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McDonaldfished:
I just want to know the reason she behaves that way

Azurevermillion:
A question for you sir. Are you among the power movers and shakers in Nigeria? If yes, cool. If No. Then shut the Bleep up.

Oldoinyolengai:
1. Why do you think Nigeria won't allow women to out-earn men?
2. How is it going to achieve that after failing to stop simple malicious things like corruption and terrorism?
3. What will happen in case women out-earn men in Nigeria?

Kennyking1234:
my sec school was 75% female, as female teach our young boys they become more weak and feminized. While the girls are much masculine and forming "Feminist" . The male teachers are also weak, The girls easily have their way with them.
I am afraid the change is coming... its a matter of "when and how"

Drenimarcus:
Leave them brother, Nigeria has the second highest paternity fraud in the world. The “sobbing” and suicide rates will rise exponentially in coming months/years.

He who has ears should hear what the church is saying.

TheDarkGamer:
To be very honest, the reason why people here still reply to this "TUEHHHHHH" guy's posts baffles me. He is uncouth and vulgar. There is no refinement in his posts and he just spits garbage.

He might have good intentions but he is too rigid and he believes that his viewpoint is absolute. He is always ready to demean and abuse people who disagree with him.

He always has a particular stereotyped answer to give concerning the coming change. He says Islam and Nigeria's patriarchal glory days are enough to prevent females from becoming independent and having more control and influence than men. Same old response.

One thing he does not understand is that the change is already here. How else can you explain the increasing immorality displayed by females, females attaining jobs that make them equal or above men, men abused when accused of rape but in female cases, it is downplayed, etc. These are just examples. If Islam and patriarchy in Nigeria were really effective, we would not be chasing western ideals by now. Another thing he needs to understand is that Nigeria is not an Islamic nation (might soon be if you consider the way the country is being run, but that's another story), so why shout Islam when that does not apply to the south?

Religion cannot stop this change, unfortunately. Christianity is too lax and you can even see changes in the churches around you. In the past, women did not hold positions (mostly), they dressed moderately, etc. Now, it's a different story. If Christianity was really effective in matters concerning the country, we would not even be in this situation where Northern Muslims oppress the entire country. Rather, Christians are mostly made to believe that their kingdom is in heaven and that is why most are nonchalant about the situation on the Earth. Situations like this for example. Even in churches, the average woman has more influence than the average man (not men with power, average men).

When making an analysis, also consider the younger generation. I have this experience and I know what I'm talking about. Most kids nowadays do not really care about religion. They are only present in churches and religious events because they are forced by their parents and societal pressure. If given free will, a good number of them will abandon it. Teenagers all over the country and those in other countries are not really afraid of religion anymore. Consider that when you make such assumptions. In the future, if things continue like this, Christianity might become extinct (maybe that's too much) or irrelevant in the society. The younger ones are not really interested and they will raise their kids in that manner, the cycle will go on. It will be like how it is in the West.

I don't know much about Islam, so I won't talk about it.

You can use that Super Tv CEO's murder case as an example. If it was a man, he would be prosecuted immediately and the case would have died. He will also receive verbal abuse from a lot of people, regardless of if he committed the crime or not. But what do we see, the suspect is treated favorably and allowed to make interviews while under custody. One thing people don't understand is that humans are fickle creatures and easily forget. This media coverage that she is receiving will in time, make people feel pity for her and she has boldly made another claim that she didn't kill the man. You can imagine how many lies she has given and she is allowed to do so freely. Maybe, her case is special and there are higher forces involved but it still reflects how hypocritical our society is.

The LGBTQ+ movement is already in Nigeria and will sooner or later be legalized. There are enough sympathizers and advocates amongst our population. It is mainly young adults and teenagers. Most of my friends and mates do not have a problem with it. You'd hear rationalizations such as "They were born like that", or "As long as they are not hurting anybody, then they should be left alone". Check social media and see the comment sections. The movement is gaining traction among young people. Check the Nairaland Diary section and you'd see enough gay diaries there.

The media also aids the coming change too.

The fact is that there are many signs to indicate that a change is coming. However, as men, we are too rigid and our beliefs are set in stone. You see the facts around you, but you deny it. Just be aware, and make sure you adapt to any situation you find yourself in. Stop reminiscing about the good old days.

Now, regarding this "TUEHHHH" guy, whenever he is placed with facts like this, he gets emotional in his response. He will accuse you of wishing for the change to occur and tell you that you are not a man or something of the sort. What he doesn't seem to realize is that, even if you wish for it not to occur, if it will happen then it will happen. We should just be prepared.

