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FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 9:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
6Milk:
had to connect through WiFi. I have sent the mail
Congratulations
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 9:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
laurenwhite:
You really do have a heart of gold. I pray that the Almighty God replenishes your storehouse till it overflows with all the goodness that life has to offer. You would never know lack in Jesus name. As per your request, I feel it should go to AdorableAyo. Thanks and God bless you ma. Amen
Amen
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 8:02pm On Apr 13, 2020
MommyEaster:
So one vote for AdorableAyo and one vote for 6milk.
Waiting for DESAN to choose.
Majority carries the vote
Waiting
I vote for adorableayo. God bless u all.
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 7:32am On Apr 12, 2020
MommyEaster:
Sent a little over 4k
Have a happy Easter .My only request is that you do likewise to a stranger in need when able
Let me know when u receive it
God bless
Wow! I and my kids are so touched by your gift, you added joy to our Easter celebration with this thoughtful gift.
You put a smile in our hearts, from the bottom of my heart, thank you and God bless you.
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 11:31pm On Apr 11, 2020
MommyEaster:
Does your account and with 90?
Yes
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 2:34pm On Apr 11, 2020
MommyEaster:
You are the first winner.
The amount is 3k naira
Even it can just buy maggi and tomatoes for Easter rice then bless God
I will post an email later to get your details then come back here to confirm the last 3 digits before I send
Thank so much God bless so so much.
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 10:03pm On Apr 10, 2020
MommyEaster:
I remember your name from the mother christmas giveway but not sure if u won then
Yeah but I didn't win , you can recheck . Someone who read my post actually reached out to me then. Thanks
FamilyRe: Mommyeaster's Giveaway by DESAN(f): 9:49pm On Apr 10, 2020
Am a single mom of two girl with no penny as I write. I will be grateful if am chosen especially in this lockdown period cos am short of foodstuffs as while. God bless u
FamilyRe: . by DESAN(f): 6:35pm On Apr 10, 2020
Am a single mom and the money will really go a long way especially during this lock down cos am short of food stuff and cash as we speak.
PoliticsRe: COVID-19: Some Provisions (food) centres In Lagos And Ogun States. Are u Close? by DESAN(f): 3:36pm On Apr 01, 2020
There is nothing happening at No 10 adeniran Ogunsanya. The place is locked
RomanceRe: 1k Credit To 10 Persons by DESAN(f): 10:55pm On Mar 30, 2020
Interested
TravelRe: How Has The Ban On Keke And Okada In Lagos Affected You? by DESAN(f): 8:14pm On Feb 02, 2020
Macsjebs:
Do mention me if you find more than one give away cheesy
ok will do that
TravelRe: How Has The Ban On Keke And Okada In Lagos Affected You? by DESAN(f): 12:02am On Feb 02, 2020
It's on Monday the reality will hit most pple especially those who do school runs. Please whoever has an unwanted old car pls pls and pls do give away.�����
RomanceRe: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by DESAN(f): 10:40pm On Jan 28, 2020
Cheap sex can destroy u forever. People need to think of the aftermath of every action in life. Cheap sex just landed an officer of d law enforcement agency in serious trouble
RomanceRe: Stop Touching Us': Women Protest Against Harassment At Nigeria's Street Markets by DESAN(f): 1:59pm On Jan 24, 2020
Pls tell the traders at yaba market. It's very very annoying
FamilyRe: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by DESAN(f): 11:15am On Dec 27, 2019
AlwaysConfused:
You can take the account number down. I will send what I can.
Thanks so so much. Am so grateful I got d alert may u never lack in Jesus. God bless you and your family. Amen
FamilyRe: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by DESAN(f):
[quote author=AlwaysConfused post=85216952]I saw your mail. Let's discuss everything here please.
FamilyRe: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by DESAN(f): 2:36pm On Dec 25, 2019
DESAN:
We are indeed so so grateful . God bless u so much as you put a smile on my kid's faces this Christmas. May you never lack
I just realized it's wasn't mother Christmas that surprised me with an alert for the chicken but a nairalander who read my post here and from other thread. I wish to say very big thank you on behalf of my gals. God bless you
FamilyRe: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by DESAN(f): 12:15am On Dec 25, 2019
Congrats again

