Franzinni: let me tell you that women need men first and foremost for security, stability and protection... Listen, the only reason you have this mentality is becasue it is safe in the part of the world you live, the moment that balance is disturbed you would quickly run to a man to defend, and protect you ... Women especially this generation are the most ungrateful set of humans to ever be recorded. You ask what is the value of a man ... While enjoying the world built by men.
[s]Men are dying in Russia and Ukraine and no feminist find it necessary to protest inequality but the bubblegum heads in the west are clamouring for equality and now ... You have it haha. Enjoy it[/s] !!!
Who created the situation killing men in Russia and Ukraine? Women? Those men dying on both fronts, who sent them to go and die? Women? If it was left to Russian and Ukrainian women in general, do you think they would agree for their children to go and fight to the death? Maybe men who claim to be better should rise up and think how the world can keep peace instead.
litigator: He he told his wife he was going to work as usual and might be working late since it was a Friday.
Like previous times, his wife felt he was out drinking with friends and will be back the next morning. But he never did. He simply sold his car that afternoon, took an 11pm flight and never came back.
They had considered him missing and was about filing a missing person claim save for his best friend who had the courage to tell the wife that her husband wasn’t missing. He simply disappeared willingly into thin air.
It was after 3 months a strange number called her to ask after the kids. It was their father who had disappeared from work and traumatized his family.
He now wants to be in the life of his kids, but he is done with his wife. He is never coming back her. He feels she is a destiny killer who married him best he had the capacity to provide and not because she loved him.
The wife can’t help but ask where she went wrong in her marriage and what she wasn’t doing right.
According to him, he felt his wife was simply using him as a provider and a means of financial security. She never truly loved him.
He didn’t want the messy stuff of moving out into another part of the city and the attendant family meetings with everyone trying to convince him to stay.
He felt disappearing to another country where he will be able to start all over again and rebuild his life was the best thing to do.
Have you ever thought of leaving your family and disappearing into another part of the world to start all over again?
Why?
Rubbish. He should go and die. Was he the only one that sacrificed for the family?
Hahaha Nigerians are slow it seems. For these people to confidently tell these kinds of story without fear means they can even tell Nigerians that all the new notes magically turned to ordinary papper in CBN vault and they will get away with it
Johnsown1: Fake people, why celebrating him after killing him spiritually. You disgraced him and gave him all kinds of names until his last breath you never celebrate him but here you are celebrating someone you contributed to his death indirectly
Better do better. If your wife did same will you clap for her? He did what gave him bad name and Hbp. He was serving God and Marmon and then God removed hands from his marter. That bible he was using to deceive himself, God's church and the world, what did it say about serving God and Marmon? What did it say about adultery and sexual pollution? The same bible made it clear, that the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. You all love sin so much. You know what's right but think God is too sleepy to punish your evil deeds. Pastors and religious folks are the worst offenders. They know the truth but do otherwise with impunity. Then when called out, that same bible they profane and blaspheme , they will use it as a tool to turn against truth sayers, they use it as a weapon to shame those who point out their errors. You guys blame others when you reap the harvest of your sins. Learn your lesson and do better.
@Zupay She better not take him. He would use the govt against her over there. She should just put him in a good boarding house and let him enjoy his stay there
Emola12: If nah me be the man I for tell the lady say make I dey Nack am say I no go tell her boss and make she no do am again
My hope is that any woman you do that to will put otapiapia in your food and kill you off. I would have included fornication and adultery to the list of things the devil should whisper into the woman's ears to poison you but I will leave space for you to fall and get back up
See how fellow criminals in career are asking the upstanding security man to protect the thief. I keep saying it, to employ an average Nigerian is to employ a seasoned criminal to run your business. They are mostly thieves from birth. Very evil minded and cunning. She has been doing it and those begging on her behalf are criminals too. Go through the comments and you can spot the percentage of criminal minds justifying and understanding her action.
MideMrPossible: You keep repeating the same thing, agreed, I'm weak but show us your real life as a strong man or you're just strong behind the keyboard? Show us your evidence of survival as a strong person and I'll be willing to learn how to be a strong man like you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAlYkoyH6AY The batcher beside the building in the video above is where I used to stay when the project was commencing in 2021 when me and my boys were chased out of the mosque building given to us. For a weak/coward man that would have been the end of the project, oya bleed me more of your emotions.
