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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Vulcan24(m): 3:07pm On May 22, 2020 |
it actually applies to some categories of marriage but not all. from my own experience I actually was an all provider guy from day 1 of my marriage, so in my down time and wife was ahead, it is now on her to watch what she does to me and arround d house. in short she took to doing things the way I use to stock the house, diff is her pay might not allow it fully. But in all, I think a man should lay that foundation , once the foundation is there ... if u fall later, I don't think your woman will go haywire on you unless she's gunning for divorce or separation marriage is tough but I believe a man should remain tough all through marriage these times. 6 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Karleb(m): 3:11pm On May 22, 2020 |
I'd love if you could come up with something for jobless wives too, it'll help alot. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by executive12: 3:12pm On May 22, 2020 |
naija4life247: Not really. There are many supportive and understanding women out there. As long as the man is seen to be trying to get a job. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Olulinks(m): 3:14pm On May 22, 2020 |
It's obvious you aren't married. bukatyne: And if you are, God bless your marriage. You won't experience problem. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by AkuOlisa: 3:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] bukatyne: It takes the Grace of God and a Very special Woman for a jobless man to have peace and respect at home. I know of a friend who lost everything (millions) to scammers (bad business deal) it took his wife of 10 years just 3 months for her to start disrespecting and degrading him both verbally and emotionally. Before you know everyone in our Area knew she was the one feeding the family and paying bills. It took a lot encouragement from friends and family for that man not to commit suicide. When those scammers were arrested and 60% of his money recovered, the wife Automatically change to a loving wife and blamed village people for her wickedness. She is forgiving but their marriage will never be the same again as my friend is planning to end the marriage when they travel for August meeting. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by olabrinks(f): 3:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
Snaagg:poor men. 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Patoski7(m): 3:16pm On May 22, 2020 |
Number 17 off me OP nice one |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Lambarry1: 3:17pm On May 22, 2020 |
I swear this is the best piece I have read on Nairaland. No 16. 21-25 got me reeling with laughter. 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by crackland: 3:18pm On May 22, 2020 |
IFNOTGOD:There's no humility that is better than making yourself as scarce as possible to avoid issues and insults. 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by tonapuck: 3:19pm On May 22, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS: Lol |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by crackland: 3:20pm On May 22, 2020 |
boyjo:That's if she will see you to quarrel with. |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by michoim(m): 3:21pm On May 22, 2020 |
Nice piece |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ibrahiimo(m): 3:23pm On May 22, 2020 |
Nonsense and INGREDIENTS: There is no NONSENSE so gross that SOCIETY will not, at some time, make a doctrine of it and DEFEND it with every weapon of communal STUPIDITY. It is this participation in the essential glorious NONSENSE that is at the heart of the WORLD, not necessarily going anywhere. It seems that only in moments of UNUSUAL insight and ILLUMINATION that we get the point of this, and find that the true meaning of LIFE is no meaning, that its purpose is no PURPOSE, and that its sense is NON-SENSE. 1 Like
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Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Ibrahiimo(m): 3:24pm On May 22, 2020 |
Nonsense and INGREDIENTS: There is no NONSENSE so gross that SOCIETY will not, at some time, make a doctrine of it and DEFEND it with every weapon of communal STUPIDITY. It is this participation in the essential glorious NONSENSE that is at the heart of the WORLD, not necessarily going anywhere. It seems that only in moments of UNUSUAL insight and ILLUMINATION that we get the point of this, and find that the true meaning of LIFE is no meaning, that its purpose is no PURPOSE, and that its sense is NON-SENSE. 1 Like |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nelx(m): 3:26pm On May 22, 2020 |
It's sad to say that I grew up seeing me that were once providers but due to one situation or the other lost their means of income and their wives had to take over. Mehn it's not easy at all oo.. Na so so katakata full those families To add to op's point, one way men use to avoid much of the embarrassment is to travel out of town. Like relocate to another state and stay with a friend (who is a bachelor ooo) for the mean time. Eheen even if it is to go and carry block, the man can go to site and carry to make ends meet. He can then be sending small money for the wife and communicating with her via calls. Through these periods he'll be searching for better opportunities till he is successful and can reunite with his family.. Life hard for broke men oo. God will help them Op nice post 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Orpe7(m): 3:26pm On May 22, 2020 |
Number 4 and 27 really cracked me up |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by easyflex: 3:29pm On May 22, 2020 |
This thread is pure comedy. Op did a great job putting humor to an important issue. 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by thomassegun: 3:30pm On May 22, 2020 |
It is such a world we live in, my brother. It is baffling that there are no issues whatsoever when things are going fine for the man and he's doing his responsibility with or without a working wife. The table suddenly turns when a woman seems to be doing more in the family. My prayer for men in general is that in all that God will provide for us, comfort/wealth shall not be found wanting. mrblessed: 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:30pm On May 22, 2020 |
Klinee: A man can feed, cloth, make financial sacrifices & provide for his wife for 20yrs & there will be peace, no internal quarrels & there be joy in the home. But a wife can’t do the same for her husband for just 2months if the table where turned & there will be much insults, disgrace, ridicule, humiliation, no sex, very limited feeding etc. In some countries a man looses half of his wealth, cash & assets to his wife in the case of divorce even if the wife only brought her clothings & personal effects into the marriage from day 1. The husband is even thrown out of his own house he bought with his hard earned money as he forfeits it to his wife. It’s really a woman’s world but some people that are still living in ancient times still think it’s a man’s world which is 100% false 7 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by therealpeace: 3:32pm On May 22, 2020 |
crackland:when you avoid your wife you are probably hanging with frineds or some people other than your immediate family...The trauma outside might end up worse for a broke man...waiting on friends to pay all the bills. 3 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:33pm On May 22, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Lots of ladies will like this thread & you will see them comment here |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by TheLasyBuddha: 3:33pm On May 22, 2020 |
naija4life247: This is one paradox women will never understand. My woman works while I don't. I told her I don't feel comfortable eating when I don't provide money for the food. Babe sey, "why would you say such a thing like that?!". That day, I understand one thing, do not let a woman into the world of a man, they will never understand why men take certain decisions out of male ego. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Nobody: 3:33pm On May 22, 2020 |
I really don't see the funny side to this whole thing, if anything I feel repulsed by the idea of you thinking it's cool to make light of your current situation, he even littered his 28 points with numerous emojis - celebrating his emasculation. Someone really needs to wipe that smirk off your damn face. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by Deoboss(m): 3:34pm On May 22, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS: Good wife is as scarce as you can imagine 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by KIDfurniture(m): 3:34pm On May 22, 2020 |
Chai... married men wey no get job dey enjoy oh... so they have to suffer all this..omg ... na wa oooo.... this life sha. Well if u marry the wrong partner sha & u lose ur job u go suffer oh. Just see as God wants to reveal to you the beast in ur so called wife. ..marriage is overhyped in Nigeria. Essenza01: |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by executive12: 3:37pm On May 22, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: Typical 'mgbeke' mentality. You are one of the many Nigerians (both male and female) who do not understand what marriage really means. Husbands and wives are supposed to support each other. I would obviously avoid females like you like a plague. 5 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:37pm On May 22, 2020 |
Wow You write well. 2 Likes |
Re: Guidelines For Unemployed Husbands With Working Wives by apexc8253: 3:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
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