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toba:
Pardon my being inquisitive

Is the romance[b]tic[/b] moderator a Muslim?

am now starting to wonder

Quote from: toba on Today at 13:42:11

Well to me i see nothing wrong if an individual changes religion. to be candid, i may be angry with someone close to me who leaves a ''good' religion to another. By that i mean living God to worship idol.

However, i wouldnt persecute e anyone cos only God knows whos serving him. One of my christian aunt just left xtianity for Yeye Osun worshipper. well i said its her choice even though im not happy bout that.

I dont have a muslim background but i practiced Islam between 1993 to 1995 at the same time going to church.

I fasted in two of the 4 Ramadans in between the 4 years. And prayed in top mosques in Lagos including the Lagos central mosque called Moshalashi Jimoh as well as the One in Muri Okunola street in VI

You know I once mentioned your confusion. You cannot worship God except that you know him. that You fasted with the Muslims didnt make You a Muslim. .Y partake in what you have no knowledge of.

Now, I said you should be a muslim which means First of all that You accept the shahada with all your being and with full meaning of what it entails
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Shahada-There is No god worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammad is His messenger.. lemme know when you believe!

jay bee:
@deols
Why only yoruba?
Aren't you restricting yourself further sister, as only a few will qualify from your first exclusive list.
Why don't you give yourself a chance cos stat tells me you have very few eligible bachelors, practising Islam out there so why nail yourself where it hurts?
I'm sure you are joking right?

There's only one person for me and I believe he is one of the[b] few eligibles [/b]. .lol. .nd if he doesnt in all entirety conform wv my list, He would av at list tried on dem.

My perception can change, I know. . am ready to learn here.

nd BTW, i modified dat post.

mukina2:
han han
what if a good Muslim non Nigerian possessed all other qualities?

don't discriminate naw.  

ok, lemme modify the post. I just dont like complexities, i'll tell u why, in due course IA.

toba:
yet i still over qualify

I am an eligible bachelor

i dont want it over. .I want it exactly dat    

now, become a MUSLIM  

and oh i forgot to add

tribe                                -yoruba

nationality                        -Nigerian

marital status                *SINGLE


*compulsory
-can do without

maclatunji:
The 2 things I find a wee bit odd in her list of attributes are:
*dark skinned
- should love the gym

The fact that she detailed them shows a high degree of precision in what she is looking for. A very thorough person indeed!

i av sed it over nd over again dat it became so REAL. .lol

mukina2:
na novels na. tall dark skinned handsome guy ohh mills and boon days hehehehe

maclatunji:
I thought as much, I did not want to sound forward. Now that you have confirmed it for her. What can I say?

noooooooooooo.
was never a fan of M nd Bs. just never liked d yellow paw paws.

toba:
pathetic. Im not high on anything.

FYI im a good xtian that doesnt drink, smoke or go to parties/club, neither do i do women.

In the real world, i dont even have a close frind cos i dont like it. I only Play on NL and FB.

So get that clear

dat explains a lot

jay bee:
hmmmmmm
@deols
Na wa for your highly exclusive list oh. lool
I guess it's all about own preferences so no problemo

mukina2:
^
na wa o short guys don suffer for ya hand

lol. waitn to hear from you

suit yourself toba, u cant be helped, Mushkilatik Kathir

Muslims dont claim God speaks with them. The Qur'an and hadith guide us. So, stop asking for when or where God spoke with anyone.

What those Muslims did(if true) is wrong and not Islamic .It should be condemned by everyone.

Religion-wise- *Muslim
-has good Qira'a
-is working on being a better muslim

Physical attributes *good-looking
*tall-my height or taller.
*dark skinned
- should love the gym

Endearing attributes *in love
*confident
*should make it obvious(in every way possible) what he thinks of me
*Intelligent- dont like to explain wat I mean all da time.
*mature
- any form of pretence wld put me off
Profession
-no specific one
*should be able to think beyond his nose

* compulsory
- can do without

Am looking forward to that actually. Am very open to this. I hope someone would provide an hadith against marriage to non believers, in the absence of which, i'll accept discretion is all it requires.

I still say-

deols:
Generally, allegiance to Islam apart,

Isnt marriage supposed to be with someone you'r compatible with? Does anyone want to live everyday thinking maybe their husband would enter hell. How about the children. I once shared the story of a girl who was having problems because of her parents' religion. Does anyone think her children deserve those kind of complexities early on

to start with
guys, wat do u look out for in a woman
and ladies, wat characterises an ideal man

Here, am hoping we can talk as Muslims(wivout d dirty stuffs xterisn d romance section). Married people can chip in too. Aim is to discuss relationship matters in accordance with Islam nd to b able to solve problems Muslims face while trying to fulfill half of our deen.

muslim singles, lets have a talk

pagan,where is your destination

i dont mind startn a thread on dat note, hopefully ppl'll participate

Generally, allegiance to Islam apart,

Isnt marriage supposed to be with someone you'r compatible with? Does anyone want to live everyday thinking maybe their husband would enter hell. How about the children. I once shared the story of a girl who was having problems because of her parents' religion. Does anyone think her children deserve those kind of complexities early on

toba:
na wa. a fellow muslim is being querried for expression what he feels is logical. instead of u to sit and digest what hes got to say, your indoctrinated mind has blind folded u from reasoning along the path of what covld be the truth.did God tell u personally that he detest inter religious marriage?

