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I'm the beauty and beast

Nope

Physically, there are some pretty ladies in the romance section. Personality wise, they are very ugly.



I smell fireworks.

pendo89:


I just replied to a thread saying ' Help! am confused'
This one says 'Am not confused'!

lol girls stop confusing and 'disconfusing' dudes!!
  funny pple.

Help me tell them ooooooo

For me this is normal: I meet a lady. We talk and there is some form of chemistry. I get her number so I can continue the good works via txt.

If we txt regularly, I will regularly divert the story to se.xual matters. This is so that when the girl thinks of me, she thinks of me in se.xual terms too.

Hey, I do not want to be put in the girl's friends'corner For the many years I started using that strategy, no one has told me they see me as a friend or a close brother. The many years before then, I found it hard to seal deals cos we end up being close friends and can`t screw each other anymore.
I try to ignite her interests in my intimate ability.

Do I want the yansh the girl? hell ya! But it does not mean that`s all I want from her. I might want a relationship also. And a relationship does not just mean I want only constant sex body. I also want a partner for the future. For me, if a girl clicks with me in personality, the next check is to see if her `punnany`` clicks with my joystick.

Can I fall in love with her in a short time? It depends on her personality which I perceive from her txts and the little time we have spent together.
Yes there are lots of rotten eggs in the crate but it doesn`t mean there isn`t a good one. Be careful and be careful not to dismiss a good thing prematurely.

I just read your other post on your bf. It is obvious that you are searching for answers. Coupled with the fact, I have nothing to do for the next hour before hitting the club, I can share my own LONG opinion / story with you. I hope it helps but if it doesn't, well I tried .

On your other thread, your friend told you the truth. He doesn't care about you well enough but he doesn't mind having you around in the meantime. It doesn't matter where a guy is from, if he treats you like shi*t, get rid of him. Don't even try to see if there is anything cultural about it. People hardly change, so barring some life changing experience, that is who he will always be to you. I hate to pour sand in another man's garri but Get RID of him.


We Nigerians are of different shades and types just like every nation.

I always wanted to marry a Nigerian lady. Even when I moved to North America, I started out by dating Nigerian damsels. I dated a few but it didn't work out. There were some particular behaviour I found in some of them that puts me off.

I dated quite a lot of girls from other cultures, mostly those of the city I lived in. Nothing serious. But I was open for something serious when I find the kind of qualities I am looking for in a lady. I did find it in another African lady I met. I've been dating her for about three yrs now. My point mainly is this: I prefer to marry a Nigerian woman. It is just easier on understand our culture and differences. Plus other problems tht come with marrying a foreigner. But above that preference is the fact that I will prefer to marry whoever I love no matter where she is from, as long as she is perfect for me. And the one I have right now is just perfect for me. So despite my preferences, and those of my family, I will probably not marry a Nigerian lady. I will not choose a lady cos of where she is from.

Hypothetically, if I have a Nigerian lady and a foreigner on a same rating, I will choose the Nigerian one. For me, the foreigner has to prove to me she is the best for me to consider her.

You have overstayed your welcome bro

Yes we are.

We fall in love at different rates with different people. It took me about 8 months to fall in love with my ex. I think it was more of an attraction that happened over time, and close friendship. We lasted a year.
With my current lady, it took me about two weeks. I just knew she was perfect for me. That feeling hasn't changed in three years.

Is there a time limit on falling in love now? Its a possibility the guy is in love. You have been chatting regularly. He obviously likes you and has thought about you a lot. Of course that can be love to him.

emofine:
Actually it has. It's referred to as a symbiotic relationship

A.K.A Prostitution, ashewo. . . . .

Sex between a man and a woman is symbiotic as it is. Everyone gains. When you demand goods, money or anything else, don't fool yourself, its all prostitution.

:-x

^^^ Got nothing to do with topic. Men remember women cos they are the ones we need to have sex, just like women remember men when its time for sex.
However women should be able to handle themselves financially and not use remember a man exists cos its time to milk him dry.

So whats our business?

No it is left.

Once every six (6) years

^^^^^^^^^^ He will be threatening fire and brimstone.

You are about to destroy two marriages and many lifes cos of some infatuation with some woman. Its just an obsession you should let go off.

Why declare war when you can just dump her azz and move to a prettier girl wo won't throw you out?

^^^^ Thats harsh. True tho

Ladies that kick their dudes out of their apartment are probably the type that will try to kick the guy out of their matrimonial home when there is a fight. Red flag to me. If while fighting or quarelling, we can't treat each other with respect, then nothing will change when the relationship gets serious or marriage is in the works?

It's her apartment and she can do whatever she likes. Good chance I will not enter her apartment again after that. If we are still together, she will find her way to my apartment. Then I can kick her out if I so desire

OP is really ugly within

Oloko Nla:
what a load of hogwash! so when he violated you, he did not have a face or he was invisible abi? this dump can be full of it!

Have your ever heard of wearing masks or being blindfolded before? It is the act of one's face being covered beyond recognition or not being able to see.

I'm not saying it isn't a bogus story, or thats what happened but if you want to call it bogus based on recognition, the story is  a plausible.

Perfect coincidence. Now you can forgive him or show him hell. As you wish.

Either ways, the lady shouldn't play all innocent. Yes she got raped and had a baby as a result of the rape. But what kind of woman marries a man and doesn't tell him she has a daughter already. That is fraud missy and a relationship / marriage based on deceit.

What the husband did was wrong. We all have our pasts but that does not excuse him. Hopefully he didn't go around raping and impregnating women. The man and woman are both evil so its a marriage made in heaven hell

good post

Let it go. If you need closure that bad, wait for the opportunity to present itself. Don't go looking for it. Instead you should be happy you are no longer with someone like that.

She didn't break up with you cos of a song but I'm taking it you haven't figured out why yet.
If nothing but closure, you should find out why your relationship is over, maybe something else you did or she is tired of it or maybe she found someone else.
Whatever the case is, why would you want to waste your time and energy on a lady that doesn't want to be with you anymore? Move on. If she is not matured enough to let you know why she doesn't want to be with you, or she breaks up with you at the flimsiest excuse, get rid of such person from your life. And in the case of where she has gotten rid or you, thank God for getting rid of the trash in your life for you without you lifting a finger.
Now stop being wussy and go get laid somewhere else. You will feel better and forget her fasster.