The time I joined this thread and saw his moniker and posts, I knew instantly the type of person he was. I remember when he had a disagreement with ubunja and I challenged him about what he said. He couldn't defend it because he said rubbish.

Yes, I am not disputing the fact that he might add something beneficial from time to time, but that is on extremely rare occasions. He just repeats the same old statements without putting logic to them. He is also extremely emotional and insults everybody when challenged (just like a woman would).

All in all, beware of him. Yes, it's you DEMZEE.

Saviolamemphix:
U all should stop quoting dis headslamming terrorist called demzee hes up to no good.

ubunja:
Guys remember monikers like @DEMZEE are trolls. Any engagement with such is a waste of time. That's why they're opposing every post.

Jessepaid:
hehehe....


Nigeria ladies are too proud....



Go jumia, search for intimacy gadgets....


Read the reviews and ratings....


These hoes would rather masturbate oo..


E no reach two women for Nigeria wey their head still correct..

Emotionss:
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They keep allowing ego and sentiments to cloud their judgment.

Let's use the last 3 BBNaija as an example how many how the male house mate are as successful as their female counterparts outside the house ?

More and more men are losing their managerial jobs to women in Nigeria. Go to banks, IT firms, Breweries,media houses, multinational corporations and see how women are gaining ground on the top managerial positions that was mostly dominated by men few years ago...

While our young men are busy dominating the menial jobs, construction jobs, Yahoo Yahoo, Driving jobs and other stress related jobs, the women are busy gunning for the managerial and other higher paying jobs. Yet some of us find it hard to accept that more and more women are becoming fainancal independent in Nigeria....

The purpose of Redpill is not to stop that evolution, but to equip men with the Mental and emotional maturity to deal and counter any negative issue that will arise as a result of that..

More and more men are losing their jobs on a daily basis thereby making the women the bread winners of their families as a man who depends on his fainancal status to dominate and control your environment how do you handle such situations if you're not mentally, emotionally and physically prepared for it.

How does a man that earns 200k a month attracts the attention of a woman that earns 500k a month if he's not mentally, emotional, physically different from other men.

As a Man. Without your fainancal status, Do you have the required mental, physical and emotional maturity to make a statement for yourself and impress others (men and women alike) if you're not a true Redpiller. ?

The world is changing how many men are ready for such change ?

I intend to remain a king in my little kingdom and for that I will continue to watched, abserve, adjust and improve myself when necessary while still maintaining my Redpill musiline mentality...

Any man that wants to remain in 1999 delusions about women independence is free to do so.

Time will tell.

Oldoinyolengai:
Whether you support them or otherwise it doesn't matter.

You should learn how to live in a world full of independent women.

Osas187:
You should have tired of this your wack line "Islam and culture will never allow gynocentrism in Nigeria"incase you don't know Nigeria is not a islamic country and not everyone pratice or beleif in culture,if you don't allow it in your family becouse you pratice islam as I Do,other people who pratice other religions or who thinks he's civilized might accept it now

PrinxArthur1:
anytime I enter YouTube na fresh&fit, Kevin Samuel or how not to simp videos I dey watch

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As it stands currently there's nothing Redpillers can do about the growing number of musiline and fainancal independent women in our society. As long as the number of weak feminie men A.K.A SIMPs keeps increasing, independent and musiline women will be on the increase whether we support it or not.

More and more women are being empowered by the society. Go to most companies one or two women are occupying some of the top 5 position in those companies.

While more and more women are studying business management, administrations, accounting and other managerial career courses that will put them at the top, The men are busy studying mechanical engineering,Yahoo Yahoo,computer coding and other courses that will put them under the managerial authority of the women...

For now the men have the upper hand but what will happen when all the old geezers start dying off. Especially with the increase of feminine men and musiline women.

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We keep telling them. Those men depending on ONLY their fainancal status to get a woman are in for a very rude surprise...

More and more women are getting educated, fainancally independent and successful in their careers for a man to capture the intrest of this women he need something other than his fainancal status. Sadly our egotistical selfs are too rigid to see it.

McDonaldfished:
In this damning economy, been unemployed, you expect me to be talking to a girl that's always act confused?

neyoohhh:
Libtards is what they are, effiminate low ambition dullards.

No understanding of wider society, no personal goals .. even women have goals, all they see , want, desire is vagina even if they have to trade their future for it.

Imaging having a dream to be a gigolo, a fvk boy to fat married women

The Nigerian girls i talk to call me sir , that's alpha. Note i don't spend a dime on women.

drealbenard:
Lol.. Remember I said I do not do anything to attract any woman, they come on their own. It is left for me to either reject or accept them.

