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if not what? Ehh?

There's an adage that says, "[i]when a dog is about to die, it refuses to hear it's hunter's whistle"[/i]So, let her alone.
Experience they say, is the best teacher. Maybe she wants to gain experience but one thing some people also fail to realise is that experience is also a HARD teacher.

That's the word of DE-KING.

I now rest my case.

That's really sad but the woman shouldn't have done that at least for the fact that the girl for there for her always b4 the new baby boy.
The woman would create an unnecessary rivalry between the two of them. This is one of the reasons I brought up this topic.
Poor girl, she should let ther mom get into her way of loving her only brother.

Oya nah, do what you want to.

see am

who would you do it with then?

nike4luv:
we r independent in our own way

Grammar, thank God I understand you small that's why ........laugh I laf sotey I begin cry for the so called independent women. But I'm cool now

Nikey, i'ld say you've really tried as a friend. If she wants to continue, well it's her wish.

Hey guyz, I've seen somethings happen in some families and decided to bring this topic up for discussion.
There's no doubt that parents have a favourite child amongst all their children.
You see this favouritism of children of the same parents tends to bring about unhealthy competition in the family but don't you also agree that it would help a sibling to develop his/her ability to probably be loved as much.

I would appreciate your contributions and don't forget to say if you're dad or mom's favourite or both. As for me, I can't really tell if I am but I sure do know my mum don't joke about me and my dad doesn't show if he has any of us as his favourites.

Why do I have a feeling that something like politics was involoved? But sha, they've chosen. They face of eva (female) doesn't appear sharp and smart for this kind of a thing. Not being negative, just my opinion.

Life is full of ups and downs so, there's no where you can have total happiness except in God. Even with that you can challenges.
Understanding is relative to whatever situation you're in.
I still will not support marrying outside your religion coz love is not enough to see you thru when the storms starts coming.

[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=363.msg22002#msg22002 date=1123573010]we r still independent.. mmkay? [/quote]no argiung that with you but I'm yet to see that ....... who would want to come out and say it and not pushing another forward when it comes to defending the independende

Helloooooooooo, we're talking about dating an engaged man here, not just any guy who wants to have fun.
huh, pachakwarayna (take time ooo) in issues of love.

cimonjorr tell'em.

Independent women If really you're independent as you claim why throw it to each other.

DE-KING, you're good.

hot-angel, you seem to me a divorce advocate. wel, that's a different topic entirely. My point stil stands. They shouldn't go ahead with it.

hot-angel, feelings are emotions and emotions are unstable so you can't depend on such. Just because you feel you're in love is not enough reason to rush into a relationship.

Take heed lest you fall

Huh, hot-angel. Where are you. I mean are you saying they should go ahead? I wouldn't advice that but Nike, tell your friend that you don't see the reason why she should be doing what she's doing.

Nike, ask her this question. If you were the guy's fiancee, how would you feel?

Also remind her that what goes round, comes around. And as one good turn deserves another, so one bad turn.

@ pinky, yes I know but don't forget that b4 you start talking about marriage, you must be emotionally fit.

Well, if that's really their age, they're both not serious yet. Marriage is not for kids. Tell them that.

I'm calling. Give me the name if you can.

o.k ooo

o.k ooo. so how do you want to get started?

Wel, I'm yet to see her.

I don't get it. Is it the guy in question that is 18?

Firstly let me ask some important questions, answers of which would determine my opinion.

1. For how long has this your friend known the guy?
2. Is this your friend in anyway related to the guy's fiancee, past or present i.e have they ever met before?
3. How old is she?
4. Does she have any guy in her life right now?
5. What is the guy in question saying about this issue?

Answers to this questions are important. I don't just to run into conclusion without facts.

Na waoh, I think those undergraduates that hired them should not be expelled from the institution but FIRED!

absolutely. Maybe she's yet to be born.

Latoya:
DE-king u don dey change d talks o

Latoya I don't understand what you mean.