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it depends. some women cant cook but will be willing to. how do you expect a babe that has always been staying in the hostel since primary school to learn basic home chores, when holidays are even spent on vacation. But if she ain't ready to learn, i won't even consider it.

Submission is different from servitude. Servitude is doing anything a partner wants without questioning even when such decisions are wrong. Submission is knowing and taking a man for his leadership role. No man wants to be competed with or compared to another man. If you do, you are looking for trouble. Even when a man is wrong be constructive in correcting him and give convincing reasons he should look at.
Men are ruled by their logic and if your reasons are not logical enough, he would not listen.Above all, understand your man and he will worship you.

Hope this investigation will have a conclusive end backed with action. A lot of issues are still pending in this nation... except trivial issues like renaming Citadel of learning.

corruption has eaten deep into naija system dat even an unborn child is almost thinkin of National Cake". Wahala dey!

it is possible to have a relationship without emotional attachment. Not everybody one comes across should be dated. But it has happened over time that some of such good friends do end up in marital relationship especially when no suitor is in sight for the lady. Anyway, undastanding is the main thing and relationship should be defined before things get too far.

if a website does not fall into my criteria for Genuine websites, then i am always a bit careful. my criteria for identifying genuine websites are:
1. Web address always start with https:// NOT http://
2. Comodo verification
3. Mcafee Trust / Seal on the site
4. the web address is not cloacked or a redirected
5. Site design. i have noticed dat most fake sites have poor design and filled with grammatical errors
6.reviews. just go to google.com and type the web address with a scam added to it e.g nairaland.com+scam. read reviews online and dat will give u much info about d genuity or not of a website
I HOPE THESE HELPS

tonymusogo: Unilag Babes now Abiola Babes=)).
Unilag FM Station now MFM =)) =)).
Unilag now Moshood Abiola University ( MAU)
50yrs of swag lost on Democracy day!

Uniport don't laff.
u r next!
Patience Ebele Jonathan University
*PEJU*=))

U don kill me with lafta here and i wan burst. UNIPORT to PEJU? No be small matter oooo

# Mama told :
IGBA ARA LAA BURA - meaning Make Hay while Sun shines
OWURO LOJO - meaning Always make decisions on time
ASIKO KO DURO DE ENIKAN ....meaning Time waits for nobody

# Mama told me:
GBOGBO ASO KO LAA SA LOORUN......MEANING not every bit and pieces of ur life's secret is meant 4 public view / hearing

b4 u start a business, u need what is call BUSINESS CASE. It is the information that justifies starting, continuing and termination of a business. it helps to have a plan so as to avoid total loss.
from experience, most business do not have business case and those that do abandon it along the line.
that is y most fail at business

ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. D formula is true and so simple dat even a groundnut seller will get the answer. kUDOS to the person that came up with this bcoz i love maths too.

nothing u have shud b a curse but d perceived abuse of it. Some use blackberry to check'mail, odaz like me trade forex on my fone - E 61, while some take pictures with phone and print it. All with a mobile phone , backberry or not. look, if u dont define what u want n life, u will live anoda mans life n dat s d prob with so many people. nothn s wrong with using BB, it is what u use it 4 dat ultimately matters, ok.

have tried starcomms, etisalat, visafone and now on GLO as at wen am posting this msg. Look info is power. GLO iS MY CURRENT CHOICE. Reason- i can use my data sim on my nokia E61 and i a, njoyn browsing and even abandoned my laptop. IF U WANT TO SUBSRIBE, USE GLO IF D NETWK IS OK N UR LOCATION. Buy always micro package @ 1000 per month for 200MB or 3000 for 1G/mnth. U will not regret it and it is so fast on phone especially nokia e61 and e61i. U can get dose phones at computer village, lagos at giveaway prices

He that in indifferent to the way he is being ruled, leaves no his house and travels to wherever when the house is on fire will eventually have shelter on his head. Anyone you are not satisfied with Bakare's actions, better to keep quiet.

I once read that a fool talks because he has to say something, looking for cheap publicity, A wise man talks because he has something to say, to express not to impress.

Nothing personal, just a word to the wise!

God will judge all pocket-filling preachers who cannot even dare stand up to challenge governance!

"Never be afraid of what those you do not trust can do, it i those you trust you need to be aware of as they always do something outrageously silly. If a an looks so quiet, be careful in judging im that he cannot hurt a fly because that is when you will have the biggest shocker."
MY ADVICE : If a man is given the title of an eagle because he looks strong but eventually it was discovered that he cannot even lift a day old chick, then he is unfit and should do the right thing, leave the stage honorably!

If men were God, Now they are not and cannot be but want to be one. is that possible? Gragra leadership always end up in shame and disgust. Haven't people learnt from libya, cote d'voire. can someone please explain to me the meaning of true leadership coz i think when followers are not happy, the leader should be summoned.

weird and wonders !!

from personal experience, if she did it the first time and you forgive her, she might take it that you do the same thing and start to take you for a MUMU or better still a MUGUN and do it again. So better earn your respect by saying NO!

brave man! . . . but that the snake escaped is ridiculous. why should it be captured instead of killed abi they wan eat the snake?

why do nigerians and black not believe in themselves and stop this mentality of "we cannot do it?" remember blacks are very successful abroad. that means given the right condition and going by hi track record, he should be able to perform

women want security. period! every other thing will fall in place. if u are dating a woman and lose your job in the process, watch her behaviour. if it takes time to get another job, be ready for the surprise of ur life. by the time u get another job, she cud be telling you the "i am sorry thing". They just want to be emotional secure. It is common to all women and i do not blame them for it. submitting one's "all" to another person is a great decision.

if you get it with your boss, consider urself out of the job. if he threatens u for not doing it with him, you will still have your integrity and power to kick his ass and job. My candid advice is that in such a situation, leave the job

my girl like kneeling down to say i am sorry d4 i find it easy to apologize to her even when i know i am not wrong. that keeps us together i am telling  you. pride will lead to no place in a relationship than a break-up

the guy will definitely find his true love so why not leave him alone. This forgiveness thing is becoming unbearable for a lot of men when these players get caught red-handed.

guys are said to be possessive but not all of them. A true and faithful guy stays with you but when you play games with him, He gets more dangerous. Girls become jealous when you have declared your love but she can smell some rat about you and other acclaimed females.

Why everyone thinks of what can make them divorce, i always thinks of how to make it work. before you ever go into marriage did you court and get to know each other? is love unconditional? do you stand by each other through good and bad times? though people change they say but i have always learnt that once someone is a friend you can vouch for, those changes can be handled.

Reasons for most divorces these days:
1. conditional love
2. comparisons
3. financial probs
4. laziness on one part of the two
5. pride
6. lack of trust
7. unbelief n God
8. making issues out of trivial things
9. lack of attention to details
10. lack of patience to make it work
11. lack of perseverance
etc

Do you think you will be better off once you divorce? dont even think about it because the regret is so massive an will live with you forever. People claim infidelity as an excuse for divorce and i reason with you. we are all human but be careful as you may be the next victim of what you just crucify someone for. if infidelity is repetitive, make a wise decision otherwise make it work

if your love cannot sustain you in relationship, it won't keep your marriage together. period!

Have you ever imagined why a lot of people work for their whole life and at the end begin to wait for pension that is never paid? Do you know that these are the same set of people that have live extravagant life before?

If you buy a car, you are planning for immediate convenience but if you buy a land, you are planning for the future. Since you are newly married and financial commitments is not much, go for a reasonable piece of land that can be quickly developed and leave car out of it for now.

Get you priorities right. A word is enough for the wise!