Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Deal With A Girlfriend That Is Overly Demanding Financially by dermmy(m): 6:29pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
KimberlyWest:
I believe in the mutual spending stuff too. I can imagine how depressing it feels to shoulder another adult's responsibilities.
I know many ladies with their own money, and they spend on their men too. Whenever I come to nairaland and see the whole "leeches" stories. It makes me wonder where these guys meet their women.
Hopefully, you'll find an independent lady soon. Since you believe in that mutual spending i might even be talking to the lady without knowing sef. Or are you the will of God for my life?  Cause it's strange hearing this from a naija lady. |
Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Deal With A Girlfriend That Is Overly Demanding Financially by dermmy(m): 6:04pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
KimberlyWest: People still spend on ladies who have their own money. It's even more expensive.
Imagine a lady making 200k every month, and you want to buy her a gift. It can't be indomie and egg or 15k Android. The only difference is that she also spends on you. That's the answer. Never date a broke lady A naija girl will never date me as a broke guy so why should i spend my hard earned money on a lady? Mutual spending is allowed and i subscribed to that but i haven't met any naija lady who does that.  An average naija lady loves to take and take without reciprocating. I know you would think i'm a stingy guy but i wasn't created to be a host to any parasite. I won't let any lady take advantage of me in the name of love. |
Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Deal With A Girlfriend That Is Overly Demanding Financially by dermmy(m): 5:48pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
KimberlyWest: You do know that we have Naija guys who make up to a million a month, right? I know but i'll never be this stupid even if i am making 1 billion naira monthly. Am i her parent? Is she a leper who can't work to earn a living for herself? If she didn't meet me won't she survive as a lady? I thank GOD i am a liberated man. |
Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Deal With A Girlfriend That Is Overly Demanding Financially by dermmy(m): 5:31pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
You give her 30k monthly? Naija girls are really enjoying. They have no regret being a Nigerian cause they would always see that SIMP who would help them carry their load. |
Romance › Re: Fear Women by dermmy(m): 9:49am On Nov 23, 2020 |
They want to open silicon valley on your head  |
Celebrities › Re: Davido & Friends At The Beach Celebrating His 28th Birthday & Partying Together by dermmy(m): 10:47am On Nov 22, 2020 |
englishmart: Whenever I remember Davido is my mate, I feel like killing myself. Your time is coming.. Don't worry, don't fret. |
Romance › Re: Practical Ways To Attract A Nigerian Guy by dermmy(m): 1:28pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
ChidimmaOnwuokw: The first thing to note is that Nigerian guys and google don't relate. simply put, Google is not the right place to search things of that nature...our cultures are way to different.
Depending on the scenario, they are different ways to make him notice you.
let's assume you are walking in the street and saw this fine specimen(guy)that you really want, here's what to do next:
* once you notice him, you must make sure he catches you starting at him. If he has, smile widely, like you actually know him. Glance away for 5 seconds and fix your eyes back at him. Once you get closer, walk slower and still maintain a gentle smile. When you're just few feet from each other, pretend to step on your toes. don't fall oo. just pretend to fall. The reason you're doing this is to trigger the "Hero instinct" in him. He would want to catch you because of the brief eye interactions between you both earlier.
If you can't pull this off, Here's an alternative action.
* once you are both few feet away from each other, Approach him. Tell him he looks like someone you know. call out a random name just to keep the conversation going. At the end of it all, just ask him for his digits.
Evaluation: I have tried it out a lot of times and it actually works 98% of the time.
Tip: 1.The key to pull of stunts like this is confidence.
2. please observe his reactions to your little moments before carrying out the next steps. some guys are the descendants of pharaoh
3. Dress nicely. psychology suggests that guys are first attracted to what they see first
4. Try and guess his spec in girls to avoid being friend zoned. Shorter guys go for taller girls. A guy of bbn Ozo's nature cannot settle for a below average girl na.
Good luck. I'd love to hear testimonies. I have an entire ebook dedicated to solving scenarios like this.
