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what can I say that we dont already know?

O ti e le. That small cane naim you go rent hospital bed come set nyansh like person wey fire burn? Tomorrow you go begin shout man is superior to women. Shior! go ask your good mama wetin she go through for labour room yet after she come out she no rest until she dies. She no pose nyansh or vagina up you no even fit endure this small pain.

guterMann:
My cynical mind is telling me that it is a scam.

Though I may be wrong.

THE LAND OF THE RISING SUN MUST SET FORTH AT DAWN

Na to drug and rape them and then start blackmailing them after a few dates.

I hope women are smart enough to handle such online business safely. Better not to take the risk.

KahlDrogo:
FFK, the great Afonja and vandaliser of Hoejukwu's wife's ponyo right now...

An expired talk and insignificant post. World is progressing you are here rejoicing over the action of another mans penis. Abi na your penis him borrow take do her? worse of all its based on hearsay. People like you can't make heaven

Your time never reach na. when e reach you go answer.

NwaAmaikpe:




This will only work in the USA and other developed countries.

If Governor Ambode tries this in LASUTH, those mini cars will vanish overnight. The medical director will pack them and give to his womanfriend's children in Sagamu.

You know how it rolls in naija. No Time for Time

Mac2016:
see pam sandal for wedding photo shoot...hausa!

He keeping it real maybe you should try it sometime. YOLO

gidgiddy:
The only country Donald Duke has a chance of being President of is a future independent state of Biafra (comprised of the present SS/SE without Edo state)

But based on Nigeria, not possible. How is Donald Duke gonna win any state in the North?

How did BUBU win in the west, south and east?

I dey your back. Thank you for submitting yourself.

Look well they are the same age.

Another stupid post

Their landlords say they should pack, why don't the obey? I hope they will not go against the apples of Bubus eyes.

Just a friendly advice....They should not put their guards down because bubu send in soldiers to pretend they are on top of the mater. They should ask the Dapchi girls how swiftly the army leaves a place just before BH or herdsmen attack.

what business is it you guys are into?

sadsad:
I hope this is the right section for this.
If not, MODs can help place it in the right section.


Mature advice needed!!!!
Married for 10 years now, have an adopted daughter due to fertility issues.
Everything was going on well until I needed to get a maid to assist with house chores temporarily due to my change of work schedules which warranted longer tedious hours outside the home. Moreover I needed someone to help look after my child when she returns from nursery class when I'm not around during the day.

In March 2016, I got a maid but my husband called me aside one day & said he observed how I shield the maid from getting close to him in the house & that he as the man of the house is not 'free' in his own house. He went further to say, my actions prove I'm suspecting he will want to have something to do with the maid.

For the 1st time in my marriage of 8 years then, my husband & I had a very heated argument that he threatened me by saying if I decide to send her away, I must also leave.
I replied him that if I should leave, I will go with at least half of what I brought into this marriage, not all o! So that people won't say I'm a bad person, so I'll go with at least half.
I had met him earning 6k monthly in 2002 & I introduced my business idea to him which we now run jointly as a family business. By the Grace of God, we earn comfortably that he has now become the bread winner in his own family. His Siblings look up to him constantly for financial help.
My inheritances gotten on two occasions from my late grandparents & parents, were used to buy & build our first property in the outskirts of Lagos. I went further to sell my first car to Roof the building because I realised he is not a futuristic person & he is not financially empowered enough to get a property so I felt since we are husband & wife, why not I assist financially to ensure his head is lifted up continually. Between last year December & today, I gave him another 7 figures to purchase a building in his hometown so that we can have a place to retire to. Then the first building in Lagos will be put up for rent.

When he realised I was serious with my counter-threat on the maid issue, he relaxed & travelled the next day to see his Mom.
While in his hometown, he called me & said his Mom's Pastor gave his Mom a revelation that I (her Son's wife) should stop all medical interventions for now & wait for God's time to give us one biological child.

I foolishly (well, submissively) accepted. Only for him to come back from the trip & cajoled me to accept him to have s.x with the maid so that she can give us a biological child.
Readers, my life started falling into pieces from that day.

After some weeks, he begged me to go lodge in a hotel to spend the night there so that he can have his way with the maid in our home. Ha!!!! I refused but he blackmailed me by saying, I do know he has been treated & certified medically OK so I am the one with the issue that has caused delays for years. Also, the revelation that I should stop all medical interventions ( we've done sooooo many medical interventions in these years of waiting, all to no avail).

I accepted to go to the hotel, which he paid for. This happened on 3 different occasions within the space of 1 month plus.
A day to the day I'll go to the hotel to stay, I'll be sooo moody & irritated that he will say (why am I blocking his chances of having his biological child after I've wasted many years of his life childless. Our adopted child is from is his late relative, so he still needs his own direct blood.

I would go for business meetings & sometimes take bike (okada) to journey Long distances so as to meet up to close deals, only for me to come back into the house to meet him & the maid alone in the house while my daughter will be playing with her mates in the neighbor's apartment.
He would return home before noon & they'll spend the day together. I forgot something at home one day & decided to go back to pick it up, by the time I left the house & them inside, I was devastated that day, I was depressed, I became almost insane & emotionally imbalanced. I didn't know I was talking to myself on my way out on the road, a neighbour tapped my shoulder from behind & I was jolted back to realise I was on the road trekking a wrong direction to my office.

After about 5 months, I started chatting daily with someone I met via social media, we started out as having same investment orientation, from there we became close on phone via WhatsApp, we would discuss family issues, marital issues, financial issues & all sorts. I realised he was someone I could talk to easily & pour out my heart to. I was also his phone companion. We didn't meet physically until 4 months after. We met & had s.x in 2017 after so much togetherness on phone.

