₦airaland Forum

eyinjuege:
Unfortunately, misogynoir is still embedded in the 'DNA' of many trans women
Many of them seem to detest women, even though they want to be one.
Maybe it's jealousy or what, I don't know for them

This is the summation of everything.
Many mock women.
That's why a man will advertise tampon for me to use.

cococandy:
“Farm” to table



Roasted purple turnips, fried green tomatoes, radish pod salad, fresh strawberries

Cc 1stgenamerican you should see my tomatoes now.

Thank you so much

Waybill to my house straight away. I'm so jealous.
I missed this yr's farming. If we are alive, do shout at to moi.
And I had everything ready. Even seeds.
I love,love farming.

If I'm super rich, I will retire to a village to become a farmer. Its so relaxing and healing.

ahnie:
Empty pap.

I drink my pap with nothing and that's how I love it. I can only add fried groundnut if its available
Which one is empty pap. Stop this.
Its a very bad mentality darling.
Cherish all food you make. None is better than the other cos you used some expensive ingredients making them.
Enjoy your food with delish.



I made pap yesterday after 2 yrs hiatus( the last one I tried doing spoilt my blender.) I'm literally over the moon. Pap is my favourite food. Bought powdered pap, not comfy with am and I don't know what they mixed there.

Dry corn here are sold as bird food. Not for human consumption except one for pop corn. Imagine the insult on our dear corn.

folake4u:
You have made valid points actually.

But do you think these will work in a typical Nigerian environment?

That's why we are preaching it babe.
We can never get it right when we don't get the training right.

franchasofficia:
Yes my son seems to have this controlling behavior even in his school lol.


One day I went to pick him up from school myself, something funny happened lol.


This boy was just 2yrs plus then, I got to his class, he was playing with some of his classmates, and immediately he sighted me, he screamed; Daaaaddyy! and ran to meet me, so his class teacher smiled and went and brought his lunch box from his school wardobe or sth and handed it to him, he was already carrying his school backpack on his back. Guess what dis boy did? He carried the lunch box back to his classroom wardrobe and put it back and angrily carried it back from there to meet me lol.


I asked him why did you do that? He said nope, I want to carry my yonch boz masef


The class teacher laughed and told me that she forgot that my son like doing things by himself lol, he doesn't like anybody helping him lol.


At home, you dare not turn on the TV when he is there, he will go and turn it off and turn it on by himself.


He doesn't like anybody to feed him except the aged Nanny, and he can barely feed himself lol. If at all he agrees to be fed, he would tell you the person he wants to feed him, and if you refuse he will never eat even if you force him, he will not swallow whatever you give him.


So you are right, he is controlling and it seems I need to toughen up and start the spanking now before things gets out of control



As for adoption in Nigeria, its not easy, but if you follow the right channel and organization it works.

No spanking. Just correction and withdrawing privileges pls.
He is an independent soul and just need guidance.
A great boy you have there. Let him sulk. It's a cold war. Don't allow that to breed.

Rilwayne001:
This is so on point.

I think I have a low metabolism and foods takes long to digest, and so when I eat much now, it takes quite some time before I start to feel hungry again.

I am also not really into snacks.

Although I’m not slim or lean, i just feel like adding more weight.



Yeah I’ve thought of fries. I’ll try it out as well.

I eat a lot of chicken though. Infact I get chicken instead of beef.

Chicken without frying and with no skin is one of the healthiest meat after turkey. Chicken will only give you loads of protein. But fried with skin, loads of trans carb. Not the best but you want to add na.

If you have low metabolism, you don't need to eat more. Just let your gene be. Gone are the days ladies want big guys. As a lady, I will confidently tell you we accept big guys cos we have no option but our fantasy guys are guys with correct pecks.
Personally, my sexual fantasy dies as soon as I see a man with big belle and fat all over. I call such a lazy man.
Check your BMI and if it's OK, pls move on. Maybe na one babe angrily called you one name and you want to kill yourself with loads of sugar. Her lost, your gain.
And you can bulk up doing the right training.

kay29000:
Okay. Which brand of Oats do you recommend? Quaker Oats? Good Morning Oats?

My oh my.

Well, traditional rolled oat is the best oat out there.
You can get that in any of the oat brands.

franchasofficia:
Lol, my son's own can be annoying oh lol. He even beat his little sis that's just 1yr, and fights our adopted daughter that's 11yrs, like no minute without him crying to you about one thing his baby sis did or the bigger sis did or something.


