₦airaland Forum

cutedharmee:
U must be a Schizophrenic patient. Better go take ur medications �.

Lol

I didn't make the rules tho

Iamolukorede:
Don't twist my submission, woman are not the prize but then they are good home managers and supporters.

If you are not married, don't further your response to this quote.

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Lol

Women are not the prize in marriage, u as the man are!

Women are good homemakers but they still follow their husband's leadership period!

Peacesupreme21:
sure bitches them plentyyy.
Thanks brother.

U are just rationalizing onetitis for bleeps sake

Better hold on with meeting ladies and work on ur mental health dude, u are still young and women are not running away.

Goan read and internalize redpill philosophy deeply

Onelove508:
I'll appreciate if you could expanciate.

High value men are scarce but beautiful ladies are plenty so by using basic economics of supply and demand which one is the prize, obviously its the men.

As a man u have to make ursef ur mental point of origin,
U first
Ur purpose second
She's, ur family third
It's called enlightened self interest.

Peacesupreme21:
I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

U are obviously operating in a scarcity mindset. Baba there are alot of bitches in the ocean nahh tf!

U are also the same age for bleeps sake spin her plate and move on Jesus!

Peacesupreme21:
Hi guys, I met this chic couple of months ago.. Let's say the relationship is mutual and as it were and we're both naive cos she's my first gf and vice versa. I have been pilled (repilled) massively on this thread. Is it nice I exert TRP in me now?
Won't it seems I'm too manly or uncaring to her due to her inexperience in relationship which might make me lose her to guys that care and what have you..?
Pls advice!

Baba spin her plate and move on, she's already dominating ur frame. Make ursef ur own mental point of origin.

I'm very sure u are young, focus on your goals and build your value. Women are not running away

FunnyDude:
Stop this paper theory on Nairaland, my aunty had her 4 kids in her late 30's, they're all healthy toping their classes.

Hian, u be God ni

Goan do ur research dude

ukaface:
how been independent as a woman equates to masculinity baffles me. How do they correlate?

You need the kind of woman that would obey your ' sit down there's and ' shut up' commands

Mehn your daughters are in for a damn grooming ooo.
That is what inferiority complex leads to.

A woman can only love a man she respects period!!!!!

Femininity isn't weakness ma'am

Independent women have masculine traits and are the worst set of women to marry.

Men and women attraction to the opposite sex is asymmetrical not symmetrical.

Women want ambitious men, men want submissive and cooperative women period!

Dabronze:
Dont mind that guy he's still a learner

He thinks men and women are the same

Rubbiish:
Then it obviously mean u are still a kid!
Let me assume all your mates doing better than u is because u weren't hardworking enough or wasted your time??
Go check my posts, I am no kid to engage in save a hoee rants with u! I just want to correct an impression that is pushing the average Nigerian youth today! Na him type go see young boy never make am like him mate & start generalizing! Life treat everyone differently!

Bro men and women are completely different and we play by different rules.

Men must become and women just are, men must create their value while women are born with value period!

It takes time for men to become that's why I always measure success for men from when the man is 40yrs old plus not wen he's in his 20s

ukaface:
lmao....you speak as a man scared of the strength of a woman....lol.

We are not intimidated by independent women, we just don't want to deal with the bullshit and headache. Masculine and masculine repel each other, masculine and feminine attract each other.


Why should a man settle for a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman when he can have a feminine submissive woman

Rubbiish:
You are not being realistic
Don't view life from a single perspective!
Yes considerable number of them may have wasted their prime, certainly not all! Circumstance may have made some single at that age, some maybe just naturally unlucky! Generalizing every lady past 30 wasted her prime is false! Life can be very unfair to some persons, just know this today! I believe u & some of your course mates u graduated are not on the same level, not because u are not hardworking, but life can choose to be unfair at times, be very mindful how u generalize! Na who never see anything for life dey generalize!

Generalizations is where logic is found my nigga. Why white knighting this bitches, they don't give a Bleep about u nahh. Mr Captain Save a Hoe lolzzz

ukaface:
in the process of been led by a man, she should be vocal too.

I won't keep shut and flow sheepishly just cause I've been designed and created to be a woman.

I have an IDENTITY. You act cruel to me or speak shabbily to me in order to show your power as a man, I go talk back to show you my strength too.

A woman can only love and submit to a man she respects period!

If u are too masculine as a woman u will find it very hard to get a husband period!

milann:
the problem now is at that age bracket they are busy hoeing around selling their bodies to the highest bidder. what do we as men do?

U are not in competition with women now, if a guy is still in his 20s he should spin plates and never b exclusive to any lady. He should work on himself and build his value. In his 30s and mid 30s he will b well equipped to find a wife material who's young and between the ages of 18-25yrs. Being non-exclusive with a lot of women will make the guy not to b controlled by sex or to pedestalize pussy

Men age like wine
Women age like milk

LINTUNE:
lol bro, I'm a redpiller too,like u..but haba some marriage is not all about child bearing, some ppl marry basically for companionship , such ppl might find it normal adopting children ...so abeg calm down,before u push person daughter to commit sucide..

