thorpido:
Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to.
Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw.
I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given.
You both need counsel from wise elders.

I love that word Wise Elders, because there are some elders that are unwise. Foolish people grow old too... so not every old person is wise.

God will not let me fall into this kind of family.....in Jesus name... Amen!!! Fayaaaaaa

To stone the wife's family dey hungry me

Avoid 3rd party in marriage, including ur families. If u want to last in it

This needs to be in the stupid section. This is the dumbest thing i have read in a while

This your story get as e be jare

chxe:
This needs to be in the stupid section. This is the dumbest thing i have read in a while

Really the Dumbest

elektra:
You and Your family are a bunch of entitled clowns.

Why should your husband be paying your parents salary? Are they his employees? What are they doing for him? Your mouth did not even heavy you to ask, seeing as you are a not bringing in any income. Your head is not correct at all.

Your father sef! When he was insisting on >500K he did not think of the future. Now the same fate has befallen his son. Shame did not catch him to demand money from his in-law? Your father is a shameless man.

Well said by you, bravo.

Marriage in this clime favors women more & not men.

Imagine the words she is using to describe her husband as not responsible.

So she expects her husband on #70,000 monthly salary to be responsible to her brother, her parents & probably her other relatives.

Me i will spend that amount (#70,000) some times within a couple of days or a week max.

Then he is to be responsible to her the wife & the kids they may soon start having.

No wonder men die earlier than women

Even if she gets a job, her type won’t contribute a dime as she appears selfish & self centered.

Vyzz:
Look out



How will ur husband contribute money for ur brother to marry....



That's how all these slay queens go around and call men broke...



Men that are better than their brother...




The man na start man... Ur dad wants to milk him

Dats how northerners do. Especially plateau kaduna n nasarawa Christians

This is the perfect answer for your case


It is wickedness for your parents to collect bride price of that amount from your husband and still demand 120k when the smart guy who deflowered you only use 2 noodles and two eggs, your family has collected their inheritance if i may put it that way...if they are not happy with that let them return the bride price after all he never met you a virgin.

U husband paid ur exorbitant bride price alone and by himself without ur family or brothers support or assistance and now ur dad wants him to help pay ur brothers bride price??

Ur father get liver ooo

Where is that kind of a thing done??

When its comes to igbo list most parents are greedy and sturbon,u no reduce list for the poor guy,u want make him help your brother ,y is it that u woman always want us to play along even when una dey do the wrong thing.

Which kain wife be dis? This had better be fake

Mteww

I don't know if this is real or fake. The thing is just thank God you didn't marry someone like me. So your husband is now a poverty alleviation scheme bah.

Is well

There are somethings that shame will not allow me to say honestly. Ur husband spent above 500k on ur head. Ur family are selling u to him abii. The man managed to pay it, now u are telling him to contribute to ur brothers marriage. Pity urself pls. Make shame catch u and ur family abeg.

From ur story,I will simply say ur family is scavengers, sorry to say this,ur not contributing any financial quota to ur home,under his poor salary,yet he paid such huge fund on ur head,then ur family is billing him such amount without his approval on ur brother responsibility,is sheer wickedness.

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

How much did your brother contribute when he was marrying you?

You guys are lucky he still picks your parents call...

Nothing else to say my brothers and sisters has said it all

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

How do you n the rest of ya family want your thunder??
if it is tradition not to reduce price of d list then it is also tradition not to expect anything from your husband. If any of this is true hmmm lemme reserve my comment sha! And tell your stupid brother to go n hustle he is not ready to marry yet.

Zabiboy:

So some men are still getting married to idle and jobless ladies...
IT IS WELL....
She doesnt contribute financially but wants to contribute to the decision-making process of how finances are spent
WOMEN WOULD EMBARRASS YOU....


Someone should pass me that spitting meme

Na dats y I run from my former babe. Dere family too poor. N religious. If marry her my own is finished. My advice, try not to marry from a family that was rich a letter became poor. Oo my God!!Dem go finish u with entitlement because Dem don chop live b4.

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

If Indeed your story was true.
1. You don't love your husband. As a house wife, your responsibility is to help grow your husband's wealth for the betterment of your new home( immediate family).

2. It's never your husband's duty to be taken care of your family. It's something he does at will. It's the responsibility of you and your siblings.

3. I discovered that you people don't have shame at all, especially your brother. He doesn't have money for the common bride price and how do you think he would take care of his family, may be your husband would do that for him as a good in-law abi?

Common getout of here

Damnnnn nigarrrrr,assuming without conceeding this story,the lady that tweeted this is highly irresponsible,her parents are greedy, selfish,lack conscience and irresponsible too.The brother that wants to get married is also irresponsible,I pity this man that married this fool as a wife,u don't even pity ur husband whose salary is a meagerly one(#70k)per month,do u want to send this man to his early grave??.ur husband does not owe any financial duty to ur parents in anyway and it is not the duty/responsibility of ur husband to contribute to ur brother's wedding.if I were the husband,I would divorce this fool as my wife.

thorpido:
Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to.
Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw.
I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given.
You both need counsel from wise elders.

You have spoken well.

The bides parents could have behaved like emperors during his wedding,husband felt very hurt.

When parents collect bribe price they should remember that they are not selling their female child.

The man has bought you from your parents and he is using you as he deems fit.

My advise for you is to sit with him and beg him on your parents behalf also you must realise that he owes your parents nothing it is their attitude to him that will bring money from his pocket.

You too, go and earn 70k salary monthly and experience how easy it is to throw money around.

LISTEN UP BOYS & MEN, NEVER EVER MARRY A LIABILITY! By liability I'm not only talking about your partner but her family as well! Any family that sees their daughter as a financial tool instead of prioritizing her happiness should be feared, this type of family not only holds a strong leash on your wife but you as well, the more you fight it, the more unhappy your wife becomes and ultimately she either leaves you or frustrates your entire existence.....ONCE AGAIN NEVER EVER MARRY A LIABILITY!

when i read this thing on twitter i was pained, because the man did not give his a factory reset slap..imagine nonesense..GOD IF NA ONLY THIS KIND WIFE RAMAIN IN THIS WORLD LET ME REMAIN SINGLE..CAUSE I GO USE AM DO RITUAL NONESENSE..

oluwasegun007:
The truth and bitter truth is that he doesn't love u...

When you love a woman, you love everything about her which includes her people.

You also love the poverty style of her family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Awon oloriburuku re ooooooooooooo

This is just the reasoning of some slay Queens.

Mindlog:
If the story is true and not one of those twitter tales then it is a messed up family, why should the husband be sending money to the in-laws on a monthly basis what is their son doing with his own money? If am the husband, I will not contribute even one naira to the traditional wedding, maybe they will also expect him to contribute in paying hospital bills when the brother-in-law's wife gives birth. Such entitlement!

I was reading it and and was getting angry at the same time. It should better be one of those Twitter tales as usual.

You are stupid to expect anything from him, what is your brother doing or is he a lazy youth?

Which kind yeye family be this?