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mice:
Guy i really feel bad for u because it is like me and you are going tru the same ting just three wks back on the 30 of july around 1:30am, a girl i have always luv ended up our relationship, i feel worse than ever, rejected, betray, hurt and pain. I am just askin god for help write now. Pls take care, and we would be fine.

Congratulations, you are single again. you get to discover yourself some more and have the opportunity to find someone else better than the one you had. Not everyone gets the chance of an upgrade like you do now. You even get to sample one night stands without feeling guilty or obligated to anyone. Not to mention the amount of money and useful time you get to save. Congrats buddy.

PS: Its all about how you see your breakup. You can choose to be sad, and wallow in self pity and despair, or you can brush your shoulders and move on.  All about perspective.

talina:
Your first time canoing sounds like it was fun! Hypothermia sure is a factor in the cold mountain waters.
West Ed mall, went there 2 days ago and just got blisters on my feet. A great place to check out,in Edmonton, is Whyte Ave, Lots of great stores and clubs.

Haha I know whyte Ave. I think the Uni is somewhere on it too. Somewhere close to the uni on whyte have, there is this asian wok box place I love the food there. Quite exquisite. Been to three clubs in Edmonton before ( dont remember their name). The second time I went to one club ( the club with mostly black people), I was confused at first. Since I moved to SK, I had never seen so many black people in the same place before. I think I was just gaping the entire night. Hard to forget that experience.
Blisters from shopping wow. I know the mall is big, but you must have been there for ages! You must love shopping - and I bet mostly shoe shopping

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=734688.msg8916960#msg8916960 date=1313265215]^You wont rest on the matter now ooh

Im very violent when someone goes close to my woman  [/quote] 190 don`t worry  I`m harmless. I can only bark, can`t bite  
I got your back

Goldieluks:
Sexkillzzzzzzzz, i want to kiss your mouth >shut up!

Sexkillz is busy at the moment. You can kiss mine.

I think you both need to go and have a beer together. It will relax your nerves.

[quote author=tenderheart!!! link=topic=733028.msg8916910#msg8916910 date=1313264660]At deniyor, d guy is a big fool nao, I've tried making peace with him, he still won't stop displaying his stupidity
Even if I need to grow up, can't E just shut up nd save his comments 4 His young once @ home, Ahn ahn! Y is He evn coming here to comment btw, tot he sed he was tired of replying, E should stop commenting on here, E really hasn't given a sensible advice since, Always shouting grow up, grow up, E makes me evn feel like E just leant doz words 'GROW UP'
There're pple here who had rebuked me but urs is just senseless @ least 4 d age U claim, get out nd dnt come back here lokking 4 trouble, I've heard U, I'ld grow up, so get lost,  SeXKILLZ, nonsense[/quote]Take it easy too. Its easy to escalate issues here unnecessarily. I understand where you are coming from but lets apply some maturity here.
You know its your thread, and picking a fight with someone on your thread will only derail it. You are here for help and have the choice to either take people's advice or ignore it.

sexkillz:
At Your DAMNED AGE i was NOSE DEEP in MY BOOKS! NOT CRYING OVER A GIRL THAT HAS PROVEN TO BE MORE MATURED THAN YOUR STUNTED BRAIN!!! DIMWIT!

Calm down. Remember when a kid acts like a kid, and adult acts like an adult. Take it easy and stop exchanging words with him. Let bygones be bygones.

talina:
Do you live in Calgary then? Banff is a great place to have fun! Thats funny you got stuck in the middle of the lake, but paddling is what its all about!   I like to take my canoe down the river here. Sooo fun!

No but I have many friends there. Visit there once or twice a year. I like to go there when I go to WestEd mall to get some stuffs. I live in SK so the malls there are not up to par .
If you are doing the paddling its more fun except we couldn't get it right to go where we wanted. That was actually our first time in a canoe or going fishing. We were singing and laughing so hard folks around thot we were drunk or we had caught a very big fish. The canoe store guy had warned us earlier that no one had ever drowned in the river before. They just die of hypothermia. That ruled out swimmig . It was funny looking back at it now.

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=734688.msg8916829#msg8916829 date=1313263719]deniyor have u woken up in a hospital before   [/quote]Many times. I'm kinda used to it by now

Let there be peace and love. No fighting

Cuddlemii:
Bros best pick up line ever

I should try it sometime and see if it works.

talina:
Oh youve been here! Yes the streets are labeled weird I think because of the river valley.Its a beautiful city. I used to live by Calgary too. Did you get to go to the mountains?

