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qtguru:
Then what's the point of being in a relationship with a woman if you cannot share your problems, Men and women who have nothing to offer to you will leave you when you are down. I tell my , my problems and if she wants to walk, she is free, I am not losing sleep over anyone. Your doctrines are toxic, alot of women and men are not that malicious as you paint them and those that are, are easy to decipher.

qtguru:
That sounds immature and dumb to me honestly, leave NL and get a job and you will see how things unfold really. Nobody cares about male journey other than what skills you have to offer and if you have value., you think a man cares about a man's journey.

Kaybae:
Platonic ko, small time they will start having stupid feelings, "I like how she walks","I like how she laughs" if na married man his wife don enter am bi that.

qtguru:
Story, if you were working in a company you would know this is silly to say

Klass99:
Does anyone else get irritated by this notion that men are like babies? It makes me irritable to hear people say that.

Let babies be babies and grown azz men/women be adults please. There's nothing wrong with wanting to love and be loved in return but to insinuate that we (adults) are like babies really ticks me off.

Childishness in adults ticks me off as well. Anyway, I was just passing by but I stopped reading at that point. Please I am having headache nobody should quote me this evening o!

Bahamas95:
It's true, some girls prefer having guys as their best friend because guys don't have time to gossip or beef them unlike their fellow girls who hate for no reason.

qtguru:
It's not every female you sleep with else you will lose opportunities from those that are supposed to connect you

SOZINN:
It's a pity I can't share videos on nairaland. I just watched a lady say she will destroy your properties if you try to chase her out of your house because of a break up. According to her, if you improve her life and put her on a certain level. You have no right to take everything back if she breaks up with you.

You should continue to pay her bills till she finds her another capable man. And if she doesn't, her bills are on you till whenever. If you try to take the pedestal away, she will retaliate. She was very serious about this.

Note: For those of you who are still interested in dating, don't be afraid. She is a westerner.

ubunja:
it's a host of factors why broke men are sizzling in bed. And it's something the Red pillers will have to study closely if they're to dominate women in all spheres, including sex. But red pillers are secretly counting on winning through money that's why any talk of investigating this phenomenon is a talk they don't wanna have. This is one of those topics the movement will stay avoiding, to its loss.

Lmao

Masculinity has been reduced to just having a big dick in this modern times, Wat a shame!

Masculinity as a whole is about sexuality of men period not just having good and big dick.
Women are not sexual beings but they are bloody sexual objects. For example wen u use a mobile phone, who's enjoying the pleasure the phone gives out...is it the phone itself or u the handler

Women's orgasm isn't important for pregnancy and women's orgasm doesnt checkmate her hypergamy and monkey branching period!

Masculinity is beyond having a big dick.

Men play three roles in a women's life;
It's either the man is her friend, her lover or her father. Masculinity embraces the entirety of all that. Masculinity isn't sex alone period!!!!!

As a man who's broke there's no guarantee that u will b able to smash a lot of ladies especially in this modern age period!!!
Redpill isn't all about sex, it's about understanding masculinity as an entirety.

neyyoh:
Maybe because i have my own personal agenda which is tied to the redpill but bigger.

I don't do ideological worship, i study and use my mind, so if my view's differ, its just showing an independent mind.

Some people here capable of grasping what I'm about are cave, bloodysperm, demzee even though he comes across harsh, dark gamer will naturally grow into that mindset , I've studied how he thinks through his writing.

I can guarantee you these people i mentioned can read between the lines.

Also it could be down to level of exposure, experience and should i say maturity not that I'm that mature

I'll put people here into two groups the shallows and the deep thinker's, that's why there's a bit of a hiccup but it's all good.

MALIGNANTGuest:
You need a woman based in the United States.
But respecting you is what I can't guarantee.
A Lady based in the United States will respect you more if you have self-worth as a man, making you desirable & indispensable b4 other women.

kheny12:
To my own opinion,Men that's are sex addicts are the one that are not more interest after having sex with a female.

