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You got the second igbo atire wrong OP

Eddyguordo come out.....I Dey front if ya gate.

I no fit wait for you to reach my place so I came to thee

Eddygourdo:
thank God u sef know u don't say that. But if u did, then go and wear cloth let us go buy you a gift. Not saying the slap woman thing is cool though, but it shows an objjective mind and should aim at discouraging a woman from slapping a man, not necessarliy encouraging men to slap women anyway. Oya go and wear going out cloth

Omo mehn..... for real? Na nkwobi I want chop o. Let me go and wear cloth, I Dey come

Na wa. So even the government of her state can not help her? Later they will say Nigeria is for all of us when they want votes and human shields. where is her own share of Nigeria?

You made your choice Na. Why e come Dey make you sad?

Eddygourdo:
okies, let's use nairaland as a case study, I will look for you and count scores. Whenever an unfortunate even happens such as this crazy one, we will look through the comments and the sex of the commentators aand judge their bias based on the victim, also observation the general bias of most women commenters towards domestic abuse when the victim is female. You will see that my discomfort is completely unfounded. I hope am proved wrong.

I used to say.....if a woman slaps you, slap am back unless she is drunk, sick or in some sort of pain. Or if she catch you cheating. Then just endure and hope she blows off her steam fast
Chai dem go finish me now.

burkingx:
And you REFUSED to die !

Nwanne, e no funny o.This is a very serious ihian!

LordOfNaira:
Better. Ogun will upgrade you, ase Edumare!!!

Thank you. And you too.

LordOfNaira:
Me, kill? You are surely mad. I asked you not to judge a story without hearing both sides. That was all I said. Now, don't vex me any further or Ogun Alagbede will use that your head to break coconut.

Taaa, who get your time sef. When you tell me shut up you no remember your ancestral juju ba? oya go I no go kwarell again. Tell ya juju say Ibdey sell coconut crusher incase it/he wants to buy.

pyyxxaro:
R.I.P to the Camel

Hope they won't sell the Camel meat

Or use it to do Camel Suya

Carmel Na meat Na.

Dem Don carry come again. Na so Dem tell Libyans say Gadaffi was a bad leader. They should go and sit down jor. They just go about destroying economies. It is a pity many people are asleep and will buy anything these world controllers say.

LordOfNaira:
Shut up, my friend. You did not even know what happened and you are judging.

Shut up monkey. Na your type Dey kill their wives.yeye

Eddygourdo:
dear I am not saying ur position is wrong. Its an observation I have observed that I offered. The magnitude of foaming women do when a woman is a victim of certain ills is always greater and then non existent if a man was the unfortunate victim. I find that abit victim blaming.

Now as much as its assuming and naïve for a husband's people to assume a wife killed her husband if malaria killed him, is how incredulous that every time a woman dies or sometime, domestic abuse stories will always follow by people who claimed to be in the know. Am not saying its not true, but its so conviently consistent each time dat I have doubts on its occurence

Many women die everyday, you do not read that they were abused or killed by their husbands. Only a few in which case the husband has been actively suspected of abused get these kinds of attention. I believe bad wives who cause their husbands deaths too also get dragged. My opinion sha. The truth may come out, the man may be abusive but did not kill her or he may have killed her and said she died while turning on the Gen. No one knows. But I think they should have autopsy done to confirm or disprove their suspicions.

GAZZUZZ:
I believe they would have preferred the man died instead.

Imagine a case where the man was sleeping after a hard days work and the gen went off. Would it be right to wake him up to turn on the generator?

I do not think many prefere him dead. I believe they are looking at it from experience angle. Like if an inexperienced person decides to connect or fix a faulty electrical appliance while someone who is believed to be more experienced is around. Those wishing him dead are quite daft. I see no biggie if a woman knows how to do handy things around the house and does it. no biggie at all.
Like if a man is cooking lunch and gets hurt, people would say he was cooking while his wife was at home. You know, like he can not be expected to cook a meal safely. So people would say, where was the wife? Not because she should be the one hurt but because, she is believed to know how to safely cook without incident.

I believe they suspect he killed her and claimed she died while turning on the Gen. At least, that is what I getbfrom this story. Abeg, I Don tire. Naija and deaths Don tire me.

Toks2008:
Why your sudden High BP?

Did I judge anyone? why put words in my unfinished sentence? Just Negodu

I am asking Na....what statement? Because I want to go back and read it.

Eddygourdo:
Anytime a wife dies, everybody starts suspecting domestic violence and spewing unfounded stories, yet if the man died they will say he is suffering the effects of philandering. All am saying is I accept the possibilty of domestic violence cos many men are violent. But fact is that from the comments up there , all those women won't be foaming in the mouth if the husband had died, infact I have never seen women foam for a dead husband even the one his wwife pushed to death. Just saying

False, many women in Nigeria have been disposed of their properties by husband's familie because they claim she is the cause of his death. Or she gave him too much stress or some other story.
That they(the widows) don't come out to rant doesn't mean it doesn't happen. The husbands family does the foaming and puffing. And if she complains on social media they will also rant on social media.

