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AutosRe: Castrol Extended Performance Motor Oils Available by Deoboss(m): 5:22pm On Jun 20, 2020
theoilguy:
Castrol Motor oils still in stock
How much for 5W-30 grade of Castrol synthetic motor oil
BusinessRe: Dangote Drives Himself To Pastor Ituah's Place On Condolence Visit by Deoboss(m): 6:27pm On Jun 16, 2020
AltCtrlDel:
What will be your reaction if Dangote says "you look like my missing child"
cheesy
FamilyRe: Should The Man Pay It? by Deoboss(m): 10:43pm On Jun 15, 2020
elektra:
You and Your family are a bunch of entitled clowns.

Why should your husband be paying your parents salary? Are they his employees? What are they doing for him? Your mouth did not even heavy you to ask, seeing as you are a not bringing in any income. Your head is not correct at all.

Your father sef! When he was insisting on >500K he did not think of the future. Now the same fate has befallen his son. Shame did not catch him to demand money from his in-law? Your father is a shameless man.
Well said by you, bravo.

Marriage in this clime favors women more & not men.

Imagine the words she is using to describe her husband as not responsible.

So she expects her husband on #70,000 monthly salary to be responsible to her brother, her parents & probably her other relatives.

Me i will spend that amount (#70,000) some times within a couple of days or a week max.

Then he is to be responsible to her the wife & the kids they may soon start having.

No wonder men die earlier than women huh

Even if she gets a job, her type won’t contribute a dime as she appears selfish & self centered.
CrimeRe: Victoria Inyama To Anita Joseph: Marital Rape Exists, I've Experienced It by Deoboss(m):
ddestiny20:
You wan sleep with your wife na wahala, you go Bleep outside wahala,women una no know wetin una want.
A man raping a female or vice versa is very bad.

This is my own opinion on marital rape:
It’s an exaggeration from wives as her husband has carnal knowledge of his wife from onset.

Men surfer more in marriages.

Is marriage really worth it? Answer is a capital NO.

All African wives will stop letting their husband sleep with them within time (sure or ask married men this fact).

So if a husband feels like making love to his wife & if she says no and he still goes on to make love to her then it’s called marital rape?

What are the actual conjugal rights of a man in marriage?

Marriage is for companionship, love, procreation & sex. Men don’t enjoy much from marriage at the many rules on lean rights of a husband over his wife.

So why then do men marry? Just to work hard & provide, even the children he trained only remembers & assist their mother (his wife) when they are older & fend for themselves while the man (her husband) who now becomes a retiree enjoys nothing & one day soon he then dies or what else do men enjoy in marriages?
BusinessRe: Buy Your Desired Plain Round Neck Tee Shirts From Us Today by Deoboss(m): 11:41am On Jun 15, 2020
Favvy20:
I sell plain round neck tee shirts of any colors for as low as #1400 and for bulk buying like 5 tee shirts and above , I give discount so contact me on: 07088264850. Available for Lagos metropolis only.
What are the various sizes e.g XL?
Are they the type of thin texture cotton material T-shirt worn under-neat shirts like singlet or they are proper thicker T-shirt one wears out normally
BusinessRe: Court Restrains Dangote, Police From Interfering With BUA Mining Sites by Deoboss(m): 11:23am On Jun 15, 2020
laurel03:
and he dnt frustrate lafarge....
Who told you that he didn’t frustrate Lafarge cement?

A few years ago when Dangote upgraded to 42.5R cement grade & Lafarge was yet to do the same Dangote made so much noise to kill Lafarge’s market claiming it’s the less than 42.5R grade that made building & houses to collapse so govt should put measures on such
RomanceRe: Beau Brummell Is Dead: South Africa's King Of Nudity Dies (Photos) by Deoboss(m): 5:13pm On Jun 12, 2020
daddytime:
He lived a life and saw so many things.
You meant he saw so many naked things grin
AutosRe: 2 Units Of Clean Toks Accident Free Highlander 2006, Full Option by Deoboss(m): 7:29am On Jun 10, 2020
Piston65:
2 units of Clean Toks accident free Highlander 2006, full option.
Price 3.4m
Location: festac
Contact:07069254351
Is the Gold colour Highlander also V6 AWD?
What’s the mileage like on the odometer?
AgricultureRe: Swine Flu Kills Over 700 Pigs In A Day In Oke Aro, Nigeria by Deoboss(m): 6:48am On Jun 08, 2020
Kriss216:
OP, you made a mistake here. You misplaced M with B
It’s a multi billion naira pig farm project in Matogun near Oke aro, Ogun State. Some one said same to me & i thought he exaggerated on the figures until he gave me the analysis.