Yeah, Banff is my favourite place to go for a wknd every summer. Always eventful and I always get in trouble somehow there. This year I got stuck in the middle of the lake when the canoe stopped working. Had to paddle all the way back to the canoe store. You should see the other folks with me, very scared it was hilarious.

Edmonton - The one city I keep getting lost for some weird reason. I think its the way the streets are labelled. I prefer Calgary tho - Easier to navigate.

talina:
I was asked this here yesterday too . Im Canadian. Half french, part other european,with some cherokee.

Okay cool. Its nice to see a canadian here. You live in Quebec or Montreal? I'm assuming you are french speaker and live in the french parts of CA.

In this life, there is nothing a guy will not say for some punny. God save us all

what nationality are you?

talina:
What? Thats the best pick up line Ive heard.

Are you white, black or pink?

^^^No problem, my car is just round the corner.

Busted.

^ is it a general or specific usage type?

He is even stalking her everywhere. Hilarious. He sure needs help or a woman. Maybe both.

SilknSteel, would you like to hv sex?

9jafetish:
thts not how it is

How is it then? I will like to know

^ Please tell them. It's getting sickening to hear guys whine and whine about their women not showing love, talking about other dudes, begging their ladies for love. So pathetic.

Okay so she didn't technically cheat. But it is suspect when someone leaves a relationship and within a week or two jumps into bed with other people, one of which is a 'close friend'

Too many punny whipped dudes on NL today. They need to learn something from this thread.

Tosinville:
S/N: Wait a min LOL, most girls on NL go don wise o! with all what guys are posting here, glad my girl no dey NL and i no fit hook up on NL cos majority of dem go don wise pass their grandmama in a relationship lol, if you are about to take a left foot up, she has already know that.

It doesn't matter if the ladies see it. Manual or no manual, its how you show yourself or act .

I once had this gf that I cared for deeply. I was past the time when cheating was just a game to me. I said I would never cheat on her. Things went good for a long time till something happened and sex wasn't that forthcoming as it was. Even before I met her, I was getting sex about once or twice a week from randoms and some regulars. When we started dating, sex was about 3 or more times a week.
Now it was such that I got it maybe 2 times a month or something. I let her know at different times that it wasn't close to being enough, she tried to improve but it was still the same.
Then some married lad showed some interest in me, and wanted to keep me on the side quietly since we both had relationships to lose. This was a young married black woman with two young kids and a white husband who wasn't satisfying her in bed at all.  The yansh was totally out of this world, and this was a lady I had pushed my single friend to go pick up in the bar while I was the wingman. Unfortunately, she was all over me that night so my friend smiled and backed off.
How do you think I would have been able to turn the lady down? She came drunk to my place the other time and slept off. So I wouldn't do anything, I left her there and took a drive away. When I came back she was lying Unclad on my couch waiting.
It was almost impossible to say no.
Of course, it wasn't my first time of being propositioned by ladies before but it was by far my closest shave. My point is, if I was getting something from my lady, it wouldn't have gotten that far with the lady in the first place cos I did toil with the idea of doing it with her cos of the hard dyck.

SIlknSteel:
@deniyor: I beg your pardon? What was it U were tryna say?

The attitude / mentality you are exhibiting on this thread is what drives a lot of guys to cheat. Lets take out the ones who are going to cheat no matter what happens in the bedroom and concentrate on the ones that will at least not make an attempt.

Of course, in life things  happen beyond our control, and a woman can't satisfy her man. When such thing takes quite a long time, you women expect the man to be understanding. What you don't consider is the man is different from the woman in thinking and actions.

The man tries to understand. He might be able to hold it in for a little while but eventually he will find a way to satisfy his urges elsewhere. Sometimes they can't help it. As a lady, even if you are unable to satisfy him to 100% capacity, you want to make sure you do something that can keep the urges under control at least. And if you tell him to go watch blue films alone, you are in for a treat. Even if it is a BJ, hand job etc do something.
You will be surprised that MBJ's point applies to most men's mentality.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396243.0.html
You should go through the above thread. While I admit he goes over the top on somethings there are a lot of truths you can learn from in the thread.
I'm going to bed now its late. Try not to do anything crazy lol