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FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 8:36pm On Dec 10, 2013

i don't play games with people -
i screen them & it's worked perfectly for me. perhaps if women deploy the same ish, many of them won't be stranded with professional boxers they call husbands. grin cheesy cheesy better to test & get rid if they don't suit your peaceful life than hope & marry them. hope? with the number of people with disturbing childhood roaming our streets? okay o!!!
Coogar is changing mouth o. Baby said it all. All those games are childish. Dem fit backfire
FamilyRe: 23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing by deols(f): 7:22pm On Dec 10, 2013
The list is PA fect.
IslamRe: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(op): 5:47pm On Dec 10, 2013
tbaba1234: I know single people who envy married people because they think marriage is a fairy tale, and married people who envy single people because they now realize its not.

Sheikh Omar Suleiman
This is funny.

I don't envy them. I am scared of it.
IslamRe: Quran Study Group- Sharing Jewels From The Beautiful Book by deols(f): 5:37pm On Dec 10, 2013
Still following...
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 5:26pm On Dec 10, 2013
PocketEconomist: wouldn't you like to marry a house husband like me?
No, I won't.

I fear that I may not be able to respect him enough. Plus what would he be teaching my sons?
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 5:24pm On Dec 10, 2013
byvan: I rather spend my time shelling Egusi seeds than argue with coogar undecided.
grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 5:22pm On Dec 10, 2013
bukatyne: According to Coogar,

If a woman is not 'submissive', she will be breaking all the stuffs in the house

What is even the definition of submissive sef?
He likes to portray the other side in bad light.
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 5:19pm On Dec 10, 2013
@Coogar

Looks like we both agree that moderation is key. Mumuness is bad and is being desctructive as in LcD screen smashing.
But on this other one-

that's exactly the point.
i want to see if she will bite if i put my hand in her mouth. if she overbites, i quickly weed her off. the point is to gauge her reaction when she's angry. is her anger proportionate to the wrong against her?
Don't lose a good somebody by so doing. She might see it as whom you are. Even if she wants to be entirely submissive, she may not be expecting such extreme behaviour, at least at the beginning of the relationship. It may backfire.
Foreign AffairsRe: Nelson Mandela Memorial Service On 10th December 2013 by deols(f): 5:09pm On Dec 10, 2013
Madiba is an inspiration!! He will forevee be remembered.
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 3:04pm On Dec 10, 2013
Here is an example for coogar
jaz: my Wifey is simply over submissive. we go shopping then I ask if she likes a dress and then she says if I like it then she likes it. it drives me nuts.
just make ur own Choice devoid of my impressions sometimes !!
See? Even this can be too much to handle
Foreign AffairsRe: Nelson Mandela Memorial Service On 10th December 2013 by deols(f): 2:39pm On Dec 10, 2013
albiol: Obj could have been our own mandela coming from prison to rule us again but greed for his and stubbornness. If he dies today how many world leaders will come to his funeral
I said the same thing
Foreign AffairsRe: Nelson Mandela Memorial Service On 10th December 2013 by deols(f): 2:38pm On Dec 10, 2013
albiol: Ghandi, malcolm x, che guevara, martin luther king, John f kennedy, Nelson mandela great men of the 20th century
FamilyRe: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by deols(f): 2:22pm On Dec 10, 2013
yellowpawpaw: CC,come back here and explain yaself!
*drags her back*

Vikin=chilli
Chilli=viikin
O gaa o!
Make I go look for vikin na.

So ewuro is not jydogal sad

Maybe she is right.
More confusion sad
I Knew Ewuro could not be jhidegirl..nahhhh
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 2:13pm On Dec 10, 2013
PocketEconomist: A submissive woman in the house even reduces the man's power a little (na joke oh) lemme explain. For those who didn't do Political science, Power is the ability to impose one's will on the behaviour on others. In relation to this topic, a submhssive and reasonable wife's has Power, as she can influence him to do her bidding without being belligerent. That's real power, and your husband will love you and respect you for it. Off topic: I've always joked that i'm gonna be a part time house husband (grins) and my wife a career wife. My penple fume and call me wnman wrapper, but i don't care. I'vd worked for a while and i hate it, i like being in control of my time and i'm currently veering off into the academia to have more time for myself and my future family. My wife on the other hand would be a career woman, that i know. She doesn't have to worry about house chores, i will do all that, but cooking will be for her. This is my model marriage, and i know it would work. House husband +Career woman Bad combination.
Good luck
FamilyRe: Why Do Wives Find It Difficult To Be In Subjection To Their Husbands.— by deols(f): 11:31am On Dec 10, 2013
coogar: hahaha....
the average nigerian woman has about 10 boyfriends in her lifetime before marriage. these days, some have 3-5 at the same time. she uses them for different purposes. grin
I was not talking of the average then. We are not all like that. Stop the generalisation.


