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pansophist:
Learn to read and understand, you're just going round the dot, or are you a Biafran?

If you've been reading my post on nairaland, you'll know that I'm a proponent for the man being the bread winner, no contest. But that doesn't mean a man should provide for a leechy, entitled woman. A way to reduce the risk is to know she is industrious.

See eh, I started appreciating how hard it was to raise a family when i started living on my own and being financially responsible for myself. A woman that has being in the file doing 30k minimum wage job, who knows how hard it is to make money will not compare you to other yahoo boys, or become angry because you couldn't buy her the latest iPhone worth close to a million naira.

It's about the fact that a hardworking woman would be refined and fortified that her vanity would be at bare minimum. Of course she doesn't have to work, but she should know the value of your hardwork, something she can only appreciate if she is industrious. Please read to understand, and stop going around circles, unless if you're biafran. Thank you

I'm very comfortable taking care of my wives financially tho.

The question is why wud men marry wen they are not fully financially independent and stable on their own

pansophist:
See am, he no get point, he come de yab. Mad people everywhere. About me being poor, you won't say that if you know me. I'll leave it at that.

Yes, women are not built to handle masculine duty, but being financially responsible for herself to a reasonable degree is a feminine duty, not masculine. Maybe you'll have to carry her everywhere, wash her pant, spoon feed her, even carry the pregnancy, because it's your masculine duty. You go just die for nothing

Someone has to make the final decision in the home and it should be the man.

Women are not built to handle masculine problems period!

If a lady can't depend on u financially to a large degree then u are useless to her because women enter their feminine mode wen there's a masculine man to take care of them financially. I'm also planning to b polygamous and I hate wen men broke shame women all because they want their wives to b their financial backup plan tuehhhhhhh

pansophist:
Story

Me I care about a woman's money. I won't need her to spend it on me, but at least, it shows she is not lazy and has something to contribute, not that if she want buy Maggi, she will be disturbing me.

Don't marry a broke woman bro, it's a mistake you'll regret if you try, especially in this present day Nigeria. Marry a woman that works, that is industrious, and can wear the helmet if requires. Being macho will lead you no where, be calming down really. Also, one of the test to determine if a woman is with you for person is if money is not her motivation. Even me sef, if Dangote toast me today, I might just discover that I am gay

Broke women are the most expensive to keep, they do not know the value of hardwork and will want you to afford the whole world for them, they are most likely to be dumb, entitled, lazy with stupid pride. I don't know any self-respecting person (woman) that will feel comfortable depending on someone's else solely for their livelihood, and if a woman is like that, RUN.

I don warn you, if you go and fork up, I will laugh at you.

Thats why u will die a poor average man while I die as a wealthy man.

Women are not built to handle masculine problems period!

U reck of poverty my gee

I understand women's nature and I know how to keep them busy. I'm planning to marry a lady who is between 18-23yrs so I will enjoy her youth and fertility. She will b busy because she will have children to take care of. I love having a full-time housewife especially wen she's still in her 20s.

Once she is done taking care of all the children then she can work and the work she will be doing is going to be under me and she won't work out of necessity but for fun and passion.

Young women are meant for fun, leisure and sex

Chirowman:
keep deceiving yourself

It's the fact of life.

Men are not monogamous by nature period

Saviolamemphix:
Wen last u subscribe for sense

Do u have any at all

Chirowman:
you can't even make a constructive criticism free from insult and disrespect. What do you know about men of value? Stop living in illusions. Men of value practices monogamy ,see get this into your skull . Polygamy will render you useless , stop philandering. It's a killer of men ,do research the down falls of men and find out .

Monogamy is for average Low valued men period!

ubunja:
keep up please. Women in Muslim nations are gaining freedoms one step at a time. Read the news in some of those places women are gaining the rights to drive, in others, the right to go to football matches, while in some countries divorcing females is no longer as flippant as religion made it. Step by step.


Anyways, I know you're more of a troll itching for a sustained debate and I responded to your mention unawares it was you. Sorry it won't happen again. If I do respond to you know it's a mistake.

How is women driving and going to football matches related to giving women sexual revolution in Islam, u are just trying to rationalize ur golddigging tactic SMH!

Islam is still the perfect model of patriarchy period!

