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command!

Even the wives of the prophet challenged him. women of his time challenged him.

but trust insecure men, any form of that makes them less of a man.


A real man is the wise man and not the one who gives the unshakable rule.

well, if a woman is unlucky enough to be with the unwise one, she still has to deal wv it. after all, she had a chance to say no but married him.

Now she must be commanded and the command she must obey. if not, she becomes the bad wife.

I agree with Op. shirk is the greatest sin.

Alcohol being mother means it gives way to other forms of sins, IMO. where alcohol is sold, there's most probably indecency, gambling,prostitution, etc.








btw, I don't like seeing pictures beside the messages passed.

truthman2012: Lady, do you read the quran at all? Are you one of those who say our alfa said.... This is because all you are denying are there in your religion. God forbid I lie, I am not a muslim. Consult your alfas and place another post. Besides, I don't like trading words with a woman.

Have you ever held a QUr'an. have you ever read it? have you ever read its interpretation. Funny enough, it is a recycled idea. The lot of the older nairalanders, probably tired now or now realising how fruitless their efforts have been have stopped posting this kind of gibberish. You lift ies from the internet or pass it from mouth to mouth without ever verifying them, It is a big joke on you and God will question you over them.


about suratul maryam, ch 19: 71-72

the Qur'an says, as translated below-

وَإِن مِّنكُمْ إِلاَّ وَارِدُهَا كَانَ عَلَى رَبِّكَ حَتْماً مَّقْضِيّاً

19:71 There is not one of you but will pass over it (Hell); this is with your Lord, a decree which must be accomplished.

ثُمَّ نُنَجِّى الَّذِينَ اتَّقَواْ وَّنَذَرُ الظَّـلِمِينَ فِيهَا جِثِيّاً

19:72 Then We shall save those who had Taqwa. And We shall leave the wrongdoers in it, Jithiyya.

the interpretation by ibn Kathir is as follows-

1. There is not one of you but will pass over it.

"The bridge over Hell is like the sharp edge of a sword. The first group to cross it will pass like a flash of lightning. The second group will pass like the wind. The third group will pass like the fastest horse. The fourth group will pass like the fastest cow. Then, the rest will pass while the angels will be saying, `O Allah save them, save them.'''


Also,

Abdur-Rahman bin Zayd bin Aslam commented on Allah's statement, وَإِن مِّنكُمْ إِلَّا وَارِدُهَا (There is not one of you but will pass over it (Hell),

"The passing of the Muslims (over the Hellfire) means their passing over a bridge that is over it. But the passing of the idolators over the Hellfire refers to their admission to the Fire.''
2.
Then We shall save those who had Taqwa.

When all of the creatures passed over the Hellfire, and those disbelievers and the disobedient people who are destined to fall into it because of their disobedience, Allah will save the believers and the righteous people from it because of their deeds.

Therefore, their passing over the bridge and their speed will be based upon their deeds that they did in this life.

And We shall leave the wrongdoers in it,



Don't come here lying again man.

justaqad: is that the only thing you heard about him?
hmmmmm.
women really got issues.
smh

are you one of his followers?

Posting that comment truly translates to having issues. You donno how much perplexed I was hearing of all the 'ami' he has been performing.

This is an aspect of Islam and not entirely the role of a woman.

I.say this because I have heard of faces where women are brought up to be nothing beyond beautiful places. Education doesnt even rid them of it.

MacDaddy01: If you have nothing to add or say,, why not keep quiet?


"forced" was put in quotation marks for a reason. The designer had already started and it would have been a waste of time/effort to stop at such a stage. That was what "forced" meant.

You mean that happened for real and not that it is a fable?

I believe women who know what they want eventually have their ways.

some Men are like empty vessels, making the largest noise in public only to bend down to madam's wishes at home.

some others are well laid back and even in silence, the wife respects them enough to do what they might like.

I remember my first yr psychology. The different types of parenting were described. the most intriguing is the authoritative versus the authoritarian.

the authoritarian exerts much more pressure and wants to control without being too much of a part of the child's life nor listening to the child's views but an authoritative parent even though firm at it grows into the child some sense of maturity, explaining why a decision has to be made and maybe seeking the child's view on it.

the results are different. The authoritative is more respected by the child, the child has a better sense of security, opens up more to him and still obeys him.

while an authoritative one may be obeyed, the respect is lost, etc..and the over all result is not too good.

these can be applied in marriage. A man can decide what he wants to be. keep commanding and making his home a battle field or give room for everyone to grow in love and peaceful harmony. This choice is what the Qur'an gives a man. Wisdom is added so he can use it wisely.

but God knows, a bush man aint finding his way near me...khalas

macdaddy. I had to laugh!

you can lie mehn.

later, he was 'forced' to finish d job.

not so smart of you. I like you nevertheless.

well, LagosShia gave the right answer alraeady.

thank u op. when will you tell us from a Muslim's perspective

how should a man do it?[quote][/quote]

ayam following this topic. I didnt read what op posted sha. only skimmed.


but I kinda like where this is going.

ever heard of what they say of the mad man running naked in d market? if u run after him hoping to cover his shame, people would think two mad people are on the run.








astaghfirullah.

point of the matter is, wow! Allah is really merciful. A human being would have locked up d mad ones. But Allah gives them the opportunity to be sane by proving his majesty through his works like this little girl.


oops, I forgot. hell is certainly created for people.