©Sage @the bolded All these just because you want to attract me. You fall you just fall on your own. I won't even look at you let alone triggering the spider man/hero in me.  Mind you i can even think you are coming to steal my manhood cause things like this have been happening lately.  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: The Mystery Of The United States Of America And The Importance Of The Election by dermmy(m): 9:50am On Nov 21, 2020*. Modified: 12:07pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
Righteousness89: America is a Mystery Nation Blessed by GOD Almighty because of their Foundation. They had this Judaic Foundation which made the Founding Fathers to be Men who Trust and Depended on GOD.
Another Reason for America being Blessed was For the Resolute of the Founding Fathers to Stand with the Nation of Isreal. Isreal is GOD First born. The Covenant says, "I will Bless them that Bless you and Curse those that Curse you"
The USA has always stood by Isreal irrespective of Party and so on.
Majority of the Modern day Democrats and Liberals began to go astray! They Fully Turned against God and the Founding Principles of the Founding Fathers! It began Slightly with bill Clinton but became more with Obama.. This does not Mean that all the Republicans and Conservatives are Holy. No! But Majority of the Republicans and Conservatives are the ones that Hold the little Godly morals and values in the USA Today..
The USA as a Nation has Invented, Exported, advanced and Sponsored Iniquity, Abominations, Evils , abortions,Sodomy and Wickedness to the Nations of the World.
The USA to me is the "Mystery Babylon" that will be destroyed in 1 hour because of its evils, abominations and Wickedness. See Revelation 18 For more Incite. Infact the Cup of the USA is almost Filled.
Due to the Cry of the Believers in that USA, God Almighty brought Donald Trump to Power. Trump Presidency is a Period of Mercy For the Inhabitants of USA and the World at Large. Trump might not be a Saint but Some Righteousness is Found in Him. God does not work with people who feel they are Perfect or they know it all! Trump is what I call a Willing tool in GOD'S Hands..
I Repeat! Trump's Presidency is a kind of Period of Mercy for the Nation and the People. We see how his Presidency has advanced the Gospel and advanced Isreal which is what God is after.
The USA of today Especially the Democrats, Liberals and the Leftist have Gone Full throttle against GOD and against the Foundation on which the United States was Built! The Judgement of GOD is set to Dissolve America! We have seen a little of that in California which is now officially Hellifornia!
The Presidency of Donald Trump due to some Righteousness found in Him and His Stand For the Nation of Isreal is what is Holding the Full Wrath of GOD on the USA.
If Trump is not Re-elected ( Which I Pray does not Happen), America and the World at Large will feel a taste of The Wrath of the ALMIGHTY GOD!
My Admonishment to those in the USA is that you vote based on the Word of God and Moral Values.
Vote the Party that is Closest to what GOD Almighty says..
Most Important is For all to Live Ready because The Trump of GOD will Blast at anytime..
If you Miss the Rapture! It will be unfortunate! It would have been Better you were not Born!!
May the GOD of Abramham. Isaac and Isreal Give us Understanding of these things.. Bullcrap @the bolded You are just mocking GOD and christianity. If God really wanted Trump to use 8 term then he would do everything in his power to make him win. Why issue threats that the wrath of God would come on America and the world should Americans refuse to vote him. Do you think at all? And you call yourself a christian? You are not different from Shekau the bokoharam leader. The only thing you don't have is gun and bombs to achieve your aims. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: The Mystery Of The United States Of America And The Importance Of The Election by dermmy(m): 9:40am On Nov 21, 2020*. Modified: 10:44pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
boss1310: I dont know how some of you reason I swear,is it that most of you especially the OP prefer conspiracy theories to reality Trump is a politician no more no less,he is not a saint neither has he advanced the gospel in anyway where do you people get all this nonsense you post online.how is Biden evil and Trump a saint or in anyway better religiously.this is why fake pastors have a field day in this country cos most of you see religion before seeing anything else Trump failed Americans and they voted him out simple,there is no mystery or any conspiracy about it Now to the OP have you been aware of recent happenings in the world news or know anything about trump's government policies to believe the world will still be at peace if an egotistical man like that control the affairs of a super power like the US Lastly stop painting Democrats as evil after all the Republican party is the only political party that recognized the church of satan,go and do your research well and stop dwelling on conspiracies Most importantly make Nigeria's problems first priority The OP is not a preacher but a religious fanatic. The problem christians have today is how to distinguish a real preacher from a fanatic. Fanaticism has no place in christianity according to Apostle Paul. The OP is just a preacher of his own gospel. Don't take him serious. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Accuses Pfizer, Others of Working Against His Re-Election Which He "Won" by dermmy(m): 5:45am On Nov 21, 2020 |