That pig farm is the biggest & largest in the whole of West-Africa so i guess their losses will be in billions of naira though we can not ascertain precisely the net loss so the gross loss is used here
InvestmentRe: Genuine Cashew Plantation For Sale by Deoboss(m): 12:42am On Jun 08, 2020
How much?
What title documents do you have on the land?
AgricultureRe: I Killed This Snake In My Backyard Farm (pics) by Deoboss(m): 4:31pm On Jun 07, 2020
pyyxxaro:
It’s as dangerous as Hoorny Lady
grin
AgricultureRe: Swine Flu Kills Over 700 Pigs In A Day In Oke Aro, Nigeria by Deoboss(m): 2:46pm On Jun 07, 2020
Very very un-fortunate & so sad (big/huge loss)
AgricultureRe: I Killed This Snake In My Backyard Farm (pics) by Deoboss(m): 2:42pm On Jun 07, 2020
77up:
how dangerous is it shocked
Very dangerous indeed
AutosRe: RX 350 Or 4runner 2007 by Deoboss(m): 5:48am On Jun 06, 2020
paix:
Have you test driven the 4Runner for comparative experience?
Yes i have driven a friends 4runner a while back, the 4runner is good don’t get me wrong but i don’t like the 4runner for long distance driving. I still prefer the Lexus RX350 cause i travel a lot
BusinessRe: First 500 People To Get 200naira Airtime by Deoboss(m): 5:41am On Jun 06, 2020
08026862862
Subscribed Airtel
CrimeRe: Pius Nweke Arrested For Having Unlicensed Guns by Deoboss(m): 4:49am On Jun 06, 2020
scantee:
But why the handcuffs, is he an arned robber because i see no reason for the handcuffs when you could just taken him up for questioning..
Law says a person found with a gun without a license is dangerous so they are usually hand-cuffed & this is the law in other climes too.

In this case it might be a set up or may be not.

NB
I don’t know the person in this matter but just my own view in what i read in other countries cause if you don’t have a gun license then why carry a gun except you want to kill some one (culpable homicide). If it’s for self defense then you will definitely get a gun license for sure
AutosRe: RX 350 Or 4runner 2007 by Deoboss(m): 3:47pm On Jun 04, 2020
Lexus RX350 2007-2009 all the way irrespective of their differences in engine capacity, size, horsepower etc. Am still enjoying mine & no regret buying it (RX350).
Science/TechnologyRe: The Strange Snake We Killed This Morning by Deoboss(m): 3:32pm On Jun 04, 2020
Quite Harmless snake. Saw one in January in my compound & it tried to escape but we were fast to kill it. Some one that knows about snakes in my neighborhood said it is not really venomous
AutosRe: Hilux 2016 Manual Like New 13m last price Reg - Sold by Deoboss(m): 7:49pm On Jun 03, 2020
Virgohills:
More calls
Am Mr Adeola we just spoke now. Do the needful to my WhatsApp ASAP
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels: This Child Is About To Change My Entire Life by Deoboss(m): 10:26pm On May 30, 2020
ume1000:
love love love

Most of the feelings we call love are obsession (wanting to possess someone at all costs )

Love my dear is a dangerous thing pray it doesn't happen to you

Nevertheless in Regina case it is pure obsession
Most important thing is that Regina is being cared for as he takes care of her. Whether love or obsession we all have one & only one life to live so we must make ourselves as happy as we can while still breathing
CelebritiesRe: Regina Daniels: This Child Is About To Change My Entire Life by Deoboss(m): 10:22pm On May 30, 2020
jamael:
[s][/s]
It seems you've forgotten so soon that delay is not denial.
Never joke, no matter how casually, with someone's challenge.
You are right. The persons that made fun of Adesua & Banky W are not sensitive to other people’s challenges.

It’s not a good thing to make jest of some one cause of lack of money, marital status not married yet or childlessness.

One should never joke about such things listed as the pendulum of life is very unpredictable. Adesua wishes to have kids too with Bank W & their time will come soon
CelebritiesRe: Pregnant Regina Daniels And Ned Nwoko Are Expecting A Baby by Deoboss(m): 10:11pm On May 30, 2020
buygala:
So Ned actually fvcked Regina shocked


Like fvcked her without a condom and released inside her with her consent shocked


How was Regina able to look at Ned's face while he was cuming? ....I can imagine that niggas face while he is cuming and that's some horror movie shit sad

So Money actually made this girl look Ned in the eye and not puke while he was cuming inside her. shocked


