₦airaland Forum

Finally they will blame God for creating this earth.

softprick:
You never fvck her na ,just tell her as e be,say assuming you know earlier you for no lead her on but now that you do you can’t continue because it goes against everything you stand for.shikena abi anything else dey when you never tell us? Cos this na small issue.

He did aka Private matured meeting He coded it na

I will not be surprised if thy are the army. Our army is full of killer herdsmen sympathizers

Daboomb:
Why are you sounding like a woman who got a raw deal from her husband?
Jeez! Cant you write without all these emotions?

Not just Nigeria but all over the world, Children treat their Mothers better than their fathers (on the average)
And this should not come as a suprise to any father or any smart person for that matter!

- Child stays in Mum's tommy for 9months, bond already established before birth
- Child suckles Mum's breast for another 9-24months, that is a no-brainer (even wives can attest to this breast sucking thing )
- Mum backs child for another three years or so
Fathers are trained to be stoic and independent, with self pride so the attachment to the child is not always there.

Fathers do what they do for their children.....and see it as a DUTY, for so as to create and attachment with the child for future exploitation.
That is where the difference lie.

And there are millions of homes where the mother will attest to it that the best thing that ever happened to them, is their husband.
Not everyone comes from a shitty home like yours ....and get over it please.

Look well now OP has probably used his wife material to sew shoe rag and then used GF material to sew expensive agbada with vivid imaginations.
If Not he is probably frustrating her and reporting her to her people every time she does something. The girl don tire.

Sadly this is what the average Nigerian wife passes through at the hands of husbands. Tomorrow some foolish man will come out to write epistle about how Kids treat their mothers like gods while ignoring their dads who paid their bills. Look now many homes are passing throgh this type of shit in one form or the other but hypocrites will not admit that their fathers over did the headship thing. God is watching and will judge all of youvfor the shit your wives,mothers,sisters and daughters pass through.

laytoshtwo:
They are Yoruba and they have paid the dowry your people requested for to marry your sisters.Their girlfriends are always from your side.

The ussual excuse..... Blame her LORD, she made me do it!!! Does that sound familiar?

So if that same girlfriend or wife had asked them to cut off their ears and served them, would they have agreed? No they did what they did because of their greed. Those would NEVER have been faithful they are into that bs for ego boosting not for bride price. Even gatemen and teachers still marry from my side.

4C2215131:
Your statement wasn't in good taste? You should know better. Why stoke the fire?

sorry. Dont vex

somehow:
He's from Kogi, purge your mindset sir

Yes a Fulani from Kogi

If they can collect and chop the one from living non criminals(and even kill some who prove stubborn and uncooperative) what then do you think would happen to the ones from dead criminals?

Are they all Yoruba? Just establishing facts before those tribalists start blabing trash

Is he still working? He is a sexual predator and a very bad influence to the youth.

O Nigeria! We have very wise men in authority. See our new King Solo dishing out words of wisdom like akara saraka.

lonelydora:
That lecturer may not be totally guilty. The girl in question may have initiated the move.

Who dey put sugar for mouth go say No?

Is that how you go about licking every sugar put in your mouth? Besides do you keep your mouth sugar licking ready all the time that people just put in sugar because they know you will lick it?

If No..... Then that your comment is wrong. If yes then please know that too much sugar is not healthy. You will do yourself well by learning to say NO.

somehow:
Please o, where on the article was it stated that he's a Fulani man or you believe all herdsmen are Fulani?

My mistake. But for sure he looks Fulani not Yoruba or Igbo Muslim. I bet your balls he is Fulani.

OR MAYBE THE REAL BF OR ADMIRER CAUGHT THEM CASTRATED THE BOY AND KILLED THE GIRL.

If you say Fulani herdsmen people are also into kidnapping, their supporters will say it is a lie that people are just giving Fulani herdsmen a bad name.

Once beaten twice shy

donb06:
oh u nw knw the pain of domestic abuse... As for my mum no prob at least she had mouth to drink it... Your mom was constantly injected with it. She couldn't live without it. If she hasn't seen it for one hour she starts shivering because she needs some to sniff . May be that's why ure an hybrid of various cum

nna slow down kwa. Chai biko please jor sit down. No vex again.