he will learn to get over the heartache, right? i wish women will also learn to get over the heartbreaks instead of becoming a nervous wreck & lumping their problems on everyone else.
Stop generalising. Some of us are mentally strong.

a girl will still take material stuff from an admirer even when she has nothing to offer him. he's a mumu as far as she's concerned & she will take full advantage of the likeness of the dude has for her.
I dont take things from men. I never had to. So, stop generalising and maybe, stop moving with the wrong girls wink


sussing her out is just a test.....a litmus test to ascertain if she's acidic or basic. cheesy grin
Stop doing that. Some of us don't play games. We are too serious for that. If anyone puts their hand in my mouth, I'd bite. grin



that answer is classified. trade secrets my friend.
pfewww


anger & rationality hardly go together. when a woman is very angry - it takes a lot of grace for her not to say the things she might regret later. all these things i pay close attention to - most of the time i deliberately create chaos just to goad her & see how caustic her tongue would wag.
damages are likelier to be done.
i don't mean physical damage, i am talking of the verbal damage. i am fully aware there will always be little friction here & there but i expect a high level of self control when she's expressing herself.
Not everyone talks while angry. I don't cos my voice shakes and it is embarrassing. The other embarrassing thing is that I cry sometimes as I try to express it. So, most of the time, all I do is use body language. I just have to show my displeasure in a way by frowning or usingy eyes. Talking can happen later when those bad words may not be said.


I am not talking of a robot here but a woman who's prepared to overlook minor flaws here & there and just get on with it. if my mistake is critical, then i expect her to go full-throttle with me. however, there are some women who moan about every minor thing - the types that nag & neg - even the bible says a man should flee from such women.
We all overlook minor flaws. What you presented is the one who does not see the flaws and would hear and obey all the time.

And I was not talking of those who nag 24/7either. I mean people who at least make it known when they disagree with you and get angry when neceasary.Rather than keeping it in mind until they explode catastrophically.


i am a very good snake handler. snakes are usually calm if you don't spike them & not every snake is venomous. quiet ladies are the best - they pick their moments to get angry & that only happens once in a blue moon. i prefer that to the daily moaning of a nagging woman.
This was not about the nagging woman, you know. You can express yourself without being a nag and the snake has venom. Very poisonous, deadly venom.
PhonesRe: Android, Anyone? Part II by deols(f): 11:00am On Dec 10, 2013
phoinix: Are you rooted? Can you temporarily uninstall one or two apps to make space and install "DiskUsage", let's see what is consuming your space, sometimes you may have useless files clogging your device.
Thank you smiley

I got an sd card. I will downlaoad the diskusage too.
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 9:41am On Dec 10, 2013
[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Pica odikwa serious thing. Though not all written there is right as you v pointed out earlier. But it's not a small situation. To overcome it, the patient ll need mental, spiritual, psychological cum medical aid.[/quote]That is for addicted people, i guess. I am not that and I am healthy.
There's nothing pleasing there o! Hope you don't sniff duster again.
You know it has health complications. Btw, do you still crave for chalk as a grown up?
Its been long i saw those kinds of chalk. E don tey wey i was taught using chalk. So, i avnt had a chance with chalk in a long while.
Hm! Hm! Hm!
To err is human...
You sef no do well. You no suppose ban me. The thing come happen for Ileya day.
Anyways, I forgave you long ago.
I don't want truce. It's just temporary. I want a permanent friendship.
You agree?
now, we can be e-friends smiley and together we can fight all my e-nemies grin cheesy.pls change ur subject, friend. wink
FamilyRe: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage by deols(f):
kulyie: it is usually the tactic used by desperate women to pin down mr money guy.