Toks2008:
If the victim's friend remark is anything to go buy...then her closing remark says it all.

When you marry a man cos he is rich...

Abeg, what remark? You think only rich men are abusive to their wives? I have Seen very poor men(as in they we're poor even before marriage) who married wives and still abuse them. Many times when women are abused, people justify it and say she married for this or that reason, but of a woman kills her husband, no one judges him for marrying a pretty or successful lady . Why? Should women fear to marry too because people like you will judge them if they start experiencing abuse?

Ishilove:
I can't wrap my head around the bolded. I don't know maybe it's my upbringing but I don't see why a woman needs anyone's permission to leave an abusive marriage

My dear, I meant society should not judge them. Women in Nigeria have families, friends and religious leaders, who ussualy are the ones encouraging them to stay and endure. Many women will leave if those they look up to support their transition. Don't be too hooked at the bolded. Just the way I feel not the way everyone feels.

Ishilove:
I wonder o. In my hometown domestic violence is a rare occurrence. Any man that beats his wife is dragged outside and publicly beaten by her male relatives. Even when it happened to my aunt, my mum and some other males stormed her house and dragged her away from the useless marraige.

It is a shame that women think such endurance is part of the for better for worse promise they made at the alter. Why will priests not tell them that the for worse part is when real life wahala, that is not the direct evil doing of the partners involved strikes. Especialy abuse that happens when the abuser knows exactly what s/he is doing is not part for the for worse. Rule out abuse that happens when the abusive partner has mental problem.
Once the self created for worse starts happening, a woman should be allowed to leave. But no, the same society pretending to care now that she is dead would have judged her had she left with her kids. They will say she is following new penis

She die on top marriage? Her family couldn't go and beat the shii out a the so called husband and drag her out of there? Abi no man for her village?

Chinyeresandra:
Hello theworld best, I saw your message. Thanks for understanding what I'm passing through.Please could you be gracious enough to send me your phone no so that we can talk? I'll be expecting your reply. Thanks

Eh, I am back, Chinyeresandra, at first I was worriwd that some 419 has tried to scam you. I read somewhere about this Egbe thing I am begining to see things differently. me that I was laghing at you I am now a believer of it. I recollect my mom telling us that it was done for a family member as a young child. Many people would go the Christian or Islamic way ie delliverance. While some do it the traditional way which may require you to make some rituals at regular intervals if you need their support, or once to cut them off .

Jerrypolo:
u sure say you ready?? The form na for zombies only ooo

Chai, living beings no fit buy am? Me never die Na.

mznel:
Looking for cheap popularity.

For where? Una owe people money, Una say make the people first pay before Una release only 30% of the money Una owe. Hian. E tire E o. The soap wey enter people eyes, Dem never wash am commot finish you still Dey ask them to give you the small remaining water Dem Dey take rinse am off?
The mumu that will take this bait, Abeg help me suck the person dry. No pity am. I repeat, if anybody PH make you trace am go house, go and pack what ever extra money he has. That person sure doesn't know the value of his money.

Jerrypolo:
e tire me o guy

Hahaha, me set go follow you go collect my share o. Cos Dem just Dey chop am all alone. Abeg, where Dem Dey sell the form? I want submit my own too.

Una never pay the one Una owe, Una still Dey ask for more Ph?

Lol, that MMM is not the recipient doesn't mean the account the money is paid to is not linked to someone representing MMM Na.

This sounds like a debtor asking his creditor to pay him some money before he would agree to pay back some of what he owes him.

flyca:
Delishpot you troll online on people for a living. Its not just about me or my response. NL knows you for it.

Suleiman was dating your friend before her death. Why is it so difficult to admit that? And you are asking me if if it is right or wrong. Hehehe. SMH

Awww, is it that bad? Does NL know me like that for real?
Okay. I have repented. I am not a troll tho.

18 -19 if she personally decides to.

Who brought it out for him?

loomer:
Omo see kitchen na. With this kind kitchen, even me wey no sabi cook, my food go sweet by force

abi o. You will be inspired to make mendemende.

flyca:
Your first mention started with "mumu", remember? But then I accorded the dignity of a response because you typed a few sentences to argue an unexistent point. Then you kept losing it till you finally degenerated to "brickhead". Do you understand now? If no, I'm sorry I can't help you any further. Bye

Yes, and in your first response too you called me sillyass
So what's the deal? You degenerated with me too na . In response to your stonehead, I gave you brickhead, so shall we kwontinue with the name calling? That is my fave part.

Typical naija way Na! I would have been shocked if she said otherwise.

bitcoininvesto:
Expatriate or Immigrants?
When will whites start calling black expatriate in their own countries

No be small