Correct me if I am wrong..... did that oyinbo not sign an undertaking before killing his wife in Banana iceland?
She intends to go bavk and expose herself to the possibility of stonning him bread or shoe again? Na her choice. How people can live with spouses who only live peacefully with them because they signed an undertaking. How is that a home?

Terminator1234g:
Greatest fellow Nigerians, President Muhammadu Buhari have put up the mandate to us to make Nigeria great again by declaring his intention for second term.
This man means we'll for Nigerians,
He entered office in 2015:
1. And since 2016,boko-haram became handicap to attack and other terrorist groups like ipob are now exterminated and their leader dead somewhere.
2. And now Looters are afraid of the name Nigeria.
3. And all is set for the payment of 5000 to all Nigerian youths.
4. And now bag of rice that was N22000 is N5000.
5. And now though dollar is high, it decreasing rate shows that in the next quarter of the year, 000.01 naira will be equal to 1 dollar and perhaps people have never been this rich in other regime compare to our great PMB regime.
6. Millions of employment everyday as those who were even sack are now getting more better jobs.
7. No strikes in our tertiary institutions again.
8. Great infrastructures now showing up every now and then both in the SS, SE, NE, NW, NC, SW... Just name it.
9. Improvement in public health care that even the president son and family are now attended to medically in Nigeria.
10. Nigeria is now written with integrity all over the world that if we can extend PMB tenure to 2023 and even add more years, a permanent seat in the UN is sure for us.
11. Industry are now working that we can now see self-driven cars on our highways.

Let support this man of change forever.
#ISaiBaba #ISaiChange
Written by an educated elite.....

See all the good he has done. He has tried o, let him not do more or else at this rate, Nigeria will be like heaven. If he turns Naija to heaven what then is there to look forward to after this life? He should not do spoiler alert for us jor!

vanhelsing1:
ma friend. firstly,u don't have any right to ask a date to cook for u.is she Ur wife
lemme tel u one secret...she doesn't kW how to cook,she is scared DAT u might find out DAT she is bad at it.das y she doesn't wana even try.
use Ur head...
or try dis method, start d cooking n tell her to join u in it...den chek her reaction.or kindly tel her wen she is in a good mood DAT u can teach her to cook delicious meal,den chek her response..
thank me later.

But he ask for her vagina and she gave him as if she was his wife? Missplaced priority.
She can not be asked to cook because she isnt his wife but she has srx with him and that is okay. She should go back to her ancestors for training.

Nice one.

Airforce1......is that you?

Kotodoctor:
thieving scenero i dont think apply in this context. Fit the argument from the right premises. Bribe and receiver of bribe should be more appropriate.

What op was arguing is that many female student initiate the moves. They lure the lecturers. And they too should be blame. If you follow the conversation., you can even see clearly that the lady was the one pushing for it. She was even asking the lecturer just to be certain the kind of grades she will be getting in exchange for rounds. Surely somewhere in that arrangement we can dish some fault to her don't you think?.
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Some of this ladies have been on it this way even from their secondary school days. But when every thing comes out, they curl up like the victimes they are not. If you want to play dangerouse, rest in the knowledge that when the consequences comes you too will partake. That's all. What stops you from reporting the case to the apprioparte autorities?

Again am not making a case for lectures. But there must be punishment for female student who push for this too. In my judgement both are guilty. That's the position op stands on I want to believe.

Of cours students who do it should be punished but in this case the lecturer was the one pushing for it. I never said eering students should be pampered.

Congrats lady.

Kotodoctor:
Wish everyman can stand up straight like you. Look women dead in the face and say "take your sex and shove it down your you know what " what would I not give to see such a world? But unfortunately, this is the real world. And women hold many advantages. We are genetically predispose to accepting female advance. Why I don't know.

This why women are stoned scorn for adultry men are punished for tape.

When it's not forced. Women are to blame.

