Celebrities › Re: Niyola Rocks Tattered Jean And Jean Jacket, Looks Good In It by deramarks(f): 7:22pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
Shollarh:
Do I smell okrika . Yes u are right she is a good customer of mama okirika |
Celebrities › Re: Niyola Rocks Tattered Jean And Jean Jacket, Looks Good In It by deramarks(f): 7:20pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
sabi99: devil wan use u send pple back into watchn porn, but he has failed woefully . I cannot stop laffin oooooo *rolling on d clean floor with my white gown* lol ooooooooooo |
Education › Re: Barewa College Produced 5 Presidents, Over 20 Governors, Ministers, Cjns by deramarks(f): 4:01pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
U didnot do it well Young03: mtcheewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwewwwwww |
Celebrities › Re: Hilarious Throwback Photos Of Naija Celebs by deramarks(f): 3:43pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
And olu jacobs costandi: Theory wey Obasanjo don disprove tey tey. |
Education › Re: Ojerinde Speaks On Validity Of UTME Results For 3 Years by deramarks(f): 11:21am On Nov 26, 2015 |
Oga sharap d tin dere is dey shud set up more universities like let's say create a campus of uniben in lagos or created a campus of unilag in abia so dat whn pple pass jamb nd post jamb thy'll see where to chuck head all these tins dat they re doin is just hypocrisy tjey make changes but we aint seeing no one |
Celebrities › Re: The Amazing Bleaching Of Dayo Amusa (Before & After Pics) by deramarks(f): 10:43am On Nov 26, 2015 |
But princess fio was/is cute na @ least before she k namedonfinish: that third picture reminds me of fiona in the movie shrek... haha... |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by deramarks(f): 10:14am On Nov 26, 2015 |
U will neva know d value of what u have till u loose it imagine dat u divorce ur husband and he marries another how he wud do d same tin to her nd she'll start usin him for her selfish reasons since u said u still love him I bliv u'll b hurt. A man who has been a virgin all his life till he met up wit u infact u don't even know dat u re lucky* forgive my inability to use d comas nd full stop am in a hurry* ur husband deserves all d attentions he can get from u nd from what uv said ur husband is an introvert he keeps a lot in his mind DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE him love him for who he is nd if u wana change him itz easy! U know two captaims can't b in a ship so u too shud leave some decisions untaken so dat he'll take it. Do not make some moves so dat he'll make it ask him for his opinions in some issues nd try to act a little inferior for him to act superior (but my dear many women wud kill for ur opportunity dat is why GOD placed u wit him instead of others don't divorce him for ur own good enstack: I had to ctreate a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.
When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.
Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.
I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.
If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.
I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.
I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?
Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.
Thank you all. |
Celebrities › Re: Terry G Shows Of His Porsche Car by deramarks(f): 9:35am On Nov 26, 2015 |
Where did he get d money to buy it *just askin sha* nd where is mallam spicy leh him Come an beef diz one *itz not my business sha* |
Education › Re: Inauguration Of Emir Sanusi As UNIBEN's New Chancellor (Photos) by deramarks(f): 8:50am On Nov 26, 2015 |
*dancing alanta nd shoki nd galala* they shud also change the VC dat wan go sweet die |
Crime › Re: Teenager Collapses After Rape By 60- Year-old Lagos Landlord by deramarks(f): 8:37am On Nov 26, 2015 |
All these land lords sef hmm are u sure diz is not part of their ritual? because itz mostly landlords dat rape teens theses day *just tinkin sha...but...as usual*itz not my business sha* |
Celebrities › Re: Niyola Rocks Tattered Jean And Jean Jacket, Looks Good In It by deramarks(f): 7:49am On Nov 26, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Bomb Blast Hits Kastina Mosque by deramarks(f): 7:51pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
Banter1: I wish all Bokoharam sudden death! amen! |
Romance › Re: The Most Romantic Governors In Nigeria (photos) by deramarks(f): 7:47pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
Itz means dat u re APCially jobless nd dat u re a fault finder. Quote me anywhere, anytime. Gosh!  does dat mean this is how desperate apc supporters re already? For GOD's sake Buhari is our president dats all,doesn't mata if apc is romatism or PDP is not romantic. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Funny Job Hunting Experience by deramarks(f): 7:22pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
Eldorado01: [size=20pt]oh so you came here to tell your friends about the money i gave you. Lol iffa hear say u gave him
dont worry i will make sure i employ you and deduct that money from your account
ladies dont miss my signature.....you will surely appreciate me [/size] |
Car Talk › Re: Two Buses Collide On 3rd Mainland Bridge (Photos) by deramarks(f): 6:57pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
Love Machine: Everything in Lagos is rush rush. we lagosians apologize for always being in a hurry but....success requires steadiness nd fastness |
Car Talk › Re: Two Buses Collide On 3rd Mainland Bridge (Photos) by deramarks(f): 6:54pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
freemanbubble: very bad. in other news there was installation of muhammad sanusi as the chancellor of university of benin . Seriously? Like...I thought they just had a new chancellor recently |
Celebrities › Re: Niyola Rocks Tattered Jean And Jean Jacket, Looks Good In It by deramarks(f): 6:49pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
MrKontrovErsy: mad woman!! pls get hold of her! okay boss. Am on it  |
Crime › Re: Girl Flogs Boy To Death In Bayelsa by deramarks(f): 2:45pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
Hmm I hope the faith. Festus is not the person am tinkin it is bcis I don't bliv faith can beat anybody to death |
Nairaland General › Re: Cows On BRT Lane In Ikorodu Lagos (Photos) by deramarks(f): 9:55am On Nov 25, 2015 |
Whatif dere are bombs inside those cows of life? Just askin but...*itz not my biznez sha* |
Phones › Re: LG Introduces LG16- The Cheapest Android Ever, Sells For N2000 by deramarks(f): 9:50am On Nov 25, 2015 |
Pls nau all these things are too much I know dat chicken is a very expensive. Gift to give out. But just try to reduce all these LordaGuru: Good one, that's in the Spirit of Christmas!