My brother, ignore these children who don't know life beyond what their parents or yahoo yahoo can offer them. Most of them are kids born in 2000s even. I would advise you to keep your flock away completely from your neighbours farm. Some people don't forgive and forget. Don't take it physical with them if you are not 100% ready to fight to the death. Just keep your flock in your land and keep trying pursue peace if you can but don't let yourself go. Weldone. Plus is it safe to eat poisoned animals?
G men should arrange and murder the Drs and all nurses on duty that day. Until we start doing eyes for an eye with these people in position of authority, they won't do better.
onumadu: It is happening because it is the natural course of things in life, and there are bio-social reasons for it. If there is any FIRM strike against monogamy, this is it. In my ancestral Igboland, a man married as he aged. Example, at 20 year old, he married his first wife who may be 15/16 yrs old. At his 30 birthday, he married another woman... and so on until he gets to about 60-70 yrs old when he married a woman that (in Igbo language we say) "ga ene ya nka" (that would take care of him in old age). Go and see in the Bible where king David did exactly the same thing. But today, clueless men herd other clueless men into a clueless marriage system that is almost anti-men, only to get discarded and abused in their old age. This is why I keep advocating for a return to the ancestral Igbo marriage system by the Igbo. Euro-monogamy comes with things you cannot handle. When my beloved uncle died alone after raising children but was abandoned in old age, the handwriting on the wall became bright red for us his male relatives. Argue with yourself if you like!
Only a pauper or an arse licker or someone who wants to use his daughter as a thank you gift will give you his daughter to marry at quater to enter grave. Women are human being too. If you want a nurse go look for a qualified one. That bible you quote has a lot of things that if you do them today you will be called evil and u godly. So that it was done in the bible foesnt mean it must be acceptable today.
Paulheyman: Note 3) on carrier: if you have AS or AC etc. genotype then you are a carrier of the sickle cell treat. Simply means you can give birth to a sickle cell child and you can also have sickle cell crisis under reduced oxygen tension 4) Many misconception exist in SCD. Mine is to enlighten you and many others
I have been thinking of this. Can you educate me more on the symptoms AS people might have? Cos I have been arguing with people that AS genotype people can exhibit SS crisis but they all say nah. That AS are only carriers who dont show symotom.
I just hope she isn't one of those women they lure into naija through laptop. If she is an unfortunate victim of yahoo boys, they have drugged,sucked her dry physically and financially, sized her phone , passports and then kicked her out.
maasoap: Is it not better for you to tailor your responses to only what you read from others? Your are off the point, so no need to respond to your rant.
Just look at you there, smh! So, there is an acceptable polygamy? I'm glad you agreed that there is. Thanks
Yes there is acceptable multi partner marriages or polygamy. So far everybody involved is 100% into it. Wether it's one woman to multiple husbands or vice versa.
GUNITGuy: Since men of this generation have refused to have sense .....This rubbish would continue and get worse A woman does wrong they MEN would say Leave her na woman ...... Age long traditional have always subjected women over history now we know why!!! We taught they were wicked but now we understand.... The bible said women should be subjected I don't think anyone Loves women more than God who created them
Where did God tell you to subject women? I am not saying point where someone said God told him to do it. I am saying the laws God himself wrote and the one Jesus himself preached not the one one man called Paul and Saul or Abraham and Moses told you that God whispered in their ears alone. Any man that seeks to subject women should be given rat poison and killed off by a prostitute. Enough if that nonsense. Men that are stealing, killing and rapping up and down, has anyone forced the gender to subjection? What those women are doing is it worse than the crimes men have been committing against humanity since the dawn of time? Carry yourself go one corner make we hear word abegi.
Nigerian drivers are the least trained on the use of roads and road safety. I tried crossing the road once in ABJ using the zebra crossing and motorists threatened yo run me over because the road is for cars only they said. The govt doesn't give two ducks about yearly car inspection and roadworthiness permit. Even if they did, corruption would disstabilize the whole procedure. Commercial drivers lack training and nobody is held responsible when such preventable calamities occured take Dangote trucks for example. That man's business has drank the blood of tens if not hundreds of Nigerians blood and NOTHING can be done about it.
maasoap: It did and still does. Is polygamy not better than these rich married men using our evening newspapers as side chics?
You must be the stupidest man to ever live if you think men with multiple wives still don't carry side chicks or engage in quickies with random girls. Polygamy when forced on a woman is abuse against women and so it is. The only acceptable polygamy is if your first wife is the one who wholeheartedly brings you a woman (not because she noticed you stopped coming home because of your new sugar girl) and that woman must wholeheartedly accept. Not because you flash money at her desperation.