I think ds is for u. U av questioned everything logical on ds forum.

toba:
Smdh. 99% muslims belong to time past in modern day. are we still in medina? is God from medina? why do u want to enforce the practice of medina on muslims in nigeria? your just too religious and indoctrinated to old school practice. what are u going to do about more than 5muslims that are willing to marry a xtian on nl? are they going to hell if they did? where in the nigerian constitution is it stated that there shdnt be inter religious married? pls enlighten your self.its a pity that u are going to prevent your beautiful daughter from marrying a good xtian man when she grows up out of ignorance and give her in marriage to a boko haram man. patheticn she grows up out of ignorance and give her in marriage to a boko haram man. pathetic

u can not contiue to judge Islam by your own belief.
In Islam we get good reward for good deeds and bad one for bad these. The good is weighed against the bad on the day of judgement. So, people who do what Islam doesnt allow would only b increasing their bad deeds nd not necessarily going to hell for that.

toba:
of i had expected u to disagree with the truth. Smdh. Araboy is a muslim that has knowledge. Hes not based in Nigeria and so hes not brainwashed like most others are

i can read btw d lines nd evn beyond. I didnt reply ds earlier because like i said, I was goin to check up some references. y d'u keep using d word brainwash. Obviously, u'r not ready to reason in the line of anyone who doesnt agree wv u. ds is a forum where every1 can share their views after which everyone decides wat to believe nd wat not to. stop using that word like d pple here cant reason.

bhusayor:
Hey toba! You still have not addressed the issue of the different sects in xtianity discriminating among one another. The catholics, jehova witness, cele, C n S an oda sects preventing intra religion marriages. At least you all are christians, so why is it a problem? Yoi see a catholic saying he\she can't get married to a redeemer, jehova witness must marry a j.witness, y is that?

Secondly, the percentage of the so called muslims in the boko haram sect is quite negligible, so stop the unnecessary affiliation, except u tell me uve personally met \know a boko haramist.

I made dat clear to him nd like I said he uses it as a weapon wen out of point

@Vedaxcool, thnks so much for that

stupidity of d highest order

no

i know two

debokaz:
Deols,u are wonderful.U really captured all.Keep it up.

thnks!

Araboy:
@ Toba I think Deols is falling for you and following you like twitter     just be patient with her and she might be the one who knows ? If the truth has been  said I bet most of these girls here have dated Christian men before  so why the Pretence ?

i avnt bn following him ooo. Rather he's bn on my neck, nd hell no! never will I date a xtian nd I tell u i never did.

I hope his head didnt 'swell' by ds comment sha

Araboy:
The teaching that Muslim woman can not marry a Christian man is misguided teaching intended to confuse and keep progressive Muslim women behind the practice has its origins in war times which were used against those fighting 
with Muslims but ceased once hostilities were over

The Quran addresses marriage to non Muslims only in  two instances  Allah Says '' And do not marry polytheist men to your women until they believe and believing slave is better than polytheist even though he might please you " Quran 2:221

" And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the scripture before you "Quran 5 :5

Here there are some  absolute truths we can establish from those two Ayats

First  there  a differentiation is made between non Muslims "People of the book (Christians and Jews) and non Muslims Polytheists like Hindus Sikhs Buddhists  Atheists Etc   

The next point is Muslim men are permitted to marry chaste Christian women when certain  duties are upheld
 
Then it is naturally fair and just that Muslim women can also marry Christian men even though the Muslim women
are not directly addressed in the previous Ayat and no further guidance was given in case if a Muslim woman marry someone from "Ashab Al Kitab"  (People of the book )

i disagree with you.InshaAllah, I'll check out the reference to where the prophet ordered that a lady leave her marriage to a man who became an unbeliever.

haboosa:
@ Poster , we didnt see you at 3rd Nairaland Ifatar, even mukina only commented on her Husby's comment on the thread, while Zayhal doesnt show face at all, i hereby employ you guys to come around by the time we call for the next one, may Almighty Allah make it easy for us all. High profile Nairalanders do attend make it a date too

when the time and situation permit InshaAllah.

maasoap:
@OP, Thanks for the efforts.
What about a sleepless night on the eve of Eid when as kids, what you would only be praying for, was the day to break. You also forgot to tell us how as kids, we wouldn't want the day to end. Even as an adult now, I'm still excited with our Eid Kabir's ram. And that's why they are always jealous of our festivals, it's just too colourful. Thanks.

thanks! like i mentioned, it can be updated to accommodate more info. I'll c to dat inshaAllah

toba:
:d :d

busy body

zayhal:
I thoroughly enjoy this. Thanks deols.

u'r welcome 

mukina2:
nice write up