I felt guilty because I never had s.x with any other man aside my husband for over 9 years +. My husband had been suspecting me & confronted me with proofs of my infidelity. He reported me to my Aunt. I told my Aunt (in his presence) what I went thru in his hands during the maid issues, she blamed both of us & kinda settled the issues.

The maid got pregnant & it had a complication because according to the doctor, she took some substances to abort the pregnancy. I had mixed feelings when she lost the pregnancy. Sad, that I had lost the opportunity to finally make my husband a father. She left after the evacuation & never returned.
My husband became sober & scared all thru the pregnancy complication issues because he was worried she could die & the law will be after him. I had to help him make sure she was well taken care of in a good clinic & prayed & fasted for everything to end well.

I got another maid because my clients were giving me more contracts to work on & this time, this new maid herself decided to leave on the grounds that my husband threatened to kill her if she doesn't have s x with him. She had to call the agent that brought her to come take her away, next day. My husband denied all allegations even till today.

I decided, no more maids.

Just two days ago, I refused him s.x because he accused me of still cheating. He says anytime he sees me 'holding my phone', he will have a recall of my infidelity episode & he'll get terribly infuriated. He will say I have gone to do it with someone else so I don't want him. He has beaten me on several occasions & I have told him that I have severed the relationship & communication between I and the guy. I have also proven this to him but he wouldn't understand. I get his point but his insecurity feelings is toooo much. He would threaten me & beat me. In 2017, I had to write to Ministry of Women Affairs in Alausa but I told them not to take action yet because he later apologized. I gave him a copy of the letter I wrote to Alausa. The ministry called to check up on me & u assured them all us well now. Ever since I dropped the letter, he never beats me again but he would threaten me emotionally & psychologically.

When he realised I was going to leave the marriage, he begged & begged me. Saying I should know that he can never carry out his threat, that we've been together since 2001 as friends before marriage so I should be able to tell what he's capable of.

He also indirectly said if I leave, the business will crumble but at that point, I didn't care anymore about the family business that gives us 7 figures + monthly. He knows that the business is my idea. I learnt it for 7 years before we started. Till date, I bring in the biggest chunk of the income because he handles some clients while I handle some. My clients are the biggest. I believe this is his greatest fear.

Yesterday night, he made me listen to Lionel Richie (I'll rather spend bad times with you, than spend good times with someone else).

If I leave this marriage, I don't see myself getting married again. Highest, I do surrogacy or adoption to have a child. I loved this man with my whole existence before the cookie started to crumble. I won't allow any man make me his ATM.

Right now, I'm in a mess & I need words from matured married Nairalanders.

Thank you in advance

DNA. What if after doing DNA test the baby isn't his? would that blogger be made to pay damages?

sisisioge:


She be sensible pikin, she gbe ja before her address starts being in past tenses

"She was a good woman who obeyed God and submitted to her husband."

Hahahaha, she hates what she doesnt like. She scram before her story come carry K legs.

Khd95:
people desperate shaa,money that is rightly urs,u cant just jejely wait for it.

hiaan if rich kid could do this wetin poor kids go con do

They kill everyone else ie yahoo plus guys, ritual killers, badoo, Evans, Boko haram, Etc they enter street and all man becomes target.

Nigerians wont like this news o. They preffere to type after the woman has been killed by the brutal husband. This news is not inspiring at all

Vampires all over Nigeria.

At least she stayed in her marriage and endured till the end just the way Nigerians like it. Better she died a Mrs than to be alive an EX Mrs. Or the news spread that she left because of incompatibility or marital violence ahhh that would have been a taboo o. The bad reputation and judgements that eould be passed on her? Mbanu, better for people to type RIP over her dead body than to type insults and blames for being a bad wife and feminist over her living body.

Okoroawusa:
are u a man or woman?


Before I say what's on my mind

Any one e be, karma can still arrange him/her to ho blind after marriage, lose all family members and make the partner's heart strong to treat him/her like shit afterwards.

The other time someone said she was asked to cut her call by a stranger who wanted to borrow her phone to make a call now this one is saying someone asked him to stop pressing so he can charge.

The op is wicked sha. Why press your phone when you know that someone is waiting to use it? Is it not better to tell him NO he can not use it?

Ignorant youths. So easily decieved. So because someone uses cheap phone to snap a photo it means he is a saint? Not saying your bubu is the devil o. But how can we use a mobile phone(which could be one out of his many or just borrowed to stage this social media publicity photo) to judge the moral value of a person? Nigeria ooooo

I hardly grind beans bit when I do, I find that soaking it overnight makes it easy to grind and it comes out smooth. I do blend with the skin on. Pick to remove stones and dirt and soak it overnight with the skin on.
As for stew ingredient, I dont like mine to be smooth.

naija for you. If it was the other way around we for never recover from the badmouth the girl would have attracted from small boys.

Fake story. Who gets pregnant by a white/Asian man to trap a black man or vice versa? Na so her mumu meter flat reach? Who no know say na mixed breed she go born?

True talk

And una dey doubt say snake swallow money ba?
Hawk navigation system just breakdown or experienced glitch. no cause for alarm.

But....Nigerians dirty o

cescky:




Guy your lossing your touch of madness we all enjoy over here...

You seem to think your now an English professor..broking English more than chief zebrudaya himself alais 4: 30...hence your posts arent crazy but a display of Grammer.... ...we want the old nwmaikpe back..whose closer to insanity than an English professor

I dont think it is the same person. I was reading his comments a gew days ago and I strongly believe this is not the NwaAmaipke that we all know.

Jerryvicker:
Wash ur hands 1st.

I wash hands and legs join.

keshmuah:
Shebi she said she was a virgin

Use and dump doesn't always mean sex is involved na. He chop her money run

Jerryvicker:
Waiting consign me nah..

Shift make I remove feathers and join you.