I am praying to God seriously to please help me make the boy no grow with this kind behavior cos it may turn to being too stubborn and God knows I wasn't stubborn as a child to my parents.



I love active kids but his own can be frustrating

That is controlling behaviour not hyperactivity and you should set the rule and maintain it that if he crosses boundaries again, there should be consequences. No beating but withdraw privileges.
Kids are the easiest to deal with in this world. As you lead them, they will follow you like zombie.

I tried adopting a child in Nigeria before I travelled out and was scammed a huge sum of money and these people want to give me stolen child. Gosh. Very bitter experience and a pastor I cherish so much did this. Assuming I was desperately looking for a child, I will be with stolen child. Adoption is what I had wanted since I came of age but naija being what it is, it's well.
I envy you. Wish I was the one that adopted that gal.

folake4u:
Hi there. I was hyperactive as a child. I showed my family and nanny shege too, and always running to major roads.

I'd say you should enroll your daughter in a conventional school. You say she's smart right?

You can engage her in educational games, such as Lego building blocks, allow her watch educational kids programs that will develop her brains, allow for reading and writing.

Play time is also essential for her development. Don't deprive her of playtime.

If you're a sports person, it is not bad to inculcate basic sports such as swimming, cycling, taekwando for kids (self defence classes), football or whatever sports that are age appropriate.

Lastly, get closer to that child. Hear her thoughts, input good values into her that will stick even till she reach adulthood.

Most times hyperactiveness fizzle out as children age. If you see me now in reality, I don calm.

#My opinion though.

Let kids be kids. The only thing they need from you at that age is the right food and enabling environment to play. Let them play away. They will settle with time. We start this so called training so early yet here we are.
Children need confidence at that age than grades. A big mistake we Nigerians make everyday.
Trust me, if like 50% of Nigerians built self confidence as kids, we won't be were we are in the community of nations at all.
So let them enjoy life and have fun at tender age. That is building character.
Unconventional and the most important part of training.

You know, I have learnt a lot when I go to parents meeting. The teacher and psychologists are always there and of course as a Nigerian parent, I started worrying why grades were not the way I want them when I was in naija bla bla bla. (Fast forward, these kids just set their own rules and I see them outdo themselves in this same grades I was initially worried about.)
That was when I was schooled that the method we use in naija to train kids is what breeds low self esteem we have all over. The teachers and psychologists insisted that I Allow kids to play and have fun
A they age, they sort out their lives. That is development going on there on how to build their future. When we force them to study this and that, become geniuses at tender age so we can gloat( we don't know their personality yet) we are subduing and bullying them. Kids need freedom.

It's even better when we act their age with them. Loads of self confident children.
Kids need confidence not grades is a mantra we should learn to use in Nigeria so Nigeria can turn around as our problem is purely psychological.
(An average Nigerian think that oyibo is superior.
That's lack of confidence. And then as they grow, low self esteem. Our men have the biggest low self esteem in this world
Check out how it started)
They teach their kids confidence while we concentrate on grades. Look at where we are today. Grades don't build a society. Confidence do.

franchasofficia:
There is little or nothing you can do, it seems its the norm for kids of this era cos I have a 3yrs plus son and I am as tired as you are. Even our baby minders don tire. Only his personal Nanny (an aged woman) that took care of him from birth can calm him down, and she seems to be the only person he listens to temporarily and its because the woman pampers him a lot and he sees the woman as his grandma cos that's what he calls her


I have bought virtually all toys in the world; from drivable cars he can enter and drive to drivable powerbike to tricycle to bicycle and uncountable number of toy cars and toys.


He started using adult tablet at 1yr and started accessing internet with it from 1yrplus which he uses to watch cartoons like Baby Shack, Wheels in the bus, Coco Melon Rhymes and other nursery rhyme videos yet this tablet that is constantly connected to the internet hasn't helped to stop his hyper active behavior

Allow the child to have fun pls. Children have boundless energy.
My kids as they are going into teen are still very hyperactive. Fuzzy drinks are not allowed in their school. I started pinning them down for siesta from birth. It's a tradition still maintained in my house. As for the hyperactivity, it doesn’t bother me. I grew up around kids with so much energy, I was hyperactive too.
Be hyperactive with him and show her the evidence as he gets older. It's fun.
Don't miss out on this bondng time.

Bisiteach:
Same with my brothers children. I unknowingly gave one of them coke the day they came to visit me and he almost tore down my house. Imagine a hyperactive child on sugar rush.