Saviolamemphix:
Says a bloody tasty hopeless bitter simpanzee

Lolzz

Dullard

ubunja:
change is inevitable. No society will stay unchanged because the world has become interconnected and cultures are being affected at a fast pace. You think your women will long stay feminine as they see women from neighboring countries break free from the "shackles".? Think again.

How come Islamic nations have not broken free from the shackles uhn

It's Asif u redpillers want Nigeria to be gynocentric by force by fire interesting, have always been saying this. Most men are weaklings and wud throw away their masculinity because of pussy SMH!!!

Make una no learn from western societies tuehhhhhhh

ubunja:
we all agree.

But here's the thing, Women are changing because there are forces political and corporate that are bent on seeing that change happen.

What will men do? Hold the line or correspondingly change? It's not an easy answer.

Social constructivism doesn't adhere to reality and biology.

Men will be men and women will be women.

Nigeria has religion, traditions, social conventions and culture to curb hypergamy and women's nature. What men are supposed to do is to sound "toxic masculinity" in public and show it in their environment. Succumbing to women and allowing gynocentrism isn't on the table, we should take a cue from Islamic nations they got it right

Saviolamemphix:
Y can't u pass ur opinion without sounding st00pid

Only average low valued beta males wud sound like u do

Very stupid woman

Zabiboy:
I also have this thought too man...
Personally, i think it's Relative.. everyone has something they want in their own woman/wife
Funny enough for me( not interested in marriage or relationship shit), "submissiveness" doesn't seem to move me the way it moves many other men..
I dunno but i just have this thought that most women's submission is undercover gold-digging... But lets not go there tho..
Just like undercover said, anyone who doesn't want his wife to work should definitely not have a problem bearing the financial burden. But such a man has some work to do when picking a wife. if not, he'll end up with an "undercover gold-digger"

How wud a woman who doesn't submit to ur authority respect u as the man

Submission isn't golddigging at all.

Women can't love men they don't respect period!

Having a masculine hybrid beast woman as ur wife wud emasculate u faster than having a so-called submissive "golddigging" wife.

U can't have authority and not have responsibility, it's not possible

ubunja:
yes these successful highly educated women will invest a lot in a relationship materially than the young broke virgin, but men by and large haven't reached that level of accepting money from women. Recall the numerous clashes of late on this thread on the issue.

Those successful highly educated women are masculine for fvck's sake. They have masculine traits that are very repulsive and unattractive to men.

Women are sexual objects and men are success objects.

Women are not designed to provision for men period!

Only average low valued beta male simps care about the status and money of their women

SOZINN:
Later don't ask me why they bring only sex to the table.

A woman brings feminine values to the table.

Men don't care about how much money their women are making, or the status of their women. The only men who care about their women's status and money are average low valued beta male simps period!

Infact the more money a man makes the more he doesn't give a fvck about his woman's money.

TheDarkGamer:
From an Objective point of view:

If we do not want our women to work or have jobs, why do we still complain about them asking for money? I mean, it is only fair if as a man, you do not want your partner/wife to bear any financial responsibility, then you should be able to provide her needs and wants since she would have been able to do so if she had a steady stream of income.

However, some men say they don't want their women working, but they don't want to provide the woman wants. Isn't that having double standards?

I may be wrong in my assertions but I was just thinking about this, and I need clarification.

Those men are beta low valued men, they don't want to accept their own burden of performance

Junnior:
What does it mean to have abundance mindset?

Weather he has multiple wives or he has one wife but decides to be fvcking multiple hoes, it is still abundance mindset.

He wouldn't be fvcking around if he didn't have that.

It is, however, possible to have this abundance mindset and still be faithful in marriage to one woman ( i.e, decide not to act on the mindset).

I don't know why we always forget that the redpill is amoral.

Polygamy is for high value patriarchs and monogamy is for average beta males and low valued beta male simps

SOZINN:
But these women will invest more in a relationship. Unlike the other type most men desire who can offer only sex.

A masculine hybrid beast woman is a bad bet for a long-term relationship

LegalWolf:
And you think women don’t have the “nature to be promiscuous” ?

A promiscuous woman is a hoe because women are born with value and must retain their value

jaxxy:
Then why is he ranting about it, just enjoy the good life. Sebi na ur money all of them dey find. Lol

Jayz, kanye, zukerberg, musk, wey marry no get sense na.

