₦airaland Forum

Sissie: First example, this happens all the time, wife doesn't have time to cook the 3 course meal, husband is already used to eating sumptuous meal and also thinks it's wife's duty alone to do the cooking, it sounds simple but it leads to so many other problems.

It's best things like this are discussed before marriage, how flexible is the husband but in this case they are married, the question now is who compromises, wife or husband. Am tempted to say husband should just hire a cook, but wife knew before she got the promotion her husband wants only her cooking.

Both should compromise, hire a cook, so the cook do all the pre-cooking preparation I.e washing, cutting e.t.c and the wife does the actual cooking (consume less time), and when the wife is so busy and can't cook, the cook should do the cooking.

In some cases the woman just has to find a way to do the cooking, some men don't eat food outside, they only eat their mum, sister and wife's food.
It's not enough reason to get a divorce.

bellong: The first step to a blissful and prosperous union is to understand the purpose and essence of marriage. Marriage is not to turn any member of the union to a slave but for helping each other. To be an help-meet to each other.

Understanding this straightforward and simple meaning will go a lot in making a home worthy of emulation. Help-meet means to help each other accomplish a set goal in a mutual arrangement.

The lady is more skillful in some areas than the guy and vice-versa. The two parties come together to apply their resourcefulness for the betterment of the home.

joker5180: u put everything upside down, there r fédéral laws That banned those drugs u mentioned and fédéral agencies r doing their best to enforce those laws in the state. There r no fédéral laws banning alcohol in nigeria, Is there anything wrong if a state enact a law banning sale nd consumption of alcohol to compliment those fédéral laws?

Usminous: .....

trenchcoat: First and foremost the writer is not a Muslim. He is only speaking of his mind on what he feels should have or shouldn't have. A Muslim does not have a different view in terms of the doctrines of Islam,as Muslims we are guided by the tenets of Islam, going contrary to what Islam says is going out of Islam. Secondly, how could a Muslim be comparing Athan and Alcohol? It is either the person is pained for seeing what he lust for been crushed or is indirectly in support of the consumption of alcohol, I guess he was tipsy when he scribbled this trash. The issue of including Christians does not arise as alcohol consumption is not acceptable in the bible. The writer is the real hypocrite and trying to create confusion between the Muslims and Christians, you call harming yourself with toxins human right? Why cant you follow the rights of Islam and shun your delusional view? Deols what have you achieved in posting such misleading note? You succeeded in showering arguments and insults only few are debating.
Right or no right what do they benefit in taking alcohol....Nothing is the answer, just making a fool of themselves and you call that enjoyment? What a waste of time.

yousee: Deols, that statement is an open door to attacks on your person.

Burning and slaying humans is not a religious function. Is it?

naptu2: 1) What's the difference between the Criminal Code and the Penal Code?

2) Is Nigeria a federation or a unitary state?

3) Is bigamy an offence under the penal code?

4) What does the NDLEA do with confiscated indian hemp? Does it return the hemp to the city it originated from or does it destroy the hemp?

5) Is the criminalisation of indian hemp a violation of the rights of hemp smokers?

6) Is "desertion of a pregnant woman" a crime under the Edo State Criminal Code? Is it a crime under the Niger State Penal Code? Is it a crime under the Lagos State Criminal Code?

naptu2: 1) What's the difference between the Criminal Code and the Penal Code?

2) Is Nigeria a federation or a unitary state?

3) Is bigamy an offence under the penal code?

4) What does the NDLEA do with confiscated indian hemp? Does it return the hemp to the city it originated from or does it destroy the hemp?

5) Is the criminalisation of indian hemp a violation of the rights of hemp smokers?

6) Is "desertion of a pregnant woman" a crime under the Edo State Criminal Code? Is it a crime under the Niger State Penal Code? Is it a crime under the Lagos State Criminal Code?

Baby mama: See how Islam constantly segregates people
Listen to the Muslim writers here
Christian areas and Muslims areas being thrown freely
Islam is the only religion on earth that segregates against people yet they shout on the pages of print of tolerance

Isn't it amazing that a religion sees alcohol as evil yet they have the worst smokers on earth
The world largest producer of Opium is a Muslim country
Which is a worse evil?
Children in Kano sniff glue and by products of gutters to get high
Even grandmothers smoke
But alcohol is evil?

vedaxcool: It is within the govt. Rights to ban Substances that r known to reduce the brain capacity to act normally, the only reason we r having this conversation is simply bcoz it was done in a muslim dominated state. Now I believe the govt. Of the state should have acted more circumspect. Due to the sort of complexity of Nigeria. I think there is an existing agreement on sabongari permitting them to drink as much Apolloalcohol they want in other words live according to their customs.