And we keep on giving them fuzzy drinks and wo der why they are behaving like one high on coke

Rilwayne001:
For me my chest gets broader, my Tommy is flat no matter what.

Gene or high metabolism.
Then again, you need more carbohydrates and fat to get the kind of result you want not sugar.

Unless you don't like eating or the type that eat small, our meals are high end carbs and can get you really fat.
Alternatively, eat fries and fried chicken every week and you will add weight in the shortest possible time.
It's the caloric content that matters. An average French fries and chicken is more than 1500 calories. Do the math.

kay29000:
Okay

Gotta use good quality blender or you soak overnight.

If you can't gain weight with Nigerian kinda diet, I'm sorry it's your metabolism.
Our diet alone and the portions we eat will do the magic.
The kind of smoothies you want is an invitation to type 2 diabetes.

dayoakinola:
If you don't mind, go for deliverance.

Go for deliverance?

Gosh.

No wonder we are third world country.
Brain optimization is minus zero.

Adeshi:
At first i thought it was stress, but yesterday, i was home throughout and it happened again. This is like the 4th time this year. I'm really concerned and i do not mind any advice as to what could cure the problem. I called a friend of mine this morning to request to see a urologist, he said i might have to wait 2-3 months to see one.

I do not want to wait another 2 months, my marriage is just 2years and my wife is starting to worry too.

A 34 years old married man still betwets. I need help please.

Wait for a specialist.
Don't be in a rush.
It's not an emergency.

Self medication is bad.

Why in a hurry?
Is nairaland better than waiting for an urologist.
It's not an emergency.
Nigerians and rush rush.
Two months is just some days away.
No advice.
You had the best one already.

bukatyne:
From his bum ke?

Doesn't he have kind neighbours to rush him to the hospital?

There is nothing like absolute freedom.

Buky, pls

bukatyne:


I feel for you guys who are unwillingly bombarded by this insanity.

And it is funny that these trans women keep shrinking the space for women. Now they take up women's slots in adverts, sports, awards, locker rooms, prisons.

Imagine a musician who won best musician in the male category clamouring that they cancel gender based categories because he can no longer decide if he is male or female

Ndo.

Sam Smith, right
Can you see where this is going.

The face behind the mask is what matters.

You understood perfectly what's going on.
Majority of us women thought its all about live and let live. All romance novel writers have abandoned male female romance stories and writing only about them. You wanna sell, write any rubbish as long as its about them, you will sell.
Some YouTube content creators are forced to market them subtly for acceptance especially people from the state.
All female adverts are proudly taken over by them.
Because they don't want to identify as male anymore and assigning female to god look somehow, god is now non gender.
You see what's going on.
I rest my case.

It's been long I dwelled so much on a topic like this here.
I'm tired.

This is the one for a 2 yrs old kid


Target that rolled out its lgbt products online after losing millions and backlash are pulling them off market fast.

People are now responding by boycott since talking don't do it

bukatyne:
Is he menstruating?

Or he put tomato sauce in the hole that his surgeon created for him (which he needs to inflate regularly so it doesn't close up) to stimulate periods?

Yes, he is menstruating from his bum.
It is well.
Don't laugh o.

We have abused the word freedom so much.

copyrites:
I'm curious. Can cococandy entertain this?

They beat the hell out of one who entered a female locker room.
These females know that they should not wait on the authorities anymore and descended on the guy.
You have your balls and third leg and have the gut to call yourself a lady.

Many have been raping women.


In a female sports in Australia, a transgender joined and won.
The females don't compete equally and fair anymore. They have to compete against a man in a female dominated sports.

In wrestling, I saw a trans beat the hell out of one lady that dare to fight him in boxing.
I cried. Blood was oozing out from her mouth while the idiot was smiling away saying it has been his long time desire. Desire to beat up a woman in a competitive sport?
Commentators were praising him.

And we are here justifying this insanity?

Let trans compete against trans.

Their agenda is to overpower women and relegate them to incubators that they were in the olden days.
Yep, this is well orchestrated move by some group of people.

This one advertised Tampons and how to use it.
We will conquer
After undergoing gender reassignment and going viral on tiktok, he is now the face of trans.
Women font have identity anymore.
Nothing like woman.

Cos anybody, thing can be a woman.

See the one that recently modelled female bikini.
Chei, we have suffered

BKayy:
It is because they know nothing.
They just crammed useless imposed constitutions at school without learning their own history and culture.

