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EmmanuelScott1:
God forbid �

justosee:
I[b] took my last bottle over 5 years ago.[/b]

There is nothing wrong with drinking moderately, but I prefer those who stay away from it.

justosee:
never! I can't even marry a lady who drink alcohol

Prettydevil:
Most women are not capable of giving out real genuine love. All they are concerned about is an image of you and once that image dies so does their love. find people who genuinely love you for you and never let them go no matter what. for those who like materialistic women, you are playing with fire..because the minute you stop being their ideal man who has all the qualities that make them squirt, you are practically dead to them no matter your shared history. a word is enough for the wise.

Dapcity007:

If you like don't learn how to cook

ukaface:
What I sha know is that ,if you like cook like cookery book,man wey go Waka leave you go leave you.


Back to the question:
It's ideal for a woman to know how to cook,same for men too. I wonder who ascribed Cooking only to the female gender.
It is compulsory for both men and women to know how to cook.

DaddyRochie1642:
Manner of approach => just a lil bit off.
At least the man knows what he wants, he went straight to the point.

I've got great admiration for straight forward individuals.

pquaver:
But this your advice is exactly what David did? Or u wan chioma not to put all eggs in 1 basket why David puts his in 1 basket?

Gabe427:
Omah lay really floored last year .....the dude has catchy songs that one can easily vibe to

PlayerMeji:
Most daring is those boys in the pool of water charging their laptops.

I will like to hear the story from their own mouths how it ended.

tyup:
On the other hand, A man can see a Lady suffering and go out of his way to help n establish her but a Lady's words would be good for him, He's lazy that's why

I've reviewed stuffs like this and i vowed never to help any lady in my life except my lil sister. If the lady likes let her say she needs help to stop her Head from falling. That is soley her problem o

Madibahisback:
What should we do now

wahoom:
Hi Fellow Nairalanders,

I have been trusting God for a spouse for a while now. I have prayed and fasted and even did all that is expected of me but unfortunately haven't been that lucky in relationships.

However, on the 1st of January, 2020,, I fell into a short trance where i saw myself with a lady in a thanksgivings procession in church. In that trance i felt an unspeakable joy and supernatural peace which lasted hours after the trance.

The lady in question was someone i met online but we had only met once prior to that time, however, we are very close as we chat almost every other day and had got to know a lot about each other online.

I wasn't too comfortable with the trance i had as i wasn't the physically attracted to the lady.

In April 2020, I had a dream where the lady visited me in my family house and my parents and siblings bonded well with her and in that dream my mum said quite a lot of postives about her and I also had that same supernatural peace I had in the trance even hours after waking up from sleep.

So, I started working on my emotions to like and accept her but each time i tried I hate her the more.

Recently, I told my mum about her and she said exactly everything she told me in the dream in verbatim. I was quite shocked and felt it could be divine and that got me working seriously through prayers and also trying to adjust my emotions to accommodate her but each time I see her, I just have hatred for her as I'm not in anyway attracted to her. I'm not feeling her, no excitement, no butterflies in the stomach, no longings to hang out with her, not even sexual attractions, everything is just flat.

So, I eventually decided to withdraw from her even though i felt there's this divine compulsion or better still divine leading that she's my wife.

Folks, please i need your help here.

Hence, this question, CAN GOD LEAD YOU TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU DON'T LOVE OR ATTEACTED TO?

goldenpenny2:
I have discussed it with her. Initially, she is not ready to get pregnant before marriage. I was the one persuading her to keep it.

But later, am beginning to have double mind.
Am just being confused weda to go ahead and marry her or ask her to abort it

missimelda01:
I saw a tweet some days ago where a man around 32 stated clearly after posting a ‘hot’ picture of him, that he didn’t want ladies 10 years younger in his DM shooting shots. I was shocked for a min, I thought men love younger ladies?

So I want to know,
does age really matter?
Can you date/marry a younger person(3-10years)
Can you date/marry an older person (5-15 years)

My answer, I can’t date or marry a guy (3-10years) younger and marrying someone 10years older depends on a lot.

lalalista:
Hello all, I opened an account to post this issue here because I want a honest advice from people who don't know who I am.

I have two men in my life asking for my hand in marriage. One is a working class graduate while the other is an ssce holder who recently lost his job. I like the ssce holder the more because he is more intelligent, neat, generous, fun to be with, more handsome and he's also from my tribe. When he had a job, he always gives me money without me asking him. He takes me out a lot and buys me things. Now he's just into daily hustles that fetches him 2- 5k daily.
On the other hand, the working class graduate is not from my tribe. He has money but spending it is always a big issue. Let me just say that he's kind of stingy. He's not as neat and intelligent as the ssce holder. I need to choose one of them before April. I'm equally a graduate.

My friends say I will suffer in future if I choose the ssce guy because he's got no degree and his chances of getting a good job is very low. They want me to marry the working graduate so I won't have to suffer. Deep in my heart, I want the ssce holder. Please I need your honest opinions on who to choose. Thanks

Sonnobax15:


One major reason why I don't and can't do this relationship of a thing is because I don't have time to tolerate and withstand a cheating girlfriend...

But if I were to do one,I'd opt for a trustworthy relationship,a God fearing one, love bound,and with someone whom I'll always feel at home with,not some tse-tse fly kinda girlfriend

shamsin6300:
Na person wai eat belleful the chock mouth on top of people's issue.
This is 2021
#we move