Ngasky: since you assume alcohol good then why cant you fight for cocaine, heroin, opium to be legalize for public consumption? B4 u jump to reply give the difference btw alcohol and other intoxicants (hard drugs) and pls skip the legalise deception done by immoral (s)elected criminals (politicians). Talk from the science persepective not religion (forget xtremism).
I was in kano throughout all the so called religious crises. Whenever such destruction is about to start there is an early warning system of massive purchase of alcohol and other intoxicants. Becouse the miscreants doing that must be fully loaded (high) before they start slaying people and stealing their properties. Ask anybody present at any massacre in Nigeria. Are the perpetrators sane or drunk?
If only for security reasons i support total eradication of all intoxicants in any form. And the government is tasked with the maintainance of security.
Pls christians does alcohol became the eleventh commandment? My own understanding of the new testament says otherwise. But can someone enlighten me?

experimentist: Islam forever no matter what! Sister deols, I always dey gbadun ur posts and replies to them. Kudos!

Blackteeth: But let me ask this: what are the so called good Muslims doing about their extremist brothers who kill "in the name of Allah"? Definitely nothing! They just relax and allow them destroy people and even sympathize with them. Good Muslims should get rid of their extremist brothers and the discrimination will be over. As long as this doesn't happen I will continue to hate Islam.

TyHadebimpe: Asin,its jux too bad. I've xperiencd a situation where somone jux stopd tawkinq to me wen she found out i was a muslim nd started calling me names. I pway Allah 4give dem

5megabyte: Every sensible muslim must read this, it is the stark truth! Its a slap on the victims of islamic terrorism to continue to say islam is a religion of peace. In the kenya mall attack, after freeing the muslims to go, the islamic terrorists hung many of those left on meat hooks!! The simple difference btw islam and others is that no other religion will kill in the name of their religion or God, a mexican cartel gangster will not ask u to recite the bible to kill u, only islam does this and to worsen it all, they all use these lop-sided references that christians also kill people in america or mexico. It is irresponsible and. Very very wicked

Bezed: no islam is not, christianity is.. And is a discrimination of christians by fellow christian.. Yet they are christians no islam is not, christianity is.. And is a discrimination of christians by fellow christian.. Yet they are christians

Mujah1deen: Please why is that there are no religious crisis/clashes in our neighbouring countries? Abeg Nigerian Christians should check themselves, you love to provoke, ridicule and mock. I can't comment without being called a terrorist, without people implying that I'm looking for 72virgins, without people calling me cow , illiterate, animal, poor because I'm from the North and I'm not alone , southerners+Christians check yourself . Peace goes both way.

superior1: The shout of Allahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh................ coming from the sound amplifier of the mosque located near my Naija home is loud enough to wake a dead person, even me a non-muslim dey wake up

So, living near a mosque with a big sound amplifier maybe one of the solutions

tbaba1234: Yes, it does not apply to non-muslims but if it is done in public in a mixed region then it can not be endorsed.

In a predominantly non muslim area, the sale of alchohol can be allowed.

Therefore, before condemning, we have to be sure about the exact details.

We should be more concerned if it is done properly not if people will react.

young money101: Jst asking wat rights do pigs ve?

uboma: It is you who failed to understand me. I totally agree with the writer and that's why I also offered an advice for him to watch his back because I understand how unreasonable the over zealous ones can be just because of religion. Hence the hypocrites I made reference to couldn't have included him and by extension those who can think beyond their religion and respect the rights of others. Please mind the way you address someone next time.

Sissie: What area in kano did it happen, because I know for a fact alcohol is allowed in the sabon gari area of kano state, any other part is not allowed. If this was done in sabon gari, it's totally wrong.

Even for the Muslims, breaking the bottles of alcohol makes no difference, people will still sell/buy alcohol.

tbaba1234: Deols, what exactly do you agree with? If you decide to implement sharia in a region, one of the implications is that public drinking is banned.

It is simple, you do not have to be politically correct about this.

I do not endorse or outrightly condemn the destruction because I do not know if it is done in line with Islamic principles.

However, we have to be a little circumspect about the opinions, we endorse.

stardragon: Rights on animal, and no right on human beans.

aManFromMars: Wow. Thanks for sharing.



Deep.