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They couldn't even erect ordinary tents? Nigeria is a failed state.

He is gunning for a new wife. Her sugar don wash

dyera:
The right answer is a type of berry.



So the regular one is international apple?

No, a foreign apple.

stuffs2002:
I always avoid SE people because of the EVIL and wickedness in them.

1) Why would Ekweremadu try to take advantage of such a small kid as that boy.

2) [s]They boy should have rejected their proposal right from Nigeria [/s]but greed of travelling abroad has blinded him to reason and he doesn't mind destroying the entire Ekweremadu family just to be able to stay in the UK

He knew his plan all along. His plan was to get there and run to the police. From there seek asylum claiming the Ekweremadus are powerful people with strong connections and they would have him executed if sent back to naija.

When you born mumu pikin, even that which is his right shall be conned out of him

Kodak9:
what made you say that 😡
Must you include igbos in any useless speech of yours

Many Nigerians are very ignorant of cultures and tribes in Nigeria. To them if you are not Hausa, you must be Igbo or Yoruba. They don't think there are any other tribes aside Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa.

VoidLife7:
Good day all,


Please i need your sincere input to this subject matter


I am from an average family of 6 living in Lagos. My father is a surveyor, while my mother a petty trader. My mother lost his younger brother's wife after child birth, through cesarian surgery.. My mum was the only female amongst 4 siblings, she was beseeched to look after the infant and her little brother. That was how my parents began nurturing these kids. I could recall vividly how my dad often supply the house with baby food so she could be properly fed. I saw how my dad and mum took turns at mid night looking after her. My dad lost his only sister four years after and he was given the responsibility to look after her last baby who was almost 2 years. I lost my dad 2015 when the little girl was 10, her brother 12 and the other child was just 8. My mum had 4 biological kids, 3 boys and a girl. The girl was the first child, happily married with kids. I have an elder brother and a younger brother. I was intermediate my brothers. Till date, these children acknowledged my parents as their biological parents. They never knew we aren't blood from same parents. We all had same surname. The little girl wrote her WAEC last year and cleared all her papers with distinctions and credit. She had the intention to study law or foreign languages.


I enrolled her in fashion designing immediately after her secondary school, as she had shown interest. It's less than a year she got enrolled and she's already sewing styles. She's heading to become a seamstress in the not too distant future. She also makes hair. Though not professional and she never learnt it.


My mum summoned me last month informing me she'd be giving my little sister out for marriage once she clocks 18 by May this year. She claimed i had been teaching in private school earning 30k monthly and my elder brother working in a factory earning 35k. We got bills to pay for ourselves and the kids. She asserted that the burden is already taken a toll on us. I and my elder brother are the ones supporting the family with accommodation, feeding, school fees et al. My mum claimed there was no money to pursue her education. We couldn't even afford to get her a sewing machine. The little girl suggested she get enlisted into the Nigeria navy or Immigration Service with her WAEC result, and also as a fashion designer. Perhaps, that could enable her pursue her law degree in subsequent time as an officer. My mum wasn't convince with her idea. She claimed there was no one to help her get enlisted successfully. She insisted in giving her out to a 43 years old divorces whose wife had abandoned with 3 kids. My mum was so ignorance enough to believed giving her out for marriage will help lessen our burden😭


I felt like giving my mum good hot slap having realised the reason i got summoned. I felt the burden is really weighing her down, making her think otherwise. I had kept my mum at arm length since then. Hopefully, that'd propel her have a change of mind. I sincerely got her plight though but that shouldn't be an option. She seems not to understand her decision would destroy the girl's life completely. She claimed it wasn't her fault. She sincerely wish we are capable of looking after the children, then she'd support her dreams and aspirations. She believed when there's no money, you shouldn't be found discussing anything that requires money. I've been so down ever since then. She claimed i i hadn't saved myself yet and i was worried saving someone else. She's my sister and i can't leave her behind. She never treated her badly for a day though and nobody knows she wasn't her biological child. If for instance, anyone come up tomorrow informing her or her siblings that my parents aren't their biological parents, they'd never pay attention to it. I was even threatening to report her to the family but she claimed the family can't do nothing. This little girl has good plans, dreams and aspirations but my mum wants to cut it short and shattered due to our challenges.


Please i need advice going forward. I really want to keep my family together🙏❤

If you don't live with them, ake her in and help her with a sewing machine to start something.
If you leave her with mom ehn, one day you will visit and hear that she has moved to her husband's house. Your mom is funny Sha. She no even fit find better young man to marry her beloved daughter na okrika overused and abandoned old cargo with 3 burdens (for your sister I mean) she go dey select for her new chassis daughter. Tufiakwa! Like she low-key hate the girl .