Yesterday where i went to fix eye lashes,i met a young girl between 22-23 in that same beauty studio and i asked her hope the strike isnt affecting you,she said ha,no o aunty.infact,i am trying to get pregnant,i want to hook my new boyfriend down with pregnancy,i dont want him to escape from my hand,i said why do you want to do that,she said,he has money na.he is a big boy o.at least even if he doesnt send me again after the marriage,i can always use the baby as a tool to collect money from him.i said ehenn..school nko?wont you complete your education and earn a degree.she said abegiii.who needs certificate,i am all after money joor,dont you know its expensiveto do fine girl,i said lobatan.anyway the point i am trying to make is desperation and wrong priorities cause things like this
O ga o. I wonder how those girls grew up into being that. Right from childhood, all I wanted is make my own money. I find it hard asking anyone for anything. I'd rather suffer.

And when the man turns her into a punching bag, we wouldn't know the genesis.
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 9:33am On Dec 10, 2013
[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Pica odikwa serious thing. Though not all written there is right as you v pointed out earlier. But it's not a small situation. To overcome it, the patient ll need mental, spiritual, psychological cum medical aid.[/quote]I myself am medicine!!! grin

As for the spiritial and psycho, they are unnecessary. I still lov3 sand. But I haven't ate it in ages. I am not addicted to it.You all are making me crave it right now but since there's no pure one around me, I'll wait!

It is not a bad thing. Some people eat raw iron from sand as a therapeutic and it is ok undecided
FamilyRe: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage by deols(f): 7:21am On Dec 10, 2013
Using pregnancy to 'tie' people down is a known practice. Some men may have made it known how they would not let their children be raised by other men.

Some men who drag their feet and need pushing to make decisions also get 'tied' this way.

Hopefully, it does not backfire. It does in some cases.


I don't agree with this though. It is not ideal.
FamilyRe: Re-why Are Most "Friends" Unhappy When They Hear You Are Making Progress... by deols(f): 7:15am On Dec 10, 2013
You dont understand how hard it is for them that you no longer have to ask them for crumbs.

Thank God for showing them to you.
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 6:56am On Dec 10, 2013
[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]I just read the thing briefly. That kinda eating disorder is more weired than anorexia.

Yeah.
Types of Pica
* Amylophagia (consumption of starch)
* Coprophagy (consumption of feaces). Yuck!
* Hyalophagia (consumption of glass)
* Mucophagia (consumption of mucus)
* Geophagy (consumption of chalk, ice dirt)
* Litophagia (consumption of pebbles & rocks) & there's one called Odowa which is soft stone eaten by pregnant women
* Those that are iron deficient & eat sand.
Last Bullet:
Do you v deficiency in iron?[/quote]That it may have been seen in some people with iron deficiency does not make it same for all.

I have access to all the tests I can get. I particularly am aware of my Hb level. I know that this has nothing to do with it.

And even when I was anaemic(with iron deficiency), I didnt eat sand. So, those things that they write are not alwaye accurate.

I like chalk as well. When I was in primary school, I used to love dusters. When i press on them, and the dust comes out, I sniff it..It is bliss, itell ya. smiley

Btw, hope your hate for me is gone..truce?
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 6:48am On Dec 10, 2013
Lordwize: You need deliverance my dear.
YOu too wink
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 11:13pm On Dec 09, 2013
[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Pica.
Just read about it on google. I ll term it as a psychological disorder.
How can someone feel like eating paints, sand etc. To some, it's even ice. Eww![/quote]You didnt read it well.

Did you read what it takes to make a diagnosis?

and how it is more in women and common in pregnancy?

The research on the cause is inconclusive with different theories to it.

What could be said of is how dangerous it can be and that is dependant on the type. Did you read on the different types?
EducationRe: ASUU Members Disrupt Lecture At UNIBEN (Pictures) by deols(f): 11:06pm On Dec 09, 2013
see the classroom and you all won't let ASUU fight for you.

I know it is hard sha. I have relatives affected. But I think the pains of today are for the morrow.

You should join ASUU in asking for these rights and npot act lke all you want is to graduate. If every one gets involved in frustrating the FG on this matter, it would go a long way.
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by deols(f): 10:54pm On Dec 09, 2013
NAIRABORN.

she is our nairaland baby.

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