MrCodeSolo:
Bcuz you keep feeding your brain with these lousy thoughts about her just immediately or a day or week after the initmate act " she is not the one for me....yes I have seen it all now....she isn't too this or she isn't too that, she doesn't show how much she wants to include me in her life, she doesn't include me in anything serious going on in her life, she is not sensitive enough to ask me about some obvious issues bothering me, she used to say we will never look good together when we finally start to going out, I think I'm liking her bestfriend more bcuz she's got everything I'm looking for in a woman, how I wish and bla bla bla! " We continue to overthink and overthink so many other 99 reasons not to be with her eventhough the entire of it all are just some made up thoughts conjured to justify ourselves. Now that's where the interest in her dies.

But if your real intentions for her was good and promising from the beginning you got to know her as a person... and the moment after the act, you would be more drawn by her gravity.....her effects on you will be more pronunced and difficult to wipe off, bcuz you have just found a part of you in her that just got you so hitched from the mind just like that....naa from my own clayed pot of my past concoction I bin fetch dz one from oooh....I'm just saying from d way I saw things ooo. As crypto no gree pay again I say mek I kack here and chill for sometime.

nrexzy:
Cos most ladies actually don't understand how men reason.. They tend to use Sex as a weapon, or trophy and most men loves challenges and are collectors... So if u meet n guy n u both catch feelings n shag don't get too attached to dat no come Dey ask dumb questions like "what are we now"....

Xscape1993:
It is lust not love.

bepositive11:
I worry that Nigeria is getting more westernized though and by independent women, I wasn't referring to only independent single mothers. I was referring to both married and unmarried women

Anyway, nice discussion. Have a great weekend

bepositive11:
Exceptions are a majority now though. Look around you. How many women for example still remain faithful? They've become promiscuous too by the majority. The casual s*x culture is to blame

And there are so many independent women these days and it'll just keep rising

There is some truth to the red pill theory, but times are changing. It's undeniable

bepositive11:
You're talking red pill theory.

I get where you're coming from. My point is we cannot generalize anything. There will always be exceptions.

bepositive11:
It depends. Some women have lost their sensitivity due to casual sex. They too see s*x like men. And some men need emotional connection first

Either way, men who cheat should stay with women who cheat

Faithfull and loyal men and women deserve one another. One of the most painful thing a man or woman can experience is being loyal but getting cheated on

Cheats deserve each other

bepositive11:
Men who can't commit should stay away from committed relationships. It's simple

Men who cheat tear down their women, especially if she's a good and loyal woman

If a woman should cheat on her man, he won't be able to stand the pain so why inflict it on a woman?

Men who cheat should partner with women who cheat. They deserve each other

Rozcol:
Please carry your redpill nuggets from here,men just have sex yen yen yen

pansophist:
You no de tired? E be like say this swallow de shack you wella. Calm down o, before I instruct Amadioha to locate you right now

kmcutez:
Be ready for a severed dick.

socialmediaman:
Yet there’s a statistic out there that over 60% of Nigerian women are unfaithful! Nigerian women are the most unfaithful women on planet Earth!

https://www.channelstv.com/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex

Flier:
You should know what your GF/Wife Is capable of doing before you start cheating,Dont date or marry a useless woman
That is the solution because I know you will cheat when you get lot of money

Saviolamemphix:
I think stupidity is in ur dna

Saviolamemphix:
Heaven will rejoice d day u receive sense

pansophist:
Maybe because one of the wholesome, awesome, organic joy in life is to have a happy family. Maybe because its better and easier to paddle through life with someone you share deep intimate, emotional and sexual connection with, that transcends the artificial. Lots of maybe.

Good that you can afford to be a source of sustenance to your wives, but don't be too sure about the future, billionaires do become broke you know ? So make sure you marry the wives that if shit hit the fan, they can wear the helmet and support you on your way back to top.

I pray you do not learn the hard way, but I use God name beg you, do not marry a trophy wife who is lazy just because you can afford the height of her materialism and vanity. It's the true definition of hell on earth, and it's even more hellish when deep in your heart, you know you created your own hell. Life is not long, do not choose suffering the short time you're here.