even if you are not sure of the outcome?

A know of a guy who really loved his Fiancée and they were in the plans for getting married when the guy decided to do a final test. He is the kind of guy who says no to premarital sex. One day, he decided to test the Fiancée and asked her to sleep with him and she said 'no, coz is wrong', exactly what the guy expected; but the guy tried persuading her. After much trials, she finally said 'yes' but that she's accepting to do it because she loves him and that they were going to get married soon. "Are you sure you want to" the guy asked her and she said 'yes' since the he wanted it.

Being who he is, he said, "This relationship is over. If I can convince you, any man out there could also do the same. It's just a matter of time."

Frankly speaking he called it off.

So tell us if you would you test your Fiancé/Fiancée?
If yes, what kind of test (money, premarital sex, etc) and if No, why not? Afraid of the unlikely outcome

BEAR IN MIND IT'S NOT A CASE OF BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND BUT FIANCÉ/ FIANCÉE.

good

you are wlecome, anytime.

Well I don't think it's applicable to all girls. Some are just naturally greedy, while some where trained to do so over time.
Some would just tell you that they wanted to test you if you refuse to give them.

I already did that and wouldn't mind doing it again if you ask me to.

1st she should love only one person more than me and that's God because I'm crazy about God as well. She has to be Intelligent, educated and smart. She should be able to represent me whenever I'm needed and I'm not present at the moment.
And at home, she should be one that would obssess me sooo much that each time I go out, no matter the fun I'm having out there, I'll want to go home and meet her. She has to love not just our kids but other kids coz I'm really fond of them. If she's got anything to talk about, no matter how crazy, should be able to confide in me and vice-versa
She should be a person who has ambitions, plan for their execution and pursue them till she achieves them.

Finally, for now, she's got to be realllllllllllly crazy about me.

Hey terry, gina is just trying to make peace that's all.

I can't wait plsssssssssssss. or if you don't want to use this thread, you know what to do.

don't be lost my dear. I simply mean she wants us to continue talking and as for me, I'm tired and need some rest from her coz like you said, u know her very well and she wouldn't stop.
So, have I made myself clear my dear

Eh? Let her go and rest jare. I want to have my peace if you don't.
Enjoying the discussion, yes and that's all.

spikle:
well nowadayz i think the yardstick 4 love is d size of your wallet, so the love factor plays second fiddle in chosin a husband nobody wants e go betta this dayz

thanks 4 that spikle. My point exactly.

hot-angel, e be like say this husband thing dey hungry you.

Setttled 4 good I hope? If I get you guyz arguing in such a way again, I'ld send you all on exile from this land. Hope I've made myself clear?

hot-angel, who are the couple?

why?

I'm sick of all this thing you guys are doing. I'm really surprised. The three of you argued like this in one other thread, I can't recall which particular right now and thereafter, settled with kisses. What happened again, huh?

Thanks anyways.

great! now I can have my peace. Isn't that cool?

helloooooooooooooooo hot-angel, take it easy and I think we should all stop this in-thread conversation coz some other ones in other threads have been deleted by ....... you know whom.