They should pity this man and give him some psychiatric check na. |
Nairaland General › Re: See The Snake I Killed In My Trousers Pocket!! by dermmy(m): 9:44pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
This your trouser looks like Kim Jong Un's trouser. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Lawyers Says Witnesses And Evidence Prove A Stolen Election by dermmy(m): 8:31pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Olaadegbu go and rest all these you are doing won't extend Trump's tenure. |
Romance › Re: Really Frustrated My Wife Keeps Denying Me Sex by dermmy(m): 9:02am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Mrscarter: Yeah I know. I just believe a marraige is between a man n his wife not their families n therefore they should work it out between them. I don't think it's right a wife denying her husband. I mean if she's not feeling well or something then fair enuff but constantly like that it's not a gud marraige. So I think he needs get her attracted to him. The husband has tried as a man yet the wife remains adamant which is why he has to inform her parents. Mothers are good in handling issues like this. When her mother starts talking senses into her she would have a rethink, words like "Where did you get this from, i never starved your father of sex i was even the one spoiling him with sex. Do you want a strange woman to take over your home? Do you want another woman to raise your kids? Please pity me i don't want any of my children to have marital problems" Words like these coming from a loving mother should have effect on her. Do you understand? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Unveils Aircraft-Carrying Ship As Ayatollah Warns US Of ‘All-Out War’ (Pix) by dermmy(m): 7:42am On Nov 20, 2020 |
crackhaus: A bad economy has never stopped countries from going to war in the past... However, I believe that tensions between the US and Iran is more of military posturing without any real chance of war breaking out.
They just want to display strength. This is more than just military posturing, that lunatic Americans have in the white house does not think before he acts. Did you read he was planning a military strike on Iran and was talked out of it? I don't understand why he thinks a military confrontation with Iran won't affect America or spell doom for the middle east. The egoistic lunatic knows he has been defeated by Iran he is now looking for a way to save himself from his foreign policy failure in the middle east. I'm happy there are sane people around to advice him this time. |
Romance › Re: How Can I Get Her To Forgive Me, After Hurting Her Feelings by dermmy(m): 7:27am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Franktom247: Buy her tecno spark and your relationship will spark back Laugh won finish me  |
Romance › Re: Really Frustrated My Wife Keeps Denying Me Sex by dermmy(m): 6:16am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Mrscarter: Bad advice. Report her to her parents will just make her resent him. In the end after things have gone sour between the couple the wife's parents would still blame the husband for not telling them. You know naija parents now words like this would always come from them. "And things like this were happening in your home and you couldn't inform us, if you had informed us we would have rein in after all she's still our daughter" That's how the husband would take the blame. So it's normal and right thing for him to inform her parents. I would have adviced him to inform their pastor but the pastors we have these days can't be trusted. |
Science/Technology › Re: Mysterious Beast Washes Up On Greek Island. Does Anyone Know Its Name? (Photos) by dermmy(m): 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Unveils Aircraft-Carrying Ship As Ayatollah Warns US Of ‘All-Out War’ (Pix) by dermmy(m): 9:24pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
crackhaus: It's not as big as the US navy's aircraft carriers, but I like how they are never afraid to antagonize the US.  It's an helicopter carrier and for a country that is under a heavy sanction to keep unveiling military hardware such as this speaks volume. Trump wants to undermine their defence for Israel, Saudi Arabia and other sunni countries in the region but they keep passing a message that they won't go down militarily. What they need at this time of continued U.S aggression is deterrence which they are doing well. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Unveils Aircraft-Carrying Ship As Ayatollah Warns US Of ‘All-Out War’ (Pix) by dermmy(m): 8:07pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Davash222: Na una dey give this Iran moral. When e go happen, una go still abandon them.