Afi foofoo na

BigBrother9ja:
Lol
See this grandma
For your mind, you're older, grown and more matured than everyone else here on the internet
Abeg shift. Yẹyẹ girl

Please. Call me GREAT grandma. Respect my age and walking stick

You na yeye boy from start. I go dey follow you bumper to bumper on NL

Franzinni:
haha there are still men who haven't gotten the memo or some who just want to validate anything a woman says with the hope of getting thier dicks wet. But we leave them to you all to at least have something to express your narcissism on. But for those who know how the game is played... We cool.

Yinmu

Holluwhakemmy:
i have a good virtues and dignity answer my question are you a virgin?

Answer is no. He has prolly attracted a spirit wife while sleeping around too

omooba969:
delishpot actually described you in the comment you quoted.

Vagina prefect...lol 'a loose man telling you about keeping vaginity for him? A dustbin telling you that you should bring your white clothes so he can use you to wipe away some of his filth! A low energy vampire asking for your highly charged energetic self so he can use you as a standing aid?

SAVAGE !

Are you minding those rabid animals? Frothing in the mouths going from one woman to the other asking about vaginal situation .Dogs that sleep around wanting chaste virgins. They are afraid. Very afraid of their own shadows

BigBrother9ja:
Lol
Mumu lose dog
Are you proud of yourself ?
If una like, make una reach 1m, I'll give it to all of you one after the other.
We must maintain sanity in our community.

#Pained

Franzinni:
exactly! it's MEN that keep the world spinning, good or bad ... And we don't complain about it we just play out part and keep pushing. Like I said enjoy your masculinity, it doesn't really bother men... Infact it only enhances our choices becasue a bricklayer can now date a female doctor if HE chooses, never in history has women been so easy to sleep with too ... And you think men are bothered ?

Who bares the consequences of pregnancy? It's even in our interest to just pump and dump and on to the next to pump and dump again ... You don't even know the half of it

You men are not bothered yet I can't go a second on social media without seeing men cry tears of pain about not getting the kind of woman they want? .

BigBrother9ja:
Lol
The shame and frustration is on you
We'll always be here to guide those that still have their virtuous not to mistake life -long and regretful FOOLISH actions like you and many others.
Everyone must not end up like you

You are more frustrated my dear. Been married for longer than you have lived. No shame, no frustration.
When you are done with your lamentations about how you want a woman's vagina to be kept, go hang yourself on behalf of my so called shame and frustration. If your mother had half of what I have she would dance to her grave feeling fulfilled as a human being

Johnsown1:
I know he err but what hurt most is the redicules and torments of the loved ones. She wouldn't have come public. Some things that doesn't relate to murder, rape and money related crimes should be handled secretly. Spouse cheating is not cool but it kills faster when your loved ones joined the queue

If he can err then she too is human and can err on how she handled it. Maybe you should also show her same mercy and understanding you expect her to show him?

BigBrother9ja:
See frustration...
People like you probably lost theirs to Indomie and fanta...
Na now you sabi God

Indomie and fanta too much sef
You, a man; crying up and down social media about vagina is not frustration ba? Cry me a river.

Felix6:
Her Ex before marriage must be invoking and applying Okafor's law.

And so? Did he not apply his own and more even while she was alive? Why can't she apply it when he is dead? Is there any religion or law that forbids a widow from moving on?

iamme1234:
U are a novice in life and marraige
Go and work and earn a living smallie

Yeye dey smell

BigBrother9ja:
You don't always value what you have until you lose it...


Same thing goes for all these young girls with hot blood and blocked brain giving out their virtuous and virginity within the last 24 hours...

Don't lose your dignity and virtue to nonsense, worthless and valueless things! You'll always regret it.

I know some fools that have lost their virginity to Indomie and fanta, pizza, ice-cream and all sorts of nonsense.

Your virginity is the most valuable and most precious thing you have to give any man.

Any man who tells you that your virginity or past doesn't matter is ONLY DECEIVING YOU!
That man is definitely not a responsible man or he only wants you for fun and something casual...

No high value man prefers to make a SLÚT or WHORÈ a wife or the mother of his children, even if she's the most beautiful woman in the world.
No one likes leftover...
No one like a used product...
No man likes a girl that has been ran through and passed around like football by various men...
Most importantly, NO CHILD WANTS TO BE BORN BY A WHORÈ OR A RETIRED SLÚT...