Kaiiiiiiiiii cry


Where Money speaks, Nonsense ceases to exist grin
Well she married him so she got to take all that comes with marriage including dick grin
CelebritiesRe: Cynthia Morgan Lied Against Her Record Label? (Contract) by Deoboss(m): 5:49am On May 27, 2020
Millenniumlady:
It's obvious jude is a user why would an upcoming artist pay 50% of her production among other things you still had the gut to say the profit should be 50%50 like seriously boy ? If you're not paying for the cost of production as a company then don't bring the 50/50 deal on the table he wanted to kill her career thanks to the creator she's back on her feet and she's currently the no.1 artist trending in Africa without releasing a single yet so jude can go back to where he belong THE STREETS.....He blocked me on Instagram cause I curse am no be small cheesy grin grin
Wait a minute, am not taking sides with Mr Jude Okoye but i have seen several agreements like this. A producer or what i call a music production investor does not like to take much risk financially in case the artist flops or does not blow. Same similar deal was signed with the popular girly group TLC back then by a popular female musician Pebbles with her husband L.A Reid & Baby face( La Face). If you watch their regrets as it was a disaster despite TLC selling over 10million albums.

Am not in support of such agreements but i think this type is rampant in the music industry world wide as the artist has no money & need a platform to spring up from.

Note: A female artist should never add sex with her producers in music business. It’s a rumor also that Emma Nyra & Ubi Frankly (record label owner of made men music) were secretly involved sexually & you can just imagine how it all ended for her as she was bitter when her contract was terminated.

Most artist don’t have a fair deal in their first contract agreement & it gets better with subsequent contracts as the artist hits success. You will be dazed how much 2face was paid by Kennis music from that his ever so popular hit album.
AutosRe: I Found This On Jiji Today!!(photos) by Deoboss(m): 7:47am On May 23, 2020
Lexusgs430:
I can't pay 2.5 million, but would be happy to pay 1.3.......

NB : Vehicle that is almost 20 years old..... 2.5 kini.......... cheesy
$Dollar cost now ooo
FamilyRe: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Deoboss(m): 7:41am On May 23, 2020
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus"wink.

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!
Well said sir.

Ladies are lucky & yet they never appreciate men. A lot of them look really nice & expensive but don’t even work thanks to men but they still feel men are scums despite this.

Imagine a man that isn’t working with no income, will he look that good with expensive phones, clothings or will he even own a car etc or will ladies (numerous) give him lots of money from right, left & center as ladies receive from men. The answer is capital NO so i don’t know what ladies complain about other than they want to have their cake & eat it.

For me life is not as stressful for ladies as it is for we men.

A man that has some financial problems will be called “Broke ass nigga” by ladies cause they get free money from men mean while this same lady might not be earning a dime other than sleeping with several men she receives money from.

Marry such women & woe unto to the man if such marriage crashes abroad. The man will be kicked out of his house he bought with his hard earned money, will loose half of his wealth, assets & cash to the lady even if she didn’t bring in much resources into the marriage.

It’s really a woman’s world (this i say all the time)
AutosRe: I Found This On Jiji Today!!(photos) by Deoboss(m): 6:37am On May 23, 2020
Lexusgs430:
Kai, you're very generous....... My offer would not exceed 200K......

Take it or leave it.......
Cause you saw it this way, if i show you one that is worse looking than this before fixing & how it looked afterwards you will be amazed.

Worst cars to buy are flooded cars or bad accidental that affects the chassis if not then no yawa.

Can you pay #2.5million for a clean title Toyota Corolla 2006 with no dent/no body work with decent mileage on the odometer?

So you see where the problem is cause people’s purchasing power is quite low.
When you can get same looking Corolla but fixed perfectly at #1.7million
AutosRe: I Found This On Jiji Today!!(photos) by Deoboss(m): 6:32am On May 23, 2020
seanwilliam:
With that damage I see up there.. walai I no fit buy am pass 50k
You don’t know that this is how most cars come into Naija. This dent is minimal & not affecting the chassis so it is all good.

Once brought in 2 similar Corolla & after fixing i sold 2006 for #1.7million fast-fast & the other #1.6million cause it was 2004 model. Toyota Corolla is hot cake & is getting scarce abroad bro
Science/TechnologyRe: Monkeys Killed In My Village In Abia (Pictures) by Deoboss(m): 3:58pm On May 22, 2020
I hate it when human beings kill animals. Must they eat monkeys?
FamilyRe: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:49pm On May 22, 2020
executive12:
Not always. There are many homes out there where the woman is the breadwinner and yet still respects the husband.
Very rare, the men are very un-comfortable to the core
FamilyRe: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:42pm On May 22, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Funny. Most women get irritated when a man has nothing doing.
Not most, all women get irritated & irrational once her husband looses his job or is broke
FamilyRe: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:34pm On May 22, 2020
StubbornGENIUS:
OP you tried very much.I can't believe I read this without skipping a word.But a good wife won't allow her hubby keep those rules.
Good wife is as scarce as you can imagine

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