Also, I too have Began my annual Distribution of Xmas Gifts (chicken for Families& Friends ) PLEASE MEET THE REQUIREMENTS BELOW TO GET YOURS.. 1. Submit your Birth Certificate (Original Copy). 2. One Valid Identification Card. 3. Police Report that you have never committed any crime in your life. 4. International Passport (if you don’t have one, go and get it). 5. Marriage Certificate (if married if not go and marry) 6. Consent Of Parents (for those below 17yrs). 7. Picture Of Us (to prove that we are close). 8. 4 Copies Of 2×2 Pictures (blue background). 9. Report Card/Result sheet ( for students and undergraduates only). 10. Provide Drivers license (if any) 11. Provide your CGPA (must not be less than 3.8 12. Write an Essay (Explain why I should give you the xmas present)… Not less than 800 words.-with proper margin. Correct English grammar and right use of punctuation, interjections Pls use green pen… NB- Submit your application on or b4 dec. 20 for the gift, 1 big chicken. |
Politics › Re: #FuelScarcity Trending On Twitter by deramarks(f): 9:29am On Nov 25, 2015 |
boboLIL: Some people don't know that CHANGE can take effect positively or negatively...all they want is change.... And here is the change . Shebi? I told pple dey won't listen dey want change but dey won't appreciate what they have till dey loose it. More changes are to come dat will still stun d nigerians. |
Romance › Re: The “Green Light” That Tells You She Is ‘really’ In Love With You. by deramarks(f): 7:58am On Nov 25, 2015 |
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Education › Re: PICS Look At What We Killed In Our Hostel by deramarks(f): 7:56am On Nov 25, 2015 |
DikSin: Why?? Why evils?? Why kill mrcork's lil' bro  . If we start selling strange animals we wud b wworld richest country |
Romance › Re: The “Green Light” That Tells You She Is ‘really’ In Love With You. by deramarks(f): 9:51pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Ori nke gi buru werey na agari ka onye ebiribe e wu searching4l0ve: [s][/s]
ori e loburu |
Nairaland General › Re: Nigerian Man Honored In USA For Saving Kids' Lives by deramarks(f): 4:31pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
ahamonyeka: is this not Sammy agunbiade my classmate those days in primary school?we used to call him igi iwe as his nick name. u re being serious here? |
Romance › Re: The “Green Light” That Tells You She Is ‘really’ In Love With You. by deramarks(f): 4:19pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
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Travel › Re: Trailer With Container Nearly Falls Off A Bridge In Lagos by deramarks(f): 1:34pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
seedsower: You will soon get banned by an #Endtime moderator.
Oga you better repent. me a gal don't b deceived |
Travel › Re: Trailer With Container Nearly Falls Off A Bridge In Lagos by deramarks(f): 12:49pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
seedsower: #Endtime tanker drivers everywhere. #Endtime trucks. #Endtime roads. #Endtime government. #Endtime commentator. . #Endtime you #Endtime me #Endtime quote #Endtime endtime |
Nairaland General › Re: This Young Guy Died Playing Music With Earpiece On The Road (graphic Photo) by deramarks(f): 12:21pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
SaintHephzibah: grow up lady cos u aint getting younger hell fire is real. But u cud also avoid it nd live longer by minding ur bixnes. |
Crime › Re: Sex With Prostitute Sends Married Man To Jail In Abuja by deramarks(f): 12:17pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
PLANETMARS: “The police who stormed the scene almost immediately" lol make dem leave joke for nigerian police  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Catholic Priest Slumps And Dies In Anambra During Church Service by deramarks(f): 12:10pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Freeze Coolfm Flaunts His N7m Rolex Daydate Wristwatch (Pics) by deramarks(f): 8:35am On Nov 24, 2015 |
How can a man use 7m to purchase a watch dat won't tell him his death day or time while pple re hungry nd homeless I see a lot of point in ur view but when u advice them they'll tell u to shutup they worked hard for their money. Nigeria a country where d rich gets richer d poor gets poorer youngalex: Na wao...In this Buharinomoy he spent 7m on a watch...Am not beefing just that we have come to a stage in this Country that the rich needs to lend a hand to assist the poor cos the poverty gap is really widening by the day leading to an increased crime rate,i will like Freeze to think about this ....probably having a foundation for the less privileged and offering scholarships to brilliant poor children.
In this pic is a brilliant poor child trying to make ends meet...Am not sure the whole groundnut bottles surrounding her is worth more than #5,000 ..SMH...WHAT A WORLD |