Men and women love and show love differently bro

Jimmy231:
Hope you no say man done they enter menopous

That's a fallacy

Men can procreate till they die Sir!

ukaface:
submission is not making your voice heard, it's synonymous with suppression.

And once you speak out, a woman would be tagged untrained.

Everything has been made to suppress females sha. Even the Bible isn't spared.

Hows submission synonymous with suppression??

Women are not designed to lead men especially in a relationship. Men are the leaders, women are the followers.

The Bible sure got that right ma'am!

ukaface:
if you guys ain't after what a woman posses in her career why ask that annoying question' what else can women offer if not sex?'

Abegi
You're not talking straight
Have high value as a man, then marry a jobless woman, then let me see the kind of care you would give your kids.

Because having a career isn't attractive to high value men especially and men in general. Infact the more a man makes more money the less he gives a Bleep about his woman money and Career.

Men are comfortable dating and getting married to a lady who's jobless as long as she's young,feminine,fit,attractive and cooperative.

Women can't date down, they are designed to want men who are superior to them in every area.

ukaface:
cooperative, like obeying her husband as a slave would obey a master?

Submission and cooperation is not slavery. A woman can only love a man she respects, she can only submit to a man that she respects.
Men lead
Women follow

Women are not built to lead men especially in a relationship

ukaface:
Na like that e easy to marry Abi?

What do ' modern' men chase.
Or y'all are traditional men

We chase career and it's a problem, if we no chase ubgo still talk say women don't have anything to offer. See the problem? Y'all men are confusionists

That's because u don't know what men want. Men are simple creatures. We don't give a Bleep about ur career and money.

A woman's value is outside sex, if she's not feminine, young, fit, attractive and cooperative she can never land a high value man to keep

ukaface:
A very myopic way of reasoning though.

I do have something though to offer asides sex.some of us have our brain wired differently.

Men don't care about a woman's money, status and career. Especially men that know their worth and value, the only men who care about a woman's status, money and career are low valued average men.

Men want young,feminine, fit, friendly and cooperative women not pseudo masculine hybrid beast women

ukaface:
When I meet a guy that has sense.
Guys nowadays are thinking from their p.enis

Because you don't have anything to offer outside of sex

ukaface:
Kuku allow your female children marry within that age.

Why wud a lady not get married between 18-25yrs

Modern women are something else, u will rather chase career than get married early.

mimilogistics:
That is for Caucasian, American, European or maybe Asian women.


The best age range for a Nigerian lady to get married and not be a problem or pains or baggage or liability to her husband is 27 - 35yrs. At this age range she must have developed mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and financially

Noo it's for women worldwide.

Biology doesn't give a fvck about ur race dude.

Women don't build, they move in especially in this 21st century.

18-25yrs is the best time a lady is meant to get married. Women's game is to retain the man she desires and respects post-sex

lizychimamanda:
U are entitled to your opinion but you know nothing about me.
As a man you don't talk anyhow... You reason before talking.

If you don't get married it's ur fault... Period!

lizychimamanda:
My dream was to marry at 20 but it's was not so, I'm 30 and trusting God.

Because u are not wife-able that's why

Anyways by 30yrs u will settle down with Watever u can get

Men Bleep what they can get and women Bleep who they want
Women marry who they can get and men marry who they want

Men are the gatekeepers of relationships and commitment while women are the gatekeepers of sex

adg98:
30 plus having complications ?
Who schooled you?
I have seen women in their early 40's to mid 40's giving birth with no complication

One of my neighbours gave birth just last week and she is 43 (and have already bear 3 children in the past)
You guys will just call on nairaland spewing lies

Exceptions to the rule doesn't make the rule.

There's high probability that a woman who gives birth after 35yrs wud have a disabled child or children.

A woman is very fertile between the ages of 18-25yrs old

capricornlady:
i wish to marry this year..in my early 30s already. Getting a ready, consistent and serious man is very difficult

U are already meant for the Streets, u are a used product ma'am. U are already hitting the wall, u are useless fertility wise.

mimilogistics:
Best age for men should be 32 - 36

Best age for ladies should be 27 - 35


Dont marry below the above age brackets if you dont want to encounter a lot of financial, psychological and emotional challenges in your marriage.

Very wrong best age for women to marry is 18-25yrs

Hammyaladin:
that quote.....seven n thirty, mind elaborating

37yrs old is wat Aristotle meant

Iamolukorede:
Bobo, that is your opinion

Just say you have not come across a lady that supports your home and all departments. We have them around and if you are good enough you will find em, as a man thinketh so is he.

Lol

Women are not the prize in marriage, u as the man are!

obinna58:
Psychopaths living with us

Who are the psychopaths tho??