And no one is stoping you from chasing, you can chase if that's what you want. To each his own. But know this, the chaser is not the price, whoever you chase is the price. Also remember that everyone has a type, so as you chase your prey, they also will be chasing their own price.

See, I know you've had some disagreements with Ubunja in the past, but pls, just take some time out to read this: https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl

You might not need the knowledge, but someone you know might be in need of it. Good night!

drealbenard:
Good point. But do you realize that the same Queen can also lust after a mere subject that she is sexually attracted to?

I used to think money was the only way to get women, but my eyes opened when women who were well to do financially, married and unmarried would literally give me the eye (you know, that lustful look, like they want to eat you up or something).

And most times, if I fail to act accordingly, they would be the ones to approach and strike up a conversation. There were even extreme cases of when ladies would harrass me in order for me to ask them out. Imagine a lady telling me that she would love to take me out and that all bills will be on her. Sounds unbelievable, but it's true.

Now, if not for my personal experiences, I would have had a hard time believing some of the stuffs Ubunja has written. But when you've been chased by women who would literally do anything just to f**k you, you will have no other choice than to believe.

And one other thing I noticed is that majority of women who lust after me are married women. This is my own personal experience.

PrinxArthur1:
I know you got the bolded from Myron Gaines @ fresh&fit A king can marry a peasant lady and turn her into a queen, A Queen won't even look a broke man's way

McDonaldfished:
Why?
is it a crime to focus on one self?

ThomasShelby:
I personally feel women like Genevieve and the likes of Linda Ikeji are not getting married to any man because the men they want simply don't want them back, which still boils down to hypergamy. The billionaires these ladies feel they deserve don't want them back, instead of settling for the average Joe, they rather remain single. Their masculine traits don't stop them from their obeying their biological nature, which is choosing stronger and better. It all boils down to HYPERGAMY(seems over rated but it's freaking real).

aomine:
DEMZEE YOU AGAIN NOBODY SAID DONT BE GREAT BUT THE QUESTION IZZ EVEN AS A GREAT MAN WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOUR GREATNESS MEANS NOTHING TO A EQUALLY GREAT WOMAN MY NIGGA THEY ARE MEN THAT Bleep RICH WOMEN THOSE MEN UNDERSTAND SUCH WOMEN NEED SOMETHING THIER MONEY CANT BUY,,, DICK

Lightway:
Don't mind those children.. this is why I only read your posts on this thread

ubunja:
of course. Only Deal with women who need your money. Now I'm asking myself what's the difference between you and any blue pill beta simp?

ubunja:
exactly, so why is that conversation frowned upon. It seems guys here are happy to discuss feminism's crazy antics and divorce cases and murdered rich men in hotels up and down than actually discussing even basic stuff like How does a guy get a girl. Or how do improve your dick game. Yet the same guys get pissed when they learn broke men fvck better. It's not making any sense.

ubunja:
and this the Nigerian man's problem... You WANT a woman to need you. You force it on her to need you. But not every woman will need you bro. Are you ready for that woman?
Like I told adallum, in some women hypergamy won't take. Then what?

Yusufisraelj:
Don't mistaken responsibilities for roles, they are two different things all together, in the context of this discussion on this trend.

Responsibilities defines the scope of influence or jurisdiction a man has over his home and that of the woman to the home.

It is the man's responsibility to love, provide, and protect his family.

It is the responsibility of the woman to respect her husband, give birth, take care of the home and nurture what the man provides for maximum benefit.

Generally speaking where there is sanity, the man defines the general dynamics of how the home should be and grow and the woman see to it that that is attained.

Roles talks about a function assumed by a person in a particular situation, delegating a task based on core competencies is the same as relegating your responsibilities, it's just that for better outcomes, you'd prefer the other partner handle the task.

neyoohhh:
Some village farmer's even have 3 wife's.

Na to use style style introduce us to LGBT

Talking about westerner's using black Americans as a yardstick. Eww

CaveAdullam:
In African polygamy, men have the authority. In a polygamous home, the women only fvck that one man.(Though there can be cases of infidelity but it's not tolerated).

In Polyamory, a couple (husband and wife) allow an extra partner, male or female to come live with them. Or, the husband/wife or both have leeway to explore their sexuality without feelings of infidelity. Unlike African polygamy, the husband only has virtual authority over the wife/extra partner.

I'm concerned about polyamory in a first of all heterosexual relationship(male and female) and don't give a fvck about the LGBTQ+ involved in it too.

Thanks.

ubunja:
If two girls love each other more than sisters, if a guy plays his cards right, they can share him and make him their man.
#Polyamory
#AreYouReadyForThisLevelOfGame
#WhereImHeaded