₦airaland Forum

Reyginus:
This is an erroneous comparison. Both in my father's house and my brother's everything is owned by him and so he dictate the rules. It's his home.

But then when I finally buy a portion of his house I fully should control that. We are then to live in accordance to the rule of that government in control of the place. Should we respect the culture and not the government?

Stop running in circles. If you buy land in a village where they do not kill snakes then you should as hell be ready to let snakes walk around your comypound freely. You cannot kill them and claim you own that land where the snake was. If you cant live by the rule, dont build there. As a people we have ciltures and ways of life. Do not come to do business in our markets and touch and pull the hands of our women. Even if you bought the shop. Follow rules. Respect our cultures and abide by our laws.
So if you own a radio in your brothers house, or compound does that give you the right to play it as loud as you want any time you want since it is yours?
Yes Nigeria is 1 yet we are many. If we say we do not eat pork in our land, then dont bring it into our markets. Even though you bought that shop.
I do not have the strenghth to go on and on. If you do not see the picture I am painting and you believe because we are 1 then you can behave anyhow you choose to behave irrespective of cultures and traditions then so be it.
That is exactly why Nigeria is where it is now.
Nigeria has many cultures, languages and religions and we even though we should welcome others with open arms, we still want our values to be upheld and our society to function as smoothly as possible

Reyginus:
I think this is the problem. We are not one. What do you mean by my house if we are one house?

You and your brother are 1 right? But if you go to his house, you cant behave how ever you want.
Even in your fathers house you have limits and boundries. That is the problen I am talking about. When you think because we are 1 our cultures should be shunned and disregarded. It is not supposed to be so.

Yes. It is very normal for some ladies who are environmental friendly. Google it if you doubt me.
There is nothing wrong in it, your grand ma and even mothers did it and you came out of that hole safe, healthy and sound. Your dads dicks did not fall off afzer hitting it time and time again after they saw their "rice and stew"
Grow up boy. You should be ashamed of yourself for peeping at a menstruating woman. Who does that?
A girl say I am on my period and the so called boyfriend wants to see her blood stained pad as proof?
Eeewwwwww! You have a fetish you just dont know it yet. Starring at used menstrual pads.
Besides, what makes yiu believe she owes you sex? If she avoid you you come here to complain how your babe doesnt want to spend time with you. Your fellow kids will support you and say she is seeing other guys. If she pays a visit you demand sex as if its your birth right. Na wa o.

No be roaches give money to one other state like that some months ago?
So he is like a mother with starving kids who decides to feed the children of her neighbor with her limited resources instead of caring for her own children first?

And you are giving this order as?

Anyway sha, I believe the government should take things easy. I would say let Biafra go if you ask me. Let them go but give them room to re-join Nigeria should they decide to. Give them Biafra, keep the door open for those states who would like to pull out in the near future.
Give them Biafra but add a clause that aby state is free to pull out should they want to in future without the others kicking against it.
I kniw its easier said than done but it isnt totally undoable.

Thank you. See it doesnt take much to keep a society calm. Any wise leader knows this. All you need do for your people is to give them the basics for life namely
Food
Shelter
Medicals
Education
Transport
Entertainment
These things can be met with little eftort if the government is interested in doing so.
Providing these things to the public keeps the people calm and less likely to be unrully and pushy. Since their immediate needs are met albeit not world class but enough to solve their needs when they do need them.
The problem with Nigerian govt is greed. Big bellied men and women wanting it all to themselves and their sugar boys and girls.
They spare no change to cussion the surffering of their people and this causes people to feel sidelined, neglected, tribalized and abbandoned.
When one group ignores the exess of their "brothers" and clamp down on the "stangers" at the slightest perception of provocation.
Strict uniform rule of law would solve this Biafra problem. Where evil is not accepted no mater who commits it and lawfull behaviour is commended.
When you let fulani herds men kill and get away un-punished yet you shoot at people who do peaceful protest. Of course you portray your leadership as a marginalized one and the ones who feel oppressed would want to break free. Does it take a rocket scientist to know this?
Buhari if you need help as in an advicer, please PM me. it seems you are suroundded by butt lickers who are afraid to tell you their honest oppinion or you personaly dont accept wise counsel.

The Igbos on the other hand should learn to respect other peoples land and cultures. When you live in my house and call me a fool behind my back of course it will cause me to react negatively to you and people who may have the same culture and beliefs as you. Then your people will start claiming marginalized. Go to the markets and see how ibo boys harrass women in the name of calling them to buy "market" it is a disgrace and a shame how they behave as if the rule of the land does not apply to them because they are "smart" and more "exposed" than their hosts. Until Nigerians in general swalloe their prides and respect each other as humans no mater the level of education or exposure there will be and continue to be problems

They want to make sure their nyanshes are well hidden. They are smart guys.
Now they can commit crimes and walk about freely cos their victims will not be able to squel on them without evidence.
Much like sharia law of produce 4 withnesses for your rape acusation or forever remain silent.


On the other hand, I believe the bloggers or rumour carriers should be made to publicly appologize and pay a fine if the rumours carried are proven without doubt to be false.

Just like they did with Boko haram ba?

Following this topic to see other's views

Truckpusher:
Truth remains that we should be nice to those that work for us and with us.

Your wife, driver , housemaid and your PA are the people in your life you shouldn't maltreat , because if you do it , it might just trigger the beast in them.

Let me not forget to add end time driver.

