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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Akanistic(m): 3:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Vulcan24: I love ur reality as it is similar to mine!! Everything a family needs for a comfortable living was provided from the get go!! Landed properties, buildings, shops etc Now due to old age, I am 'broke' no cash but assets and my wife is now working!! All above conditions by the Ops are outrightly sexist and demeaning!! Broke my big phat ass!! Why should a woman diss her husband because he is jobless?? No body is happy being jobless but living off a husband's assets and disrespectful because you have cash is deliberate disrespectful!! The guidelines are really disguised slavery!!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by StubbornGENIUS: 3:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Deoboss:Excellent nems! scarcity of good wives means that they actually exist. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ladycewhy(f): 3:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Deoboss:in those 20 years the man was doing his responsibility there was balance. Everyone was doing their assigned duty. But when the man stops providing ,the balance is distorted and more burden falls on the wife. A wife has to not only do her duty but also do the man's own as well. The least he can do is not give her a hard time . In a normal balance all a man does is go to work come back and lift his legs up to watch news but now you can't expect the woman to do all her duty and still feed you ontop while you continue to lift your legs up to watch news. If you can't be the head (which involves providing) then embrace your role as a house husband. Most men think being house wives is a lazy job,well since you can't provide as a man ,then take up the lazy job of being a house husband ,it's that simple. Infact these days women work and still do their duties while all the men do is work and come home to lift their legs up,you don't see women complain even though they are subjected to the same work pressure as their husbands,only to be a house husband to atleast ease the stress from madam,you hear these men whining and nagging like babies of how their penis will get smaller when they become house husbands. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by executive12: 3:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
BlissB: Exactly. A lot of guys are just only after how a lady looks. 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by YusufTheGreat: 3:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
So You too " Watch how do they do it" |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by executive12: 3:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
NLPsychologist: Not always. There are many homes out there where the woman is the breadwinner and yet still respects the husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:42pm On May 22, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Not most, all women get irritated & irrational once her husband looses his job or is broke 7 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by eyinjuege: 3:46pm On May 22, 2020 |
flokii: But women do all these and more for a man who is the breadwinner. They actually do a lot more. 4 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
executive12: Very rare, the men are very un-comfortable to the core |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by executive12: 3:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: Really? Lucky for being around a liability? 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by sonyoung: 3:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
Very good work...comically its d way to go... |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by eyinjuege: 3:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
NLPsychologist: What is messy in the post? Please, kindly point out one messy thing in there when a woman 'heads' the home. This is a really genuine question that I want to understand from OPs post. Look at no 5 for example. Why should any responsible working man (married or single) come home drunk, talkmore of a jobless man? Look at another point asking the man not to keep password on his devices. In normal circumstances, nobody should password their phones from spouses. Even if you don't want the children to access your phone, your spouse can have your password unless there's an issue with trust (not even necessarily fidelity issues) 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by obontami: 3:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
More like a thread for lazy fuckboys. 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by macleo99: 3:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: Hope u won't remain single for life with all ur fantancy. 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 3:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
You forgot to write something. Those times you are playing mr nice husband is the time she will lose appeal for you and began to sleep around. Acting Nice and slavish before wife because you lost your job is an insult to your manhood and a worst insult before the sight of God. Why could you not save money during your working days? God forbid I try those rubbish you write there, the Time you lost your job is the time to bring out the beast and monster in you. Keep fighting, keep searching and also stamp firm your authority in the house, if she go away then fine but I assure in a short time you will have the last laugh and regain all what you lost. LIFE IS NOT FOR THE WEAK. 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by tbaby4u(f): 3:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Essenza01: So hilarious but true. May God provide good jobs for all men so they can provide n always be in charge of d affairs in their homes with or without d support of their wives because lack of job n money can destroy a man's ego in his home no matter how much his wife makes him to think less. He will always feel sad 7 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by iamdapsyj(m): 4:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
ibkayee:you did not read in between the line actually... |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by infogenius(m): 4:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
Op, u try. U held me spellbound with this feature. I will have it handy for someone someday. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Millenniumlady(f): 4:05pm On May 22, 2020 |
executive12:So long the liability is worth it they're not complaining 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by kgr8mike(m): 4:10pm On May 22, 2020 |
Essenza01: Has she read this? I repeat has your wife read this to see what she made her best friend go through? Nevertheless she tried. She brought out the best in you and your attitude is indeed very commendable. Keep it up friend. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by frubben(m): 4:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
bukatyne:na so who na dey talk abeg, navigate ko. If you start giving the man fire fire now , you won't remember navigate . Even your parents complain like mad when they are feeding u not to talk of another person pikin. Leave that thing 6 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by princenaira(m): 4:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
Chai, That is all I can say for now |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Samuels90: 4:16pm On May 22, 2020 |
BrownLondon:lolz, u talking to a female. She's a girl |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Kingofpalmgroov: 4:17pm On May 22, 2020 |
God Bless My Wife. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by obowunmi(m): 4:18pm On May 22, 2020 |
I have an Uncle who is 61 years old. He has been married for 37 years and out of those years, he has only worked for 7 years out of that 30. His wife is the breadwinner. Till today, I always ask her, why did she stay with such a lazy buffoon? She says that she used Black Magic to marry him and the herbalist told her that because she will be rich that she should not worry about him working. She's always complaining about his laziness but the man hit the jackpot. Na to wake up, knack madam for bed, and just chill all the days of his life. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Samuels90: 4:20pm On May 22, 2020 |
BlissB:yeah,always best to marry your friend! 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by habsydiamond(m): 4:25pm On May 22, 2020 |
bukatyne:u dont understand. Most of the decent ladies you know will change to something else if the barton of the breadwinner of the family should fall on their laps. Its ego that leads to this by the way 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by tonapuck: 4:25pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nickymichy(m): 4:26pm On May 22, 2020 |
Do u know you can actually make money with this write up....I mean write a book....think about it... 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by AlwaysMotun: 4:26pm On May 22, 2020 |
Tough |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by wonder233: 4:35pm On May 22, 2020 |
I'm currently in this scenario... I just say, I can relate with most of what OP has written 2 Likes |
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