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HealthRe: Things To Know About Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) by deols(f): 9:05pm On Nov 13, 2013
Lagusta: Everybody please..... staph aureus is not, and I repeat NOT a cause of STI....

One of my former colleagues was withdrawn because of this....

What people erroneously call staph infection is actually the secondary or tertiary stage of syphilis. Which needs strong antibiotics to cure....
hehehee

made in Nigeria staphSTI
IslamRe: The Sunnah of Love by deols(f): 9:01pm On Nov 13, 2013
ma sha Allah.

I appreciate the responses. I actually have read all of these before..It feels so good to hear them again.



He could not love them equally but was kind to them, equally.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 4:32pm On Nov 12, 2013
Donxavier: Wikipedia sef get hin reference. I no dey do masters for here. na argument grin grin grin
you are arguing for argument's sake. thumbs up.


it doesn't matter anyway. let every man and woman be safe.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 4:24pm On Nov 12, 2013
i quoted a well known source of medical information and you quoted wikipedia..

u no try at all.

Try again grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Policeman Publicly Embarrass A Half-naked Girl On The Street- PICTURE by deols(f): 4:20pm On Nov 12, 2013
I hate it when women are molested for dressing indecently.

two wrongs don't ever make a right.


She should have been walked out..no need holding her like that!!
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 4:11pm On Nov 12, 2013
@coogar and Donxavier, this should end it. Read the underlined.


I took screen shots to save time. Source thereby acknowledged.

FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 3:20pm On Nov 12, 2013
undecided grin grin
IslamRe: 9th And 10th Of Muharram by deols(f): 3:05pm On Nov 12, 2013
Wednesday and thursday.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 3:04pm On Nov 12, 2013
Donxavier: That's another matter beyond the scope of our argument. My own is don't go about giving fables to try to make a point.
Seriously? Even when your last post is on 'if there is no pre existing condition'

You seem to have jumped on the discourse without understanding the preceeding comments.

You can read backward to understand what I was driving at.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 2:59pm On Nov 12, 2013
Donxavier: Thing is he doesn't need to keep off. if the dude has no pre existing conditions and he is healthy, he doesn't need to keep off to try to conceive or wait for his wife's ovulation time. He is ever ready grin grin
Of course. And he shouldn't waste the good seeds at the motels.


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FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 2:56pm On Nov 12, 2013
coogar: really? i thought you are with the other divide that are saying it doesn't matter cos she might have changed.
I will tell my sibling if I find out something like that because in his shoes, I would want to know.

who does these investigations & how thorough are they? i mean - if a guy is a prolific player who's managed to play safe(no babymomma & no STI), will the pre-wedding investigations clear him or stop him from getting married?
Everyone does it..in everyway they can.

People always know people who know someone who knows..



men will always go ahead & do as they please. we are tasked to make the first move in the wooing stage, we are supposed to lead in the relationship. it's imperative we have enough experience before marriage. that's the dictate of the society - unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about it. grin
There is a lot we can do actually. At a personal level and at a bigger level. You should see the girls I train grin

Mothers actually send their girls to me. The first thing I teach is self esteem. Some men just don't deserve some kinds of women.

When women raise the bar, men will have no choice than to change.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 2:48pm On Nov 12, 2013
coogar: !!!!



it's a continuous process - it never stops. as some get mature today, some mature tomorrow & some mature next tomorrow. the process never stops so there's no way a man can use up his spërm cells.
And in a man with a low sperm count as well??
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 2:44pm On Nov 12, 2013
Donxavier: This is most definitely a load of crap!

Fertility has nothing to do with frequency of sex. I have never heard and there is no case of any man being infertile simply because he had sex everyday or too much
I didnt say he would be infertile.


And is why I gave the TTC example.

It is just that it isn't entirely wrong either. To boost fertility, he would need to keep off if TTC until around his wife's ovulation.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 2:07pm On Nov 12, 2013
coogar: that's a lie from the pits of hell...
the more a dude shägs, the better for his sëxual health & the incidence of prostrate cancer is reduced to the barest minimum. a married man that is shooting blanks must have been shooting blanks since his birth - it has nothing to do with his sëxual history.
This your theory, I never heard of o..that sex helps wih prostate cancer..

Anyways, what Chilli said is not a lie. A man who has sex everyday or too frequently may not be very fertile.

Sperm cells take about 75 days to mature. If he exhausts them, by going all around with all kinds of women, he'd probably not have enough at the time his wife is ovulating. His chances of getting her pregnant would be slim.

Couples TTc would be advised to stay off until that period so their chances are increased.
PoliticsRe: Clara Chime Packs-out Of Enugu Govt House, Opens Up by deols(f): 1:58pm On Nov 12, 2013
oyb: from all accounts clara chime is just an opportunistic runs girl whose game was not tight enough to hold chime down

it does not appear that she was a nice girl/woman he met at a function or something - she was just a ho who could twist it a little better than the next

it also says a lot about where she comes from if her sister could fk her husband [it also says a lot about the kind of dog chime is]

all in all, as i have said previously nigga jam ashawo - equation balance.
Two people who deserve each other.

Hahaha!! She can go back to drinking garri and he?? can commit Political suicide, I hope.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 1:53pm On Nov 12, 2013
coogar: there's no STI that does not show symptoms in men. our anatomy is simple. semën & urine are the only things permissible with us. the moment a guy sees a foreign fluid, he already knows he's in trouble.

with women, it's different.
more than half of the women out there see no STI symptoms. they can see all sort of coloured fluids in their nether region & still think it's a natural process.

enough women have given birth to blind babies cos they didn't even know they were carrying gonorrhoea for aeons. that wouldn't happen to men. so male promiscuity is not the same as female promiscuity.



nah....
they have to show internet support to their fellow female. women are actually the ones that would raise the loudest alarm if they discover their baby brother is about to get married to a runs girl.

women with their mother hen attributes are more protective & they would kill before they see their brother getting married to the wrong partner.

all what you are reading here is just a facade.
I will fight a sibling marrying a runs girl. It is impossicant.

Well, that is the reason for all the pre wedding investigations.


But I hate to hear that men can go ahead and do whatever and even be praised at it while women can't and would be stigmatised for it.

The point is, whatever is bad is BAD irrespective of who is doing it.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 1:47pm On Nov 12, 2013
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FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 1:47pm On Nov 12, 2013
Chillisauce: Why you come spoil show na angry angry huh
cheesy cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 1:45pm On Nov 12, 2013
coogar: hypocrisy? how so?
women have so much more to lose - it's biology!! saying it's hypocrisy is laughable. men don't carry wombs, women do.
How often does the womb get affected because of a woman's sexality? It is not as bad as you make it seem. She only needed to play safe just as much as a man needed to.
FamilyRe: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by deols(f): 1:33pm On Nov 12, 2013
pickabeau1: NObody is victimising any lady ,,,,
we are saying how it is

Will you allow your blood brother to marry a course mate u knew was promiscous in school days and had had multiple d & Cs

Lets be real here and just not brng theoretical stuff

Its a fact, due to people marrying later to set up careers and stuff, people will run the field but moderation is key
Read what I wrote earlier. I agree with the Op. I would be angry if a brother knows and does not tell me aomething like this.

But I disagree that a guy being promiscuous is different from a lady being that.

The lady could even be wise enough to use protection amd the guy silly enough to contact STIs that may render him infertile. In women, The risk is not as much as you make it seem.

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