₦airaland Forum

Realdeals:
I was looking forward to see PARACETAMOL

And antibiotics.
Disappointed

SavageMaster:
You should have heard of Doctors Without Borders

MSF is just the French Translation

Never knew they are in Nigeria

McLizbae:
Dem try... It is dangerous and almost suicidal to stay among terrorists sympathizers with efforts to provide aid humanitarian aid.

Cos humanitarian aids is the surest way for international money laundering .

They will come back after negotiation by the bosses on top

It must be very sweet since its corn.
Will love to see what they combine it with and how it is made.

As at 10yrs ago, people that stays half year in water snd land earn around that amount in more.
Then naira get good value.
Now, naira no get value. Half a million is almost nothing.

AbuAeesha:
Not everyone can adapt to bathing with cold water.
Particularly in the north here where temperature can go below 15 degrees

So Jos can reach that and yet no snow.
Who do us this na

Caseless:
You don't live in the north and haven't experienced cold harmattan before.

You are right though.

In this naija weather, you dey use hot water
Except during harmattan and you stay in the North.

Why not.
That's why it's ex.

FireUpNow:
Women get puffed up with little power and opportunity. Especially African women.

Don't marry African woman please.

GloriousGbola:
oddly specific
the real reasons for my mans reverse japa
i always knew you were a pussy. emasculated british nigga ran to naija so he could know what it feels like to be a man

It's insecurity. Nothing more.

ednut1:
There is one major characteristic of those men. They used money to entice the woman in Nigeria. You are a 29 years old man doing well, na 19 years old babe you go date or marry. Sponsor her through school, pay her parents rent and siblings bills. Now the bad part- emotionally and physical abuse, her opinions don’t matter, during NYSC you quickly marry and give her belle and prevent her getting a career. you know she cant leave because she is dependent on you.

But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.

I needed to quote this.
Thank you for the submission.

When I travelled out of Nigeria and started working, I met some Nigerian guys along the line of my job and it happened they will take order from me and equally report to me.
What I saw was shocking.
No other black African guy not to talk of other races looked and talked down on me like my brothers. Brothers I defend at work, help behind their back?

At a point,I said enough and started treating them like I should have done at first and I never regretted it.

WhereMyLoud:
Where this kwashiorkor come from? They are nothing without us but they make you feel otherwise. They hugely rely on the natural resources of Africa. Take Niger for instance, France rely on them for Uranium which they use to power electricity in the whole of france

Sometimes when you are opportune to see people that type gibberish online, you just pity them.
From their choice of words alone, you know how to classify them.

What causes insecurities in adults.
Constant beating as kids and degrading.
Those words that comes out of parents mouths hurt so much for any child.
Children need encouragement and love. Not tough love.
We are still the most corrupt and vain nation after all the beating, cursing and scolding.
We produce adults that are children inside who seeks validation and acceptance till death.
We wonder why we are never satisfied, ask parents and elders. The rot started from childhood.
Why do people steal public fund with impunity?
They are looking for closure and think money can solve it.
Babes go very far to be beautiful cos they seek the same thing.

Stop eroding the self confidence of your kids and treat them as human.

The funny thing is, those we say that spoil their kids are controlling us. Those spoilt kids grow up to control our kids.

Let's think beyond religion this time around and stop quoting what has damaged our society.
That sentence. Spare the rod and spoil the child is all shade wrong.

WhereMyLoud:
Fvck the western world.. they are the ones who made your country and other African countries lose their culture and religion

That western world will still lord over you till forever. You are nothing without them. Everything you have is from them.
Bleating like goat yet nothing inside.

The greatest thing to happen to any human is lack of self confidence and feeling insecure.
We as third world country have these vices more than 100%
The cause, spare the rod and spoil the child.

Validated:
It is over, Ngeria will soon self implode.
Thank you Jesus for rescuing my children from this disastrous events about to befall Naija.

An average Nigerian Christian is so self centered.

Read your post again, this time, deeply think on your wordings.

We really are not christ-like.

MomohMrMoore:
In a sane society, this report will generate national uproar resulting into all relevant agencies, police, arms of government doing their work to bring the perpetrators to justice and close the illegal thing. Not Nigeria.. its a kangaroo country where everything go

Which saner clime?
Organ harvesting is not new. It's a trade for the rich and its like drug trafficking. Involving popular international hospitals you will never suspect and govts.

Which country has ever raised an uproar against it? Yet its done all over the world.

The best you can get is drama to create awareness.

This is the reason behind all the kidnapping and killing.

Nigeria has been a hub for organ harvesting for as long as I can remember, just that it came to the forefront now cos of too much poverty.

When I was small, heard there is this market in lagos where they sell all kinds of human parts.

