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Married & not in tune with your spouse

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Thank you Splinz. Great contribution.

More contributions are encouraged. Kindly make more contributions.

The role of finance could either make or mar a relationship, depending on how the parties involved handle it.

In financial responsibility, we simply encourage a template you can learn from and adapt to your relationship. There is no one cap fit all rule.


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You need to find which one works best for you after learning the basic principles.

You will experience bliss!

Someone is asking the role values play in a relationship.

There is also a question of how to know you are settling with a person with the right values.

How can I open my spiritual eyes?

What are those practical ways to identifying and making right choices?

There are people who find it difficult to make right choices on the partners to settle with.

Kindly make your contribution(s) on how to go about this.


Thanks!

The selfishness in human nature tends to make us focus on magnifying the weaknesses in our partners. It justifies action whether right or wrong without accepting responsibility for the outcome of action taken.

Always remember that you and your partner have weaknesses.

Look more into leveraging each other’s strength rather than tearing each other down because of your weaknesses.

When you are absolute in your statements to your partner, you might likely not accept opposing views.

Allow your mind to be flexible.

It is when you are open in your mind that you will have the chance of maturing into new level of thinking and responsibilities.

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I like the contribution in personality differences.

How can we allow this differences foster stronger bonds instead tearing relationships apart?

If one stand back and expects that the problem will go away, what do you do when it gets it compounded. Truth the told, not doing anything about it sometimes make situation worse and frustrating to the party that desire resolution.

Parties in a relationship sometimes have serious disagreements over the fact that one always procrastinate and the other proactive.

Why this huge gap?

The role of finance could either make or mar a relationship, depending on how the parties involved handle it.

In financial responsibility, we simply encourage a template you can learn from and adapt to your relationship. There is no one cap fit all rule.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKLB8hNR2uY

You need to find which one works best for you after learning the basic principles.

You will experience bliss!

Amazing contributions!

I know of a couple some years ago based on true life story.

It so happened that the husband needed to make love. Unfortunately for him, he was refused.
His cheque bounced!

On their way to work, the husband started driving carelessly and the wife cautioned him to be careful.
Deep down in the husband’s mind, he was wondering why she has to tell him to be careful.

Meanwhile, he couldn’t reveal the reason.

All contributions are well appreciated!

I feel strongly that everyone has the right to be angry. Not being angry can possibly indicate pretense or ignorance from either or both parties.
I feel one should weigh the consequences of any action in any form before taking the action.
I am a bit concerned , especially when this has the ability to repeat the cycle in the following generations

I feel it is therefore important that maturity, empathy, sensitivity, genuine love can help resole issues more constructively.

I believe some of these will go a long way in achieving healthy resolutions between partners.

Once again, thanks for every contribution.

Thank you for all the contributions!

Really appreciated!

I love the twist though that someone brought about why some wives refuse to cook for their husband because they are equally angry.

We have three major reasons so far. How many more can we add?

Thanks for the contributions. Let them keep coming.

Other reasons from our contributions:

1. Development of negative emotions which can subsequently lead to loss of appetite.
2. Deliberate attempt to get back at one’s spouse.

Thank you for sharing and being sincere.

This is very important to note because of the cycle it creates from one generation to another.

One point given here about “why some men reject food” is to get attention.

More reason(s)?

Thanks!

This case is actually a real life story currently being handled.

We have a case at the moment and we need your sincere feedback.

Why do some men reject their wife’s food when they are angry or there is disagreement?

You can ignore the picture!

Thanks

I agree with you. Poor communication and unexpressed disappointments are major factors.

What can we say therefore to troubled relationships going through this ordeal?

Thank you.

I believe you are trying to say admitting wrong in a situation a partner realizes he or she is wrong. True admittance should be seen through genuine repentance or remorse.
It is true because of the angry partner sees this from his or her partner, it could possibly help calm the situation.

More suggestions......

What can one do then to put the anger under control without getting to the point of explosion?

Parties in a relationship candidly love each other before marriage.
Why would the same people result to physical or emotional assault?

We have situations where couples or intending couples become defensive /quarrelsome over observations and suggestions that can make each other better.

Why should someone resist such?

Thank you for all the wonderful contributions!

Really, there are quite a number of reasons as highlited by us.

In addition to some of these contributions, I feel the followings and more could be the possible reasons:

1. Lack of consideration of partner’s interests and concerns.
2. Lack of flexible mind to accommodate opinion or personality differences.
3. Poor communication.
4. Inability to adapt to new changes and willingness to attend to the needs the phase brings.
5. And many more that cannot be exhausted here.

It is to this end that DeluwaTalksReal is positioned to offer time tested professional counsel to address Premarital and marital challenges you might find difficult to resolve.


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Beautiful and funny contributions�

What attracted couples together before marriage sometimes could be the bone of contention after marriage.

I will drop my thoughts later.

The same person that used to say I cannot do without you is now saying his or her partner is the greatest mistake of his or her life.