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I am really sorry for the man if this is truly it.



shia-sunni strife? may Allah forbid that.

Abiola MM: This is simple.. Islam preaches peace, teaches peace and is peace itself.
In islamic teachings, there are things you say when a person dies irrespective of who they are (I stand to be corrected), because they've left this world & are in the hereafter, and from teachings, Only God (ALLAH in arabic language) can judge.
So lets put aside this act of extremism and face the fact that she is dead and no living soul knows her faith.

funny how this translates to extremism. You dont know where to draw the line. op is still very much on point and his views are not extreme.

Anvaller: Look there is no monopoly of understanding of Islam as a religion. Even the renowned islamic scholars argue amongst themselves on topical issues. My question to you, define Islam...
U are saying follow follow? of course no be we muslims dey do follow-follow pass? We do a lot of stuffs that are not in the actual sense Islamic but because majority of other muslims do them, we also do them, errm well, except me and a few others tho. There are more fundamental issues to be brought to the fore and discussed thoroughly other than Goldie or no Goldie... abeg.....

did u reread before posting?

stop the follow follow and stop making it seem normal

beejaay: and there are also so many reason to doubt the muslim (one is his ignorance about what he professes)

are you for real? do you have an understanding of what it is you wrote?

Are you a Muslim?

The best thing is to get a good lawyer and fight the cas3.

I wondered why Iran would be interested in Nigeria too. but no one can tell what this is really about until the investugations are concluded.

If the man is truly guilty, then too BAD.

but if he is innocent, I pray the bad people are EXPOSED.

There are many reasons to doubt an atheist.

They have no guiding principles, no strict values. Life is all about what they subjectively think is right or wrong.

why not pray to God YOURSELF

pfeew.




I can say wallahi that I knew this is where d whole story was going. But I dislike swearing

justaqad: if i did not pres hard enough, you wouldn't have outlined your perceived ish with him. so next time be more elaborate
hehehehehehehehehehehehehehee

no u didnt. i did d pressing.

now, End of DiscussION

justaqad: if this was your first post,there wouldn't have been issues with me.but citing 'lagos big women' alone, reeks of something else

that is why you should ask questions before shaking your head lest they fall off

justaqad: bomeeeeeeeeeeerang
and i found one in your post...
hehehehehehehehehehehehehe

grow up jorh.


Now lemme tell u what about ami olohun.
if you see nollywood movies, a muslim cleric as represented is holding a big rosary, seeing the future, and using sands like idol worshippers do. They actually arent fictional about it, they are portraying the likes of this ami olohun.

funny enough they are also the richest kinds of muslim 'clerics' because many people deal with them like christians with their pastors. They tell people whom to marry and who not to. whether to go on a journey or not. In return for their fortune telling, they dont only get the beat of gifts but of intimate ones too, hence the 'lagos women' tag.

it is shameful and I'd want every Muslim know that and not fall into scam with these jinn-using other ami olohuns.

I just checked your previous post.

if your aim here is to find loopholes to fill, then you are on a wrong mission.

I decided not to give up on you and give you enough chances to prove that my comment was based on having issues as a woman. The issue you couldnt prove while dilly dallying.


just dont bother next time and It isnt end of discussion from my side in case u are up to it.

not when it is with the right person.

you have so much fun with no regrets.

and you find nothing wrong with it because?

Billyonaire: The reason is simple. She is a brand and you are not. Now, should the world blame her cos she was a victim to boyfriend abuse ? Should she, just like an average critic recoil to her momthers kitchen and stay a victim all her life ? I personally know Kim Kardashian is cut out of steel. She is a victor.

You dontbhave to make comments all the time.

btw if d sextape is something she pulled herself out of, what about d playboy. did her bf do that to her. how about being married ti someone and pregnant with another person's child?

I saw a kid in one of her pictures to Nigeria. I wonder what such parents are teaching their children.

chakula: Noted!

deols how are you are doing? Hope you are doing great.

I am fine.Thank you for asking

a verse of the Qur'an that is commonly used during nikkah is


'from among his signs is this that he created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquility with each other...'

okay. cant remember the name of the chapter.

Many people fail to 'dwell in tranquility with each other by emphasising the not too important aspects of marriage, only put in place for the more important(dwelling in tranquility) to be easy.

In fact, we need to discuss ds verse on d muslim singles thread.

mdsocks: Ok...On a Pc now.. To answer you..Look at your post here...



In which way does Allah pass message to us? Ain't it through his Prophets and Books? So am I wrong if i said the verse and in this case we all know the verse you are referring to even if you didn't quote it here.




Am laughing at the bolded comment.... So God also made man the head of the house to argue and show authority on frivolous issues like how many meat is served to each member of the house??

I am not holding brief here for the ladies but most assertions from the guys on this thread seem so far-fetched . Nobody say make you no command but at least it's not to show "yes am the head of the house" in issues that needs careful consideration and not show of authority. Your wife ain't disputing your authority with you and nor the ladies in here from their replies only that they wouldn't like/appreciate you commanding in situations that need the inputs of you two.

I am impressed by your respons3s. not only here but also on that complaints thread.

@Chakula, don't be too bothered about this issue. It is being discussed.

too bad that we value a worthless cup over lives. we value it over education, a good healthcare system.


I wonder how much Adenuga thinks these people deserve.

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Freiburger: That is not always the case, we 're human and are prone to making mistakes without even knowing. I just can't digest why most women detest that word COMMAND, hope these same women saw this in the bible ''Wives, Obey Your Husbands Ephesians 5:22''. some will call it ''Wife Submit To Your Husband''... what a complicated world.

and I modified that post.

about d word command, we are at an era when political correctness is d order of the day. so why wont men stop using the word command while knowing women don't like it. would it be right for men to always want to do what women may dislike?

we all know of what the religious books say of who should lead the home. I have only been emphasising on using wisdom along the way. and like Zayhal said, a reasonable man should be able to allow them both draw up the advantages and disadvantages while deciding what is best for them.

marriage isnt a war front and women arent sheep. They are married for such characters as their intelligence and ability to reason.

Freiburger: lol, what's wrong with it if he commands you in the right direction?
I think these kind of command is not that military type as it sounds.

Everyone knows what is right. I don't think a command is needed for what is right. an adult is expected to do what is right.

only when there is something to do between two options that commanding comes into play or when one party is asking the other for what the othr may see as inappropriate.

@infofirst, try to be specific. who exactly are you talking about. It happened on what thread?


I agree totally with what you wrote. if only we would all follow the dictates of the Quran and sunnah.

bey and jey are starting to look alike through blue(bley)

once she looks like bey and d next minute like jay

This picture makes you realise how money doesnt define class.


whooops. God works in mysterious ways. Money to the right channel and y'all would be proud

[quote author=Okija_juju]And you are supposed to be a Muslim Woman!!

I had no idea you were supposed to even speak without permission, let alone speak to a man in that manner.

You should go and ask Allah for forgiveness.[/quote]now you know. something added to your ocean of knowledge. You should thank Allah for that.



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Most cultures of the world attach the 'head' to the man. That is why many men would go for women below them in status. The type they can lead or command.

whatever definition the command is given, though culturally or religiously defined will still so much depend on the women. You agree to be slaved and you get served. you agree not, you have your ways.

and what is yours with him