Jay-Z no get side bitches ni lolzz

EndRape2:
Continue ,it will get to a stage your man hood will be weak, then you will now be looking for one girl to settle with, th girl will then marry you because of your money and cheat on you with random guys, then you will start regreating your youthful years


Small pikin dey worry you.












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Asif ladies dont have options too rubbish!

Men of value have the right to be polygamous period!

A promiscuous man is respected while a promiscuous lady is a hoe

Chirowman:
That's one of the things that makes a man useless,if you can't maintain one woman in your life then you are doomed. If there beautiful women in the world , Does that gives you the guts to marry all the women in the world. Find one Beautiful woman and marry her that makes you responsible. They don't use women to cook soup find a wife not wife's and marry . Solomon with all his 1000 women told you a good woman is difficult to get and she's like a ruby . Even if you die today beautiful women will keep on existing ,so stop been a philanderer and focus on one woman . All is the same

Shut the hell up

Men of value have always been polygamous. Monogamy is for poor, average men.

Naturally men are designed to be promiscuous and polygamous that's why eggs are expensive and SPERM is cheap

MemoriesAndMe:
And what happens to all your numerous kids after you get old, weak and you eventually die?

Many before us have lived like that when they were young and are now living a miserable life at their old ages. The beautiful babes you freely have when ure young will be replaced by beautiful and hungry leeches, some praying you die so they inherit something from you.

Tekno is still a kid, probably got disvirgined a few years ago and is tasting what he hasn't seen before, so its ok for infants to sow their wild oats around the blind chicks running after them at his age.

They all wake up when they get older and realize they're baby mamas and baby daddies struggling for relevance.

For a man to gain sexual abundance he already provided value to the sexual marketplace.

Men create their value to gain sexual abundance while women get sexual abundance just by existing. Women are born with value

udemzyudex:
It takes a man with a lot of discipline to stick with one woman.

Men are as faithful as their sexual options

LegalWolf:
You just lack discipline like the rest of us...there’s nothing there. You’re human.

It's not discipline

It's our masculine nature to b promiscuous and polygamous

valentineuwakwe:
Thats is how men who pretend to be still boys talks.....perhaps you want to join the baby Papas club, time will tell you in future!
No go find one woman and settle down so as to lift your spirit and career.if na lie, go ask Kelvin De Bruyne how far!

Men are as faithful as their sexual options period!

High value men have the right to exercise their sexual options

IAMBlesssed:
Lol...Oga any sensible adult on this thread knows you are the pained and unsecured one here.. You are the one qouting people with different opinion here and there, writing your long repeated gibberish..
Like I said before,it doesn't concern me if you or any other man out there (except my family members or kids) decides to be a he-goat sleeping around with one million women.. It's only time that will tell if he's on the right path or not..

Men are designed to be promiscuous tho

He has the right to exercise his sexual options.

Men can love as many women as possible

Men are designed to be polygamous by nature

PrimadonnaO:
Well...

I'll be objective... this is true for some women... in some cases.

The way a woman will dress if she's going out alone with her man and his friends is different from the way she'll dress up if the babes/wives of the friends are going to be in attendance.

That being said, dressing up, taking care of oneself is 70% for a personal feel-good feeling, 20% for the men, and 10% maximum for competitiveness.

Thats a lie

It's 100% for competition with other women.

Women fight psychologically

samnificent:
I think they do these for themselves so they can feel better, lots of women suffer from low self esteem so they need other people(mostly other women) to help them appreciate themselves.
Then they use men who are easily fooled by these things (AKA simps) to boost their mood egos when they (S-men) go drooling over her “beauty”

Women have low self esteem especially the black women. That's why they are attracted to confidence in men

Dabronze:
Add sex to it and give me at scale of your personal priorities which one will come first.

A woman's value is outside of sex period!

Women's game is to retain a high value man she desires post-sex

Sex is important because women show love and respect by fucking u. If she tells u to wait for sex then she doesn't love u. Women show their love via sex

Dabronze:
Its not by stupidity it is by exploitation of weakness in men that women know by default so they take advantage of this to get commitment from men
By the way ! what value do women add to men life aside sex?
I want to learn frm u?

Femininity, support, peace and cooperation. This are feminine values