1.Erediauwa
2.Pweedie
3.Jeniluv
4.kristen12
5.Omawumi17
6.ThatKing
7.BEANSndPLANTAIN
8.ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz
We are indeed so so grateful . God bless u so much as you put a smile on my kid's faces this Christmas. May you never lack
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by DESAN(f): 1:26pm On Dec 23, 2019
@perfectmatchNG please reply my mail
FamilyRe: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by DESAN(f): 12:31pm On Dec 20, 2019
Am unemployed single mother with two kids. It will surely put a smile on my kids faces. Thanks and God bless
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by DESAN(f): 11:05pm On Dec 14, 2019
thorpido:
The single moms here can send me a DM.
I have something to send to you even if it is a token.
thanks so much the alert came at right time. God bless u richly.
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by DESAN(f):
I was 15 since in secondary school wen I met him, his parents never supported our relationship cos am Yoruba and his igbo. I got beaten up by my parent so many times cos each tym I visited him his parents will catch me away and come to my house to report. I got pregnant at17 wen I was about to write waec thank God I schooled in the north I was able to write my exams with pregnancy and his parents denied ever knowing me during the period. All these tym he didn't deny the pregnancy but wen asked if he will marry me his answer was always if God says yes. Three years later my parent decided to relocate to Lagos we both agreed to rent an apartment I gave him money but he spend it but kept showing me house without toliet facility knowing I won't accept. He finally left for school and I couldn't stay back in Jos cos he took all my life savings and I can't also stay in his family house cos his parent didn't accept me ND my child even after 3yrs . I had no choice but to travel to Lagos he then used my relocation as an excuse for breakup and he never paid his daughter's school fees . Am a graduate now and my dota is 21 a 300L computer science student at kwasu.
I tot I had learnt my lessons and I feels my mistakes shouldn't stop me from loving again but guys always gave excuses like , I like u would have love to marry u but becos u have a child I can't cos of my family so I feel shld gave love any chance with a elder divorcee hmmmm the greatest mistake of my life . After waiting for so long thinking my wait was going to be celebration hmmmm it's been sadness for the past three years. I got to a point of depression but for the love of my kids I can't kill mysef. This man made me stop my banking job, I got pregnant had anoda gal, my brothers weren't allow to visit me , cos to him I might invited my bf to d house in pretence my elder brother came once he walk him out, my sisters he wanted to sleep with . No visitors are allowed to visit me, he chooses d tv station I will watch and the days I will sleep. He buys everything home so I can't step out of d house, I can't go to church cos pastor will toast me . It's was crazy he will lock up the house wen going out and I got physical abuse as well. I left him last year. Life has been so so difficult asam yet to find a job and I have two lovely daughters to take care. It's not been easy but I pray next year will be a better one for us.
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by DESAN(f): 5:59pm On Dec 10, 2019
culf:
Enough respect to all single mothers out there. May God strengthen you all and put permanent smiles in your face
Amen
FamilyRe: As The Year Gradually Comes To An End, What Are You Most Grateful For? by DESAN(f): 10:28pm On Dec 07, 2019
iamloyalty:
Stop investing in guys, don't u have family members u can invest in. ladies will never learn.
adviser pls advice ur self
FamilyRe: As The Year Gradually Comes To An End, What Are You Most Grateful For? by DESAN(f): 9:49pm On Dec 06, 2019
Bola146:
I have many reasons to be grateful to God Almighty..
My ex I invested in many duped me and left me with nothing this year, I ran into debts ( still paying it), I would have taken my own life since July but God kept me moving, families and friends were no where to be found ( they have warned me to keep away from him but I never listened to them), through all the challenges, I was never sick nor rushed to the hospital despite my bp God has been so faithful to me ....... I give Him all the glory, praise and adoration...
my story is similar . We get there soonest dear. Be strong
FamilyRe: Post Your Christmas Wish Here, Maybe You'll Get Lucky by DESAN(f): 10:05pm On Dec 05, 2019
Dear santa
Pls assist me in paying the loan I took for my daughter's school fees. Am expected to pay part of the payment on the 7th of this month. This will make my Xmas fun filled cos I will think less. Thank you
EventsRe: Seventh-Day Adventist Couple Weds Without Reception, Bestman, Chief Bridesmaid by DESAN(f): 10:47pm On Dec 03, 2019
I prefer it jare aleast everyone present will get their pack of food not the one that food will not be served to everyone at reception party.
FamilyRe: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway (2019 Edition) by DESAN(f): 11:30pm On Dec 01, 2019
Thanks biafranbushboy . I got the alert . God bless you.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy For A Data Entry Officer by DESAN(f):
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FamilyRe: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by DESAN(f): 8:43pm On Nov 26, 2019
The first son can open a student account with access bank just with a passport and school ID card. The account is for student from age 16 and it allows transactions up to 500k
J111333:
This is personal so please be courteous with your comments.

I have a married female cousin who takes church serious more than her life, well I don't wanna waste your time with that part of the story.

I have tried to help her husband and her financially for a long time now and I'm afraid I've turned from helper to head of household, not funny. I jokingly told them to hang their boots after they had their fourth child but as I'm typing this, baby five just landed.

Their first son just got admitted into Unilag and guess who they called to help. I've severally decided to stop helping but thoughts of those lovely kids of theirs have always affected my decisions.

I told the newly college admitted boy to open a bank account so that I can channel my help properly but her mum said he wasn't 18 yet so she would be the one running the account until then.

A little background story.

My cousin is a graduate but helps her husband in an imaginary business of his which I have put in like N10m if not more yet nothing to show for it. I later switched to helping my cousin get a job, she ended up getting duped of the money meant to pursue the job Nigerianly.

She was/is my favourite cousin growing up and she was more than a nanny to my sister and I when we were little.

How can I put an end to this madness without feeling guilty about the kids? Mind you, I love their kids very much.

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