When it is forced, men are to blame. This I believe is where my friend is going. If you are big on morals, you should not be naive to the truth.

well then let him also enjoy the result of his actions na. Can we say because there will always be thieves we should overlook a thief when caught? We all know that even if the thief says I was very hungry or I lost my job will not make people say ooo, you are excused. So if he does it and is caught then he should face the music and no one should say he was helpless in this case.

MaxelSilva:
See Joke..Black people decieving themselves..
lala.. push am forward abeg.. make we dey see our m. u. m. u

Hahaha you no jubilate with them ni? Oh okay we shall invite you to our village toilet launch next week a water one with white bowl and a cover. Or We can go together to celebrate the vending machine at our government house.

Tellemall:
Recent reports of the bro code, in which a father could not caution his son in law (a man who is his age or thereabouts, very bizarre) simply express the sentiment of 99% of the male populace.

A father sent his daughter back to an abuser when he should protect her, probably because he himself is an abuser and was using this bro code to make concessions for the son in law (again, this old man being called a son in law is goosebump inducing).

The OP simply has a stubborn brother in law. If the court wedding means nothing, why can't he just do it to put the woman at ease? With the full support of the male populace here, more than a half of who are adulterous if at all married, they have tagged the OPs sister as ridiculous for simply wanting small court wedding. It's not putting ideas in the man's head. If he's clean, what's the harm in it? He didn't put his foot down for marrying her without dropping a dime, but he wants to put this foot down on what can out him.

some men feel that a court wedding leaves them helpless fro sending the woman away or marrying more wives. That is why some support him.

Kotodoctor:
You still don't get the point do you?

It's s given that lecturers are currupt. However allowing young female student get away with this, ultimately exempt them of blame. Is like asking in case of adultry, we're is the man?

Women true like playing the victim card. I have seen this first hand in my school days. Am Not making a case for lectures. Far be it from me. But women on there part should learn to take responsibility. We all know they are two state away from innocent.

This even translate to the Labour market. You look at the banks and it dominated by women, mtn offices nkor. Yet everyone act like they are there on merit list.

Women know what they want, most times they end up using us. Men are the real victimes here. Because when a woman decide to exact her powers on a man, it take the grace of god to resist.Am just being honest. However, when it comes into the open, they are too a shame to admitt.

He is a lecturer and as such should know how to handle affairs in his office. I do not stand for female lecturers who tread the same path. If that so called lecturer had come out to say see how a female student is offering me sex for mark I will be NO 1 to call her out and praise the lecturer for his wisdom Yes in the case of adultery, where is the man? That is a very good question. She came to ask for extra mark how about telling her there are no free marks in his bag and then walking her out? So she asked for free marks translates to she is to be sexually exploited? Have you never made a mistake where you prolly came late or missed an event and tried to see if you could be reconsidered? would you think it fair if the man in charge decides to ask for sex(Yes men can sollicite sex from fellow men) from you? What he did was wrong lets call a spade a spade.

Rapsino:
I understand ur content. But if I am single and have such encounter I will have sex. I said my mind. But believe me this girls are persistent. It's not easy the way you see it.. Maybe the main one never jam u

shey the real Delilahs? The real endtime childrens? well if you chose to have sex with the student, that is because you feel entitled to the awuf and you make a choice to chop and clean mouth when offered not because you were too helpless to say no. Those are two different things.

SaroWiwa:
I don't agree that the girl is playing a victim here. If you ever school in Nigeria, you will know that this is a common trend among the male lecturers.

Yes not everyone can pass a course at the same time, but what is the lecturers' motives? There are lecturers who set their exams to make sure many fail. The more people that fail, the more students will meet them for assistance (blocking/sorting) either paying in cash or kind, to pass. You know the rest.

I know of morally upright lecturers, students hardly fail their exams and if you do and resit for the exams, you are sure to pass. With such ones, you can never try to tempt them, takeless of incriminating them in this kind of embarrassing situation.

If strict measures are not taken against this kind of lecturers, our educational system will continue to go down. Every students must not graduate, that's why we have school drop outs and WAF. Everybody must not go to school, they may be better in something else. The lecturers are supposed to fish that out and not to succumb to their sexual advances to keep them in the academic environment.

Unfortunately a few men believe that a man should never be held accountable for his moral misconduct. Just blame it on the woman.