YOU CAN GIVE A LOT OF MEN

LOVE
MARRIAGES
CHILDREN etc
BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY!
IS SUCH VALUABLE GIFT NOT WORTH GIVING SOMEONE SPECIAL THAT YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?

any woman that keeps virginity because she thinks a man must appreciate it is a fool.
Women be chaste for your and God's sake. Be chaste because it makes you special in God's eyes. Men should also do same cos God values chastity in both genders even though worldly men has made it a female only requirement. They want to eat their cakes and have it too.
Don't listen to these vagina prefects making you think they won't play on your intelligence because they married you as virgins. All these their preaching is just for their ego sake. Imagine a loose man telling you about keeping vaginity for him? A dustbin telling you that you should bring your white clothes so he can use you to wipe away some of his filth! A low energy vampire asking for your highly charged energetic self so he can use you as a standing aid? You are better than that na. Common ashawo would snatch these types from you.and your virginity would mean nothing. You will just be saying he met me a virgin o, he was my very first man yet see how he is treating me. Put all your trust in flesh and know missery

iamme1234:
If u love him to the peak
Die with him
Its a pity this lady would surely re marry
Or already in a man's hand
Women cant be trusted.
To all men please live ur life to the fullest
Cos men's life line isnt long after many stress
Its a pity sammy
God rest ur soul

When your wife dies you may die with her.
Why can't she remarry or be in a man's hands? That culture or religious book you people use to prove how God made you demigods as men, did it forbid a woman from remarrying and being in another man's arms after her demigod passes on?
If a man can marry multiple women while his wives are still alive, why should a woman remarrying after the death of her husband torment your bitter souls so bad?

FireUpNow:
Did your father trusted your mother? Your answer will give us more insight to the home you are from and the kind of upbringing you had

Maybe his mother and sisters Bleep around. Heck his daughter might be servicing his whole neighbourhood and all the women in his environ are hookers hence he has not seen any woman that will make him say some women are good.

Franzinni:
let me tell you that women need men first and foremost for security, stability and protection... Listen, the only reason you have this mentality is becasue it is safe in the part of the world you live, the moment that balance is disturbed you would quickly run to a man to defend, and protect you ... Women especially this generation are the most ungrateful set of humans to ever be recorded. You ask what is the value of a man ... While enjoying the world built by men.

[s]Men are dying in Russia and Ukraine and no feminist find it necessary to protest inequality but the bubblegum heads in the west are clamouring for equality and now ... You have it haha. Enjoy it[/s] !!!

Who created the situation killing men in Russia and Ukraine? Women? Those men dying on both fronts, who sent them to go and die? Women? If it was left to Russian and Ukrainian women in general, do you think they would agree for their children to go and fight to the death? Maybe men who claim to be better should rise up and think how the world can keep peace instead.

litigator:
He he told his wife he was going to work as usual and might be working late since it was a Friday.

Like previous times, his wife felt he was out drinking with friends and will be back the next morning. But he never did. He simply sold his car that afternoon, took an 11pm flight and never came back.

They had considered him missing and was about filing a missing person claim save for his best friend who had the courage to tell the wife that her husband wasn’t missing. He simply disappeared willingly into thin air.

It was after 3 months a strange number called her to ask after the kids. It was their father who had disappeared from work and traumatized his family.

He now wants to be in the life of his kids, but he is done with his wife. He is never coming back her. He feels she is a destiny killer who married him best he had the capacity to provide and not because she loved him.

The wife can’t help but ask where she went wrong in her marriage and what she wasn’t doing right.

According to him, he felt his wife was simply using him as a provider and a means of financial security. She never truly loved him.

He didn’t want the messy stuff of moving out into another part of the city and the attendant family meetings with everyone trying to convince him to stay.

He felt disappearing to another country where he will be able to start all over again and rebuild his life was the best thing to do.

Have you ever thought of leaving your family and disappearing into another part of the world to start all over again?

Why?

Rubbish. He should go and die. Was he the only one that sacrificed for the family?

Hahaha Nigerians are slow it seems. For these people to confidently tell these kinds of story without fear means they can even tell Nigerians that all the new notes magically turned to ordinary papper in CBN vault and they will get away with it

Johnsown1:
Fake people, why celebrating him after killing him spiritually. You disgraced him and gave him all kinds of names until his last breath you never celebrate him but here you are celebrating someone you contributed to his death indirectly

Better do better. If your wife did same will you clap for her? He did what gave him bad name and Hbp.
He was serving God and Marmon and then God removed hands from his marter. That bible he was using to deceive himself, God's church and the world, what did it say about serving God and Marmon? What did it say about adultery and sexual pollution?
The same bible made it clear, that the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy.
You all love sin so much. You know what's right but think God is too sleepy to punish your evil deeds. Pastors and religious folks are the worst offenders. They know the truth but do otherwise with impunity. Then when called out, that same bible they profane and blaspheme , they will use it as a tool to turn against truth sayers, they use it as a weapon to shame those who point out their errors. You guys blame others when you reap the harvest of your sins. Learn your lesson and do better.

Women sef. Na she kukuma Sabi.

A town hall
Different from
Balablu

Nigerians have shown this one shege. He don come explain his theory to remove their arrow eyes from his body

@Zupay She better not take him. He would use the govt against her over there. She should just put him in a good boarding house and let him enjoy his stay there

Now the victim eyes go clear. (S)he go look the partner face ask am what am I doing here? Why am I in bed with you? Leave my house etc