Trump is a very angry man right now, Iran should just respect their selves. Oga Iran does not need morale from any bloody outsider they know what it takes to defend themselves and won't allow any country to bully them. And Iran always respects itself abi na crime to unveil military hardware again? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Unveils Aircraft-Carrying Ship As Ayatollah Warns US Of ‘All-Out War’ (Pix) by dermmy(m): 7:55pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Davash222: Iran can only make noise while Trump believes in actions. Yes the noise they made when they shot down one of the most expensive aircrafts in U.S military arsenal all Mr Trump did was bark on Twitter. They also made that noise when they seized U.K ship in a tit for tat which made British government to release the seized Iranian oil tanker with immediate effect. They also made the same noise when they fired dozens of missiles that injured over 100 U.S troops leaving them with traumatic brain injuries all Mr Trump did was bark and bark on twitter. A non nuclear power that keeps confronting nuclear powers/bullies. You better wake up. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Unveils Aircraft-Carrying Ship As Ayatollah Warns US Of ‘All-Out War’ (Pix) by dermmy(m): 7:37pm On Nov 19, 2020*. Modified: 8:26pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Trump was planning a military strike on Iran days ago but was advised not to do that so as to avoid a full blown conflict. After the coward called Trump has failed to force Iran into negotiating a suicidal deal that only favours America, Israel, Saudi and UAE he is now trying to use military strike to carve a win for himself. The lame duck Trump thinks Obama and other world leaders were stupid when they negotiated with Iran. He should humble himself and accept his failure over the Iran issue. It's now glaring to him that the Persians are very stubborn and would rather die than give in to the demands of a bully called America. Trump's eyes don dey clear  |
Romance › Re: Really Frustrated My Wife Keeps Denying Me Sex by dermmy(m): 6:50pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Report her to her parents and this is the time to excercise self control please don't commit adultery it's the devil's trap. |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: The GREAT Reset Is Almost Here - Once Trump Concedes , It's The New World Order by dermmy(m): 7:10am On Nov 19, 2020*. Modified: 5:01pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
uruba23: Thank you for your education but you would agree with me communist China is a partial dictatorship where few people takes decisions luckily for them they have good leaders who have high moral standards in terms of not looting public treasury but a very low standard when it comes to protecting fundamental human right. All over Africa we can see China giving countries Greek gift interms of cheap loan which in itself is a backdoor strategy towards communism. I did some research in the South West of Nigeria and I was surprised that all this clamour for restructuring is because someone wanting to implement communism in the South West of Nigeria they are been deceived by China's growth and assume same would apply if they practice communism unfortunately we have selfish leaders at the moment who consider themselves first before country so what apply in terms of development in communist China would not necessarily work here. Unfortunately we have key communist men seating in Buhari's cabinet I can imagine the level of advice they are giving him and capitalist IMF isn't helping matters too. China choosed to go this way not because China is a communism but because they don't want external interference. They believe the west would exploit that should they allow the people to enjoy total freedom and that was what happened in Hong Kong. U.S would always cause trouble and undermine the government of any country it sees as a competitor country that poses a threat to its global standing and one of the ways U.S does this is through subversion in the name of democracy. Once you give the people right to protest to excercise their grieviances U.S would exploit that. And that is what Communist countries tried to avoid during the cold war years and China is still very careful not to allow that hence the anti-democratic laws and policies we have in China today. If we are saying Communism is the twin brother of dictatorship then why did some countries who practiced capitalism became dictatorial in the past? In fact U.S had to remove democractic communist regimes in Chile, Guatemala, Iran and replaced them with Capitalist dictatorship. I can mention so many countries that practiced U.S capitalism yet ruled by dictators which U.S foisted on the people. Once we understand the politics of the cold war years and how it is still shaping the way some countries relate with America and the west today then we won't be fooled by the lies and propaganda the west is giving us about communism. Every economic model has its own challenges. Communism ain't bad and capitalism ain't perfect. In fact capitalism caused the economic problem the world experienced during the years of the great depression what economists call cyclical effect of capitalism. Capitalism shot itself in the leg when production ran ahead of people's capacity to purchase. The depression did not affect communist countries in the USSR. I love democracy but always try to understand why this and that country behave the way they do else western propaganda would always leave us empty. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nevada Poll Worker Claims She Witnessed Blatant Voter Fraud by dermmy(m): 2:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