And "A man without due knowledge of his own history is like a ship without direction, bound to be lost in the sea forever"

Imagine black men and women dressing like White slave traders.
Chai.

Really miss your educative contributions a lot.
Whenever you have the time, do come back pls.

bukatyne:
@bold:



I have realised that there is really no position called 'live and let's live'. You are either for or against. The position of sitting on the fence is also for.

😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 @ feminists rising up to condemn the trans agenda. I think there is a group of feminists called TERFs against the trans movement.

But really, the trans movement is a graduation of feminism. We have a saying in Yoruba land: 'a child that lies will eventually steal'.

Humans do not have brakes and would always graduate in whatever they choose to do.

Fair enough if you don't label me as anti when you force me to buy a tampon you promote.
Imagine a man advertising tampon.
Telling women how to use tampon. It is well.
Or telling kids it's good to feel differently.

Gay has been around since the beginning of time. Some emperors and Kings were known gays. Society was OK.
Thailand and Japan are more gay than Yankee. We have no problem. Society assimilated them but here, they are preaching a diff story while politicians are riding on their back.
Nobody should miseducate my child. I will not spare that person

bukatyne:
Matt Walsh is God sent.

I always chuckle whenever I listen to his shorts on 'who is a woman'?

How did we get to this point that we cannot define who a woman is anymore?

My dear, I don't know o.
See those that follow the movement mostly can't defend what they believe in.
Females have suffered.
And u see its mostly males that's fighting this war for us while we are promoting it.

We really don't understand what's going on.

ahnie:
I thought I was the only one that has bn noticing it.this gimp here pretending is the same person attacking GboyegaD.

About 6 persons from here also noticed.him cup go soon full,e remain small.


I was just waiting to gather enough evidence to nail him.

Mbok
Just let it go.
It's not worth it rather, it increases seun's pocket.

cococandy:
I’ve lived in quite a few states in America. West coast to east coast and everyone lives in their lane. I’m not seeing the devil’s playground that’s being publicized on the internet to rile up these exact feelings you’re expressing in these posts.

Maybe their propaganda is working too well?

Nobody is instigating anything coco.
Last 2 yrs, parents went crazy over some stuffs their kids were saying and doing at home after school and came in to enquire. Will not go into details but it was chaotic the education ministry has to get involved. Parents received mails and were encouraged to speak out if they observe their kids speaking in tongues.
My boys were told to wear pink pants to school.
During pe, if you don't wear pink pant, you don't belong. They will taunt you. My eldest came home one day and was rambling I'm not a girl, I don't want to wear pink. And guess who told them to wear pink undies? School children like them. Who projected the idea to these kids?
Topic for another day.
I went to school to enquire and it has gone deeper than we thought.
Somehow, it was curtailed cos parents were ready to sue the school and its admin.
That was when I started taking this serious. If they can come on innocent children, what can't they do.
I'm afraid. All parents need to be afraid.
My 11yrs old can tell me everything about transgender than he can describe the digestive system.
Enough said.

Acidosis:
Ever heard the phrase "balm of gilead"?

Medicine is biblical.

Not a bible fan.

Deepspirituals:
He Said His Business Crumbles After Marriage .

He Owns three Big Trading Stores where Provisions and Households Items are Sold, A Business he has been doing as a Single,Non Married Man Before

Business was Moving on Fine for Several Years.
After He Got Married, He couldn't explain what was Happening, So strange that his Business Started Collapsing, right now Only one Shop is Left with Scanty Stocks, Shop Owner Lawyer Already Served him Quiting Notice.

To Worsen the Situation, He said Serious Nightmares have been his Usual Experience at night ever Since He Married?

Could all these be a Coincidence?
Life is more Deeper than The Physical.
They Already had a Boy who is just 1 Year and 3 Months Old.
Bible Says What God Has Joined together, Let no man Puts Asunder.

He who finds a Wife, Finds a Good thing and Obtain Favour from the Lord...
This Man Looks So Frustrated, Dejected and Planning to Do Away with the Woman .

I'm Spiritualist Ade, I have not even Carried out any Spiritual Check or Investigation into the Matter, it is still very Fresh.
Oga Be Patients, I do not think it is Right to base the Present Situation on your Marriage.
Oga said if not why So Sudden

I Detest Divorce/ Marital Division.
What is your Advise?

Go and look for meaningful job darling and stop being lazy looking for whom to patronise you with your fake story.

People can't e ven check this guys background.
It sells when a woman is the cause.