Very true. But those who are evil will always do evil no mater what. Yes the level of your goodbess may determine how the level if their payback will be. But they still wont spare you.
But, I agree with your point. Ee should treat everyone around us with compassion and dignity. At least it may help them not hit us as hard as they would have if we were mean to them.

Yerima, no child bride for you in Biafra o

tartar9:
sharrap liar! which peace?
"do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword"

Its the sword you are seeing now. Affiliating with christ brings out the sword. Ask those christians in those countries where they are asked to convert or die.
Was that verse wrong?

No excuse. Its in your blood. Even if she was very kind to you, you would still use the oportunity to kill her and steal. Because you will think she was being good because she has more than enough if she can give you something good. If madam can give me 19 k that means she has 100k left mentality

DDeliverer:
tis already a normal thing...and before long these abokiis will turn u all to slaves.

SAIBABA

For your mind now you don comment? Shiooorrrr!

You are talking Aboki yet your kinsmen are growing up seeing rivers of blood everyday. One day they will not need a.boki to help them suck each others blood. One day they will also not have value for life due to the exposure they are having now. One day they will replace the a.boki in vampiring each other.
One day after they fight the a.boki and the attitude of kill me I kill you takes hold in their blood they will turn against each other. And when the a.bokis are long gone, your community will still be struggling to make life as valuable as it was before. Then I will remind you of this day.

We are breeding Animals in Nigeria. Our government should gandle this killing and bloodshedding culture NOW before it becomes a "normal" thing in Nigeria. our kids are growing up in a world where life has very little value. This is not good at all for the future of our society. The government should do something if they trully care for the future of Nigeria. If they want it ti be peaceful at all if they want to have citizens with empathy .
Our future is in jeopardy

Let me sit down here and see how nairaland boys will give 1million reasons not to treat a woman right and on the other hand give 1million reasons why the women should treat them right.


That is to say, they will dissagree with the men duties in the post but agree wih the womens duties in this post.

BTW nice one OP

The Elites are busy dividing and rulling the world

kfrosh:
God save us from karachika

Sidon there dey find Gods grace while commiting fornication..... typical Nigerian instead of actively helping themselves they will keep doing bad then call God to kèep them safe.

I did but I dont have time to dig up old posts.
Anyhow, Nigetia can still be great if we tried hard enough.

Make love not war....

BTW who ever trusts America these days. Only an idiot will believe America has his interest at heart. You see, America fuels both sides of war. America and all her big sugar daddies who give her money. War is ptofitable business they wont stop it. Peace is more expensive than war. For those who have 4th eyes.......how ya holding up?

Lie. I know say NW no ve the best but I sure say dem no wanwein reach this level.

Oya o Buhari, next stop.........GHANA!

My Dear Nigerian Brother in Ghanian jail, I do hope with all my heart for your sake that the Nigerian government gives a hoot about your behind in jail. You see, even in Nigeria, innocent people are rotting away directly under the noses of the powers that be and no finger is lifted up to save then. You see my brother, Ghana is too far for our president to visit besides he is very tired. He just returned from france after touring the world. For now climate change is more important than what ever it is you are going through. You see Emeka, while ghanian prisons have the potential to kill Nigerians in the 100s, climate change has the ability to wipe out Nigeria as a whole. Use your tongue to count your teeth and Now you tell me Mr prisoner, which of these call for immediate attention? Please dear brother in diasporan Jail, kindly sacrifice this little for the lives if your family and friends back home. Endure for the greater good of others. Our great president is working towards CHANGE but I am sorry that wind of change is not meant to blow your direction if you are abroad especially not when you are in jail.
NB if you survive your jail experience and return to naija some time in the future, please voze for CHANGE.

Yours
Semi Oga at the top

She seduced you ke? Eh, if she succeeded in seducing you to knock her up, I hope she can seduce you to marry her too.

Some men sha, when its sex you claim seduced, when its sonething else you dont get seduced again. So there are times you dont fall for seduction ba?
That is to say a man can control himself but chooses not to in certain circumstances?


Pkele, you even tried sef to accept the baby.

cramjones:
I saw this ghost yesterday at my house. His name is Atamuno...He loves playing with fire....The good thing about Atamuno the ghost is that he is very peaceful and friendly.

-CramJones

True confession

OP just call a meeting with them and roll on the floor to beg them for the slap then roll some more to beg then to stop fighting

Akeem1759:
OP I swear down u no lie. Imagine when a Fifteen year old girl dey tell me for my hood dey tell me say me I no open eye, I go just dey form gentle guy... Later na hin I here the gist na one of our Old Stupid Bros for area dey scatter this babe punne..

And you preach to the bros who is clearly older than the girl and as such should be wiser and more grounded than her that what he is doing is bad? That he is spoiling the girls life?

They clearly aint doing it with aliens na. Abi is it only the girls that are commiting the sin?

So the man is ignored and the 16 year old is expected to be the smart decision maker? How then can the society be better? In the days past both boys and girls were discouraged from premarital sex nowadays the men are allowed to slide and a 13 or 16 year old girl is to blame. I thought it was a well known fact that women have chicken brain? Why dont the smart brained men try to make the world clean world?

All is change. He is travelling for change in naija.

mankan2k7:
The minister for tourism shd take note, I mean bubu

Tallesty1:
Evil Events?

He used a woman, a preg woman but there's no evidence so those who are aware kept it to themselves.

How you take know this one oooooo