So Olaadegbu is still on this. Don't you get tired? Or is anyone paying you for this? |
Phones › Re: Don Jazzy Accepts Infinix Note 8 From Davido Over Iphone 12 Pro Max by dermmy(m): 2:16pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
talktalk4u: Today im waiting for those Xiaomi fan boys to make any senseless statement here and i will just remove their teeth 1by 1   |
Family › Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by dermmy(m): 11:35am On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 12:56pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Zzor: I think everyone is enjoying their singlehood in peace.Men have succeeded in making marriages unattractive Men are the ones enjoying their single hood in peace while the ladies are busy running from one church to another trying to break the curse of the single hood caused by their own foolish decisions. You know being single doesn't bother we men the way it gives you ladies headache. |
Celebrities › Re: Brunella Oscar: I Sent Williams Uchemba A DM On Facebook In 2016 by dermmy(m): 9:33am On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 8:07pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Zzor: I would rather remain single than send dm or approach any guy in this life. That's a big favour you are doing that guy cause in the end you'll be a liability to him financially, emotionally, and psychologically. Relationship these days ain't interesting. There's more to life than having an affair with a lady a man who has discovered this is a free man. What matters in life is a strong and fervent relationship with one's maker. Relationship is a distraction. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: The GREAT Reset Is Almost Here - Once Trump Concedes , It's The New World Order by dermmy(m): 8:33am On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 9:17am On Nov 18, 2020 |
uruba23: Either way communism would be quick to infect the world and it's goodbye to freedom .They have infected the Buhari regime very well just like they infected the computer village with their phone's..las las it would be a question of being a communist society or pay your loan and you obviously know what choice our lazy politicians would take. Sorry didn't have to watch the video I don't see communism coming back. Capitalism got that victory when the USSR collapsed and the capitalist world has done more than enough to demonize Communism through the media. Just look at what you wrote. You wrote communisn would infect the world and it's goodbye to freedom that's exactly what i'm saying, the capitalist world has brainswashed the unlearned and unsuspecting making them believe Communism is synonymous with dictatorship/totalitarianism but they won't tell you that we've had some communist countries in the past that were democratic they won't tell you they truncated these communist regimes through the instrumentality of the CIA and MI6 because they saw them as competitors to their Capitalist order. The Communist countries that practiced dictatorship did so for a reason. After WW11 ended countries in eastern europe started falling to communism and the USSR was expanding this really alarmed U.S who wanted to be a major decison maker in world politics for U.S to maintain the superpower status it had dreamt of it had to do something, to counter the expansion of the Soviets. An alliance was needed to stop this Soviet mammoth from expanding its ideology that alliance birthed NATO. That was the beginning of the cold war and that cold war was a stiff competition between the two superpowers, U.S felt it needed to do more to stop this communist expansion it later adopted another strategy and that strategy was coup sponsorship and even economic warfare. America started using its CIA to unseat leaders of communist countries if Salvadore Allende of Chile, Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala and Mohammed Mozzadegh of Iran were despots/autocrats I am very sure the CIA would not have gotten them easily. These were communist leaders that were free with the people, gave the people freedom but forgot to understand it was a cold war era where Capitalism was at war with Communism. Fidel Castro started well but when he knew what U.S was up to he changed gear which made him escape over 600 CIA assasination attempt and outlasted 10 U.S presidents. You have to understand Cold war politics Communism is not synonymous with dictartorship the antagonism between the capitalist world led by U.S and the Communist world led by USSR affected the policies of those communist countries. |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Approaching Menopause & No Men To Marry Them - Owerri Lady by dermmy(m): 7:56pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
nevplus: I have like six of them that I m talking to currently but none wanna accept me .... Because I don't own car yet, mansion.i m 32 already, I m ready.. but you know our sisters from eastern part nah. Always waiting and looking for already made men. Tunder will soon fire them, I know oluwa will soon give me my better half. You dey vex o  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trumpists Pls We Need Info Base On No Of States In Which Votes Were Rigged by dermmy(m): 10:05pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
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Fashion › Re: Woman's Before And After Makeup Transformation Will Leave You Speechless by dermmy(m): 4:17pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
#EndMakeup now  |