Christianity leads to Atheism Islam leads to Terrorism and Pedophilelsm, i think i will prefer being an Atheist than to become a bokoharam or someone that Bleep a girl as little as eight years.
ebijimi7: Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos, Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.
She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.
she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.
We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.
Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute ,
So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.
What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .
I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
If your salary is 100k your pot of soup should be 5k if it is 200k your pot of soup should be 12k then 300-400k your pot of should be 25k and the soup should be eating in two days @ one meal each.
BGSM: For a newly married man to ask an outsider this question, I can see obstacles, his marriage is over because he’s still a boy with no wisdom and common sense. Rubbish
YOUR FRIEND DOES NOT HAVE A COMMUNICATION FRIENDSHIP WITH HER MOTHER. IF SHE WAS DOING SOMETHING RIGHT SHE SHOULD HAVE LET THE MOTHER KNOW. or=IconicR post=125484117]Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?
My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.
Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.
The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.
The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.
This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.
Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?
Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?
My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.
Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?[/quote]
You have to turn to a Alpha Male if you know what i mean.
Supreme145: I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.
In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.
She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.
She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.
I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.
It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.
I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.
See question you are buying a car for your sister and you cant put her name on the particulars. please who are you buying the car for.
YoungDaNaval: Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.
Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise
A work spouse is a co-worker with whom you have a close platonic relationship. This type of relationship often involves confiding in each other, going to lunch together, and being understanding and supportive of one another. It can be compared to a real marriage but without any romantic connection.
Obasempiree: Of recent many Top football stars have made shocking transfers to Saudi Arabia, from the likes to Ronaldo, benzema and many more. Aside the huge financial benefits attached to contracts given to players by Saudi clubs, what could be other reasons players might be going to Saudi Arabia. ?
You Loose 130k you want kill yourself how about people that loose million what will they do themselves
Freshtruth: I quit virtual 2019 my mind rest fast forward to last February a friend of mine won 370k in zoom betting and gave me only 3k, I gave the zoom birth a try in my ist attempt I won 8k. I have blown 130k in just 9days battling zoom now am broke hunger has set in I want to stop Betting Totally today on the 16th of August. I no say I no get sense. Suicide on my mind like this Depression as set in 33yrs no wife no child can't stick to.plan. God forgive me if I take my life now
ELRUFAI NEVER WORKED FOR TINUBU DURING ELECTION. PDP WON KADUNA LANDSLIDE DURING PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION HE JUST PLAY SAFE HE ACTUALLY WORKED FOR ATIKU.
IconicR: This man will definitely cause problems in our party I don't support what they did to him at all and I'm very sure he will work against the party next time.
The girl could call her name and any other things but could not utter a word when being accused there is something more to this story. MAIDS SUFFERS UNTOLD MALTREATMENT NO ONE TELLS THEIR STORIES.
Going through all the comments the only conclusion is MEN HATED TO BE CHEATED ON BUT LOVE CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNERS. If you need peace of mind dont cheat, if you cant hold your libido "masturbate" but be careful when dining with devil "masturbation"
Unmarried yes Married very difficult but still yes. staying with that fellow will not remain the same because the memory will linger on.
Lutherblaq: They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.
Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.
Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.
As a man/woman, tell us; Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With Someone By Mistake?