Cos the government of the day don't benefit them anymore?

It is well

aktolly54:
hitting her? How are you sure he's hitting her? No evidence. We all know how woman feel like god in UK and forget God instructions of respect your husband. You can see how arrogant she feel by calling cop , if na niaja , will she call cop? Assuming she respect that man, she won't be six feet down though the man should have calm down. Selling his property for his wife to travel abroad not easy. We all know how Nigerian woman be , the man must have sacrifice a lot for the wife to be in UK and he can be with his wife and his wife treating him like shit.

Grow up, you are so insecure.
Rough background

sevenseas:
UK Police to be blamed for this death.

She called/reported to them on Nov 27 but they came on Nov 28.

1. They should have arrived same day within 20mins of report.
2. They should have removed 1 of the parties from that location that same moment.
3. They should have given forbidden law to get close of 20km from each of the parties.

I don't know much about this case but,
If she get the strength to ring the police, she can look for way to run away. Unless he overpowered her or locked the whole house.
I will run without looking back and then the necessary agency will come for my kids. Marriage dissolved later. It is not a force to remain married.

cococandy:
How does one command a wife. Do you say “Verily, verily, I command you”?

Is this real life? People exist who think they can command their spouses?

Best and ideal case scenario is that you express your feelings about whatever misgivings you have considering the decision your wife or husband is about to make and most likely they’ll consider it and halt their actions.

The feeling of possibly offending you or creating unnecessary tension in the relationship is often a good deterrent (At least to a loving and respectful husband/wife). I honestly think most people wouldn’t do something if their spouse is expressing that they are not on board.

But to command? As in the very grammatical expression of „I own you and I get to decide for you“?

Okay then I’m going. Ihukwa

I was seriously reading this until the last bit, then I bursted out laughing.
The thing confuse you no be small.


I read part one of this madness and the word command used by some of us made me to read and waka.
I rather use my time to watch Nigerian movie.

Started watching them recently after long hiatus and really enjoying some of the real lessons there especially in Ruthkadiritv ( not sure I got the spelling). Her movies are so good, matured and relatable.

Acidosis:
You could simply leave the comment for the woman I quoted. She knows exactly why I said that. Her comment and my response about Igbo culture has nothing to do with this thread.


If someone says you have been misyarning "lately", I bet they already have you mind because you refused to say what they like to hear.

Well, I didn't know that and was surprised that's why I commented.
Sorry about that.
You guys should make up.

Is it only cucumber you can farm?
One can't even cook with it.

Hathor5:
But you are the best daddy in the world, abi? You aren`t even able to take care of them by yourself, just dropped them with your mother. I hope she will drag your ass through courts and deal with you properly. You are not fit to be a father. I pity those kids.

Don't be surprised he is already living with one lady with a child on the way, yet he took his kids away from their mother cos they are separated.

Glad to see a post like this here because, here, they make it look like its only ex wives that punish their ex by turning the kids against them or running off with the kids.

Acidosis:
...because I chose legality and statutory laws over Igbo culture and emotions??

What has that got to do with culture?
From page one, all those advocating the triplets should live together did not remember what tribe the man come from.

Everywhere in the world, the mother will be granted full custody in less than 1 hour. Father should be mandated to pay for the upkeep and has visitation right. Its about the kids primarily and yep, separation will affect them. Assuming they were separated at birth and never know one another, we can argue that but they have already bonded.
But of course, this is Nigeria.

Tomorrow, you will come here to preach anti tribalism when you are a covert champion.

Chassy03:
Spit on you and your family for disgracing us.

Or rather, spite on you for being so insecure.

The problem with feeling insecure is that fat bank account does not make it go away. The more money you have, the more insecure you are.
And most people do not know they have insecurity issues.

Rahkman:
Lol black Africans the most unwanted race in the world ,see person dey dance for snow ....white ppl go just look them waka pass

Stop saying trash about what you don't know.
If blacks are 100 in uk, not up to 10 do this. And the ten that do this do it for the kids.

Blacks adults still have not gotten used to playing in the snow like whites do. Yes, whites have fun in the snow. Real fun.
For all kids, it's a dream come through. You ss a parent make those memories with them.

Do I blame you, do we ever present ourselves to our kids back here to have fun with.

Reason we have so many insecure people like you in Nigeria.

ahnie:
I bought this sugar #50 this evening.
My shock is really shocked

Any hope for low come earners like us?

At least something worth 50 naira still dey na.
Whenever I see prices of foodstuffs here, my mind dey always cut.

But you can retrain your taste buds.
Na here I begin use sugar cos there are some cuisines i make that needs sugar.

Sweet tooth lady..
How you dey?

You created new moniker for this.
Mtcheew